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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by Rosaline5000: 12:42pm On Jan 23, 2022
The way you guys write on nairaland is so scary, like who and what HURT YOU.

The way you go to the extreme to bash women and say they are not worth loving even to the extent of your own wife and to think 17 people even liked the post, like what going on in nairaland.
Who are all the boys or men that hate women with passion.
Love is very sweet and amazing, you guys dont know what you are missing out on.
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by finishmatter(op): 12:50pm On Jan 23, 2022
Have you ever given your man 50k?

Rosaline5000:
The way you guys write on nairaland is so scary, like who and what HURT YOU.

The way you go to the extreme to bash women and say they are not worth loving even to the extent of your own wife and to think 17 people even liked the post, like what going on in nairaland.
Who are all the boys or men that hate women with passion.
Love is very sweet and amazing, you guys dont know what you are missing out on.
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by finishmatter(op): 12:55pm On Jan 23, 2022
I will definitely want to know you.
I reckon you need a lot of enlightenment.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Then don't love your wife if you marry one..
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by FERNANDEZISBACK: 12:56pm On Jan 23, 2022
finishmatter:
I will definitely want to know you.
I reckon you need a lot of enlightenment.
Sorry maybe when you grow up..
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by finishmatter(op): 12:59pm On Jan 23, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Sorry maybe when you grow up..
Ok dude.

But you need to be a man.
Just my advice.
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by FERNANDEZISBACK: 12:59pm On Jan 23, 2022
finishmatter:
Ok dude.

But you need to be a man.
Just my advice.
Grow up thanks..
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by finishmatter(op): 1:00pm On Jan 23, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Grow up thanks..
Uwc.
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by bmdmix11: 1:02pm On Jan 23, 2022
RoyalBlu:
Same ol' broken record.
thats means u agree
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by finishmatter(op): 1:13pm On Jan 23, 2022
She definitely knows its the truth
bmdmix11:
thats means u agree
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by Bigpapi: 1:20pm On Jan 23, 2022
finishmatter:
Let's face it: Relationship is purely and solely transactional! Nothing more nothing less.

The saying: "Money for hand, back for ground" captures this reality. And this is true not just for a prostitute but for your wife and girlfriend.

She feels no emotion nor empathy for you. She is in the relationship mainly and solely for the cash and security a man provides.
She will neither contribute financially not encourage you to make money. She meets her end of the bargain of managing the home while you provide the finance to run the home. Failure to meet your end of the transaction (union) will incur her insubordination

Therefore, men are not expected to invest any emotional gesture on her. It is not your job!
Don’t be deceived by societal or religious expectation that you should love your wife. Lies. She does not love you.

Love, affection and care should be both ways. Not one-sided.

Do not invest your emotions/affection on your wife.

A woman’s love is conditional. She does not deserve a man’s unconditional love.

P.S: WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.
I don talk B4 and I go still talk again,if I born girl pikin I go kpai am...................me I don fvck many married women so I can never get married oloun!!!!!
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by Bigpapi: 1:23pm On Jan 23, 2022
Stacyomolola:
U also agree that op's hurt grin
Shey na u and your dog be dis ?

Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by finishmatter(op): 1:43pm On Jan 23, 2022
Stacyomolola:
So if u later on give birth to girls, u will despise them grin
Cruise lords on nairaland grin grin
The goal is to set them on d right path not to despise them.
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by finishmatter(op): 1:56pm On Jan 23, 2022
This is another level dude.
Bigpapi:
I don talk B4 and I go still talk again,if I born girl pikin I go kpai am...................me I don fvck many married women so I can never get married oloun!!!!!
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by finishmatter(op): 2:11pm On Jan 23, 2022
frozen70:
Continue till you see yourself inside bottle
I know this hurts u but it the truth.
If I may ask: have you ever given your man a 100k?
You know it's mostly likely impossible to do that, right?
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by Nobody: 4:33pm On Jan 23, 2022
finishmatter:
Let's face it: Relationship is purely and solely transactional! Nothing more nothing less.

The saying: "Money for hand, back for ground" captures this reality. And this is true not just for a prostitute but for your wife and girlfriend.

She feels no emotion nor empathy for you. She is in the relationship mainly and solely for the cash and security a man provides.
She will neither contribute financially not encourage you to make money. She meets her end of the bargain of managing the home while you provide the finance to run the home. Failure to meet your end of the transaction (union) will incur her insubordination

Therefore, men are not expected to invest any emotional gesture on her. It is not your job!
Don’t be deceived by societal or religious expectation that you should love your wife. Lies. She does not love you.

Love, affection and care should be both ways. Not one-sided.

Do not invest your emotions/affection on your wife.

A woman’s love is conditional. She does not deserve a man’s unconditional love.

P.S: WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.
If you cannot give love, don't expect love and don't expect to be able to recognize love

Just as many men are incapable of love as women
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by frozen70(f): 7:42pm On Jan 23, 2022
finishmatter:
I know this hurts u but it the truth.
If I may ask: have you ever given your man a 100k?
You know it's mostly likely impossible to do that, right?
Is my man crippled
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by Raalsalghul: 8:16pm On Jan 23, 2022
finishmatter:
Have you ever given your man 50k?
grin grin grin

Lol!
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by sayittome(m): 10:51am On Jan 24, 2022
finishmatter:
Not really bro
Ok
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by Mjanee(f): 5:59pm On Jan 24, 2022
finishmatter:
The goal is to set them on d right path not to despise them.
Pele, table setter tongue
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by finishmatter(op): 10:12pm On Jan 24, 2022
Mjanee:
Pele, table setter tongue
If I catch u?
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by Mrscarter(f): 2:16am On Jan 25, 2022
finishmatter:
Let's face it: Relationship is purely and solely transactional! Nothing more nothing less.

The saying: "Money for hand, back for ground" captures this reality. And this is true not just for a prostitute but for your wife and girlfriend.

She feels no emotion nor empathy for you. She is in the relationship mainly and solely for the cash and security a man provides.
She will neither contribute financially not encourage you to make money. She meets her end of the bargain of managing the home while you provide the finance to run the home. Failure to meet your end of the transaction (union) will incur her insubordination

Therefore, men are not expected to invest any emotional gesture on her. It is not your job!
Don’t be deceived by societal or religious expectation that you should love your wife. Lies. She does not love you.

Love, affection and care should be both ways. Not one-sided.

Do not invest your emotions/affection on your wife.

A woman’s love is conditional. She does not deserve a man’s unconditional love.

P.S: WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.
Bs

U aint met a nice woman yet is all.
Not all women are awful
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by sayittome(m): 9:15am On Jan 25, 2022
frozen70:
Is my man crippled
can you imagine?
so u cant give money to someone u claim to love?

The OP is actually right.

Women are intrinsically self.
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by finishmatter(op): 7:54pm On Jan 25, 2022
Now u see my point.
Do women really love their men?

sayittome:
can you imagine?
so u cant give money to someone u claim to love?

The OP is actually right.

Women are intrinsically self.
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by Das1mama: 8:14pm On Jan 25, 2022
Wow, i remember this song.... 'the fact say e no work for Mr A no mean say e no go work for Mr B' ....... Op Every Mallam with his kettle so speak for yourself.
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by finishmatter(op): 8:32pm On Jan 25, 2022
Das1mama:
Wow, i remember this song.... 'the fact say e no work for Mr A no mean say e no go work for Mr B' ....... Op Every Mallam with his kettle so speak for yourself.
I don't think you understand what I wrote.
Also, I will appreciate if you put u comment into perspective cos I don't understand what u are saying.
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by Das1mama: 9:42pm On Jan 25, 2022
finishmatter:
I don't think you understand what I wrote.
Also, I will appreciate if you put u comment into perspective cos I don't understand what u are saying.
Like serious? What i mearnt was that u don't have to generalise some personal issues by saying why men should not love there wives which i state and quote that every man is entitled to his decision making..... Hope u gerit? if u don't 4get abt it.
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by OlawaleBammie: 3:37am On Jan 26, 2022
frozen70:
Is my man crippled
must he be crippled before u can show you care??

That is what we are saying, "hisses"
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by sayittome(m): 1:41pm On Jan 26, 2022
This is why i agree with the OP when he says that Woman Love is Conditional


OlawaleBammie:
must he be crippled before u can show you care??

That is what we are saying, "hisses"
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by finishmatter(op): 2:49pm On Jan 26, 2022
sayittome:
This is why i agree with the OP when he says that Woman Love is Conditional
Ok. Nice one
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by finishmatter(op): 6:22pm On Feb 06, 2022
frozen70:
Continue till you see yourself inside bottle
This is really a threat, you know?
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by finishmatter(op): 7:12pm On Feb 06, 2022
Right on point dude

Nyascobar1414:
Lmaoo...
They are already stooping low(crushin)..
But I turn them down..
Cos when I think about all the shii that comes with females, they dont worth me care...
I take them as trash..
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by finishmatter(op): 1:05pm On Mar 27, 2022
Mjanee:
Pele, table setter tongue
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