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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by vickydevoka(m): 7:55pm On Dec 31, 2021

RoyalBlu:
...Sequestration.

Thank God for Google

Like Dem seize him property as him no fit balance

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Number2(m): 7:58pm On Dec 31, 2021

chival:
You have a decent command of the English language, which is a rarity these days. Kudos.

Now to your neighbour- cut him off! You owe him nothing. If you can't do that, then make arrangements to move out. Freeloading is a serious no in this economy.

which yeye command of English language?

Speak Simple, not all these gibberish that people would have to lookup in the dictionary before they understand.

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by idpompe: 7:59pm On Dec 31, 2021

They are bad people and they are using you.They will even call you mugu at your back.

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by AlphaBeta130: 8:01pm On Dec 31, 2021

I read the post with my dictionary

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Lavisha(f): 8:01pm On Dec 31, 2021

God1000:
I'm in stitches bro , you guys are funny.

This is a serious issue, please help a brother.

That your Neighbor is a conspicuously reprehensible sycophant and a catatonic monotonous solitaire playing mental midget with the natural grace of an intoxicated beluga whale .

RUN.

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by alphaNomega: 8:05pm On Dec 31, 2021

God1000:
I'm completely fed up with my neighbour that sees my munificence/beneficence as stupidity.

He screwed himself up due to his improvidence and gallivanting lifestyle, he's a pain in my neck right now.

He's married, his wife has been sharing my cooking gas with me for over three months now since his own was taken away as sequestration.

I'm a salary earner, he's a bike rider, but due to his unseriousness he doesn't have his own bike, dude is a drifter.

I'm thinking of leaving the place because this whole thing is insufferable, his wife isn't helping as well, maybe due to immaturity, all she does is cook, eat and play.
Frugality is one of my 2022 new year resolutions, I don't want anything or anyone to interfere with my life next year.

We both agreed to fill the gas together, but he doesn't contribute much, I end up spending twice than the usual amount before.

These people have benefited so much from me because they know I'm a cheerful giver, they collect almost everything from me including money, I really don't want spongers in my life next year.

I've advised him countless times to look for another alternative, but he's hard of hearing with his lackadaisical altitude.

My biggest concern right now is how to withdraw myself completely without causing enmity between us because we're really close, yesterday I put my cooking gas inside before going to work against the usual act of giving them everyday when I'm leaving for work. None of this shit will happen if I'm married, but I'm single.

Does withdrawing myself from them make me a bad person? This is a serious dilemma, I'm at my wit's end.

start flirting with the wife. Call her late in the night especially when you know the husband is home.

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Nobody: 8:06pm On Dec 31, 2021

God1000:
I'm completely fed up with my neighbour that sees my munificence/beneficence as stupidity.

He screwed himself up due to his improvidence and gallivanting lifestyle, he's a pain in my neck right now.

He's married, his wife has been sharing my cooking gas with me for over three months now since his own was taken away as sequestration.

I'm a salary earner, he's a bike rider, but due to his unseriousness he doesn't have his own bike, dude is a drifter.

I'm thinking of leaving the place because this whole thing is insufferable, his wife isn't helping as well, maybe due to immaturity, all she does is cook, eat and play.
Frugality is one of my 2022 new year resolutions, I don't want anything or anyone to interfere with my life next year.

We both agreed to fill the gas together, but he doesn't contribute much, I end up spending twice than the usual amount before.

These people have benefited so much from me because they know I'm a cheerful giver, they collect almost everything from me including money, I really don't want spongers in my life next year.

I've advised him countless times to look for another alternative, but he's hard of hearing with his lackadaisical altitude.

My biggest concern right now is how to withdraw myself completely without causing enmity between us because we're really close, yesterday I put my cooking gas inside before going to work against the usual act of giving them everyday when I'm leaving for work. None of this shit will happen if I'm married, but I'm single.

Does withdrawing myself from them make me a bad person? This is a serious dilemma, I'm at my wit's end.

I read this post with two tabs open...your vocab choke

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by TheZeezle(m): 8:07pm On Dec 31, 2021

God1000:
I'm completely fed up with my neighbour that sees my munificence/beneficence as stupidity.

He screwed himself up due to his improvidence and gallivanting lifestyle, he's a pain in my neck right now.

He's married, his wife has been sharing my cooking gas with me for over three months now since his own was taken away as sequestration.

I'm a salary earner, he's a bike rider, but due to his unseriousness he doesn't have his own bike, dude is a drifter.

I'm thinking of leaving the place because this whole thing is insufferable, his wife isn't helping as well, maybe due to immaturity, all she does is cook, eat and play.
Frugality is one of my 2022 new year resolutions, I don't want anything or anyone to interfere with my life next year.

We both agreed to fill the gas together, but he doesn't contribute much, I end up spending twice than the usual amount before.

These people have benefited so much from me because they know I'm a cheerful giver, they collect almost everything from me including money, I really don't want spongers in my life next year.

I've advised him countless times to look for another alternative, but he's hard of hearing with his lackadaisical altitude.

My biggest concern right now is how to withdraw myself completely without causing enmity between us because we're really close, yesterday I put my cooking gas inside before going to work against the usual act of giving them everyday when I'm leaving for work. None of this shit will happen if I'm married, but I'm single.

Does withdrawing myself from them make me a bad person? This is a serious dilemma, I'm at my wit's end.

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Nobody: 8:07pm On Dec 31, 2021

Lavisha:
That your Neighbor is a conspicuously reprehensible sycophant and a catatonic monotonous solitaire playing mental midget with the natural grace of an intoxicated beluga whale .

RUN.

na so...wound my brain

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Lavisha(f): 8:08pm On Dec 31, 2021

hamrof:
You come make matter worst

If na me, I go encumbrance the bellicose guy with precision engineered-asperity, I will not be sagacious.

hehehehehe

Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Lavisha(f): 8:16pm On Dec 31, 2021

starrboyniels:
na so...wound my brain

That kinda neighbor is a miserably incompetent sycophant, a deucedly sybaritic libertine and a repugnant soul -destroying loathsome acidly acrimonious conglomerate of intellectual constipation that is decrepit dull -witted nauseating assault on the senses.

English sweet oh..

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Nobody: 8:17pm On Dec 31, 2021

Lavisha:
That kinda neighbor is a miserably incompetent sycophant, a deucedly sybaritic libertine and a repugnant soul -destroying loathsome acidly acrimonious conglomerate of intellectual constipation that is decrepit dull -witted nauseating assault on the senses.

English sweet oh..

shift make I faint

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by AlphaBeta130: 8:26pm On Dec 31, 2021

Lavisha:
If na me, I go encumbrance the bellicose guy with precision engineered-asperity, I will not be sagacious.

hehehehehe

Madam, shey you wan split my brain abi

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by sinkhole: 8:30pm On Dec 31, 2021

God1000:
I'm completely fed up with my neighbour that sees my munificence/beneficence as stupidity.

He screwed himself up due to his improvidence and gallivanting lifestyle, he's a pain in my neck right now.

He's married, his wife has been sharing my cooking gas with me for over three months now since his own was taken away as sequestration.

I'm a salary earner, he's a bike rider, but due to his unseriousness he doesn't have his own bike, dude is a drifter.

I'm thinking of leaving the place because this whole thing is insufferable, his wife isn't helping as well, maybe due to immaturity, all she does is cook, eat and play.
Frugality is one of my 2022 new year resolutions, I don't want anything or anyone to interfere with my life next year.

We both agreed to fill the gas together, but he doesn't contribute much, I end up spending twice than the usual amount before.

These people have benefited so much from me because they know I'm a cheerful giver, they collect almost everything from me including money, I really don't want spongers in my life next year.

I've advised him countless times to look for another alternative, but he's hard of hearing with his lackadaisical altitude.

My biggest concern right now is how to withdraw myself completely without causing enmity between us because we're really close, yesterday I put my cooking gas inside before going to work against the usual act of giving them everyday when I'm leaving for work. None of this shit will happen if I'm married, but I'm single.

Does withdrawing myself from them make me a bad person? This is a serious dilemma, I'm at my wit's end.

I was just angry reading you big english embarassed

You're surfering and you want people to tell you to stop surfering before you stop surfering!
If you're tired, my friend, pack-out and leave those people! You're not helping them nor helping yourself. As long long as you keep been nice to them they will keep being stupid, open-eye for them, let them be angry, very angry!

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Samuelriano1(m): 8:32pm On Dec 31, 2021

an English man will never communicate with the crowd with such vocabularies. communication is about carrying people along,for everyone to understand, and for the message to go round. I see people who speak such big grammars as attention seekers.if Truly you are tired, and you need advice, you would communicate properly.lastly go look at those that speak this big vocabulary, how many of them are known for great things,how many of them have turned the world around with remarkable research. I just pity Africans #shakes head. look at Patric obiahegbon, where is he today?

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by promowise(m): 8:33pm On Dec 31, 2021

thorpido:
Well,due to exigencies, the husband's apathetic nature and the wife's unceremonious position,you have to ruminate and decide if being benignant is laudable at this stage or one considers towing the path of frugality and responsibility.

Baba wetin you dey do with those kind neighbor with this your ogbonge English

Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by hope4nigeria(m): 8:34pm On Dec 31, 2021

God1000:
lol, wetin you no understand bro ?

me sef don confused for your English

Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Samuelriano1(m): 8:37pm On Dec 31, 2021

Number2:
which yeye command of English language?

Speak Simple, not all these gibberish that people would have to lookup in the dictionary before they understand.

you really said my mind.africans have low esteem honestly.even a highly educated British won't communicate with the crowd with such vocabularies. look at those that have played a great role in research, look at the people that have created impact in the world, how many of them speaks in such manners.

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by deavicky(m): 8:42pm On Dec 31, 2021

God1000:
I'm completely fed up with my neighbour that sees my munificence/beneficence as stupidity.

He screwed himself up due to his improvidence and gallivanting lifestyle, he's a pain in my neck right now.

He's married, his wife has been sharing my cooking gas with me for over three months now since his own was taken away as sequestration.

I'm a salary earner, he's a bike rider, but due to his unseriousness he doesn't have his own bike, dude is a drifter.

I'm thinking of leaving the place because this whole thing is insufferable, his wife isn't helping as well, maybe due to immaturity, all she does is cook, eat and play.
Frugality is one of my 2022 new year resolutions, I don't want anything or anyone to interfere with my life next year.

We both agreed to fill the gas together, but he doesn't contribute much, I end up spending twice than the usual amount before.

These people have benefited so much from me because they know I'm a cheerful giver, they collect almost everything from me including money, I really don't want spongers in my life next year.

I've advised him countless times to look for another alternative, but he's hard of hearing with his lackadaisical altitude.

My biggest concern right now is how to withdraw myself completely without causing enmity between us because we're really close, yesterday I put my cooking gas inside before going to work against the usual act of giving them everyday when I'm leaving for work. None of this shit will happen if I'm married, but I'm single.

Does withdrawing myself from them make me a bad person? This is a serious dilemma, I'm at my wit's end.

just buy a stove.

Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Samuelriano1(m): 8:44pm On Dec 31, 2021

franciskaine:
Use dictionary. The guy is actually good with English.

he is good with English and he is sharing house with an okada man wey no get okada huh

your brain no tell you say na face me I face you house op dey stay abi huh

Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Swanzi(m): 8:46pm On Dec 31, 2021

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GodIsBiafran:
Low self-esteem is the major problem of Ghanaian artists. This is why they will never grow.

If you don't have self-confidence, you can never survive the music game. The music game is not for weak a-$$ sissies who want someone else to push their music for them. For example, have you ever seen Rema begging Wizkid or Burna to push his music? Did FireboyDML cry when Wizkid did not invite him to O2 arena? Instead Fireboy hustled to get Ed Sheeran to feature in his music. Do you see Arya Starr crying that Tiwa and TEMs are not pushing her music? Rather she is focused, releasing hits after hits. Even portable is all over Lagos pushing his craft without giving a fvck what people think. Nigerians are built different. We believe in ourselves. That is why you will never see a Ghanaian in the MMA. Meanwhile Kamaru and Israel are top dogs there. Any endeavor that requires strong-will and individual self belief, Nigerians will ALWAYS surpass you. Ghana go and sleep. Not in this life. Maybe in another life you can compete with Nigeria.

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You this nyamiri bastard will always find a way to drag Ghana into ur useless petty squabbles are u that jobless mumu go get a life…
Ghana is ten times better than ur zoo argue with ur keyboard generator republic..
Kwasiaboy ur even a 3rd class citizen in ur papa land goat

Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by jericco1(m): 8:47pm On Dec 31, 2021

vickydevoka:
I swear. His neighbor is a drifter. So his presence exigency is due to the sequestration . Lol

Hope he knows what sequestration means sha.. it should be used only in critical time grin

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Sheggy13(m): 8:49pm On Dec 31, 2021

Hollyharjii:
Even if there's comprehension in visa application, I'm sure they can't use a big grammar as this

Lol,don't mind Nigerians. We see verbosity and grandiloquence as signs of being properly educated which sadly isn't true.

Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by inioluwaDaniels(m): 8:50pm On Dec 31, 2021

So we go carry dictionary join body now because we want read post for nairaland

Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by feeloscar(m): 8:52pm On Dec 31, 2021

Omniman:
Yo need to grow some balls...

BALLS bigger than BALLISTIC BALLS.

Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by karashita: 8:58pm On Dec 31, 2021

thorpido:
Well,due to exigencies, the husband's apathetic nature and the wife's unceremonious position,you have to ruminate and decide if being benignant is laudable at this stage or one considers towing the path of frugality and responsibility.

I like this...no be only Op sabi blow grammar grin

Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Tomilola360: 9:01pm On Dec 31, 2021

God1000:
I'm completely fed up with my neighbour that sees my munificence/beneficence as stupidity.

He screwed himself up due to his improvidence and gallivanting lifestyle, he's a pain in my neck right now.

He's married, his wife has been sharing my cooking gas with me for over three months now since his own was taken away as sequestration.

I'm a salary earner, he's a bike rider, but due to his unseriousness he doesn't have his own bike, dude is a drifter.

I'm thinking of leaving the place because this whole thing is insufferable, his wife isn't helping as well, maybe due to immaturity, all she does is cook, eat and play.
Frugality is one of my 2022 new year resolutions, I don't want anything or anyone to interfere with my life next year.

We both agreed to fill the gas together, but he doesn't contribute much, I end up spending twice than the usual amount before.

These people have benefited so much from me because they know I'm a cheerful giver, they collect almost everything from me including money, I really don't want spongers in my life next year.

I've advised him countless times to look for another alternative, but he's hard of hearing with his lackadaisical altitude.

My biggest concern right now is how to withdraw myself completely without causing enmity between us because we're really close, yesterday I put my cooking gas inside before going to work against the usual act of giving them everyday when I'm leaving for work. None of this shit will happen if I'm married, but I'm single.

Does withdrawing myself from them make me a bad person? This is a serious dilemma, I'm at my wit's end.

you are heaven sent. keep it up. grin

Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Saintmary(f): 9:02pm On Dec 31, 2021

God1000:
I'm completely fed up with my neighbour that sees my munificence/beneficence as stupidity.

He screwed himself up due to his improvidence and gallivanting lifestyle, he's a pain in my neck right now.

He's married, his wife has been sharing my cooking gas with me for over three months now since his own was taken away as sequestration.

I'm a salary earner, he's a bike rider, but due to his unseriousness he doesn't have his own bike, dude is a drifter.

I'm thinking of leaving the place because this whole thing is insufferable, his wife isn't helping as well, maybe due to immaturity, all she does is cook, eat and play.
Frugality is one of my 2022 new year resolutions, I don't want anything or anyone to interfere with my life next year.

We both agreed to fill the gas together, but he doesn't contribute much, I end up spending twice than the usual amount before.

These people have benefited so much from me because they know I'm a cheerful giver, they collect almost everything from me including money, I really don't want spongers in my life next year.

I've advised him countless times to look for another alternative, but he's hard of hearing with his lackadaisical altitude.

My biggest concern right now is how to withdraw myself completely without causing enmity between us because we're really close, yesterday I put my cooking gas inside before going to work against the usual act of giving them everyday when I'm leaving for work. None of this shit will happen if I'm married, but I'm single.

Does withdrawing myself from them make me a bad person? This is a serious dilemma, I'm at my wit's end.

The only way out is to plan your move to another area.

Then don't repeat this mistake over there.

Let me burst your bubble:

You may think you're a good guy.

But they see you as a fool.

I have seen Nigerian people sending a nearly 40 year old man to buy okro for them. It's not because he's nice, it's because he's been turned into the area idiot.

Let me burst the second bubble for you:

That man will remain poor until he delivers himself, same for the foolish wife (I called her foolish because she refused to inspire dignity in her husband, hence she'll stay poor with him). In other words, they are irredeemable so stop talking to them.

Emancipate yourself today.

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by paulprestige(m): 9:03pm On Dec 31, 2021

I have experience dz the only way of solving this problem is by WITHDRAWAL METHOD:That is allowing him to use everything u gave to him to finish..when u gave him ur gas to use alow him til it finish b4 u collect it back. anyday he ask u of it tel dt it has finish 'afterall are u nt de one dat finish it'

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Munzy14(m): 9:06pm On Dec 31, 2021

Carchoice:
Is this how you communicate with them with big English? If yes, they will never understand you.

Dead...

Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by bodee(m): 9:06pm On Dec 31, 2021

It's a clarion call that no matter our financial status, we should endeavor to stay in at least a self con.

Our mental health matters a lot. It affects every fabric or aspect of ones life.

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Re: Guys, How Do You Handle A Freeloader Neighbor? by Munzy14(m): 9:08pm On Dec 31, 2021

thorpido:
Well,due to exigencies, the husband's apathetic nature and the wife's unceremonious position,you have to ruminate and decide if being benignant is laudable at this stage or one considers towing the path of frugality and responsibility.

Grammar VS gbagam... grin

finish him..

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