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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by cybriz82(m): 7:09pm On Dec 31, 2021

GodIsBiafran:
Low self-esteem is the major problem of Ghanaian artists. This is why they will never grow.

If you don't have self-confidence, you can never survive the music game. The music game is not for weak a-$$ sissies who want someone else to push their music for them. For example, have you ever seen Rema begging Wizkid or Burna to push his music? Did FireboyDML cry when Wizkid did not invite him to O2 arena? Instead Fireboy hustled to get Ed Sheeran to feature in his music. Do you see Arya Starr crying that Tiwa and TEMs are not pushing her music? Rather she is focused, releasing hits after hits. Even portable is all over Lagos pushing his craft without giving a fvck what people think. Nigerians are built different. We believe in ourselves. That is why you will never see a Ghanaian in the MMA. Meanwhile Kamaru and Israel are top dogs there. Any endeavor that requires strong-will and individual self belief, Nigerians will ALWAYS surpass you. Ghana go and sleep. Not in this life. Maybe in another life you can compete with Nigeria.

Dude just go to abc transport company tell them say u want enter Ghana .then use that opportunity sort out ur beef with them abeg ..

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by hamrof(m): 7:10pm On Dec 31, 2021

You come make matter worst

thorpido:
Well,due to exigencies, the husband's apathetic nature and the wife's unceremonious position,you have to ruminate and decide if being benignant is laudable at this stage or one considers towing the path of frugality and responsibility.

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by highoctane: 7:11pm On Dec 31, 2021

It is better you live near a thief than give me salt, small oil,.toothpaste, little stew or soup, my stove ran out of kerosene etc beggarly neighbour.
Why if you keep your items in lock and keys, your thief neigbour will look elsewhere, not with a neigbour who begs for everything., If your beggarly neigbour ask for a little toothpaste and you refuse, he or she sees you brushing your teeth, you become a stingy and wicked person.
Learn to say NO and stick to it.

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by kenchop: 7:11pm On Dec 31, 2021

FIND A WAY AND MOVE OUT OF THE AREA COS THAT SITUATION WILL NEVER END WELL FOR YOU. TOMORROW THEY WILL STILL CALL YOU NAMES AND SNITCH ON YOU. DO SO NOW AND THANK ME LATER

God1000:
I'm in stitches bro , you guys are funny.

This is a serious issue, please help a brother.

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by 4ckyou: 7:13pm On Dec 31, 2021

GodIsBiafran:
Low self-esteem is the major problem of Ghanaian artists. This is why they will never grow.

If you don't have self-confidence, you can never survive the music game. The music game is not for weak a-$$ sissies who want someone else to push their music for them. For example, have you ever seen Rema begging Wizkid or Burna to push his music? Did FireboyDML cry when Wizkid did not invite him to O2 arena? Instead Fireboy hustled to get Ed Sheeran to feature in his music. Do you see Arya Starr crying that Tiwa and TEMs are not pushing her music? Rather she is focused, releasing hits after hits. Even portable is all over Lagos pushing his craft without giving a fvck what people think. Nigerians are built different. We believe in ourselves. That is why you will never see a Ghanaian in the MMA. Meanwhile Kamaru and Israel are top dogs there. Any endeavor that requires strong-will and individual self belief, Nigerians will ALWAYS surpass you. Ghana go and sleep. Not in this life. Maybe in another life you can compete with Nigeria.

ogbeni leave us alone with this your Ghanaian artist, what's our business with them, stop spamming frontpage for a topic that have no value

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by inspectorg(m): 7:14pm On Dec 31, 2021

tellwisdom:
Mugu, even with your grammar, u still can’t fix your problem??

Bros e be lyy sey na anti learned/proud-youth secret society u join lyy dis; dem dey deliver pesin from aam. Na waoo wetin d OP take offend wey u dey jikele aam ly dis??

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Ibunkun1(m): 7:16pm On Dec 31, 2021

Carchoice:
Is this how you communicate with them with big English? If yes, they will never understand you.

, the first comment really cracked me up

Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Searchingvictor: 7:18pm On Dec 31, 2021

Start fuvking the wife, the husband go learn by force cheesy

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by inspectorg(m): 7:18pm On Dec 31, 2021

tellwisdom:
Mugu, even with your grammar, u still can’t fix your problem??

Bros e be lyy sey na anti learned/proud-youth secret cult u join lyy dis; dem dey deliver pesin from aam. Na waoo wetin d OP take offend wey u dey jikele aam ly dis??

Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by cricifixo: 7:19pm On Dec 31, 2021

That's why i don't start what i cannot finish like allowing people charge phones in my place when i start my gen.
Just tell him you won't share with him anymore.
You shouldn't be friends with someone like that bro trust me.
I was friends with 2 guys like that but when i looked at the fact that those guys have nothing to contribute to my growth (even good advice) i had to let dem go.
Yes they see me as a bad guy but i became a much better man when i left them

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Goodnigga: 7:21pm On Dec 31, 2021

God1000:
exactly, and I'm seriously hurting because of that.

I've tried several times to change, but I couldn't.

Agreed, nature wired some people like you, however, there's a law of balance to everything in nature too. Train yourself to apply it to your life otherwise your default wiring left unchecked will continue the same path

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by MoIbrahim: 7:27pm On Dec 31, 2021

Guy whatever affects your mental health deserves to be addressed head on. No fight, no fear and no favour.

God1000:
I'm completely fed up with my neighbour that sees my munificence/beneficence as stupidity.

He screwed himself up due to his improvidence and gallivanting lifestyle, he's a pain in my neck right now.

He's married, his wife has been sharing my cooking gas with me for over three months now since his own was taken away as sequestration.

I'm a salary earner, he's a bike rider, but due to his unseriousness he doesn't have his own bike, dude is a drifter.

I'm thinking of leaving the place because this whole thing is insufferable, his wife isn't helping as well, maybe due to immaturity, all she does is cook, eat and play.
Frugality is one of my 2022 new year resolutions, I don't want anything or anyone to interfere with my life next year.

We both agreed to fill the gas together, but he doesn't contribute much, I end up spending twice than the usual amount before.

These people have benefited so much from me because they know I'm a cheerful giver, they collect almost everything from me including money, I really don't want spongers in my life next year.

I've advised him countless times to look for another alternative, but he's hard of hearing with his lackadaisical altitude.

My biggest concern right now is how to withdraw myself completely without causing enmity between us because we're really close, yesterday I put my cooking gas inside before going to work against the usual act of giving them everyday when I'm leaving for work. None of this shit will happen if I'm married, but I'm single.

Does withdrawing myself from them make me a bad person? This is a serious dilemma, I'm at my wit's end.

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by descartes400: 7:28pm On Dec 31, 2021

Frugality is one of my 2022 new year resolutions, I don't want anything or anyone to interfere with my life next year.

This is a good one and worthy of emulation.

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Caleycash(m): 7:28pm On Dec 31, 2021

God1000:
I'm completely fed up with my neighbour that sees my munificence/beneficence as stupidity.

He screwed himself up due to his improvidence and gallivanting lifestyle, he's a pain in my neck right now.

He's married, his wife has been sharing my cooking gas with me for over three months now since his own was taken away as sequestration.

I'm a salary earner, he's a bike rider, but due to his unseriousness he doesn't have his own bike, dude is a drifter.

I'm thinking of leaving the place because this whole thing is insufferable, his wife isn't helping as well, maybe due to immaturity, all she does is cook, eat and play.
Frugality is one of my 2022 new year resolutions, I don't want anything or anyone to interfere with my life next year.

We both agreed to fill the gas together, but he doesn't contribute much, I end up spending twice than the usual amount before.

These people have benefited so much from me because they know I'm a cheerful giver, they collect almost everything from me including money, I really don't want spongers in my life next year.

I've advised him countless times to look for another alternative, but he's hard of hearing with his lackadaisical altitude.

My biggest concern right now is how to withdraw myself completely without causing enmity between us because we're really close, yesterday I put my cooking gas inside before going to work against the usual act of giving them everyday when I'm leaving for work. None of this shit will happen if I'm married, but I'm single.

Does withdrawing myself from them make me a bad person? This is a serious dilemma, I'm at my wit's end.

Treat people how they treat you... simple and definitely he will avoid you!

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Dshocker(m): 7:31pm On Dec 31, 2021

God1000:
I'm completely fed up with my neighbour that sees my munificence/beneficence as stupidity.

He screwed himself up due to his improvidence and gallivanting lifestyle, he's a pain in my neck right now.

He's married, his wife has been sharing my cooking gas with me for over three months now since his own was taken away as sequestration.

I'm a salary earner, he's a bike rider, but due to his unseriousness he doesn't have his own bike, dude is a drifter.

I'm thinking of leaving the place because this whole thing is insufferable, his wife isn't helping as well, maybe due to immaturity, all she does is cook, eat and play.
Frugality is one of my 2022 new year resolutions, I don't want anything or anyone to interfere with my life next year.

We both agreed to fill the gas together, but he doesn't contribute much, I end up spending twice than the usual amount before.

These people have benefited so much from me because they know I'm a cheerful giver, they collect almost everything from me including money, I really don't want spongers in my life next year.

I've advised him countless times to look for another alternative, but he's hard of hearing with his lackadaisical altitude.

My biggest concern right now is how to withdraw myself completely without causing enmity between us because we're really close, yesterday I put my cooking gas inside before going to work against the usual act of giving them everyday when I'm leaving for work. None of this shit will happen if I'm married, but I'm single.

Does withdrawing myself from them make me a bad person? This is a serious dilemma, I'm at my wit's end.

So you trying to use vocabularies to tell us that you were an english graduate?

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Echara: 7:35pm On Dec 31, 2021

God1000:
I'm in stitches bro , you guys are funny.

This is a serious issue, please help a brother.

You're not serious. You don't communicate. When you get serious we know where to come in.

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by vickydevoka(m): 7:36pm On Dec 31, 2021

izito:
Broz this your English no make me understand wetin you dey talk

I swear. Not articulated.

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Nobody: 7:38pm On Dec 31, 2021

Carchoice:
Is this how you communicate with them with big English? If yes, they will never understand you.

lol

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Corea4king(m): 7:41pm On Dec 31, 2021

You know how to blow grammar but you don't know when to say NO

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by vickydevoka(m): 7:41pm On Dec 31, 2021

God1000:
I'm completely fed up with my neighbour that sees my munificence/beneficence as stupidity.

He screwed himself up due to his improvidence and gallivanting lifestyle, he's a pain in my neck right now.

He's married, his wife has been sharing my cooking gas with me for over three months now since his own was taken away as sequestration.

I'm a salary earner, he's a bike rider, but due to his unseriousness he doesn't have his own bike, dude is a drifter.

I'm thinking of leaving the place because this whole thing is insufferable, his wife isn't helping as well, maybe due to immaturity, all she does is cook, eat and play.
Frugality is one of my 2022 new year resolutions, I don't want anything or anyone to interfere with my life next year.

We both agreed to fill the gas together, but he doesn't contribute much, I end up spending twice than the usual amount before.

These people have benefited so much from me because they know I'm a cheerful giver, they collect almost everything from me including money, I really don't want spongers in my life next year.

I've advised him countless times to look for another alternative, but he's hard of hearing with his lackadaisical altitude.

My biggest concern right now is how to withdraw myself completely without causing enmity between us because we're really close, yesterday I put my cooking gas inside before going to work against the usual act of giving them everyday when I'm leaving for work. None of this shit will happen if I'm married, but I'm single.

Does withdrawing myself from them make me a bad person? This is a serious dilemma, I'm at my wit's end.

I started becoming successful when I begin to act like ladies. It really pays to say your mind regardless.
Acting like a man ( na man u be no de help) reduces ur life span on earth. If u have problem say it out, don't let pride or shame bring u down.

If I quarrel with u today if u see u tomorrow I greet u n pass. No the hold things for mind, it doesn't help. En go way u down

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by AreaFada2: 7:42pm On Dec 31, 2021

Dude, the situation will not change. The couple are not serious. They are leeches who freeload but will still never appreciate it. As much as you have helped them, the minute you stop, you will become a bad guy. If you marry and change, they will blame your new wife for it.

The fact that there is a lady involved is very delicate. Be careful before you are accused of toasting the lady when you change.

Best bet is prepare to move out and never lose guard in your new place.

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Hychineson(m): 7:44pm On Dec 31, 2021

God1000:
I'm completely fed up with my neighbour that sees my munificence/beneficence as stupidity.

He screwed himself up due to his improvidence and gallivanting lifestyle, he's a pain in my neck right now.

He's married, his wife has been sharing my cooking gas with me for over three months now since his own was taken away as sequestration.
Wetin be frugality again?
I'm a salary earner, he's a bike rider, but due to his unseriousness he doesn't have his own bike, dude is a drifter.

I'm thinking of leaving the place because this whole thing is insufferable, his wife isn't helping as well, maybe due to immaturity, all she does is cook, eat and play.
Frugality is one of my 2022 new year resolutions, I don't want anything or anyone to interfere with my life next year.

We both agreed to fill the gas together, but he doesn't contribute much, I end up spending twice than the usual amount before.

These people have benefited so much from me because they know I'm a cheerful giver, they collect almost everything from me including money, I really don't want spongers in my life next year.

I've advised him countless times to look for another alternative, but he's hard of hearing with his lackadaisical altitude.

My biggest concern right now is how to withdraw myself completely without causing enmity between us because we're really close, yesterday I put my cooking gas inside before going to work against the usual act of giving them everyday when I'm leaving for work. None of this shit will happen if I'm married, but I'm single.

Does withdrawing myself from them make me a bad person? This is a serious dilemma, I'm at my wit's end.

Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by vickydevoka(m): 7:46pm On Dec 31, 2021

thorpido:
Well,due to exigencies, the husband's apathetic nature and the wife's unceremonious position,you have to ruminate and decide if being benignant is laudable at this stage or one considers towing the path of frugality and responsibility.

Applause for you. You are good

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Berankis: 7:46pm On Dec 31, 2021

thorpido:
Well,due to exigencies, the husband's apathetic nature and the wife's unceremonious position,you have to ruminate and decide if being benignant is laudable at this stage or one considers towing the path of frugality and responsibility.

Score Board 1:1 grin

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Austeeenxx: 7:47pm On Dec 31, 2021

Comrade, no be we finish your gas na. Why you wan kill person with English?

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by peropoliet(m): 7:47pm On Dec 31, 2021

God1000:
I'm completely fed up with my neighbour that sees my munificence/beneficence as stupidity.

He screwed himself up due to his improvidence and gallivanting lifestyle, he's a pain in my neck right now.

He's married, his wife has been sharing my cooking gas with me for over three months now since his own was taken away as sequestration.

I'm a salary earner, he's a bike rider, but due to his unseriousness he doesn't have his own bike, dude is a drifter.

I'm thinking of leaving the place because this whole thing is insufferable, his wife isn't helping as well, maybe due to immaturity, all she does is cook, eat and play.
Frugality is one of my 2022 new year resolutions, I don't want anything or anyone to interfere with my life next year.

We both agreed to fill the gas together, but he doesn't contribute much, I end up spending twice than the usual amount before.

These people have benefited so much from me because they know I'm a cheerful giver, they collect almost everything from me including money, I really don't want spongers in my life next year.

I've advised him countless times to look for another alternative, but he's hard of hearing with his lackadaisical altitude.

My biggest concern right now is how to withdraw myself completely without causing enmity between us because we're really close, yesterday I put my cooking gas inside before going to work against the usual act of giving them everyday when I'm leaving for work. None of this shit will happen if I'm married, but I'm single.

Does withdrawing myself from them make me a bad person? This is a serious dilemma, I'm at my wit's end.

you come dey blow grammer for us here abi i go tell the neighbor to collect your salary join

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by AdaAwka1: 7:48pm On Dec 31, 2021

izito:
Broz this your English no make me understand wetin you dey talk

I tire ooo. The that kind English make him neighbour think day im na mumu

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by vickydevoka(m): 7:51pm On Dec 31, 2021

jericco1:
My brother easy with the grammar

Well you should cut yourself off from him

I swear. His neighbor is a drifter. So his presence exigency is due to the sequestration . Lol

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by vickydevoka(m): 7:51pm On Dec 31, 2021

fabson21:
Bro they are better ways to solve a problem best thing I see in this matter just buy another gas cylinder and leave that one for him and his wife if not brother you never see anything

Ur a wise

Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by vickydevoka(m): 7:51pm On Dec 31, 2021

fabson21:
Bro they are better ways to solve a problem best thing I see in this matter just buy another gas cylinder and leave that one for him and his wife if not brother you never see anything

Ur are wise

Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Kobicove(m): 7:53pm On Dec 31, 2021

God1000:
exactly, and I'm seriously hurting because of that.

I've tried several times to change, but I couldn't.

Learn to put your foot down and say "No"!

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Berankis: 7:54pm On Dec 31, 2021*

If I must reciprocate your gesture of bringing the quagmire here... I would advice you act within your capacitation. It is good to share and help, albeit they may not be able to recompense you for it, only God will.
At this point, I just want to pay you back in your own very coin (Prof!). grin

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