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MJBOLT:

or maybe because non-prostitutes are not as damaged as they are.

Martinez39s:
To make matters worse. When you are helping them with assignments or compiling notes just out of kindness or you just being helpful with no ulterior motives, they usually will start feeling themselves. They will think you are helping them because they are that beautiful and you are trying to please them to get into their pants. They will think their feminine charm is so strong that it made you do these things whereas you are just rendering help that you would render to anyone regardless of gender.

heartofcity12:
True!.. That’s how females are. Any form of niceness you show to them is often perceived as weakness and unattractive, it’s how their brains are wired. They rather go for that jerk that care less. That’s why it’s advisable to often call yourself back when you feel you’re being nice or good to a woman(especially the one you’re attracted to) and strike a balance with something, could be less attention, coldness, declining her requests. The hot and cold treatment is necessary to keep them in check.
Yeah share them!

ProphetJeroboam:
Its crazy how they love being hurt emotionally. When you don’t give AF about them, it signals that you have options and then they want you. Crazy mentality. This is what i preach to my guys. Ignoring them and not giving 2 fvcks, saves money, time and resources and there’s a chance they’ll come around to want the attention you’ve denied them. I ignore them to the extent that to get what they want, they have to shoot the only arrow in their quiver, sex.

Hotspotbro:
They'll start trying to use you like they think you're just another accessory they can keep and use later when the need arises ..I'm just 100lvl and already seeing signs of failed manipulations.in my DM.Eng 121 assignment comes, she comes to my DM and later, (she must have asked around, because I'm a Lil bit known) from nowhere, pops out and starts with questions..Someone whey I never know sef.. And the way random of them ask me for note wey I nor get..No Good morning or Hello..

Oleru120:
I want to thank everyone here. I have been following this thread for the past 3 years.

RAGGA40:
Alaye seriously when if I may asked

JESHAL:
Simp Devils

heartofcity12:
Simps like this are one of the biggest problems we have in the black community. They constantly emphasize on materialistic approach. Considering how ridiculous women are with their expectations, they’re destroying the true sense of a relationship. Even in first world countries, 40% of homes survive on shared income But in the black community, men are supposed to start spoiling women right from first date. This is one of the reasons why we’re the poorest race on the planet. We keep babysitting black women and their distorted ego. They’re already the least attractive in US, as they’re the most disrespectful and overweight. This is why you’ll see fat average looking jobless women expecting somebody’s son to spoil her. As we’re trying to save men and emancipate them with the redpill teachings, this white knight is busy fueling and promoting females’ hypergamy for cheap likes and validations. #trp

Nwaotu10:
I couldn't but hold back tears, honestly.
The man must be a simp to have handled the matter with a kids glove.

ProphetJeroboam:
Bro, ignore the sh*t out of her. Leave her on read without thinking twice about it. Especially if you are into her, don’t help her. If you’re not into her, you can help her just once but make sure you complain and show your displeasure about her bothering you then proceed to decline any help to her for the next 7 Favours. Seems extreme but it works for me

heartofcity12:
Under no circumstance should you beg for sex. This is how savage they could be.. Expect anything from females #trp

ProphetJeroboam:
Its crazy how they love being hurt emotionally. When you don’t give AF about them, it signals that you have options and then they want you. Crazy mentality. This is what i preach to my guys. Ignoring them and not giving 2 fvcks, saves money, time and resources and there’s a chance they’ll come around to want the attention you’ve denied them. I ignore them to the extent that to get what they want, they have to shoot the only arrow in their quiver, sex.

illumined999333:
Just like Christianity, the redpill is a way of life. I said something in one of my earlier posts about having a deep respect for guys who have loved wholeheartedly and got played by the one(s) they loved. I talked about these kind of guys being the hardest redpillers, after overcoming the hurt. Guys like these kinds are transformed for life, they can't be the same humans they once were. Many won't say it, but MOST of the guys here talking redpill aren't redpilled. If you are going to live the redpill in its purest form, you must start from stage one - you must firstly, fall in love wholeheartedly with a woman. Because many here didn't go through this first step before finding out about the redpill, it is conceivable for them to think a redpiller can deviate from the redpill. Anyone who goes through this first step, understands that the redpill is a drug that saves them. Why should they deviate from something that saves them from pain? When we say the redpill is a drug, we mean that literally, not figuratively. The redpill is a drug to guys who experienced the first stage. These are the real ones, not the fakes.

Smartb0y:
I do not completely agree with your statement.

There are two ways to learn in life, either from experience or wisdom.

For instance,if you're told "don't put your hands in the fire" but you go ahead and do it anyways,result being you getting hurt.

On the other hand, if you adhere to wisdom, you save yourself the burns.
Now, the interesting part is this, why didn't you put your hands in the fire?

Could it be that you saw how the other person got burned putting his hands in or you knew that putting your hands in the fire won't do you any good.

Same can be said about guys who have been hurt and those who avoid getting hurt.

CHOICES,Yes it's all about choice.

The fact that Mr abstainee chose to avoid engaging in such act and the resultant effect is him seeing others getting hurt proves that he's just as equipped to handle such state.
If anything, Mr abstainee is even in a better position to make better future choices.

"Experience is the best teacher" ----> this is a lame man's way of thinking, to give excuse for his falsities.
Do you know that most people that use this statement still go on making the same mistake over and over again

Train your mind ....let it make good choices whether it stems from experience or wisdom.
You don't have to be hurt to know how it feels to be hurt, you can always learn from other people's experience to make better choices (wisdom).

It is when one fails to learn from other people's mistakes that they themselves create experiences of their own.

I'll will always advocate that we learn from wisdom (other people's experience) instead of our own experience because there's no guarantee we will learn from such experience
Talkless of the damage that comes with learning from experience eg time wasting.

Redpill is wisdom, I don't see why Mr abstainee won't be able to understand what it means to be redpilled since he's already operating under the modus operandi of wisdom.

If anything, it's Mr experience that might find his thoughts conflicting since wisdom was never his strong suit.

So No, you don't have to fall in love to be redpilled

Oleru120:
I want to thank everyone here. I have been following this thread for the past 3 years.

ProphetJeroboam:
They’ve been brainwashed to think they’ll always get their way because they’ve gotten their way with some unfortunate guys. Even the ones that are unattractive wants to play this card too. My policy is zero help, I don’t care if you’re failing the class. I don’t want to give any of them the slightest idea that they played me in anyway.

illumined999333:
Just like Christianity, the redpill is a way of life. I said something in one of my earlier posts about having a deep respect for guys who have loved wholeheartedly and got played by the one(s) they loved. I talked about these kind of guys being the hardest redpillers, after overcoming the hurt. Guys like these kinds are transformed for life, they can't be the same humans they once were. Many won't say it, but MOST of the guys here talking redpill aren't redpilled. If you are going to live the redpill in its purest form, you must start from stage one - you must firstly, fall in love wholeheartedly with a woman. Because many here didn't go through this first step before finding out about the redpill, it is conceivable for them to think a redpiller can deviate from the redpill. Anyone who goes through this first step, understands that the redpill is a drug that saves them. Why should they deviate from something that saves them from pain? When we say the redpill is a drug, we mean that literally, not figuratively. The redpill is a drug to guys who experienced the first stage. These are the real ones, not the fakes.

Osas187:
I was fetching water this morning and a girl came to fetch too,she meet me there but ordinary good morning she didn't say to me,when it full I carried my water go inside,by the time I came back she's still dere waiting for someone who will help her to carry her water on her head,as she saw me she said "Please assit me" I told her I can't,she looks my face with suprise and said "you can't ?" I said yes I can't.I see dissapointment in her face,but I feel happy and I walked out like a KING.

NeroStealth01:
You don't have to get burnt before you are truly REDPILLED. Saying men have to get burnt before they are considered solid REDPILLERS is one of the dumbest thing I have ever heard. It reeks of bluePILLED mindset.

Men don't need to experience heartbreak before they are unplugged from the matrix and become REDPILLED. In fact the best and luckiest of men are those who never got burnt by female nature before accepting the REDPILL.

Someone was still talking about how a former secondary school mate of his committed suicide just because of a bad love experience. What do we say about that? How does the dead learn from his experience now?

Don't ever fall for it whenever you are told you need to experience something before you truly understand it. When you can clearly see with your own eyes the damages it has done to others before.

That is how some dumb men will also tell you that you have to experience raw sex. Now when you go ahead and experience the raw sex with a prostitute, and you get infected with HIV. How do you come back from that? How do you recover?

Some experience, you don't come back from it.

One of the best ways to learn is to learn from the experience of others.

The only experience you need is the experience you want to add to your CV so as to get another better paying job in a more reputable company/firm.

#TAKETHEREDPILL
#STAYREDPILLED
#STAYCOLD

Think4Myself:
Epa, I don't think you did anything special there, it's not like she was asking you to carry it for her, so I'd say that was a bit harsh

MJBOLT:

the lady should have shown courtesy by greeting,what Osas187 did is right.
You cannot act like someone doesn't exist and expect the person to help you.

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