bazooka1:

Why won't he spill it? He is not a talented goalkeeper. This bunch is the worst set of goalkeepers we have every produced to a major tournament.

Prime Akpeyi laughs at this your comment

Stormtrooper11:
I feel Nigeria should start onyekuru against Egypt

At this point the coach should start anyone he trust

They should just get us the results and that’s all

Oasis001:


I think so.

Its uzoho

ChrisKels:


Pastors and so called prophets can be manipulative and they tend to feed on your fears. I don't trust them, they lie a lot. Were you having those dreams before or after the warnings from people?

Very true my brother.

I remember one reaching out to my mother when I was about getting married with visions of I won't have kids if I go ahead to marry my wife and the family name won't be carried on bla bla bla as the only son.

I replied her that I don't mind not having biological kids and I choose to do life with her regardless.

Long story short, we have twins as our first.

I invited the prophet to come witness the naming ceremony sef.

forgiveness:



Which keeper bi dat?!

Uzoho

Papi85:
Hello house, abeg e get issue wey Dey bother me here for the past 1 week now which I would love to share to get opinion and advise

I am in love with a lady whom I wish to settle down with and already visited her place for introduction on the 28th of last month. Her family welcomed me and her father was pleased to see me for the first time saying he have heard a lot about me

Let me say that I hv told a lot of pple of my plans and I must confess that 80% out of 100 warned me seriously not to proceed and if I do that it won’t end well

But the biggest problem now is that the lady in question is from arondizogu in ideato north and many of my kinsmen and relative hv been warning me not to move ahead with my plans on getting married to the lady because of her origin. She is from ndiuche in arondizongu and from my personal findings the result I got about the place is terrifying and at this point I am confused. Hv not been able to sleep for the past few nights

Is there anyone that knows arondizogu very well here?

Reading through the comments on this, I can see that your fear about marrying her steams from her family background.
Like elyte89 said, there's a saying in Yoruba land that one can have a bad wife but not bad in-laws..
How much influence do you think the girl's family will have over her when you eventually marry her? Shebi u are based abroad? How about you help her relocate there too and be away from her family?

But the most important thing you should consider is whether this girl truly loves you as much as you love her, and if she exhibit any kind of character you think might pose a problem for you later on.

andrewbaba44:

At this point the coach should start anyone he trust
They should just get us the results and that’s all

Even Musa ?

komekn:


First of all is there anything I have said that's untrue.

I understand bias in the negative to mean, distorted, inequitable, unfair , not balanced and discriminatory negative.

Every day you hype him anything he does is classed is excellent , he takes a free kick that's technically poor and you say world class.

Would you give the same accolades and commendations to Lukaku as you would with Joe Linton ( Newcastle) or would you do the same with Trent Alexander and Ritchie at (Newcastle) in comparison.

So why would you want me to give someone the same accolades when they have dramatically different level of achievement. One outstanding and the other abysmal.

You want me to be favourably biased and talk up a player and exaggerate his attributes to the point of deceit. WHY

In other words you want me to be favourably biased but untruthfully.

Sorry NO

It's not about whether what you say about him is true or not. It's not about being favorably or unfavorably biased towards him. It's the frequency of your criticism that is exhausting. That's why I said, you no dey tire? Everybody knows he's in the Spanish lower division, everybody knows he as at today he's yet to live up to his potentials.
I have never spoken positively or negatively about Nwakali. All I've said is that since he's been invited he should be given an opportunity to play and let's see what he makes of it.

Papi85:
bro I don’t want to spill the girls fault because I myself do hv flaws as well. No one is perfect and even with her flaws I still made the move of going to her place to familiarize myself with her family

My fear is how almost everybody I hv told about my intentions advised and cried that I should back out. Even prophesies from 3 different men of God came and all were pointing at one direction which is negative

My bro I truly love this girl with all my heart but in a situation where friends and family who should be happy that I am about settling down instead are crying and begging me to back out it’s no good sign

Also as a man I hv been seeing the signs both physically and spiritually but hv been stubborn about it because I love this girl to a fault

I am an only son and my greatest fear is making mistakes when taking a life partner

It is hard to say . Take a walk! Brain over emotion.

Papi85:
Hello house, abeg e get issue wey Dey bother me here for the past 1 week now which I would love to share to get opinion and advise

I am in love with a lady whom I wish to settle down with and already visited her place for introduction on the 28th of last month. Her family welcomed me and her father was pleased to see me for the first time saying he have heard a lot about me

Let me say that I hv told a lot of pple of my plans and I must confess that 80% out of 100 warned me seriously not to proceed and if I do that it won’t end well

But the biggest problem now is that the lady in question is from arondizogu in ideato north and many of my kinsmen and relative hv been warning me not to move ahead with my plans on getting married to the lady because of her origin. She is from ndiuche in arondizongu and from my personal findings the result I got about the place is terrifying and at this point I am confused. Hv not been able to sleep for the past few nights

Is there anyone that knows arondizogu very well here?

You remind me of my mom warning to my uncle her junior brother.

She warn him not to marry from TIV tribe he did not listen, he went ahead and got the girl pregnant, my mom take him to the village to my grandma. My grandma told my mom that the woman in question has already give birth to a son for my uncle so there is no need to separate them. My mom objected, she said she has been with this people for more than thirty years she knows the in an out of this people.


My uncle went ahead and marry this woman, when the attack start coming it was unbelievable, first there poison him the same people who welcome him with open hands poison him we rushed him to the village, then when the second attack came he could not with stand it. Although she gave
birth to four boys in a marriage that spam for ten years before my uncle died, two of the boys are with my mum, one with my aunt and the last with her.

I did not mention the part where my uncle was paying money to her wife family every year, i did not even mention the promiscuous life of my uncle wife when he was alive and after his death.


Your kinsmen can't just wake up and say you should not marry from a particular place No! is what there have seen and experience of life makes them took such decision

Danielnino00:


Even Musa ?

Lol if dem start musa nothing I fit do nah ,Na to just support the team ,e no get anybody wey even want musa to start

This one wey musa play well against Cotonsport

jieta:
You remind me of my mom warning to my uncle her junior brother.

She warn him not to marry from TIV tribe he did not listen, he went ahead and got the girl pregnant, my mom take him to the village to my grandma. My grandma told my mom that the woman in question has already give birth to a son for my uncle so there is no need to separate them. My mom objected, she said she has been with this people for more than thirty years she knows the in an out of this people.


My uncle went ahead and marry this woman, when the attack start coming it was unbelievable, first there poison him the same people who welcome him with open hands poison him we rushed him to the village, then when the second attack came he could not with stand it. Although she gave
birth to four boys in a marriage that spam for ten years before my uncle died, two of the boys are with my mum, one with my aunt and the last with her.

I did not mention the part where my uncle was paying money to her wife family every year, i did not even mention the promiscuous life of my uncle wife when he was alive and after his death.


Your kinsmen can't just wake up and say you should not marry from a particular place No! is what there have seen and experience of life makes them took such decision

tnks bro

Papi85:
bro I don’t want to spill the girls fault because I myself do hv flaws as well. No one is perfect and even with her flaws I still made the move of going to her place to familiarize myself with her family

My fear is how almost everybody I hv told about my intentions advised and cried that I should back out. Even prophesies from 3 different men of God came and all were pointing at one direction which is negative

My bro I truly love this girl with all my heart but in a situation where friends and family who should be happy that I am about settling down instead are crying and begging me to back out it’s no good sign

Also as a man I hv been seeing the signs both physically and spiritually but hv been stubborn about it because I love this girl to a fault

I am an only son and my greatest fear is making mistakes when taking a life partner

A pastor once told me and I quote, "you can go ahead and marry her, I won't tell you not to but what I am seeing, you will regret marrying her in future. So pray to God yourself for guidance and pray to God to cause a quarrel that can't be settled if truly she is not your wife to be".
And this I did and within 1 month, the quarrel that happened shake the both families and till today the both families still sees and treats each others as sore enemies.
For my dad who seemingly liked her when he was alive to appear to me in my dream 3 days after his final burial and warned me about marrying the girl, that was when I finally made up my mind to back out.

My brother, don't listen to people that would tell you if it's your family and friends that will stay with her, majority of them might have seen things that they don't want to tell you.

So my brother, you marry her or not, the both of you will still live because the both of you were separately living and living happily I supposed before the both of you met.

So, brother, from experience, and with all you have said, I will tell you not to marry her and run for your life.

I wish you well

andrewbaba44:


Lol if dem start musa nothing I fit do nah ,Na to just support the team ,e no get anybody wey even want musa to start

This one wey musa play well against Cotonsport

Musa has never had a good AfCon. He was woeful in 2013 with his blonde hair, still woeful in 2019, let's see how he does now.

jieta:
You remind me of my mom warning to my uncle her junior brother.

She warn him not to marry from TIV tribe he did not listen, he went ahead and got the girl pregnant, my mom take him to the village to my grandma. My grandma told my mom that the woman in question has already give birth to a son for my uncle so there is no need to separate them. My mom objected, she said she has been with this people for more than thirty years she knows the in an out of this people.


My uncle went ahead and marry this woman, when the attack start coming it was unbelievable, first there poison him the same people who welcome him with open hands poison him we rushed him to the village, then when the second attack came he could not with stand it. Although she gave
birth to four boys in a marriage that spam for ten years before my uncle died, two of the boys are with my mum, one with my aunt and the last with her.

I did not mention the part where my uncle was paying money to her wife family every year, i did not even mention the promiscuous life of my uncle wife when he was alive and after his death.


Your kinsmen can't just wake up and say you should not marry from a particular place No! is what there have seen and experience of life makes them took such decision

aside the signs I hv been seeing both spiritually and physically many told me that pple from the girls place don’t stay in their husbands house, they are promiscuous, strong hearted and fetish

That it is very difficult to bend their women and for peace to reign that the man hv to take a back sit as a weakling while the woman attains the role of the head

Baba me na lion and a very stubborn person so I rather remain single than give up my pride and position as a man

Even this mentioned behaviors I must confess I do notice it in her most especially the issue of been hardened/strong hearted

She is very stubborn as well and a type that when offended she finds it difficult to forgive unless I involve my sister or friend or even her elder sis and bro. It’s takes 2-3 days to appease her when ever I wrong her with constant begging

Also the word ‘sorry’ is not in her dictionary

Sugarboyy:

A pastor once told me and I quote, "you can go ahead and marry her, I won't tell you not to but what I am seeing, you will regret marrying her in future. So pray to God yourself for guidance and pray to God to cause a quarrel that can't be settled if truly she is not your wife to be".
And this I did and within 1 month, the quarrel that happened shake the both families and till today the both families still sees and treats each others as sore enemies.
For my dad who seemingly liked her when he was alive to appear to me in my dream 3 days after his final burial and warned me about marrying the girl, that was when I finally made up my mind to back out.

My brother, don't listen to people that would tell you if it's your family and friends that will stay with her, majority of them might have seen things that they don't want to tell you.

So my brother, you marry her or not, the both of you will still live because the both of you were separately living and living happily I supposed before the both of you met.

So, brother, from experience, and with all you have said, I will tell you not to marry her and run for your life.

I wish you well

tnks bro

ChrisKels:


Musa has never had a good AfCon. He was woeful in 2013 with his blonde hair, still woeful in 2019, let's see how he does now.

ChrisKels:


You know the girl more than they do. Now, ask them to tell you why they don't want you to go there.

If you were not a Christian, I would have suggested that you run consultations(igba afa) on her head to see if the road clear or not.

Me, I won't settle with a woman without thorough consultations, not what people say or believe.

If the signs are bad, back off. Mail me their reasons and the signs if you wish.

You are a traditionalist and I like that. I like the Igbo concept of Chi the physical representation of which is the ikenga. It's empowering.
Late Prof Sophie Oluwole did quite a lot in explaining yoruba cosmology. She's on YouTube

Papi85:
okay bro tnks a lot

It’s heart wrecking but my mental well being and happiness in the future weighs more than the pain I am going through currently

I no with time I will heal and the rightful person for me God will make her surface in no distant time

Thanks all for your advice and contribution

Wishing you all the best

Papi85:
aside the signs I hv been seeing both spiritually and physically many told me that pple from the girls place don’t stay in their husbands house, they are promiscuous, strong hearted and fetish

That it is very difficult to bend their women and for peace to reign that the man hv to take a back sit as a weakling while the woman attains the role of the head

Baba me na lion and a very stubborn person so I rather remain single than give up my pride and position as a man

Even this mentioned behaviors I must confess I do notice it in her most especially the issue of been hardened/strong hearted

She is very stubborn as well and a type that when offended she finds it difficult to forgive unless I involve my sister or friend or even her elder sis and bro. It’s takes 2-3 days to appease her when ever I wrong her with constant begging

Also the word ‘sorry’ is not in her dictionary

The part you said she is very difficult and finds it difficult to forgive unless you involve your sister or even her elder sister or bro is a very big red flag .

Different advice have been given to you here by different monikers

Good luck to you bro .

.

Hope the caf medical team conducting covid -19 test are not involve in cutting corners becos burkinafaso and Senegal team are protesting their covid test results becos of key players will be missing in their opening matches. Let awaits the Nigeria team test before making any conclusion. Just imagine telling us some of our key players have covid.

Mujtahida:

You are a traditionalist and I like that. I like the Igbo concept of Chi the physical representation of which is the ikenga. It's empowering.
Late Prof Sophie Oluwole did quite a lot in explaining yoruba cosmology. She's on YouTube

Yes, I am though I was born a Catholic, and sent to the best Catholic and one of best secondary schools in Nigeria "Order of the Monks - Marist Brothers" just so I could be taken away from my traditional roots because they saw the signs even before my birth. Lol I started serving mass in the Catholic church as a little kid and I served till I left the university( I can still serve till tomorrow, if I wish to because I love it), but then, I knew who I was all along. I love the Catholic church due to its doctrines that somehow align with the teachings of African traditional religion.

I'm not one who trashtalks other religions but I still Accord Christianity its respect because of the Catholic Church.

I just love the traditional way of life where I observe my Chi, Ndi mmiri( what you call the marine world), Ajala(mother Earth), anyanwu na Agbara, onye uwa(incarnate) and others.

Make peace with your Chi and your heart will know enormous peace.

Napoli have announced that Osimhen has tested negative for Covid-19 and will return to Italy..

ChrisKels:


Yes, I am though I was born a Catholic, and sent to the best Catholic and one of best secondary schools in Nigeria "Order of the Monks - Marist Brothers" just so I could be taken away from my traditional roots because they saw the signs even before my birth. Lol I started serving mass in the Catholic church as a little kid and I served till I left the university( I can still serve till tomorrow, if I wish to because I love it), but then, I knew who I was all along. I love the Catholic church due to its doctrines that somehow align with the teachings of African traditional religion.

I'm not one who trashtalks other religions but I still Accord Christianity its respect because of the Catholic Church.

I just love the traditional way of life where I observe my Chi, Ndi mmiri( what you call the marine world), Ajala(mother Earth), anyanwu na Agbara, onye uwa(incarnate) and others.

Make peace with your Chi and your heart will know enormous peace.

no knack person jazz here oo

Papi85:
no knack person jazz here oo

Idíat!

You have been misled by dem clergies who lied to you that the traditional way of life is evil.

Lol! I don't knack jazz because I'm not evil, but I have ofor na ogu that fights my battles.
I will never wish a fellow man death, but if you wish me death, as long as you walk this Earth and you drink water. The earth will hunt you down, and the water you drink will become poison to you. That is just it. I believe in egbe belu... and whoever said we shall not live, shall take a leave before us to go find out what life looks like at the other side

Dem no dey telli person. Majority of failed marriages today showed red flags during courtship but many turned blind eyes to it. When the trouble go start for marriage na body go tell you. I'm very sure you won't forgive yourself especially when you remember that you saw the red flags and had the opportunity to avoid it. I'm not a proponent of clan/community stereotyping, but Arondizuogu, Ohafia, Abiriba, Arochukwu in the Igbo land have some spiritual configuration that only them and their people understands best. It is usually dangerous for outsiders (Non indigene) to venture to those places without due diligent investigation. Make God no let person go carry him head go magnet more problems in the name of marriage. Finally before you marry as a man, please it is not enough to know the girl alone, you must also understand her friends, and family view/mentality on issues before considering the marriage. Just like in football, her family and friends are the Technical directors/coaches through which the tactics she will be dishing out in marriage will come from.

On this note, I welcome everyone to this year's Afcon.. I can't wait for kick off. Abeg if you know of any medium through which I can stream live Afcon matches online, biko share..

andrewbaba44:


The part you said she is very difficult and finds it difficult to forgive unless you involve your sister or even her elder sister or bro is a very big red flag .

Different advice have been given to you here by different monikers

Good luck to you bro .

ChrisKels:


Yes, I am though I was born a Catholic, and sent to the best Catholic and one of best secondary schools in Nigeria "Order of the Monks - Marist Brothers" just so I could be taken away from my traditional roots because they saw the signs even before my birth. Lol I started serving mass in the Catholic church as a little kid and I served till I left the university( I can still serve till tomorrow, if I wish to because I love it), but then, I knew who I was all along. I love the Catholic church due to its doctrines that somehow align with the teachings of African traditional religion.

I'm not one who trashtalks other religions but I still Accord Christianity its respect because of the Catholic Church.

I just love the traditional way of life where I observe my Chi, Ndi mmiri( what you call the marine world), Ajala(mother Earth), anyanwu na Agbara, onye uwa(incarnate) and others.

Make peace with your Chi and your heart will know enormous peace.

Lol you be things.

I like your perspective, is good we have people who still practice our old traditional way of life.

Danielnino00:
Napoli have announced that Osimhen has tested negative for Covid-19 and will return to Italy..

scammers

Danielnino00:
Napoli have announced that Osimhen has tested negative for Covid-19 and will return to Italy..

Na so.

Make Nigeria call am to replace Igahlo jare

johnchima007:
Dem no dey telli person. Majority of failed marriages today showed red flags during courtship but many turned blind eyes to it. When the trouble go start for marriage na body go tell you. I'm very sure you won't forgive yourself especially when you remember that you saw the red flags and had the opportunity to avoid it. I'm not a proponent of clan/community stereotyping, but Arondizuogu, Ohafia, Abiriba, Arochukwu in the Igbo land have some spiritual configuration that only them and their people understands best. It is usually dangerous for outsiders (Non indigene) to venture to those places without due diligent investigation. Make God no let person go carry him head go magnet more problems in the name of marriage. Finally before you marry as a man, please it is not enough to know the girl alone, you must also understand her friends, and family view/mentality on issues before considering the marriage. Just like in football, her family and friends are the Technical directors/coaches through which the tactics she will be dishing out in marriage will come from.

On this note, I welcome everyone to this year's Afcon.. I can't wait for kick off. Abeg if you know of any medium through which I can stream live Afcon matches online, biko share..

From the bolded, stereotypically, where did you place Ezeagu Igbudu, especially Iwolo?

andrewbaba44:


At this point the coach should start anyone he trust

They should just get us the results and that’s all

Exactly, chief.