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Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by BigBashiru: 12:39pm On Jan 11, 2022
emonis88:
Lol!!! Wo seh na eye lash, makeup n nails make u dey trip before, y r u complaining now, na wetin u see go marry her , she dey maintain for u. Olodo kuku carry ur cross cus na u use ur money go marry d cross. U think say na eye lash, makeup n nails makes a wife? Hahaha!!!!!!!!

People marry fine girls because the bible says you should not do immorality, fornication, adultery etc... they said its one man to one woman all their life which is why men especially the religious go for someone fine so that they can be committed to the fine girl all their life...

The culprit is condemnation of polygamy.... if polygamy were allowed, men would marry a good woman even if they dont find her so attractive and then have a side mistress that is a slay queen..... (without sinning tho by vetting the woman).

So for men to liberate themselves from marrying slay queens, they have to liberate themselves from the idea that having a girlfriend while married is wrong....in effect, na too much church dey worry us...
Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by CSTRR: 12:43pm On Jan 11, 2022
It's like nairaland is filled with people that grew up in Finland or Sweden.

The wokeness in this place is too much.
Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by zakkxx: 12:46pm On Jan 11, 2022
Na you de give her money go buy demonic hair, eye lashes and make-up!! My brother don’t give her money for that nonsense!! Buy her expensive bags and shoes make she no think na stingy Man U be!! Don’t subscribe for that Dstv!! Any woman wearing those wigs will always act abnormal!!!
Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by Myke99: 12:48pm On Jan 11, 2022
Fred166:
I married my beautiful wife January this year, I Love my wife so much, I have never cheated on her since we got married. I opened a business for her worth 900k. i've already promised her a car this coming year (well I ride camry muscle and I'm tired of sharing the car with her).

My wife is too lazy, all she cares about is her eye lashes, make-up, nails and watching Zeeworld all day, She goes to her shop 10am and return 3pm, She barely take care of the house. Sometimes the plate I used for breakfast before going to work would still be on the dining table unwashed when I return. Her make-up tools and bag littered everywhere in our sitting room.

We're expecting our 1st child, Now that She's pregnant (4 months) she's worst. Na so so chop chop, I will jokingly say babe Pls don't go out of shape I won't look ur side again, Is like the more I beg, the more she chop chop. ...weird food carvings. Coconut water and bread, shawarma and pepper soup with sugar cane in her hand, I dare not buy it for her otherwise I won't sleep.

I still cook when I'm back from work. Anytime I tried to talk to her, she would say can't I see she's pregnant, she's having waist pain, leg pain, Infact body pains. I wanted to employ a maid she refused, she spoke ill about maids, she said they are husband snatchers e.t.c.

3 days ago, She asked me to renew our dstv sub and I refused. Yesterday I noticed she has done it (first time). I saw her watching Zeeworld, laughing sheepishly and pointing to the TV, I needed to watch man united match so I changed the channel, she dragged the remote control from me and changed it back to Zeeworld, she said I'm too stingy, I didn't sub for her, I refused to buy her a car.

I don't know what to do. With her lazy attitude I'm scared during delivery she would be saying I can't push o.

Experienced men help a brother.

Bro don’t judge her yet She’s pregnant.after she put to bed. Few month later she will definitely turn up for good
Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by pastillon: 12:49pm On Jan 11, 2022
Oga nor vex oh, but you know all these things na before you put her for house.
Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by godofuck231: 12:51pm On Jan 11, 2022
Slag queen, another name for low class olulosho
Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by PeachtreeReside(f): 12:51pm On Jan 11, 2022
Go for marriage counselling with a qualified non-religious counsellor.


Most ladies live with their heads in the clouds of fake life .


She needs to get her acts together ASAP so your kids won't be airhead.


She doesn not want a help yet can't keep the house clean.


I smell business opportunity...


Clean houses for families weekly and charge them...



The marriage can still be redrawn and made to work like a formidable alliance if she is intuitive...
Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by advanceDNA: 12:55pm On Jan 11, 2022
NapoleonHill:


Una no dey read. He said his wife is against it.
I read it....that’s my solution..
My wife cannot be dirty, refuse to clean house and also tell me I can’t get a maid....


Haba!! that’s witch craft naaa.
Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by UncleKoboko: 1:02pm On Jan 11, 2022
DontBullshitMe:
Another "Seun must not starve" story.

BS
Exactly grin
Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by jameel6: 1:02pm On Jan 11, 2022
I accept the fact she is lazy and unkept but even if you want to correct her is it now that she is pregnant for your baby you want to do that?
All pregnant women eat alot, they crave many things. My advice to you is that ne calm down let her deliver safely them you still her down and discuss
Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by Epitectus(m): 1:07pm On Jan 11, 2022
Employ a house keeper to help out with the house chores, that's your only option
Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by Decryptor(m): 1:10pm On Jan 11, 2022
Fred166:
I married my beautiful wife January this year, I Love my wife so much, I have never cheated on her since we got married. I opened a business for her worth 900k. i've already promised her a car this coming year (well I ride camry muscle and I'm tired of sharing the car with her).

My wife is too lazy, all she cares about is her eye lashes, make-up, nails and watching Zeeworld all day, She goes to her shop 10am and return 3pm, She barely take care of the house. Sometimes the plate I used for breakfast before going to work would still be on the dining table unwashed when I return. Her make-up tools and bag littered everywhere in our sitting room.

We're expecting our 1st child, Now that She's pregnant (4 months) she's worst. Na so so chop chop, I will jokingly say babe Pls don't go out of shape I won't look ur side again, Is like the more I beg, the more she chop chop. ...weird food carvings. Coconut water and bread, shawarma and pepper soup with sugar cane in her hand, I dare not buy it for her otherwise I won't sleep.

I still cook when I'm back from work. Anytime I tried to talk to her, she would say can't I see she's pregnant, she's having waist pain, leg pain, Infact body pains. I wanted to employ a maid she refused, she spoke ill about maids, she said they are husband snatchers e.t.c.

3 days ago, She asked me to renew our dstv sub and I refused. Yesterday I noticed she has done it (first time). I saw her watching Zeeworld, laughing sheepishly and pointing to the TV, I needed to watch man united match so I changed the channel, she dragged the remote control from me and changed it back to Zeeworld, she said I'm too stingy, I didn't sub for her, I refused to buy her a car.

I don't know what to do. With her lazy attitude I'm scared during delivery she would be saying I can't push o.

Experienced men help a brother.

Na this kind of unsexy attitude dey make men cheat outside.
Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by keypha1: 1:11pm On Jan 11, 2022
your still bathing from your stomach, make I kill her or force her to eat what she don't like, so that I will call my self a man.
ariesbull:
and tomorow you go call yourself a man


Chai
Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by Decryptor(m): 1:14pm On Jan 11, 2022
Landmack:
It’s obvious those that married for beauty are the ones sending epistles and gracing the FP of Nairaland. Single men better open ur eyes and learn from these guys.

After marrying big ass,big breast,fine face and pointed nose..u come back here to disturb us with marital questions.
Since Christmas on NL all we have been reading is reports by husbands of slay queens

Oga chill! It goes beyond beauty! It's all about home training and composure. There are furgly women who would even do worse.
Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by Jamesbiodun(m): 1:16pm On Jan 11, 2022
Na shedibalabala you marry this January...
Don't you know her behavior before you get Married
There are some problems some people go just go use their hand drag angry

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Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by BigBashiru: 1:24pm On Jan 11, 2022
Decryptor:


Oga chill! It goes beyond beauty! It's all about home training and composure. There are furgly women who would even do worse.

The % of furgly women who would do worse is low.....

Slay Queens and fine girls are used to receiving a lot of attention from men.... hv up to 25 men giving them moni at any given point in time and trying to date them....so they have gotten used to it and that standard and level and hence cannot accept less than a rich man since they are already used to men chasing them and giving them money.
Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by medriano: 1:31pm On Jan 11, 2022
CrownOfClay724:
These things you all come to share here daily.
I find most of them too simplistic and hard to swallow.
I understand conflicts about Money. I understand conflicts about career growth and home management. I understand conflicts about religious inclinations.
But I don't understand how basic care , respect and affection becomes such a hard work.

Can a reasonable grown human being act this dastardly without thinking of the effect of their actions on their spouses?

Take that you're even siblings and she's your younger one. Can she be so inconsiderate to act this way?




You ought to have seen this in the dating phase.

A lot of them actually see the signs “red flags” but they don’t care as long as she’s beautiful....that’s all that matters to them.
Some meet great women but just cos they are slayers, they are not woke and good enough.
One thing I’ve cone to understand is that a lot of guys are easily deceived by what you see on the outside.
Pay attention to details, no matter how little. It’s save you from making grave mistakes.

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Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by franchasng: 1:33pm On Jan 11, 2022
NovesaTillie:
You married a slay queen like me and you want her to be a full wife Material undecided

You don't have many options now than to make do with the content in the package you came home with.
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by Dagger111(m): 1:41pm On Jan 11, 2022
NovesaTillie:
You married a slay queen like me and you want her to be a full wife Material undecided

You don't have many options now than to make do with the content in the package you came home with.


You will seriously like doggy and i wish to give you some. What can i prepare in place? wink
Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by benqo01(m): 1:41pm On Jan 11, 2022
You all saying the OP knew all that before getting married to her,for me its plain stupidity
It can happen to anyone,see people change after marriage
IF tell u how my bro wife for the first time she met my mum she dey crawl dey greet,after marriage her true colour show omo fear that gender
Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by frozen70(f): 1:44pm On Jan 11, 2022
MPESA:



God bless you abundantly,if he like make take this your advice if no like make him leave am .

God bless you too

Some men are too weak that's why some women work on them

Women are more wiser and they know how to detect a weak man

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Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by Walkee: 1:45pm On Jan 11, 2022
Fred166:
I married my beautiful wife January this year, I Love my wife so much, I have never cheated on her since we got married. I opened a business for her worth 900k. i've already promised her a car this coming year (well I ride camry muscle and I'm tired of sharing the car with her).

My wife is too lazy, all she cares about is her eye lashes, make-up, nails and watching Zeeworld all day, She goes to her shop 10am and return 3pm, She barely take care of the house. Sometimes the plate I used for breakfast before going to work would still be on the dining table unwashed when I return. Her make-up tools and bag littered everywhere in our sitting room.

We're expecting our 1st child, Now that She's pregnant (4 months) she's worst. Na so so chop chop, I will jokingly say babe Pls don't go out of shape I won't look ur side again, Is like the more I beg, the more she chop chop. ...weird food carvings. Coconut water and bread, shawarma and pepper soup with sugar cane in her hand, I dare not buy it for her otherwise I won't sleep.

I still cook when I'm back from work. Anytime I tried to talk to her, she would say can't I see she's pregnant, she's having waist pain, leg pain, Infact body pains. I wanted to employ a maid she refused, she spoke ill about maids, she said they are husband snatchers e.t.c.

3 days ago, She asked me to renew our dstv sub and I refused. Yesterday I noticed she has done it (first time). I saw her watching Zeeworld, laughing sheepishly and pointing to the TV, I needed to watch man united match so I changed the channel, she dragged the remote control from me and changed it back to Zeeworld, she said I'm too stingy, I didn't sub for her, I refused to buy her a car.

I don't know what to do. With her lazy attitude I'm scared during delivery she would be saying I can't push o.

Experienced men help a brother.
marry second wife
Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by AmadinFestus: 1:48pm On Jan 11, 2022
Fred166:
I married my beautiful wife January this year, I Love my wife so much, I have never cheated on her since we got married. I opened a business for her worth 900k. i've already promised her a car this coming year (well I ride camry muscle and I'm tired of sharing the car with her).

My wife is too lazy, all she cares about is her eye lashes, make-up, nails and watching Zeeworld all day, She goes to her shop 10am and return 3pm, She barely take care of the house. Sometimes the plate I used for breakfast before going to work would still be on the dining table unwashed when I return. Her make-up tools and bag littered everywhere in our sitting room.

We're expecting our 1st child, Now that She's pregnant (4 months) she's worst. Na so so chop chop, I will jokingly say babe Pls don't go out of shape I won't look ur side again, Is like the more I beg, the more she chop chop. ...weird food carvings. Coconut water and bread, shawarma and pepper soup with sugar cane in her hand, I dare not buy it for her otherwise I won't sleep.

I still cook when I'm back from work. Anytime I tried to talk to her, she would say can't I see she's pregnant, she's having waist pain, leg pain, Infact body pains. I wanted to employ a maid she refused, she spoke ill about maids, she said they are husband snatchers e.t.c.

3 days ago, She asked me to renew our dstv sub and I refused. Yesterday I noticed she has done it (first time). I saw her watching Zeeworld, laughing sheepishly and pointing to the TV, I needed to watch man united match so I changed the channel, she dragged the remote control from me and changed it back to Zeeworld, she said I'm too stingy, I didn't sub for her, I refused to buy her a car.

I don't know what to do. With her lazy attitude I'm scared during delivery she would be saying I can't push o.

Experienced men help a brother.
it's a very simple thing. You said she's lazy and she doesn't want you to employ somebody to do it, den you manage it like dat. But my advice to you, always learn to take strict decisions where it matters so as to better your home and ur life especially
Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by girlygirlyMain: 1:55pm On Jan 11, 2022
You got EXACTLY what you bargained for!!!
LMAOOOOOOOOOO....
You like slay queen abi? Enjoy!!!

Una go see babe wey dey hustle because she no wear lace wig una go shun am...
You never see something. Day don break!!!


Fred166:
I married my beautiful wife January this year, I Love my wife so much, I have never cheated on her since we got married. I opened a business for her worth 900k. i've already promised her a car this coming year (well I ride camry muscle and I'm tired of sharing the car with her).

My wife is too lazy, all she cares about is her eye lashes, make-up, nails and watching Zeeworld all day, She goes to her shop 10am and return 3pm, She barely take care of the house. Sometimes the plate I used for breakfast before going to work would still be on the dining table unwashed when I return. Her make-up tools and bag littered everywhere in our sitting room.

We're expecting our 1st child, Now that She's pregnant (4 months) she's worst. Na so so chop chop, I will jokingly say babe Pls don't go out of shape I won't look ur side again, Is like the more I beg, the more she chop chop. ...weird food carvings. Coconut water and bread, shawarma and pepper soup with sugar cane in her hand, I dare not buy it for her otherwise I won't sleep.

I still cook when I'm back from work. Anytime I tried to talk to her, she would say can't I see she's pregnant, she's having waist pain, leg pain, Infact body pains. I wanted to employ a maid she refused, she spoke ill about maids, she said they are husband snatchers e.t.c.

3 days ago, She asked me to renew our dstv sub and I refused. Yesterday I noticed she has done it (first time). I saw her watching Zeeworld, laughing sheepishly and pointing to the TV, I needed to watch man united match so I changed the channel, she dragged the remote control from me and changed it back to Zeeworld, she said I'm too stingy, I didn't sub for her, I refused to buy her a car.

I don't know what to do. With her lazy attitude I'm scared during delivery she would be saying I can't push o.

Experienced men help a brother.
Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by seyz91(m): 2:02pm On Jan 11, 2022
I tell you
Jidemoo:
My brother....you see that Zeeworld of a TV channel...wetin e don cause don many

I always collect remote control from my sisters whenever they switch to that channel...

Once a lady gets addicted to it...fiam,she will lose her composure
Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by Hassanmaye(m): 2:03pm On Jan 11, 2022
LesbianBoy:


Can you imagine! Men are becoming stupid by the day o. shocked shocked shocked shocked

No wonder women are now shouting equality up and down! Because they have seen that they can use the head of men
Lol so many stupid men
Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by SKINDOGGY: 2:04pm On Jan 11, 2022
Fred166:
My parents didn't train me to be a woman beater.

Pls Help.

So u can't be a man in ur home without beating ur beautiful wife?
Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by Sheriman(m): 2:09pm On Jan 11, 2022
Brush1:


Bro, the wired thing about the zee world is that it's the most unintelligent channel. I once decided to see a drama and it was like a child's play. A person who had just died appears in the next scene smiling, too many unintelligent concepts.
Zeeworld channel is for the brainfish people
Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by Allisgud: 2:12pm On Jan 11, 2022
He has said it already,I marry my beautiful wife in January
Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by Nobody: 2:16pm On Jan 11, 2022
Why will an intelligent someone be watching zeeworld? It's for people with low IQ. I move...

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Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by zomby(m): 2:26pm On Jan 11, 2022
Fred166:
I married my beautiful wife January this year, I Love my wife so much, I have never cheated on her since we got married. I opened a business for her worth 900k. i've already promised her a car this coming year (well I ride camry muscle and I'm tired of sharing the car with her).

My wife is too lazy, all she cares about is her eye lashes, make-up, nails and watching Zeeworld all day, She goes to her shop 10am and return 3pm, She barely take care of the house. Sometimes the plate I used for breakfast before going to work would still be on the dining table unwashed when I return. Her make-up tools and bag littered everywhere in our sitting room.

We're expecting our 1st child, Now that She's pregnant (4 months) she's worst. Na so so chop chop, I will jokingly say babe Pls don't go out of shape I won't look ur side again, Is like the more I beg, the more she chop chop. ...weird food carvings. Coconut water and bread, shawarma and pepper soup with sugar cane in her hand, I dare not buy it for her otherwise I won't sleep.

I still cook when I'm back from work. Anytime I tried to talk to her, she would say can't I see she's pregnant, she's having waist pain, leg pain, Infact body pains. I wanted to employ a maid she refused, she spoke ill about maids, she said they are husband snatchers e.t.c.

3 days ago, She asked me to renew our dstv sub and I refused. Yesterday I noticed she has done it (first time). I saw her watching Zeeworld, laughing sheepishly and pointing to the TV, I needed to watch man united match so I changed the channel, she dragged the remote control from me and changed it back to Zeeworld, she said I'm too stingy, I didn't sub for her, I refused to buy her a car.

I don't know what to do. With her lazy attitude I'm scared during delivery she would be saying I can't push o.

Experienced men help a brother.

Baba, you may need to take it easy.
1. She is currently pregnant...not fair to say she is lazy
2. She still works, she is not a house wife...so, reduce your expectations
3. Currently you guys do not have maid, therefore, it isn't fair to automatically expect her to turn into one. Furthermore, there is absolutely nothing wrong with cooking for both of you from time to time.
4. If she thinks female maids are husband snatcher, find a male maid that isn't wife snatcher
5. The woman is pregnant, she has a lot going on physically, mentally and emotionally... therefore, talking about her body shape or her eating habit at this time may not be a good idea. GIVE HER A BREAK!
6. Is there any reasons why your refused to pay for the DSTV?


I think the problem here may be you. You need to simmer down and start preparing yourselves for the new baby, because things do not get better with the addition of a new baby. Just chill out, give peace a chance, embrace your wife, get a male maid and please pay for the DSTV.
It makes no sense to embrace problems that can be resolved before things get out of hand
Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by Gospel2Day: 2:29pm On Jan 11, 2022
This is the result when you marry a woman ONLY for her beauty and curves and NOT for her character and hardwork and cleanliness.
You have married her so carry your cross and endure the pains.
God will help you cope.
For those of you who are not yet married reading this, keep looking for curves o, you hear. You will carry your cross ALONE.
Shalom.

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