Realchairmann:
This is kinda confusing to me. I've been married to my beloveth wife for 11 years and counting. God has blessed us with three kids of ten, four and a year old. We are having a wonderful Union and time of our lifes.

For sometime now, I've been nurturing the idea of relocating abroad. My wife has BSc and MSc in Microbiology but has been jobless since she concluded her NYSC the year we got married. I'm ready to sponsor her for PHD to any country of her choice to pave way for I and the kids to follow later.

However, she has turned me down whenever I brought up the issue. Her response is always tied around the bond we share and that she can't just leave her kids and travel abroad.

I have a good paying job but I really want her to explore her potentials too. She's a very good wife and an excellent mother but I'm confused why she's skeptical about leaving this Country.

Or am I the one taking too much risk?

Realchairmann:
This is kinda confusing to me. I've been married to my beloveth wife for 11 years and counting. God has blessed us with three kids of ten, four and a year old. We are having a wonderful Union and time of our lifes.

For sometime now, I've been nurturing the idea of relocating abroad. My wife has BSc and MSc in Microbiology but has been jobless since she concluded her NYSC the year we got married. I'm ready to sponsor her for PHD to any country of her choice to pave way for I and the kids to follow later.

However, she has turned me down whenever I brought up the issue. Her response is always tied around the bond we share and that she can't just leave her kids and travel abroad.

I have a good paying job but I really want her to explore her potentials too. She's a very good wife and an excellent mother but I'm confused why she's skeptical about leaving this Country.

Or am I the one taking too much risk?

Kobojunkie:
Your wife has a masters and has been jobless for 11 years. Does she even harbor desires to obtain a PhD on top of what she has so far, or are you the one making that decision for her to obtain a PhD as well?

You want her to explore her "potentials" but why aren't these "potentials" explorable with the masters she currently has?

If she don't want to go abroad for PhD,and assuming it is her desire to begin with, what is wrong with paying for her to obtain one right there in the country?,

faithfull18:
Not everyone wants to permanently relocate abroad, some people just want to go and come back from time to time.

Realchairmann:
This is kinda confusing to me. I've been married to my beloveth wife for 11 years and counting. God has blessed us with three kids of ten, four and a year old. We are having a wonderful Union and time of our lifes.

For sometime now, I've been nurturing the idea of relocating abroad. My wife has BSc and MSc in Microbiology but has been jobless since she concluded her NYSC the year we got married. I'm ready to sponsor her for PHD to any country of her choice to pave way for I and the kids to follow later.

However, she has turned me down whenever I brought up the issue. Her response is always tied around the bond we share and that she can't just leave her kids and travel abroad.

I have a good paying job but I really want her to explore her potentials too. She's a very good wife and an excellent mother but I'm confused why she's skeptical about leaving this Country.

Or am I the one taking too much risk?

Realchairmann:
[s]This is kinda confusing to me. I've been married to my beloveth wife for 11 years and counting. God has blessed us with three kids of ten, four and a year old. We are having a wonderful Union and time of our lifes.

For sometime now, I've been nurturing the idea of relocating abroad. My wife has BSc and MSc in Microbiology but has been jobless since she concluded her NYSC the year we got married. I'm ready to sponsor her for PHD to any country of her choice to pave way for I and the kids to follow later.

However, she has turned me down whenever I brought up the issue. Her response is always tied around the bond we share and that she can't just leave her kids and travel abroad.

I have a good paying job but I really want her to explore her potentials too. She's a very good wife and an excellent mother but I'm confused why she's skeptical about leaving this Country.

Or am I the one taking too much risk?[/s]

Realchairmann:
This is kinda confusing to me. I've been married to my beloveth wife for 11 years and counting. God has blessed us with three kids of ten, four and a year old. We are having a wonderful Union and time of our lifes.

For sometime now, I've been nurturing the idea of relocating abroad. My wife has BSc and MSc in Microbiology but has been jobless since she concluded her NYSC the year we got married. I'm ready to sponsor her for PHD to any country of her choice to pave way for I and the kids to follow later.

However, she has turned me down whenever I brought up the issue. Her response is always tied around the bond we share and that she can't just leave her kids and travel abroad.

I have a good paying job but I really want her to explore her potentials too. She's a very good wife and an excellent mother but I'm confused why she's skeptical about leaving this Country.

Or am I the one taking too much risk?

webincomeplus:
It's just cool reading through a thread like this on NL. Mature, civil, and insightful comments all through. A total breakaway from the tribal, religious, and political jabs and battles that have plagued NL lately. Even the usual trolling and "cruise" mongers aren't here. We need more of this.

uthlaw:
if prayer work on everything, no poor man will be poor in Nigeria!

Chuksyno:
The area I agreed with you is her probable insecurity of losing her hubby to another woman.Every other thing is secondary.

ednut1:
The bsc and msc landed her housewife role for 11 years. Now you saying phd. Who will give her phd admission seeing her 11years of doing nothing. Mr man dey use brain na. A woman who is used to be provided for you want her to go struggle and hustle abroad smh

michlins post=109435134[s:
]Before you got married, you should have discussed career goals and know how ambitious each other is.[/s]

If she says she can't go, let her be and you should start working on some other job for her. Don't come and spoil the peace you have in your house. It's very hard to come by

Truvelisback:
No, prayers before effort. Our limited human senses might fail us.

KIDfurniture:
I m one of them . How I go leave Nigeria permanently ? God forbid.. Wetin I wan Dey chop for the abroad ? No nah… I eat only fresh meals here .. no preservatives.. I kill all animals here for consumption

MPESA:




It's not always about us but our kids future as well.

pocohantas:
Your wife has a BSc and Masters, yet she hasn’t worked in 11 years. You want same woman to do PhD? Face it, she isn’t career oriented and I do not mean this as an insult. Just letting you know her type full Nigeria.

The problem is not that she hates abroad. The problem is, she doesn’t want the burden of relocation to be on her. Definitely not via education and work. If you go for it, she would join you and continue being your darling wife.

faithfull18:

Yes, you can birth them there so they have citizenship.

dominique:
Why PhD abroad, why not in Nigeria? If you're not in research or academia, PhD is not needed. Why not encourage her to get some professional certifications or even an MBA. But the questions still remains, why do you suddenly want her out of the country?

MPESA:


Not all get the financial capacity and even with all your money self Visa is not sure , at least not usa, Canada even Brasil self that's doing citizenship by birth.... So there best shot is by schooling or PR to either Canada or Australia.