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Wawelexy:
Sorry o, which of the brother in-law helped you? Ur ex bro in-law or the new girl?

LilMissFavvy:
It is o. So he wants to take the fruits of his ex wife's family and feed a new wife? Maddoo . That wife should wake up and teach them a lesson. He is supposed to forgive her as long as he benefitted from his ex family. I know the wife did badly by leaving her matrimonial home, but shes back to take her place.

LilMissFavvy:
It is o. So he wants to take the fruits of his ex wife's family and feed a new wife? Maddoo . That wife should wake up and teach them a lesson. He is supposed to forgive her as long as he benefitted from his ex family. I know the wife did badly by leaving her matrimonial home, but shes back to take her place.

ednut1:
Get her arrested and take your kids abeg

vickydevoka:
See question. So him no get brothers n sisters way marry abi

marsup:
Arrest her, and let her spend two weeks in feel, so her brain will reset. Meanwhile, protect your baby mama, and make sure you divorce your wife in accordance to the the law, before marrying your BM.

PS: the fact that a woman helped you, doesn't mean you owe her marriage.. . .be careful.
Good luck.

LilMissFavvy:
It is o. So he wants to take the fruits of his ex wife's family and feed a new wife? Maddoo . That wife should wake up and teach them a lesson. He is supposed to forgive her as long as he benefitted from his ex family. I know the wife did badly by leaving her matrimonial home, but shes back to take her place.

DarkJeddi:
He said he no want again..

Na by force?

Unique357:
My wife left me when I lost everything. She took our two children with her and has blocked me everywhere. I couldn't reach her to speak with my children. I have tried reaching her parents to no avail.

But now that things are going well for me, my brother in law lifted me and I am back to business and I have a girlfriend we are getting married next year march by God's grace.

Now my ex is back in the picture making life difficult for my girlfriend. She is blackmailing her and bombarding her with nasty messages to the extend of humiliating her in public, calling her all sorts of names like husband snatcher etc. I am angry with her because she has left me when I needed her the most and this girlfriend stood by me with my poor conditions and now she wants to play victim and putting the blame on my girl.

I want to arrest her and let her rot in jail but on the other side I don't want to do it for the sake of our children who are 10 years and 7 years. I want to deal with her in a calm way because there are children involved . What do you think I should do?

vickydevoka:
Arrest her abeg. Na police go settle una. Stop saying for de saje of ur kids

alphaNomega:
I want to hear your wife's side of the story before I comment.

Share this link with her so she can respond

mardis:
Try and make a proper divorce arrangement, the one that will involve her family members and yours. After that, get police involve not to arrest her o but they should cut her warnings never to come close to you, your wife or any of your family members. If she fails to adhere then she will face the penalty squarely. What a nicompoo of a woman. You want to reap what you didn't saw.

Again, please collect your children from her.

Kobojunkie:
when I say engage your brain cells more, I mean you should actually do it.

1. You don't need to be on best terms or in direct contact with a spouse in order to initiate a divorce or have papers served.

2. The man is legally still the father of his children and no one has right to keep him from seeing them unless the courts say so. By running off with his kids, the woman practically kidnapped them and the OP,if he had cared so much to have them back would have reported this to the police and had his wife charged for that.

Let's stop making the same old ignorant excuses that failed our fathers before us and start engaging that brain abeg!

vickydevoka:
Arrest her abeg. Na police go settle una. Stop saying for de saje of ur kids

advanceDNA:
It’s like you don’t know how things work in Nigeria... police can summon you and you will refuse to show up...nothing will happen as long as u have changed address..

People disobey court orders in Nigeria regularly....I’ve seen it live...

Adadioranma79:
I like you. He even confirmed it was his in law that lifted him back up, I'm assuming its the brother to the said ex, cept I don't really understand English anymore.
I'm not supporting the actions of his ex but more details is required sha

Wawelexy:
OK cool, but u need to divorce your wife legally before u have the full right to go into relationship with someone else....

vickydevoka:
Nothing like proper divorce, she should Bleep off. How is he sure he's the real father of those kids

Kobojunkie:
Try to engage those brain cells of yours every so often...

Again, Did you get a divorce from her or is she still legally your wife?

Have you at least been funding the upkeep for your other two children? Or did you reason that since the woman ran away with them,they are no longer yours?

Kobojunkie:
Again..... Let's stop making the same old ignorant excuses that failed our fathers before us and start engaging that brain abeg!

Kobojunkie:
She is his wife by law . What he has, by law, still belongs to her.

Speaking of kids, what makes you think Op wants the kids to begin with?,

LilMissFavvy:
It is o. So he wants to take the fruits of his ex wife's family and feed a new wife? Maddoo . That wife should wake up and teach them a lesson. He is supposed to forgive her as long as he benefitted from his ex family. I know the wife did badly by leaving her matrimonial home, but shes back to take her place.

post=108939528:
When you say your brother-in-law,
Do you mean this your same so called ex-wife's brother or your sister's hubby or what exactly?

Make una dey clarify matter before bringing it to the public abeg.
There are two sides to every story,
If we ask your so called ex-wife her side of the story now,
Na another story we go hear..
#JustMusing


Wow!
You are so in our minds @MANNA.
Sometimes we make a comment and later see that someone here is thinking the same thing we are thinking or vice versa.
Tho he didn't specifically say that it was his ex wife's brother, (ee can't vouch for him, cos we don't know him) but you made a good point overall.
God bless you and give you more wisdom and knowledge Favour of God!

Kobojunkie:
What kids? The kids he allowed his wife kidnap, claimed he had no access to?

Abegi!

Kobojunkie:
Try to engage those brain cells of yours every so often...

Again, Did you get a divorce from her or is she still legally your wife?

Have you at least been funding the upkeep for your other two children? Or did you reason that since the woman ran away with them,they are no longer yours?

alphaNomega:
I want to hear your wife's side of the story before I comment.

Share this link with her so she can respond

Adadioranma79:
I like you. He even confirmed it was his in law that lifted him back up, I'm assuming its the brother to the said ex, cept I don't really understand English anymore.
I'm not supporting the actions of his ex but more details is required sha

sisisioge:
Divorce her properly and marry your gf. These things are simple fa!

Kobojunkie:
She is contacting his girlfriend , is she not? Assuming Assuming needs to communicate with her, isn't that contact enough or why is it so hard for some of you to comprehend what is right in front of you?