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Good morning lander’s I will make my explanation very snappy

I have the two ladies in my life the first one I met her before I gained admitted into the university and have known her while I was working at my work place close to her house she’s really really a decent girl even despite gaining admission into the same university I graduated from when I met her she has a boyfriend which I kept my distance and respected my feelings and not to cause or create any issues towards her relationship with her man due to my presence

Her elder brother schools in at the same university i school I accommodated him cos he’s a good dude and have no issue at all they are cool and easy going people in their family I love her sister like I love and wish she’s mine

Mind you I don’t womanize and I hardly do things or kinda easily develop feelings for ladies

So fast forward I met this second girl via this my first girl elder brother who has to be in the same department with him so we started talking and she developed feelings for me and along the line I kinda of developed small feelings for her but not to compare to the First Lady

I tried my best not to let the two ladies know I have feelings for them but something happened the First Lady has issues with her man and they broke up and I have been the one always having her back in terms of difficulty and hard time mind you she doesn’t have male friends or female friends as much to say she’s an introvert and always indoor

While the second girl has tones of male friends around her

Now I want to date and I’m confused mind you the First Lady has everything it take when you looking for a wife material she’s caring understanding and prayerful brilliant and intelligent she will be graduating this year while the second lady has graduated and she’s doing her internship but one naira I no dey collect from her

And she never cares to ask me how do I cope
Mind you I earn 6figures
Whereas the First Lady is still a student but she’s willingly to spend or support me whenever she has but sadly she recently lost her mom to cancer last month .
I don’t want to date for fun I want to date for marriage purposes

I kindly need your advise

Note: I’m not a simp and I don’t really want anything relating to that thank you

Go for the first lady,she's sincere and a good wife material but be sure she's fully detached from her boyfriend to avoid stories that touch.As for the second lady,what is she doing around boys like that?Mtcheww

How did ' I'm not a simp ' find it's way into this matter?




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doggedfighter:
How did ' I'm not a simp ' find it's way into this matter?




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lolz.

Y'all think feminism is something eh? Wait till after redpill has grown

What's a simp got to do with this

nellyzkid:
Good morning lander’s I will make my explanation very snappy

I have the two ladies in my life the first one I met her before I gained admitted into the university and have known her while I was working at my work place close to her house she’s really really a decent girl even despite gaining admission into the same university I graduated from when I met her she has a boyfriend which I kept my distance and respected my feelings and not to cause or create any issues towards her relationship with her man due to my presence

Her elder brother schools in at the same university i school I accommodated him cos he’s a good dude and have no issue at all they are cool and easy going people in their family I love her sister like I love and wish she’s mine

Mind you I don’t womanize and I hardly do things or kinda easily develop feelings for ladies

So fast forward I met this second girl via this my first girl elder brother who has to be in the same department with him so we started talking and she developed feelings for me and along the line I kinda of developed small feelings for her but not to compare to the First Lady

I tried my best not to let the two ladies know I have feelings for them but something happened the First Lady has issues with her man and they broke up and I have been the one always having her back in terms of difficulty and hard time mind you she doesn’t have male friends or female friends as much to say she’s an introvert and always indoor

While the second girl has tones of male friends around her

Now I want to date and I’m confused mind you the First Lady has everything it take when you looking for a wife material she’s caring understanding and prayerful brilliant and intelligent she will be graduating this year while the second lady has graduated and she’s doing her internship but one naira I no dey collect from her

And she never cares to ask me how do I cope
Mind you I earn 6figures
Whereas the First Lady is still a student but she’s willingly to spend or support me whenever she has but sadly she recently lost her mom to cancer last month .
I don’t want to date for fun I want to date for marriage purposes

I kindly need your advise

Note: I’m not a simp and I don’t really want anything relating to that thank you

Comrade date the first lady simple

Date the two. Then later on you pick the one that's good for you.

Mehn this is beyond local man logistics

Op I go advice you go for the first one.. Girls way dey get plenty guys as friends believe me she dey Bleep some.. Nah real maters I dey yan you..

Never you date anygirl way dey say I prefer to keep male friends than female friends.. Nah olosho in disguise them be...

Wetin I dey talk self..

I dey come make I suck Jennifer breast am Hot

Date the first and marry her simple as ABC

What made you think people will call you a SIMP....

She broke up and started remembering you,then you were helping her in difficult times...

First Lady Helper but if Na guy now,u go say make him go hustle....

Stick with the one who really cares for you.