Since some (not all) the females in these discussions tend to go off on one about how men are cheaters, selfish, useless or lazy I thought I'd put the question across to find out why the nice guys willing to be devoted and caring are overlooked for because of either their assets, financial status or physical appearance,

I have no problem with men, I'm a decent looking girl or so I've been told so please don't think this a desperate plea for sympathy. However over the weekend I met a woman who told me she prefers pretty boys with money and a nice car even though the strain is etched on her face!!!

So answer me this whats the first thing you look for in a guy is it status, finance, looks or is it personality and honesty!!! (understandably there needs to be a degree of physical attraction, what about the rest!!!)

Here is the existing answers you may find as follow below:

Why? Why? Why?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-100881.0.html

How Much Should A Man Earn To Sustain A Marriage?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-100149.0.html

7 Reasons Why Females Get Hurt In Relationship
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-94423.0.html

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

Cos the only reason why they are nice is because they look like Baba Suwe.

Ugly people cant afford to be mean. Rofl

Like i have said it depends on the age and stage the woman is at.
Young ones tend to go for the looks etc but if you have been around the block a few times and been hurt, u usually look before you leap.

adeboo:

Like i have said it depends on the age and stage the woman is at.
Young ones tend to go for the looks etc but if you have been around the block a few times and been hurt, u usually look before you leap.

Thats true but mmore enlighten youngsters tend not to go for the good looks. I have from "experience" gotten to know that the "goldfish" guys are not the best but them guys with good morales and prospects. Ciao

uspry1 your are such a loatheful girl but i will leave everyone to judge you by your pin sized brain. You can't hold me down because you can't take the initiative to come up with original materials or at least come with materials that is already there but in a different format, like this forum called nairaland so next time when you copy and paste your lovely links, please be more creative.

uspry loathesome? Not really. She's one of the nicest members. Too nice evn

What's your problem with her

fine if she can't contribute to my post she should just contribute to the other posts and judge a book by the words not colours. I don't consider she being nice to me at all she might be to you, that's my problem with her. if you start original thread some fools will tell you its not in the right section and if its similar material to some other threads the same fool comes up with hyperlinks to thread that are entirely different both in phrase of the question and the wordings.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=101270.msg1780388#msg1780388

actually I think she gave you those links as ANSWERS to your question.

i went to extra ordinary lenght to tell tales of how this issue was not mine but of another woman i met. i would have just copy and paste those links myself but its not industrious, street creds' or book smart, just lazy copy and paste if I'm on a mission to do just that to threads maybe i have started now, i had picked up another bad habit .cheers

D-reloaded:

actually I think she gave you those links as ANSWERS to your question.

@poster

D-reloaded has said it correctedly.

For me to answer your question why do girls/women always overlook the nice genuine boys/men is because most girls/women think nice genuine boys/men are TOO BORING, TOO MUCH ROMANTIC, TOO MUCH AFFECTIONATELY. So girls/women prefer BAD BOYS/PLAYERS/SMOOTH SLICKERS they think that are HOT SEXY ATTRACTIVE.

That is sad! Too many wounded girls/women EVERYWHERE in the world picking wrong boys/men!!!!

There is more answers to your question below:

Why Do Good Girls Love Bad Boys?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-5572.0.html

Why Do Girls Like To Date Scammers?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-99613.0.html

Life Is Cruel Why Do Nice People Finish Last?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-97741.0.html

for the answer you wrote at long last thanks , for all the search, copy and paste you did hopefully they makes you happier and satisfied i can do that without your help when it comes to searching for similar posts to mine

the answers have been provided by uspry 1.all of it
we are learning and adjusting.

@poster,good one.
uspry1 txs hon, for a job welldone.

They do so for fear of un-none,thats all

i think becos most of them have pint size brain. Q.E.D

ifyalways:

the answers have been provided by uspry 1.all of it
we are learning and adjusting.

@poster,good one.
uspry1 txs hon, for a job welldone.

@ Ifyalways, you are welcome.

dot2002:

uspry1 your are such a loatheful girl but[b] i will leave everyone to judge you by your pin sized brain.[/b] You can't hold me down because you can't take the initiative to come up with original materials or at least come with materials that is already there but in a different format, like this forum called nairaland so next time when you copy and paste your lovely links, please be more creative.

Loathful? Why do you say that?

Nobody's judging and generalising about Uspry. Pin-sized brain? I'd say not, she's one of our most intelligent female members here, and that's how we see her.

I'm sure you meant well posting this topic, but it's nice to be appreciative of others too. I for one found the links quite informative, and I'm sure some others did too. Try to be nice and respective of others, you'll get the same back too.

PEOPLE IT IS JUST THE NET!

NO ONE KNOWS WHO IS AT THE OTHER END OF THE COMPUTER.
WHY IS IT THAT PEOPLE ON NL ARE SO QUICK TO CRITICIZE AND DEGRADE OTHERS WHENEVA THEY GIVE THEIR OWN OPINIONS?

IF U LIKE THEIR ADVICES, TAKE IT. . IF U DON'T, MOVE ON TO THE NEXT THREAD, WHY THE INSULT FOR GOODNESS SAKES? WHY CAN'T WE ACT CIVIL AND BEHAVE LIKE HUMAN BEINGS.

AIN'T WE SUPPOSE TO SHARE AND RECIEVE KNOWLEDGE HERE RATHER THAN INSULTS AND NAME CALLINGS. i HAVE NOT BEEN PERFECT MASEF BUT IT IS BECOMING UNBEARABLE AND REALLY MAKES ME WONDER WHAT THE OTHER PERSON AT THE OTHER END OF THE COMPUTER REALLY IS LIKE.

SOME PEOPLE FEEL LIKE THEY JUST KNOW TOO MUCH
SOME PEOPLE JUST MAKE IT THEIR DAILY PRIORITIES TO JUST INSULT OTHERS AS SOON AS THEY POST SUMTHIN
SOME PEOPLE COME HERE TO DEGRADE AND BELITTLE OTHERS
SOME PEOPLE COME HERE TO SHOWCASE THEIR NEW LEARNT ENGLISH/WORD.

ITS A SMALL WORLD AND "WATEVEA GOES AROUND, COMES AROUND". . U NEVA KNOW PEOPLE!

LIKE SIENA SAID 'Try to be nice and respective of others, you'll get the same back too".

IT REALLY IS THAT SIMPLE!

nice mostimes is interpreted as weak, thats why

@post
because most of the nice genuine boys/men are unattractive