Mariangeles:


You know what your problem is? You always want to be seen as a nice person, even at your own detriment.

Only for him to come online and lament....I no just like onye ihu abuo..

OP
learn to use this word without remorse

Neighbor: Can I use ur gas pls ?
You : NO

No explanation given, it's yours
Get a locker and lock up ur things and always avoid being too accessible.
I've had such a neighbor in the past until the day I got sick for over a week they didn't even tell me sorry nor notice
Yet other people noticed I was ill but they didn't lol
That alone gave me the confidence to push any bad energy away from me and till date I remain who I am

Lights up my kpoli in peace

Tbh I get good advice to give but i no sabi that kind English u want

God1000:
I'm completely fed up with my neighbour that sees my munificence/beneficence as stupidity.

He screwed himself up due to his improvidence and gallivanting lifestyle, he's a pain in my neck right now.

He's married, his wife has been sharing my cooking gas with me for over three months now since his own was taken away as sequestration.

I'm a salary earner, he's a bike rider, but due to his unseriousness he doesn't have his own bike, dude is a drifter.

I'm thinking of leaving the place because this whole thing is insufferable, his wife isn't helping as well, maybe due to immaturity, all she does is cook, eat and play.
Frugality is one of my 2022 new year resolutions, I don't want anything or anyone to interfere with my life next year.

We both agreed to fill the gas together, but he doesn't contribute much, I end up spending twice than the usual amount before.

These people have benefited so much from me because they know I'm a cheerful giver, they collect almost everything from me including money, I really don't want spongers in my life next year.

I've advised him countless times to look for another alternative, but he's hard of hearing with his lackadaisical altitude.

My biggest concern right now is how to withdraw myself completely without causing enmity between us because we're really close, yesterday I put my cooking gas inside before going to work against the usual act of giving them everyday when I'm leaving for work. None of this shit will happen if I'm married, but I'm single.

Does withdrawing myself from them make me a bad person? This is a serious dilemma, I'm at my wit's end.

Use ur brain bro

Human are insatiable and no matter how good u are to them, they are still d same set of people that will sit and talk badly behind you..


Don't be surprised if that man tell u he is moving to his own apartment soon too... People like that knows how to save faa

God1000:
I'm in stitches bro , you guys are funny.

This is a serious issue, please help a brother.

leave the cylinder with them...always eat outside, complain excessively of financial difficulties even when its not necessary, stop stocking some item in your house,you can start buying the sachet closeup of 50 naira,any where e for finish, every go manage am like that... this your grammar get ad e take dey sha...

Munzy14:

Only for him to come online and lament....I no just like onye ihu abuo..

Owuhu otu ahu.

It seems like people like that can't help the way they are.
A couple of them have shared their stories, and according to them, they always feel very bad if they do things contrary to their nature.

It is just that people tend to exploit or take advantage of their generosity.

English warlord,

How is the battle with words going on?
I had to Google the word 'sequestration' and funny enough the word keep popping out in the meaning too.

Away from your brief foray to grammar, since you're about moving on in some few hours (2022) why not hold on a bit then you call it a quit proper come next year.

Hmmmm.....2022 is the year you have to look out for yourself!

Talk to him and let him know you would nolonger be spending on them because you are cash strap too.

Then plan to move! You are solely responsible for yourself dude....dont forget that.

Oyiboman69:
leave the cylinder with them...always eat outside, complain excessively of financial difficulties even when its not necessary, stop stocking some item in your house,you can start buying the sachet closeup of 50 naira,any where e for finish, every go manage am like that... this your grammar get ad e take dey sha...

So he should further inconvenience himself and resort to lying rather than being honest about the situation?

If you're still asking how to japa then they never enter you well.

My first neighbor tried it but I didn't give her the opportunity & another tried it I stylishly did the same thing because I noticed that the will be like this your neighbor. They like taking advantage my my benevolence.

When it's on emergency I can help the neighbor but when you want to make it a regular thing oyo is your case

Note the only way you can stop it without enmity is by parking out of the compound.

You see this kind of thing don't ever start it

lenghtinny:
Mr nice guy always carry last.....

There's no way you will detach from them without making them feel bad since you want to shut the door on the free things they are getting from the parasitic relationship...

Those guys are users. You just have to put an end to the nonsense regardless of how they feel.

You are only responsible for your action, their reaction is their business. If they don't care about how you feel about the situation, then you shouldn't care how they feel when you pull the rug beneath their feet

Exactly

Carchoice:
Is this how you communicate with them with big English? If yes, they will never understand you.

Hahaha
E de write grammar without no message and he said he is pained



Hahahhaha

God1000:
I'm completely fed up with my neighbour that sees my munificence/beneficence as stupidity.

He screwed himself up due to his improvidence and gallivanting lifestyle, he's a pain in my neck right now.

He's married, his wife has been sharing my cooking gas with me for over three months now since his own was taken away as sequestration.

I'm a salary earner, he's a bike rider, but due to his unseriousness he doesn't have his own bike, dude is a drifter.

I'm thinking of leaving the place because this whole thing is insufferable, his wife isn't helping as well, maybe due to immaturity, all she does is cook, eat and play.
Frugality is one of my 2022 new year resolutions, I don't want anything or anyone to interfere with my life next year.

We both agreed to fill the gas together, but he doesn't contribute much, I end up spending twice than the usual amount before.

These people have benefited so much from me because they know I'm a cheerful giver, they collect almost everything from me including money, I really don't want spongers in my life next year.

I've advised him countless times to look for another alternative, but he's hard of hearing with his lackadaisical altitude.

My biggest concern right now is how to withdraw myself completely without causing enmity between us because we're really close, yesterday I put my cooking gas inside before going to work against the usual act of giving them everyday when I'm leaving for work. None of this shit will happen if I'm married, but I'm single.

Does withdrawing myself from them make me a bad person? This is a serious dilemma, I'm at my wit's end.

Oga, ur grammar demself too much. Lakadaisical Munifence,beneficence,improvidence, gallivanting,sequestration, frugal. I had to look For a dictionary to start checking for their meaning. Just open to them that u aren't comfortable sharing ur gas cooker with them, that they should get a stove or their own gas.

Samuelriano1:


he is good with English and he is sharing house with an okada man wey no get okada your brain no tell you say na face me I face you house op dey stay abi

still doesn't matter. Appreciate one's humble beginning. Where he lives doesn't take away the fact his English is topnotch.

This is disgusting to read.

franciskaine:
still doesn't matter. Appreciate one's humble beginning. Where he lives doesn't take away the fact his English is topnotch.

don't mind the riffraff with his fiddlesticks, its actually a self contain, but the compound is large with different rooms and prices, we're from the same state, that's why he comes to me for help, some mischievous and obnoxious persons always try to derail every thread here

Egein:
This is disgusting to read.

and what's the signification of that? Please take your twaddle out of my thread.

Samuelriano1:


he is good with English and he is sharing house with an okada man wey no get okada your brain no tell you say na face me I face you house op dey stay abi

don't worry, I will recommend you for psychiatric evaluation, you need help

Just use your English wound that your neighbour, him no get choice but to avoid you

Don't you know how to say no? Am very angry right now that this post made front page because the OP is simply just stupid!

Mariangeles:


Owuhu otu ahu.

It seems like people like that can't help the way they are.
A couple of them have shared their stories, and according to them, they always feel very bad if they do things contrary to their nature.

It is just that people tend to exploit or take advantage of their generosity.

Mmadu kwesiri i di kwa bold no mata how small...At least nwe kwa mgbe o ga si yes or no.

Happy Afo Ohuru!

Munzy14:

Mmadu kwesiri i di kwa bold no mata how small...At least nwe kwa mgbe o ga si yes or no.

Happy Afo Ohuru!

Happy new year!!!

Owu nature ha.

Mariangeles:


Happy new year!!!

Owu nature ha.

Yeaaaaa...Wishing you all the good things of the year.

Ike gwuru o...he needs to brace up...Not even in his managing conditions..

People will keep manipulating him..

E nwere neighbour di like that..dude borrows and doesn't pay back...On the second occasion, I told him plain I don't lend money...If I have, I will give if not I won't.

E hatiri m mmadu i take advantage of my clean mind unto na awunu m mugu

After that day the guy stopped...My annoyance that year wu, He cannever help you..As he is into transport, I hired him one day to come carry goods to my farm, he played himself that day....

He later switch to mpa m, borrowed a lot, onye ka ahu wunu nwoke obioma.. He obtain a lot to extent I stepped in, and stopped the rubbish.

God1000:
I'm completely fed up with my neighbour that sees my munificence/beneficence as stupidity.

He screwed himself up due to his improvidence and gallivanting lifestyle, he's a pain in my neck right now.

He's married, his wife has been sharing my cooking gas with me for over three months now since his own was taken away as sequestration.

I'm a salary earner, he's a bike rider, but due to his unseriousness he doesn't have his own bike, dude is a drifter.

I'm thinking of leaving the place because this whole thing is insufferable, his wife isn't helping as well, maybe due to immaturity, all she does is cook, eat and play.
Frugality is one of my 2022 new year resolutions, I don't want anything or anyone to interfere with my life next year.

We both agreed to fill the gas together, but he doesn't contribute much, I end up spending twice than the usual amount before.

These people have benefited so much from me because they know I'm a cheerful giver, they collect almost everything from me including money, I really don't want spongers in my life next year.

I've advised him countless times to look for another alternative, but he's hard of hearing with his lackadaisical altitude.

My biggest concern right now is how to withdraw myself completely without causing enmity between us because we're really close, yesterday I put my cooking gas inside before going to work against the usual act of giving them everyday when I'm leaving for work. None of this shit will happen if I'm married, but I'm single.

Does withdrawing myself from them make me a bad person? This is a serious dilemma, I'm at my wit's end.

My Friend...Pls Man up and Stop behaving as if U are A Sucking Child. Stand Firmly on ur DECISIONS to Gradually Withdraw ALL his inheritance from You in 2022. He must Sit up to his Married Life. Don't be a Fool Basket in that Compound anymore. Speak with d Family on ur Decision and Stand there on it.U have no Excuses Pls.

God1000:
I'm completely fed up with my neighbour that sees my munificence/beneficence as stupidity.

He screwed himself up due to his improvidence and gallivanting lifestyle, he's a pain in my neck right now.

He's married, his wife has been sharing my cooking gas with me for over three months now since his own was taken away as sequestration.

I'm a salary earner, he's a bike rider, but due to his unseriousness he doesn't have his own bike, dude is a drifter.

I'm thinking of leaving the place because this whole thing is insufferable, his wife isn't helping as well, maybe due to immaturity, all she does is cook, eat and play.
Frugality is one of my 2022 new year resolutions, I don't want anything or anyone to interfere with my life next year.

We both agreed to fill the gas together, but he doesn't contribute much, I end up spending twice than the usual amount before.

These people have benefited so much from me because they know I'm a cheerful giver, they collect almost everything from me including money, I really don't want spongers in my life next year.

I've advised him countless times to look for another alternative, but he's hard of hearing with his lackadaisical altitude.

My biggest concern right now is how to withdraw myself completely without causing enmity between us because we're really close, yesterday I put my cooking gas inside before going to work against the usual act of giving them everyday when I'm leaving for work. None of this shit will happen if I'm married, but I'm single.

Does withdrawing myself from them make me a bad person? This is a serious dilemma, I'm at my wit's end.

Lol...Perhaps if you have been conversing with them with all this big grammar, they would have relocated from that vicinity long time ago...

Sorry for your plight

Buy them a stove and explain that the economy isn't smiling so you cannot continue sharing gas with them.


Your type get used too easily. Think before always assisting and helping so it won't lead to emotional stress for you.