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What would you do?

He is your bestie, you both have been together through thick and thin... weathered the storms together and waaxing strong as lovers.

Once upon a time you supported his desire to move his hustle abroad and he travelled to South-Africa, now he's back and he's made it... you figured out through his closest friend, that he engages in
illegal businesses, and one of them was selling hard drugs, of which he didn't open up to you about... and you didn't talk to him about it . And that's because you really don't care because u love him.

Flashing back to how your relationship started... you were pregnant for your runaway ex before he met you, he told you how much he likes you, despite your story of being pregnant for another... he accepted to take care of you from his little earnings as a food vendor until you put to bed, he also accepted taking care the baby after birth.

Fast forward to recent events after his return to South Africa, he was apprehended by the police after he made a drop of hard drugs, he was handcuffed and bundled, and will go to court for trial... and will get a 50years in jail. He is presently doing his time... still counting @ year 3 thus far.

Back to Nigeria... your Ex shows up, expressing remorse, pleading and begging you forgive him... he wants you and the baby... he's ready to ask your hand in marriage.

If you have to advice the lady, what will you tell her to do.

If you are the lady what will you do?

If you are the guy in jail... will you still come back for her if she decides to wait until you finish your time in prison?


What would be the smartest or wisest thing to do here?

Your radio need some rework..
How on Earth do you expect me to wait for a man for 50 good years?
Are you kidding?no man can ever do that..

He's into drugs and he's a criminal so ain't going for him..as for the ex I ain't going for him either..they are both clowns..

Birth my kid and take care of it simple..

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Your radio need some rework..
How on Earth do you expect me to wait for a man for 50 good years?
Are you kidding?no man can ever do that..

He's into drugs and he's a criminal so ain't going for him..as for the ex I ain't going for him either..they are both clowns..

Birth my kid and take care of it simple..

you again

BadRadio:
you again

Exactly oo.. great topic..

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Exactly oo.. great topic..

The first positive thing you've said on Nairaland since 2005

BadRadio:
The first positive thing you've said on Nairaland since 2005

Wetin be this again..2005 to 2011 there were few women bashers on here...

From then upwards too many wannabe redpillers trooped in here..due to my constant attack on them you fail to see my good side..

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Wetin be this again..2005 to 2011 there were few women bashers on here...

From then upwards too many wannabe redpillers trooped in here..due to my constant attack on them you fail to see my good side..

How badly do u want to be famous here... I can make ur moniker trend if u want

BadRadio:
How badly do u want to be famous here... I can make ur moniker trend if u want

I don't need the fame oo..IAM only addressing an issue...

FERNANDEZISBACK:
I don't need the fame oo..IAM only addressing an issue...

I don't think so... you seeking for cheap popularity

BadRadio:
I don't think so... you seeking for cheap popularity

Ok..