SoftChordz:
10k monthly... In 2011 a lot behind it.

Not a lot behind it, it was a mindset not to let anything stop me from doing what I needed to do at the time.
Do you know that my wife and I won America visa lottery in 2013 but forfeited it because I didn't have means to raise the money needed for the medicals, lottery fees, flights and so on despite getting interview date and securing the place to stay in USA?
10k wasn't enough, so my little savings from NYSC was complimenting it plus wife's 10k too. The rest is history but some opportunities have gone forever

Reminderz:

which kind of stupid mindset is this? do you actually want them to break up so it can go with you posts? so you can justify yourself... your own version of redpill is actually engraved with hatred.. very stupid

He's a very stupid guy. He's still single with no experience in marriage yet he's dishing out 'advice' to experienced married men. That guy will still die of bitterness, frustrated and high blood pressure. All because of hatred for the female gender.

GetMeRight:


Not a lot behind it, it was a mindset not to let anything stop me from doing what I needed to do at the time.
Do you know that my wife and I won America visa lottery in 2013 but forfeited it because I didn't have means to raise the money needed for the medicals, lottery fees, flights and so on despite getting interview date and securing the place to stay in USA?
10k wasn't enough, so my little savings from NYSC was complimenting it plus wife's 10k too. The rest is history but some opportunities have gone forever

bro u try ooo, forfeiting that lottery must have been madt like wetin... Nawaoooo lack of money na bastarddd oo

SoftChordz:
bro u try ooo, forfeiting that lottery must have been madt like wetin. .. Nawaoooo lack of money na bastarddd oo

Not gonna lie, that shiit still haunt me till today. My first kid would have eventually become a USA citizen one day, she was 6 months at the time and captured in the forms too.
But I'm ready to compensate myself and lessen the effects of that missed opportunity on me by sponsoring her education abroad, USA precisely. I must try my best and she's extremely brilliant too. I shouldn't have problem accomplishing that.