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I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by Dominion791(m): 9:04pm On Jan 20, 2022
I had sex for the first time last night (I'm a guy) but I couldn't ejaculate. I wasn't getting much pleasure from it and by the looks of things neither was she. Also I couldn't get as hard as when it's just me on my own doing my thing. Is there something wrong with me? Do I just need more practise? More pre-intimacy maybe? Help
Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by Nobody: 9:05pm On Jan 20, 2022
Doing your own thing as in?
When you masturbate?

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Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by smartasuen(m): 9:07pm On Jan 20, 2022
Flahyuq:
Doing your own thing as in?
When you masturbate?

That's definitely what 'doing his own thing' would mean, either that or watching hard porn.

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Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by Dominion791(m): 9:08pm On Jan 20, 2022
Flahyuq:
Doing your own thing as in?
When you masturbate?

Yes lol
Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by Nobody: 9:10pm On Jan 20, 2022
fool stop fornication

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Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by Nobody: 9:10pm On Jan 20, 2022
Stop watching porn

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Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by Jesslove(f): 9:11pm On Jan 20, 2022
Either you were very nervous or you might be gay. Have a little think about why you wasn't as turned on as you are when going solo.

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Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by Nobody: 9:13pm On Jan 20, 2022
Dominion791:
I had sex for the first time last night (I'm a guy) but I couldn't ejaculate. I wasn't getting much pleasure from it and by the looks of things neither was she. Also I couldn't get as hard as when it's just me on my own doing my thing. Is there something wrong with me? Do I just need more practise? More pre-intimacy maybe? Help

Grind Cameroon pepper and garlic mixed together and rub on your manhood for seven days

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Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by brosom(m): 9:13pm On Jan 20, 2022
No dude u re absolutely ok.

It's normal for some first timers, talking from experience bro it happened to me too..

So nothing is wrong with u, u re ok dude chills cool.

No allow anybody tell u this and that oo, like I said u dey ok.

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Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by Godada(m): 9:14pm On Jan 20, 2022


It appears that both you and the lady are inept at the job at hand.

No enough pleasuring.

No enough lubrication.

No enough erection

The sordid is bound to go sideways.

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Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by Dbrawllm0098(f): 9:15pm On Jan 20, 2022
Perhaps you were nervous? What did your girlfriend say? Maybe you need to take things slowly and not rush into a physical relationship just yet.

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Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by Dominion791(m): 9:17pm On Jan 20, 2022
bukky1994:
Stop watching porn

I don't watch porn
Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by Nobody: 9:17pm On Jan 20, 2022
Dominion791:


Yes lol

Stop masturbation
Stop killing yourself
Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by Dominion791(m): 9:21pm On Jan 20, 2022
brosom:
No dude u re absolutely ok.

It's normal for some first timers, talking from experience bro it happened to me too..

So nothing is wrong with u, u re ok dude chills cool.

No allow anybody tell u this and that oo, like I said u dey ok.

Thank God I am normal this is what I want to hear
Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by Dominion791(m): 9:22pm On Jan 20, 2022
Dbrawllm0098:
Perhaps you were nervous? What did your girlfriend say? Maybe you need to take things slowly and not rush into a physical relationship just yet.

It wasn't my girlfriend, just a female friend. She didn't really say much, I think she was a bit dissapointed
Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by Dbrawllm0098(f): 9:25pm On Jan 20, 2022
Dominion791:


It wasn't my girlfriend, just a female friend. She didn't really say much, I think she was a bit dissapointed


Maybe part of the issue was your brain wasn't totally into it as the girl is a friend rather than someone you feel for in a girlfriend way. IE the sexual attraction may not have been enough.
Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by Boogyman557: 9:55pm On Jan 20, 2022
Holly Gram cool real matters on top real MATTERZ


WTF MAN
Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by adedayo77: 10:24pm On Jan 20, 2022
Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.

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Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by CandyOps(m): 10:43pm On Jan 20, 2022
I know it must have felt disappointing for you. Next time if you don't get as hard as you should pull out and get back to sitting position in bed. Tell her it's not working because she isn't playing her role well...

She'll most def ask why, tell her you don't know and you're not going to teach her how to act right in bed. If she presses on which she will, tell her to take your dick in her mouth. Tell her you get hard when it's in the mouth.. and watch her behave
Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by Zaheertyler(m): 12:53am On Jan 21, 2022
Dominion791:
I had sex for the first time last night (I'm a guy) but I couldn't ejaculate. I wasn't getting much pleasure from it and by the looks of things neither was she. Also I couldn't get as hard as when it's just me on my own doing my thing. Is there something wrong with me? Do I just need more practise? More pre-intimacy maybe? Help

.
Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by Gadafii: 1:28am On Jan 21, 2022
Stop masturbation first
Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by Spider20: 1:38am On Jan 21, 2022
Dominion791:
I had sex for the first time last night (I'm a guy) but I couldn't ejaculate. I wasn't getting much pleasure from it and by the looks of things neither was she. Also I couldn't get as hard as when it's just me on my own doing my thing. Is there something wrong with me? Do I just need more practise? More pre-intimacy maybe? Help

Lord have Mercy.....
Mr Bola Ahmed Tinubu be warming up.
Come and deal with insane Nigerians
Spits.............................

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Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by placeofallure(f): 3:29am On Jan 21, 2022
Dominion791:
I had sex for the first time last night (I'm a guy) but I couldn't ejaculate. I wasn't getting much pleasure from it and by the looks of things neither was she. Also I couldn't get as hard as when it's just me on my own doing my thing. Is there something wrong with me? Do I just need more practise? More pre-intimacy maybe? Help


How old are you?
Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by snitchbitch: 6:01am On Jan 21, 2022
the penis cap is the most sensitive part of the male organ, so all you just have to do after first round is to just tickle it,

you can use a little oil or vaseline on the penis cap,

if you dont know the penis cap, its the red swolen uppermost part of the penis rod,

after first round, you dont need to masturbate,

if the penis is not hard, it wont enter the pxssy, we all know that

so just rub the penis cap till it gets hard again and put it inside her and continue fxcking

but be careful, dont fxck on an empty stomach

you must have eaten very well and good food ooooo!

because if you no eat very well, you no fit do pass only two rounds before you go collapse


and also replenish your body with fruits like WATERMELON( eat am with the seeds), it make you regain erection very very quickly,

buy TIGER NUT, AYA OR DABINU , DATES and coconut and eat them! they are very good for man power,

dont allow your babe to just lie on her back missionary style for the whole day,

tell her to position for doggy style, you will enjoy it

or tell her to ride you cowgirl style, or tell her to stand touch the wall with her palms and push her bum bum backwards for you to enter from the back, YODI style


sex is not stress, its knowledge and experience

the more you sleep with women, the more you learn how to fxck them better


ehen and lastly, USE CONDOM!


#ITISWELL!

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Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by ikemesit4477: 6:33am On Jan 21, 2022
snitchbitch:
the penis cap is the most sensitive part of the male organ, so all you just have to do after first round is to just tickle it,

you can use a little oil or vaseline on the penis cap,

if you dont know the penis cap, its the red swolen uppermost part of the penis rod,

after first round, you dont need to masturbate,

if the penis is not hard, it wont enter the pxssy, we all know that

so just rub the penis cap till it gets hard again and put it inside her and continue fxcking

but be careful, dont fxck on an empty stomach

you must have eaten very well and good food ooooo!

because if you no eat very well, you no fit do pass only two rounds before you go collapse


and also replenish your body with fruits like WATERMELON( eat am with the seeds), it make you regain erection very very quickly,

buy TIGER NUT, AYA OR DABINU , DATES and coconut and eat them! they are very good for man power,

dont allow your babe to just lie on her back missionary style for the whole day,

tell her to position for doggy style, you will enjoy it

or tell her to ride you cowgirl style, or tell her to stand touch the wall with her palms and push her bum bum backwards for you to enter from the back, YODI style


sex is not stress, its knowledge and experience

the more you sleep with women, the more you learn how to fxck them better


ehen and lastly, USE CONDOM!


#ITISWELL!
Say no to hard drugs!
Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by juniorstar(m): 7:19am On Jan 21, 2022
Dominion791:
I had sex for the first time last night (I'm a guy) but I couldn't ejaculate. I wasn't getting much pleasure from it and by the looks of things neither was she. Also I couldn't get as hard as when it's just me on my own doing my thing. Is there something wrong with me? Do I just need more practise? More pre-intimacy maybe? Help

Anxiety.
Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by Myexdisturbs: 7:33am On Jan 21, 2022
MeatSeller:
You're experiencing that because it your first time having contact with a woman...your body will get use to it with time but make sure it just with one person ooo. Don't go about fornicating
So with one person it is no more formication? grin

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Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by Mario1989(m): 8:26am On Jan 21, 2022
For this TINUBU REGIME, all you think of is fornication... Chai, there is God o

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Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by Dominion791(m): 8:39am On Jan 21, 2022
snitchbitch:
the penis cap is the most sensitive part of the male organ, so all you just have to do after first round is to just tickle it,

you can use a little oil or vaseline on the penis cap,

if you dont know the penis cap, its the red swolen uppermost part of the penis rod,

after first round, you dont need to masturbate,

if the penis is not hard, it wont enter the pxssy, we all know that

so just rub the penis cap till it gets hard again and put it inside her and continue fxcking

but be careful, dont fxck on an empty stomach

you must have eaten very well and good food ooooo!

because if you no eat very well, you no fit do pass only two rounds before you go collapse


and also replenish your body with fruits like WATERMELON( eat am with the seeds), it make you regain erection very very quickly,

buy TIGER NUT, AYA OR DABINU , DATES and coconut and eat them! they are very good for man power,

dont allow your babe to just lie on her back missionary style for the whole day,

tell her to position for doggy style, you will enjoy it

or tell her to ride you cowgirl style, or tell her to stand touch the wall with her palms and push her bum bum backwards for you to enter from the back, YODI style


sex is not stress, its knowledge and experience

the more you sleep with women, the more you learn how to fxck them better


ehen and lastly, USE CONDOM!


#ITISWELL!

Great advice , I will do it next time
Re: I Lost My Virginity But I Couldn't Ejaculate by motionarena: 9:17am On Jan 21, 2022
Dominion791:
I had sex for the first time last night (I'm a guy) but I couldn't ejaculate. I wasn't getting much pleasure from it and by the looks of things neither was she. Also I couldn't get as hard as when it's just me on my own doing my thing. Is there something wrong with me? Do I just need more practise? More pre-intimacy maybe? Help

normal thing.
First time nervousness.

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