Sometime I really wonder why it is so difficult to get a babe in Nigeria without using money to entice them. Having watched a lot of foreign movie- like the secret life of American teenager, Love don't cost a thing, You got served, Honey rise up and dance, The brothers , Daddy little girls and a lot more that I can't mention, I find it that those ladies like guys/men for who they are and not necessarily money. You may say it is movies, but our most cultural quantitative also reflect in our doings.
I don't know why Nigerian ladies have reverted to such an action that money is the base for relationship. I find it hard to accept.
One of the causes of this poverty. Most Nigerian girls come from poor homes and they see this relationship avenue to collect money from guy. Although it is generally accepted that women see men as money, but that shouldn't totally justify that they should suck a guy/man dry. It should be a win win for both.
Another factor is insatiable desire by ladies. When a lady desire things without thinking, she will put the expenses on his guy. Also is laziness among ladies. A girl child is being pampered right from her being a baby till adolescent. I could remember a time, when my dad told my younger sister that she should not worry herself much about life, that guyz/men will do everything for her. In fact 99% of ladies have this mentality. In reality, they put all the responsibility on their guys head because if their erroneous brought up.
Also is man weakness. Because man is weak naturally owing to sexual instinct, Nigerian ladies see it as a great opportunity to sway men/guy in all direction.
I don't know if you know any other factors. I will like to know.

You said Babe, as long as you are looking for Babe, baby you will spend but when you need a mature lady or woman you won't spend, because she understand what's a relationship is, she knows its has to be build, she looks out for your quality not quantity she observe and analyze what the future holds for both of you before she accepts. Some girls quickly get mature but some after years of break up maturity kicks in some will wait till their 30 menopause will make them mature and they will start seeing clearly and understand life, by then it might be too late or they might get lucky again to meet a simple guy that will forgive their past.
Maturity here is not puberty, I'm talking about how they understand life, how they project their life's how independent and work towards achieving things.
I just pray after hard work and years of dedication we won't fall victim to also to the woman who understand life they won't meet an unfortunate man.

The screen boys have made it so.

All of them na olosho...just Bleep and move to the next available ones!

How u wan take control a girl if you no get money?

One of the reason why i kick people with my rain boot




Damn.. Nasty.. I'm outta here

Oga go and hustle

Bluezy13:
The screen boys have made it so.

Who are the screen boy?

Yinkakolawole:
How u wan take control a girl if you no get money?

Have you watch those movies I mentioned?

Let Hollywood movies deceive you o! As old as you are

You no get money but you dey get erection..
You dey craze ni

Try looking for a wife instead, that is, if you are ready, you just might find the one that will attract favour to your life. Hence, he who findeth a wife,.......................

siofra:
Let Hollywood movies deceive you o! As old as you are

he is not ancient of days nah

If not for money, at least 70% of Nigerian men will be using their hands because them no get game. So it’s better like this.

Simply because ladies have needs!

Particularly Naija Babes, You have to be Giving them Money for Cosmetics, Designer's Wears, Hairdo, Accessories, Airtime, Data, etc..

OP, go and Hustle, ok?

That's because money answereth all things. Abi na your biebie she wan chop, take buy clothes and look good?

The earlier you realize you men are meant to cater for our needs the better for you. Otherwise, you'll keep losing your dream woman to sharp guys.

Vinnie2000:


Simply because ladies have needs!

Particularly Naija Babes, You have to be Giving them Money for Cosmetics, Designer's Wears, Hairdo, Accessories, Airtime, Data, etc..

OP, go and Hustle, ok?

Do foreign ladies don't have need? It is brought up system and poverty.

Mercychen:
That's because money answereth all things. Abi na your biebie she wan chop, take buy clothes and look good?

The earlier you realize you men are meant to cater for our needs the better for you. Otherwise, you'll keep losing your dream woman to sharp guys.

In fact, person like me, I have a high standard taste. I can't come so low to such ladies. You will have to be 80% responsible.

MILLERMannn:

Who are the screen boy?

Laptop boys

MILLERMannn:

In fact, person like me, I have a high standard taste. I can't come so low to such ladies. You will have to be 80% responsible.

Only on nairaland I see men clamoring for
standard and classy women but in real life they don't get it. They can't even get it because level pass level and their level nor reach. Las las they end up with one undergraduate or middle class babe. So what are we not saying?

I know of a guy who used to brag that he can't settle for less. He would always sound it to whoever cares to listen that he would settle for a classy babe. bla bla.. in the end, na soup condiment seller guy man settle with. I just laughed. After all his akor. I guess the so called classy babes didn't deem him fit enough for them.

For your info, the high class chic you talk about have big god fathers that help them sustain that lifestyle and level you're attracted to. So, know you're just going to be a husband or boyfriend figure if peradventure one agrees to date or marry you. Trust me.

Have you even considered whether the so called standard chic you seek will give hoot about you?
Ask yourself that now.

Lavisha:
You no get money but you dey get erection..

You dey craze ni

Na amebo go k.ill you too zo.mb.ie

Really no offense but comments like these pushes guys to do the unthinkable. I come in PEACE.

Mercychen:
That's because money answereth all things. Abi na your biebie she wan chop, take buy clothes and look good?

The earlier you realize you men are meant to cater for our needs the better for you. Otherwise, you'll keep losing your dream woman to sharp guys.

Obimike30:
Really no offense but comments like these pushes guys to do the unthinkable. I come in PEACE.

The unthinkable like what?

Bro, just go for the girl u can afford. I have several girls who aren't that way.

Lavisha:
You no get money but you dey get erection..

You dey craze ni

My only regret this is year is spending #23k for one idiot woman in a shoprite at #Asaba ,all in the name we needed to talk about marriage.
Babe took take away for her friends, saying they do same for her.I'm yet to forgive my self for that.
Women are deceptive and manipulative!

Go and search for Mosidi quote.. Then will you understand!!

My only regret this is year is spending #23k for one idiot woman in a shoprite at #Asaba ,all in the name we needed to talk about marriage.
Babe took take away for her friends, saying they do same for her.I'm yet to forgive my self for that.
Women are deceptive and manipulative!

99% of ladies from poor home are hard and stressful to date.. She will want you to even buy her a moon which her father never bought for the mum. Avoid poor women.

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Lavisha:
You no get money but you dey get erection..

You dey craze ni

are you saying that poor man should not be loved or have a protected sex? Our parents didn't follow this path.

You need to discard this mentality girl.

smartasuen:
Try looking for a wife instead, that is, if you are ready, you just might find the one that will attract favour to your life. Hence, he who findeth a wife,.......................

findeth loads responsibilities..

Lavisha:
You no get money but you dey get erection..

You dey craze ni

But your dad would not have sired you if he had followed this your advice..