dunmorris:


Even though we currently have a child together?

luminouz:


*Sighs*

Bro, I swear to you with everything I have that she is not yet over him.

I have a friend who married a Dubai based nice guy about 3 years after someone broke her heart. She drives a car, works in a good university and is generally comfortable.

When we last talked, she told me she still talks to that her ex and even prays for him. I asked why? She said he is the only one she has ever loved.

But what of your husband? She said, she is learning to love him(after a fuqin 2 years of marriage o).

Another scenario, true life story.
This one na like good sister to me. Schooled abroad and all that. The guy she dated for 5 years and married, got a child with is not her true love. Her true is in Dubai and they dated for 6 years. Her husband is a very very good guy who gave her everything. She told me, that it's the ex she loves(yet these mudafuckers would always fight when they were together) and she is now learning to love her husband. She even still communicates with the unmarried ex.

I kept my face deadpanned after these real life stories. I already know in my mind that most naija women don't marry who they love, just who is ready.


N.B: My advice is that you either ignore her behaviour and face your own hustle or make her quit her Facebook haunts. The former could make her sit up and do right (hopefully) while the former will make her know she can use that to control you,since you easily get jealous. Either way, you need to fix her...because if that ex happens to stay alone with her in the same room overnight, I can guarantee 70% of what the outcome will be.

I know it's harsh but it's the truth bro

ichidodo:
You never see when dem dey name child after ex?..

MJBOLT:

laycon,Erica and kiddwaya drama comes to mind

dunmorris:
AHH this one hard oo.

MJBOLT:

laycon,Erica and kiddwaya drama comes to mind

MJBOLT:

laycon,Erica and kiddwaya drama comes to mind

Jerry59:


You're the Man of the Year!!!

I remember when the year started out and you dropped the "Day One" Pill. I was thinking it won't be consistent but look where we are now.

Keep it up Boss!

CaveAdullam:
DAY 365, REDPILL 2021

When fvcking b!tches make sure your heart is in your hands.

Authority: be sharp.

Ketapu:


I was not aiming to delve into red pills in all the areas you mentioned. I only wanted to reveal some contents of the so called holy books which I believe were written from a blue pill mindset of the original writer of that section of the book.

For example, a verse of one of the holy books says, he who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.

This verse has been used to manipulate men into thinking that until they get married, they have not find the Lord's favour. In fact, this is just one of the many verses that have gotten men into troubles with women.

Can you tell a married man or even a man in a committed relationship, who is currently undergoing hell-on-Earth in the hands of his partner that he has received the Lord's favour?

So, was that part of the book inspired by God or it was a result of the mindset of a blue piller who was just happy to finally find a pusssy to fuccck after probably many trials?

Those holy books were written by human beings like us. There is no way some of the writers wouldn't have inserted their own opinion at some point.

Another section of the book says God hates divorce. This is one section that has kept many men in their toxic marriage/relationship. Many men are now in their grave or other unpleasant situations thanks to their wife/partner. Women have also leverage on this verse to torture their husband since they know religion has done a great job in manipulating men in their favour.

However, a little research on the origin of that verse showed that the verse has been misinterpreted a lot. From the preceding verses, it was shown that the reason God hates divorce was because men of those time were unfaithful to their wives and abandoning them, for no good reasons. Those men also went ahead to marry foreign women. Those foreign women then brought their ungodly traditions into Israel.

In other words, that verse is saying if your wife is giving you peace of mind, you have no reason to divorce her. I also support that. I think that is one of the things we are preaching here.

However, if your wife is making your life a living hell, you have every right to divorce her.

But is this what are being preached by today's so called men of God?

But wait, did Pastor Oyahkilome divorce his wife? So, who is deceiving who here?

The truth is that we can't fully discuss the manipulative nature of women without delving into religious discussions.

In the book title, the book of pooks, the author made a statement that I witnessed in real life that same day I read that part in the book. He said religion is another tool women use to manipulate men. The fact that a woman volunteer to participate in religious activities doesn't mean she is godly. She may only be deceiving gullible men.

That same day I read that part of the book, I wooed a lady that appeared to be very religious. By the time I finished wooing her, I suspected she's a pathological liar. All my suspicions were confirmed within the next one week.

I'm not denying the existence of God but I've also realize that religion is one of the most potent manipulative tools in the hands of women.

These were just part of what I wanted to explain before I was told not to bring religious discussions here.

Junnior:

Exactly. But they are total nonsense to the non-religious. So, instead, why not use premises everyone can reasonably and logically relate to? Religion is all about Faith, not logic.


Yes, A vast majority of redpillers HERE are religious. But the issue is we don't all practise the same religion. And the ones who practise the same religion have different understanding and views of that religion. This is basically why using religious references here is flawed. It's flawed because it's too subjective.


In your personal write-ups, in your threads, in your books, etc., by all means, feel free to use such references. It's cool. There, they won't REALLY be open for arguments unlike here where the floor is open for all.

But if you post such here,

1) don't expect to be taken seriously by ALL of us, because a lot of guys here don't even believe in your religion. We have Christians, Muslims, Atheist, Buddhist, etc. here.

2) Expect serious intra religious arguments (for example, many Christians understand the same Bible different ways, so they will argue about what is and what isn't. And we are not here for Bible studies).

I will not argue further about this. That's what I'm trying to avoid anyway. You seem not to be getting the point and resorting to insults.

All good.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 365, REDPILL 2021

When fvcking b!tches make sure your heart is in your hands.

Authority: be sharp.

ubunja:
literally a whole year. Time travels fast doesn't it.


Guys have a happy new year,, I know in Southy we'll enter the new Year a full 1 hour ahead of you...take care.

And how popular is the song below in naija? Cause it's doing the things this side... "you wanna chill with the big boys!!"

MJBOLT:
https://www.nairaland.com/6915574/husband-touching-wife-inappropriately-rape#108914887

Raalsalghul:


This dude, you just made me remember The Chronic: listening to that album when I get home.

Martinez39s:
It's popular here. I was surprised to see it threading on tik tok, and even foreigners were catching on.

Below is the lyric video of the song.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Un6uCY15_4

3minssex:


Stop arguing with religious people. Such arguments won't go anywhere and will only make you lose braincells.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 365, REDPILL 2021

When fvcking b!tches make sure your heart is in your hands.

Authority: be sharp.

Junnior:

Hope you know that your sister sef don dey collect steady raw lashing?

Calibrator:
Females don't linger in abusive relationships out of the fear of loneliness, more often than not, they stay because they are living so far above their means, they will go broke maintaining their lifestyle out of their own personal pocket in a week maximum.
He who pays the piper dictate the tune!

ubunja:
literally a whole year. Time travels fast doesn't it.


Guys have a happy new year,, I know in Southy we'll enter the new Year a full 1 hour ahead of you...take care.

And how popular is the song below in naija? Cause it's doing the things this side... "you wanna chill with the big boys!!"

ubunja:
calm down will you? You have literally not been insulted in any way., but you'll sit down and claim to be insulted. Smh. A whole red piller wailing. over nothing. It's all in your head bro. And no, someone using a Biblical reference to explain a point is NOT going to spark any "serious intra religious arguments". You're just being paranoid. I have referenced the Bible a lot even on this thread and not even an atheist has objected. You're just overreacting.

And anyways many red pillers are not big on logic the way you hope they are. I'm sorry to tell you. People believe what they want even when logic is presented. The topic of broke guys fuccing better than men with money is an example of how people who claim to be 100% logical can reject logic and proof when it shatters their cherished views.

Religious references will not stop,, better keep skipping as you've been doing and shut up

Junnior:

How old are you?

You called yourself a fool in your previous response. Now, you claim you're wailing and you're also telling yourself to shut up.
I guess those aren't insults in your books. See how ridiculous you come across?

Yet, those insults wouldn't make you right and me wrong. It's the problem with you. You think you know so much and should not be questioned. You resort to insult when you cannot logically disprove what is thrown at you. Very childish thing to do.

Now you're claiming most guys here are not logical.

All you've done so far is rant about how you're gonna continue using your religious references without paying any real attention to the reasons I gave. Post whatever you wish man. It's a free forum for all, but don't expect all to relate to those religious references. It's that simple.

Religion doesn't rely on logic, but on faith. Most of the ideas we mull over here are based on logic.

For example, you can't tell me king Solomon married 500 wives, so I should take a cue from him when I don't even believe in the Bible in the first place. How hard is it to understand this?

In order to avoid or reduce conflict in ideas here, we are suggesting that such religious and non-romance references should be discussed in their specific sections. No one is totally discrediting them.

Thanks

CaveAdullam:


'Ameno' took the upper hand in the year 2021 in all club houses, with DJs and hypemen. But this 'Ameno Amapiano' I think became more popular as a result of the recent cult clashes we read in the news in some parts of Nigeria, because the lyrics spoke more on cultism than a hype song or club music. However, the song is getting more popular as out dear DJs won't stop doing their thing.

Happy new year king!

ubunja:

It's vibey and thumping. It's a hit. Seems like an anti-cultist tune lol. We love it man!!!

What you up to overnight?

ubunja:
its been a tumultuous year bossman and '22 doesn't promise any reprieve...

As for the song, This side we just grooving without any real understanding of it. It's a beautiful now that I get the message. These songs are uniting Africa more and more. Im here for it