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Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by finishmatter: 1:05pm On Jan 21, 2022
Let's face it: Relationship is purely and solely transactional! Nothing more nothing less.

The saying: "Money for hand, back for ground" captures this reality. And this is true not just for a prostitute but for your wife and girlfriend.

She feels no emotion nor empathy for you. She is in the relationship mainly and solely for the cash and security a man provides.
She will neither contribute financially not encourage you to make money. She meets her end of the bargain of managing the home while you provide the finance to run the home. Failure to meet your end of the transaction (union) will incur her insubordination

Therefore, men are not expected to invest any emotional gesture on her. It is not your job!
Don’t be deceived by societal or religious expectation that you should love your wife. Lies. She does not love you.

Love, affection and care should be both ways. Not one-sided.

Do not invest your emotions/affection on your wife.

A woman’s love is conditional. She does not deserve a man’s unconditional love.

P.S: WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.

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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by Psychokinetic: 1:11pm On Jan 21, 2022
finishmatter:
Let's face it: Relationship is purely and solely transactional! Nothing more nothing less.

The saying: "Money for hand, back for ground" captures this reality. And this is true not just for a prostitute but for your wife and girlfriend.

She feels no emotion nor empathy for you. She is in the relationship mainly and solely for the cash and security a man provides.
She will neither contribute financially not encourage you to make money. She meets her end of the bargain of managing the home while you provide the finance to run the home. Failure to meet your end of the transaction (union) will incur her insubordination

Therefore, men are not expected to invest any emotional gesture on her. It is not your job!
Don’t be deceived by societal or religious expectation that you should love your wife. Lies. She does not love you.

Love, affection and care should be both ways. Not one-sided.

Do not invest your emotions/affection on your wife.

A woman’s love is conditional. She does not deserve a man’s unconditional love.

P.S: WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.


Na wa... Who hurt you??!

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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by Kobojunkie: 1:12pm On Jan 21, 2022
Psychokinetic:

Na wa... Who hurt you??!
Excellent question! undecided

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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by Ibaaboy(m): 1:22pm On Jan 21, 2022
Dis fish matter tire me o

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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by RoyalBlu(f): 1:23pm On Jan 21, 2022
Same ol' broken record.

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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by mediainc: 1:23pm On Jan 21, 2022
Life itself is a big ole transaction.

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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by FERNANDEZISBACK: 1:26pm On Jan 21, 2022
Only a blockhead will take your advice.. grin
So you expect married guys on here to take that advice up there..
Keep joking around..let's take this as a joke.. grin

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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by sunny6080: 1:27pm On Jan 21, 2022
true talk....very true.

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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by Nyascobar1414: 3:03pm On Jan 21, 2022
I dont think I'll marry..
I'll get it done like Ronaldo...

Get a girlfriend, give me kids especially boys, I pay you for the job done...

And you GTFOutta my life...

Or I can still marry oo (not sure yet)...
But I'll rebrand you in the way I want, but If you ain't wanna be submissive, so I can mould you in the way I want.. You will kindly GTFOutta my life...

No feelings for the other gender I always find guilt in em (concerning relationships)..

No female I worth a penny(financially or emotionally) from me, except yo share my own blood(sister or mother).

This world is something else...

Though we still have to cheer up for the best in life..
Lmaoo

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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by Boogyman557: 3:19pm On Jan 21, 2022
Holly Gram cool WTF MAN

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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by worldclass68(m): 3:35pm On Jan 21, 2022
Psychokinetic:

Na wa... Who hurt you??!



Its not the matter of hurting someone alone..
That's just the simple truth....




But that girl wey hurt OP mad ooo embarassed

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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by Nobody: 6:05pm On Jan 21, 2022
Nyascobar1414:
I dont think I'll marry..
I'll get it done like Ronaldo...

Get a girlfriend, give me kids especially boys, I pay you for the job done...

And you GTFOutta my life...

Or I can still marry oo (not sure yet)...
But I'll rebrand you in the way I want, but If you ain't wanna be submissive, so I can mould you in the way I want.. You will kindly GTFOutta my life...

No feelings for the other gender I always find guilt in em (concerning relationships)..

No female I worth a penny(financially or emotionally) from me, except yo share my own blood(sister or mother).

This world is something else...

Though we still have to cheer up for the best in life..
Lmaoo
I'll get it done like Ronaldo... grin

As if any woman would stoop low to accept you...

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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by Qatar2022: 6:08pm On Jan 21, 2022
Don't love her but love and protect your interest in that marriage

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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by Stacyomolola(f): 6:11pm On Jan 21, 2022
worldclass68:




Its not the matter of hurting someone alone..
That's just the simple truth....




But that girl wey hurt OP mad ooo embarassed
U also agree that op's hurt grin

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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by Stacyomolola(f): 6:16pm On Jan 21, 2022
Nyascobar1414:
I dont think I'll marry..
I'll get it done like Ronaldo...

Get a girlfriend, give me kids especially boys, I pay you for the job done...

And you GTFOutta my life...

Or I can still marry oo (not sure yet)...
But I'll rebrand you in the way I want, but If you ain't wanna be submissive, so I can mould you in the way I want.. You will kindly GTFOutta my life...

No feelings for the other gender I always find guilt in em (concerning relationships)..

No female I worth a penny(financially or emotionally) from me, except yo share my own blood(sister or mother).

This world is something else...

Though we still have to cheer up for the best in life..
Lmaoo
So if u later on give birth to girls, u will despise them grin
Cruise lords on nairaland grin grin

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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by finishmatter: 6:23pm On Jan 21, 2022
I have definitely not been hurt.
But let's assume so for the purpose of this conversation.

So I have been hurt, and I have learnt from my mistakes and reality has set in.

So, definitely a woman's love is conditional and she is undeserving of a man's affection.
WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.
They are intrinsically selfish.

All men should learn so they don't 'walk in my shoes'

Stacyomolola:

U also agree that op's hurt grin

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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by Stacyomolola(f): 6:29pm On Jan 21, 2022
finishmatter:
I have definitely not been hurt.
But let's assume so for the purpose of this conversation.

So I have been hurt, and I have learnt from my mistakes and reality has set in.

So, definitely a woman's love is conditional and she is undeserving of a man's affection.
WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.
They are intrinsically selfish.

All men should learn so they don't 'walk in my shoes'

Anything u say, u are right grin grin grin
No time to stess

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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by helinues: 6:31pm On Jan 21, 2022
But why should you use your life experiences alone to judge women?

No be everyone is unfortunate with real love

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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by finishmatter: 6:46pm On Jan 21, 2022
Definitely not only my experience.
All men experience this but alot of them are neck-deep in this deception of LOVE.
They are lost and their plight pitiable.

helinues:
But why should you use your life experiences alone to judge women?

No be everyone is unfortunate with real love

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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by sayittome(m): 7:24pm On Jan 21, 2022
Definitely this guy is heart-broken

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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by FERNANDEZISBACK: 7:26pm On Jan 21, 2022
Datboredberry:
I'll get it done like Ronaldo... grin

As if any woman would stoop low to accept you...
I am giggling hard again..the bolded knocked me out ..this is Savage.. grin grin

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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by helinues: 7:28pm On Jan 21, 2022
finishmatter:
Definitely not only my experience.
All men experience this but alot of them are neck-deep in this deception of LOVE.
They are lost and their plight pitiable.


There is different between Love and Lust.. Majority of people irrespective of gender have been experiencing Lust more than Love

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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by Nyascobar1414: 7:39pm On Jan 21, 2022
Datboredberry:
I'll get it done like Ronaldo... grin

As if any woman would stoop low to accept you...

Lmaoo...
They are already stooping low(crushin)..
But I turn them down..
Cos when I think about all the shii that comes with females, they dont worth me care...
I take them as trash..

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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by sayittome(m): 9:09am On Jan 22, 2022
Ibaaboy:
Dis fish matter tire me o

Honestly
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by sayittome(m): 9:10am On Jan 22, 2022
i dey tell u
worldclass68:




Its not the matter of hurting someone alone..
That's just the simple truth....




But that girl wey hurt OP mad ooo embarassed

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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by sayittome(m): 9:12am On Jan 22, 2022
Your buz.
finishmatter:
Let's face it: Relationship is purely and solely transactional! Nothing more nothing less.

The saying: "Money for hand, back for ground" captures this reality. And this is true not just for a prostitute but for your wife and girlfriend.

She feels no emotion nor empathy for you. She is in the relationship mainly and solely for the cash and security a man provides.
She will neither contribute financially not encourage you to make money. She meets her end of the bargain of managing the home while you provide the finance to run the home. Failure to meet your end of the transaction (union) will incur her insubordination

Therefore, men are not expected to invest any emotional gesture on her. It is not your job!
Don’t be deceived by societal or religious expectation that you should love your wife. Lies. She does not love you.

Love, affection and care should be both ways. Not one-sided.

Do not invest your emotions/affection on your wife.

A woman’s love is conditional. She does not deserve a man’s unconditional love.

P.S: WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.


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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by finishmatter: 10:34am On Jan 22, 2022
sayittome:
Definitely this guy is heart-broken
Not really bro

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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by SarutobiEky(m): 10:36am On Jan 22, 2022
Fvck me. Bro might actually be right though.

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Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by finishmatter: 10:48am On Jan 22, 2022
Nice one.
Qatar2022:
Don't love her but love and protect your interest in that marriage
Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by finishmatter: 10:49am On Jan 22, 2022
Just stating the truth
worldclass68:




Its not the matter of hurting someone alone..
That's just the simple truth....




But that girl wey hurt OP mad ooo embarassed

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