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Unique357:
My wife left me when I lost everything. She took our two children with her and has blocked me everywhere. I couldn't reach her to speak with my children. I have tried reaching her parents to no avail.

But now that things are going well for me, my brother in law lifted me and I am back to business and I have a girlfriend we are getting married next year march by God's grace.

Now my ex is back in the picture making life difficult for my girlfriend. She is blackmailing her and bombarding her with nasty messages to the extend of humiliating her in public, calling her all sorts of names like husband snatcher etc. I am angry with her because she has left me when I needed her the most and this girlfriend stood by me with my poor conditions and now she wants to play victim and putting the blame on my girl.

I want to arrest her and let her rot in jail but on the other side I don't want to do it for the sake of our children who are 10 years and 7 years. I want to deal with her in a calm way because there are children involved . What do you think I should do?

LilMissFavvy:
It is o. So he wants to take the fruits of his ex wife's family and feed a new wife? Maddoo . That wife should wake up and teach them a lesson. He is supposed to forgive her as long as he benefitted from his ex family. I know the wife did badly by leaving her matrimonial home, but shes back to take her place.

Unique357:
My wife left me when I lost everything. She took our two children with her and has blocked me everywhere. I couldn't reach her to speak with my children. I have tried reaching her parents to no avail.

But now that things are going well for me, my brother in law lifted me and I am back to business and I have a girlfriend we are getting married next year march by God's grace.

Now my ex is back in the picture making life difficult for my girlfriend. She is blackmailing her and bombarding her with nasty messages to the extend of humiliating her in public, calling her all sorts of names like husband snatcher etc. I am angry with her because she has left me when I needed her the most and this girlfriend stood by me with my poor conditions and now she wants to play victim and putting the blame on my girl.

I want to arrest her and let her rot in jail but on the other side I don't want to do it for the sake of our children who are 10 years and 7 years. I want to deal with her in a calm way because there are children involved . What do you think I should do?

LilMissFavvy:
You said your ex wife's brother helped you with business and you are now back on your feet ? Yet want to dump her?

ednut1:
Get her arrested and take your kids abeg

sisisioge:
Divorce her properly and marry your gf. These things are simple fa!

Kobojunkie:
So long as he is married to her and the father of those kids, they remain his responsibility and access to them is guaranteed him by law so why didn't he pursue that before now? .

yorubarere:
How will he legally divorce and fund the kids when there is not medium of communication? I think you should engage your brain cells more

victons:
Who is the brother in law that lifted you? Your ex's brother?

LilMissFavvy:
You said your ex wife's brother helped you with business and you are now back on your feet ? Yet want to dump her?

sisisioge:
Divorce her properly and marry your gf. These things are simple fa!

kingthreat:
The movie "Acrimony" comes into mind right now.

Ladycewhy:
Take the kids to who? His pregnant girlfriend? .

JONNYSPUTE:
.....I pity you young lady. Keep away from drugs.

piroux:
Are you being sarcastic?

Kobojunkie:
when I say engage your brain cells more, I mean you should actually do it.

1. You don't need to be on best terms or in direct contact with a spouse in order to initiate a divorce or have papers served.

2. The man is legally still the father of his children and no one has right to keep him from seeing them unless the courts say so. By running off with his kids, the woman practically kidnapped them and the OP,if he had cared so much to have them back would have reported this to the police and had his wife charged for that.

Let's stop making the same old ignorant excuses that failed our fathers before us and start engaging that brain abeg!

Unique357:
My wife left me when I lost everything. She took our two children with her and has blocked me everywhere. I couldn't reach her to speak with my children. I have tried reaching her parents to no avail.

But now that things are going well for me, my brother in law lifted me and I am back to business and I have a girlfriend we are getting married next year march by God's grace.

Now my ex is back in the picture making life difficult for my girlfriend. She is blackmailing her and bombarding her with nasty messages to the extend of humiliating her in public, calling her all sorts of names like husband snatcher etc. I am angry with her because she has left me when I needed her the most and this girlfriend stood by me with my poor conditions and now she wants to play victim and putting the blame on my girl.

I want to arrest her and let her rot in jail but on the other side I don't want to do it for the sake of our children who are 10 years and 7 years. I want to deal with her in a calm way because there are children involved . What do you think I should do?

Kaeboy:
Na dust full ya head.

LilMissFavvy:
It is o. So he wants to take the fruits of his ex wife's family and feed a new wife? Maddoo . That wife should wake up and teach them a lesson. He is supposed to forgive her as long as he benefitted from his ex family. I know the wife did badly by leaving her matrimonial home, but shes back to take her place.

izibili44:
why do you yarn like this. If a woman refuse you access to your kids and as at that time you don't have a means to provide for them,what will you do? Well I m just waiting to see if the woman will come out here and tell us her own side of the story.

JONNYSPUTE:
.....Did you read where he said she blocked all avenues for reaching them? Why do you like arguing just to be politically correct ?

yorubarere:
How do you contact someone you have no communication with? Someone who doesn't want to be seen? Apply brain cells girl.

LilMissFavvy:
It is o. So he wants to take the fruits of his ex wife's family and feed a new wife? Maddoo . That wife should wake up and teach them a lesson. He is supposed to forgive her as long as he benefitted from his ex family. I know the wife did badly by leaving her matrimonial home, but shes back to take her place.

Yinkakolawole:
Take ur girlfriend and move far away from her nah, When u re not dumbed.

LilMissFavvy:
It is o. So he wants to take the fruits of his ex wife's family and feed a new wife? Maddoo . That wife should wake up and teach them a lesson. He is supposed to forgive her as long as he benefitted from his ex family. I know the wife did badly by leaving her matrimonial home, but shes back to take her place.

Unique357:
My wife left me when I lost everything. She took our two children with her and has blocked me everywhere. I couldn't reach her to speak with my children. I have tried reaching her parents to no avail.

But now that things are going well for me, my brother in law lifted me and I am back to business and I have a girlfriend we are getting married next year march by God's grace.

Now my ex is back in the picture making life difficult for my girlfriend. She is blackmailing her and bombarding her with nasty messages to the extend of humiliating her in public, calling her all sorts of names like husband snatcher etc. I am angry with her because she has left me when I needed her the most and this girlfriend stood by me with my poor conditions and now she wants to play victim and putting the blame on my girl.

I want to arrest her and let her rot in jail but on the other side I don't want to do it for the sake of our children who are 10 years and 7 years. I want to deal with her in a calm way because there are children involved . What do you think I should do?