₦airaland Forum

TheGidRedpiller:
The men in my mail are not young husbands brother but they are confining in a young nobody who only spreads hate and toxicity on nairaland! WHY I'm that person they can talk to, because nobody around them wants to give a fvvck about their marital pains, if they come out in public to complain, they will just be termed as weak!

Felimax:
Not the men! Bleep off! You got something to prove? Tell us with your own experience. I told my story tell yours. How many relationship have you been into? How many has failed.
What is your practical ideology about union? We are distinctively unique in almost every ramifications of life. Just as you have failed marriages, so there are lots of doing well marriages as well.
Keep your opinions to yourself and let people marry in peace. Stop been a shit hole. You are confuse and deluded and you have no qualification to disregard men who are happily married.

Slayar:
The OP speaks the truth. Except we want to decieve ourselves. Modern world is rigged against men. If you accept what the society of today tells you as a man,you're doomed.

Real men are going extinct.

okoroemeka:
it is how you start and the foundation you lay at the start will determine how you are treated,if you try so hard to please everyone ,be Mr yes and have no say of your own,then the odds of controlling your marriage is not in your favour,a minimum of two years courtship is highly adviced these days, within that space a smart man can decipher 60-70% of his babes character and see if they are compatible,I laugh when I read this anti-marriage posts,if this red Piller op is from my umunna in imo state and not yet married at 35-40yrs,hmmmm,it is not even thinkable to reach 40 yrs without a wife in our family,everyone will still regard you as a teenager, whether you have refinery or rolls Royce it doesn't matter.

TheGidRedpiller:
This is one bitter truth everyone has to digest whether they like it or not. I'm being specific about this age we are in.
Most of them wished they never even met their wives not to talk of marrying them and the rest wished they never even considered marriage in the first place!
Women will want to exploit the leverages they have in the 21st century, they want their opinions to count even when it is baseless and most times one-sided.
The women of this age only know how to wh0re not handle men, they love the idea of marriage but none of them want to be wives!
You are not wrong to refer them as household demons because they will torture you emotionally and psychologically. The worst part of the situation is that you as a man don't really have a choice, you have fallen in the trap by signing those marriage documents and you are completely stuck with the devil for life!
Still Typing...

alphaNomega:
I may not know you in real life, but the day you get married it would be a shame onto yourself...

You decide not to get married yet you want to have children? To be raised by whom? A deadbeat father or the community boys?

You are bitter and have no one to tell you

Slayar:
The OP speaks the truth. Except we want to decieve ourselves. Modern world is rigged against men. If you accept what the society of today tells you as a man,you're doomed.

Real men are going extinct.

Czario:
Lol...but why do married men like to hype their marriages even when it's obvious they're not that happy especially when advising single guys.. ?

I know a guy who can't stand his wife and serially cheats on her but he can bullshit about how great his marriage is when advising younger men.

Too many married men like him...why can't they just be real

PS I'm really happy for the genuinely happy ones...

TheGidRedpiller:
How do you think people will see your friend if he comes out to say he's suffering in his marriage
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Saturn444:
This boy dedicates precious time fooling around and no one is advising him.

Saturn444:
Yes, what I am saying is that you can not condemn all great women who have lived successfully with their husbands and children even till their death because of some random prostitutes that you have encountered.

I have had bad relationships and have great ones and still happily married without any reasons for doubts.

So you are inexperienced and may be unlucky in your choices especially since you are not equipped to look for women with occupation but to dine with slay queens.

With regards to spirituality, that's shit, I am tLking about root races. it is the root of your crisis, not knowing your roots means you do not know your friendly domain hence choice of women becomes canal.

You will suffer hardships until you know your root, I am not Religious, so Bleep religions.

ExcelDBM:
Keep quiet there. First advise yourself

TheGidRedpiller:
I always loose focus, its your choice to pick out the message, its also your choice to wander in your ignorant bliss!

TheGidRedpiller:
This is one bitter truth everyone has to digest whether they like it or not. I'm being specific about this age we are in.
Most of them wished they never even met their wives not to talk of marrying them and the rest wished they never even considered marriage in the first place!
Women will want to exploit the leverages they have in the 21st century, they want their opinions to count even when it is baseless and most times one-sided.
The women of this age only know how to wh0re not handle men, they love the idea of marriage but none of them want to be wives!
You are not wrong to refer them as household demons because they will torture you emotionally and psychologically. The worst part of the situation is that you as a man don't really have a choice, you have fallen in the trap by signing those marriage documents and you are completely stuck with the devil for life!
Still Typing...

Alusiizizi:
They say the truth is bitter but must be told. This is the truth about modern marriages. The truth is the red pill and the red pill is a bitter pill to swallow. At the same time swallowing the red pill is a matter of choice. [s] Marriage and a life of useless slavery or freedom and a chance to attain glory and position? [/s] The choice is yours.

Dangrace01:
How do mean by knowing your root please explain i want to learn

TheGidRedpiller:
To all the married simps in this thread, before you go ahead calling me a boy or terming me as INEXPERIENCED, ask yourself this question; Are You In Advantage More Than Your Wives?
Answer this question first, then we can continue the arguement from there.

GetMeRight:
I'm a married man. I'm not living in regret. The only thing I cherish most in this life right now is my wife, and I didn't sign any document.

luvyaself95:
The person you doesn't know you're here saying he is fooling around nawa for oh

TheGidRedpiller:
How many years?

GetMeRight:
Yes, I'm. This is Nigeria, not USA or UK or Canada.

GetMeRight:
A decade now, 10 years. Throw your theory because I've seen how you're coming up with different theories for different individuals. Lol

TheGidRedpiller:
Did you understand the question before you answered?

GetMeRight:
I do. May be I would have said no if I'm not in Nigeria but in Nigeria, I'm sure I am

Felimax:
I dated for almost five years and has been in marriage for more than five years now. Yes, marriage is tough and not for kids but with the right wisdom and know how marriage has been my best decision so far.
I love my wife because of the level of person I found in her and so far so good I have no regret.
Last month, we went out together dancing and flexing our Union together.
When you are not married just shut up and stop making a fool out of yourself.
Marriage is the only thing you don't learn from outside.
Do you know how it feels when your angel look at you in the eyes and say in her next life if any, she still want to get married to you? Then you know you are a real man.
Continue typing, I am reading.

phemorhino:
Enter small financial difficulties for 1year and aee how it plays out

TheGidRedpiller:
This is one bitter truth everyone has to digest whether they like it or not. I'm being specific about this age we are in.
Most of them wished they never even met their wives not to talk of marrying them and the rest wished they never even considered marriage in the first place!
Women will want to exploit the leverages they have in the 21st century, they want their opinions to count even when it is baseless and most times one-sided.
The women of this age only know how to wh0re not handle men, they love the idea of marriage but none of them want to be wives!
You are not wrong to refer them as household demons because they will torture you emotionally and psychologically. The worst part of the situation is that you as a man don't really have a choice, you have fallen in the trap by signing those marriage documents and you are completely stuck with the devil for life!
Still Typing...

player007:
Me Charles i am I enjoying my own Marriage. My only regret is no getting married earlier.

ElijahIme1992:
The problem why there so many failed marriages today, is because we no longer seek the face of God before we commit...Ppl tink it's irrelevant and out dated wen I tell Dem...I just smile and keep quiet