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You inflicted pain on your wife because of konji...wow

The law has not been fully ratified yet so currently you cannot legally rape your wife

By the way, na mumu dey marry.

Single men get better sex and better variety than married men.

I read a thread on married men discussing the length they go to activate coitus with someone they are legally married with and I had to spit. God forbid bad thing.

But the woman sef. .
Say no to rape.

Christinaog:
Men are scum

It’s not men are scum anything
He doesn’t understand female psychology
He doesn’t know what’s going on

If only he understands women and hypergamy he won’t have only one woman.
This is how women treat good men
Deny them sex etc.
Some form of evil is sexy in females subconscious
Someone like Jim Iyke or Timini Egbuson for example won’t have this type of problem

It’s most women that are terrible to be honest
@Noah9 you don’t know what’s going on
At what age did she get married to you ?
She’s lost attraction for you
She chose to start up drama where there’s none
Better go do paternity test
Her vagina has gone very dry for you bro.
She doesn’t find you sexually attractive

You need to study animals and their behaviour too
You’ve apologized, then let her be if she doesn’t want to talk to you.
Don’t reward bad behaviour
Na she wan use her hand spoil the marriage

Build muscles, abs, money & get other women.
Stop telling women your problems because they will never understand the male struggle same way we will never truly understand painful menstruation because we don’t experience it.
Never tell your wife or children your problems
You can talk to your close male friends about frustrating issues.
Women lose attraction for a man once he acts emotional, most of them have very skewed reasoning
When you overvalue a woman this is how she will treat you.
DM me if you need help
Stop wasting your time being emotional about the situation because na you go marry am in the first place
Won’t be surprised if she cheats on you with the way you’re acting
Most women will pick the devil over God if they were both in human form
You married a selfish woman and not a cooperative one
Many married men globally are facing this predicament, it’s funny because this is never spoken about pre-wedding . Na you go marry am, society has lied to men for decades

Honey moon is over, her true colour don come out. I truly hope you were not scammed by some pretentious ho just to get married
Good luck though, if you like continue begging her she’d find you disgusting real soon
Lesson to single guys, make una shine eye choose better woman not some manipulative pretender or headache
Sad you married a bad woman that will make you deviate from the 10 commandments

AntiMCU:
Seems like marriages these days is synonymous with sexual starvation.

At least, our forefathers had polygamy (options) for issues like this.

Which forefathers? My dad had 3 wives and a girlfriend that had a child. The spare tyres were many and all over Nigeria. No woman will do this rubbish with me, I won't even give her the chance self. Rubbish.

First thing first.

What did you actually do that made her starve you of sex?

This may be the genesis because starving you of your conjugal right is negligence of matrimonial duty in itself

See the exact way you showed remorse here, show it to her. Show genuine remorse but don't think forgiveness will come immediately. Give her time so wounds can heal naturally. Goodluck

Noah9:
Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?

I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.

Please Help Me.

Why are you wasting time what are side chicks, there for, If a Married woman denies her husband having sex with her, Oga check her phone her Ex-boyfriend still dey give her lamba

Noah9:
Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?

I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.

Please Help Me.

Any man, that can be manipulated by any woman using sex, wife or no, is a great fool! There are countless ways you should have handled that situation that will get her begging you for sex forever. At this juncture, you have lost your manhood to vj and only temporary separation can restore it, not mere begging.

na dem

KiNg0G:
how did you feel when your raping her?
your own wife you married with your money


this set of men needs to be killed.

Noah9:
I have apologized. I even bought a little gift along side but I saw them inside the trash nylon bag when I came back from work.

I haven't eaten good meal for some days now. Just meat-pie and juice or indomie.

I don't know what to do. I'm truly sorry about my actions.

If she is tired of the marriage... Move on

finding pleasure outside is better than this ur offence.
if she decides not be a sister and you don't want to be a poor. After several attempts, oga cheat.

May God put you thru o.

sha no go rape another person again

@ Noah9, Please cheat on her before you turn yourself to a monster.

Give her time to travel. Travel if you can

na dem

Christinaog:
Men are scum

You for kuku hire side chick o.. Now you don go abuse ya wife.. Now even if she love you 2% before, everything now don go 0%..
Just try to make her understand that you didn't want to cheat on her.. And that she should not see it as rape,but love. You wanted her so badly that day..

You should have told us before you raped her .Anyway what you did is very wrong and you should apologize and probably buy her something to make her happy
Nonetheless i will advice you to find a side chick to satisfy your sexual urge,deny you a sex for a month as a married man is very wrong,infact its a crime because most single wont even stay that long without sex let alone a married man,so i am sure she wont blame you if she catch you cheating and if she blames you,it means you need to divorce her
Shes kind of wicked.

Omo
U did the right thing.
If she refuse again. Move out and get another wife.
Dont feel remorse. How on earth will have a wife at home and be starved of sex. Sex is food to men. Anyone who calls u scum is the scum here.

Christinaog:
Men are scum

I blive ya papa ,ya sons dey among.

Noah9:
Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?

I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.

Please Help Me.

Nollywood

How does one rape his wife
I am not understanding you paid bride price na
Oga it's impossible to rape your own wife don't let all those people yarning dust deceive you

Hmmm… first of all, give Her sometime.

Please give me some time, I’ll come back to finish.

Noah9:
Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?

I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.

Please Help Me.

You didnt rape her, she has no right to deny u sex no matter what so far she is healthy, what will be her reaction if u stop providing for the family wen u have the means, women keep pushing their husband to commit extra marital affair and they will still complain.

Noah9:
Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?

I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.

Please Help Me.

Oro buruku tounterin! It means bad words comes alongside laughter! This matter is so complicated that I don’t even know what to say oh! What really came over you that day! Should I say it’s konji or you drank something! My dear bro,kindly keep texting forgiveness messages to her and let her realize it won’t occur again! If she still decides to stay on her own! Kindly give her breathing space to be cool and am sure she will still talk to you! Don’t force her to speak what’s on her mind oh,doing that might make Matter worse oh!

ibechris:
Both of are u wrong and you messed up the whole situation but in fact,u didn't marry a good wife but a pretender if I may say.

Submissiveness is the hall mark of a descent woman.

There is simply no submissiveness in that woman. How do u justify her hoarding sex in marriage, in a weddedhome?. Her action could have made u to commit adultery which is still possible if the situation doesn't change.

Both of you need to talk extensively and if it worths involving her family,u had better do it fast before it goes out of hand.

Wishing u the best as u put situation under control.

Only reasonable reply so far.

Christinaog:
Men are scum

women are what?

If she really hate you or despise you she for don Japa from your house with your daughter, she is still nursing the pain you caused her and when she bounce back she go tell you her mind either by action or words, just get ready because women hardly forgive and forget

Firstly my guy, you are not a real man for raping you wife. I am on your shoe, my wife denied me for a 2 solid month, i just hold unto myself. You should not see s*x as something really too important, see it as something just a bit necessary.

Secondly, you might have opened door for hatred in the heart of your wife, so you need to find a way to plead to her and beg her, because it might open door for something unusual too....


Goodluck my guy

na dem see dem . follow their word as a woman at ur own peril

InTheCloudySky:
1. It doesn't matter if you're dating someone, or are married, no means no. Whether na your babe or wife, rape is rape and is a crime in both instances.

2. Learn to read. He said "recently", meaning her refusal is recent, not over a long period. Even if it were over a long period (which isn't the case), the right thing to do would've been talk to her or seek professional help together to get to the root of the matter, not abuse and rape her. Forcing anyone to have sex with you, whether na your babe or wife = rape.

Noah9:
Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?

I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.

Please Help Me.

Next time go to brothel and ease yourself of konji and wait for the day it will come from her mind for you to do it or turn her down too.
It is stupid for you to have done this.

Beside try and buy her gift and use that to get sex

Christinaog:
Men are scum

Including your father, your brothers, uncles, male cousins and every male in your generation. Since you generalize, let me help you do it well.

Noah9:
Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?

I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.

Please Help Me.

You shouldn't have slapped her. You should have talk to her about it and tell her when you want her to give you that hole A MUST or else you go your separate ways THATS ALL. Relationship of nowadays isn't about love. It's about what they stand to gain IN FACT love exist nowhere DO NOT BE A FOOL.

Chances are she was getting it from someone else. When they start getting distant like that, chances are hey are cheating. Not saying I know the reason why she would be cheating but most likely you drove her into the other man's arms. You should have just taken your time to investigate, catch her in the act.
Anyways you cant cry over spilled milk. She is sad now. Romance her like you are dating again she will come around. She might even reveal that she liked it rough.