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Me and my girl has been friend for over 10 years but distance separate us apart and there is no any romantic relationship between us yet, she is still single and I'm still single, me and her are planning to meet soonest, should we take the relationship to the next level like I mean romantically that will lead to having s*x.

Please a friend of mine just ask me this and he need your advise.

Regards,

Bang her

toujurs:
Bang her

Bangalee nii!

It’s the audacity of the sense of entitlement for me.

Even if we give u..u wont take it.please urself.

Your additional explanation and advice will also be appreciated in this segment, what's your opinion?

Mariangeles:
Bangalee nii!

It’s the audacity of the sense of entitlement for me.

Jahbless03:
Your additional explanation and advice will also be appreciated in this segment, what's your opinion?

Whether you both have sex or not is nobody’s business but the both of you.
She’s the one you should be having the conversation with.
The fact that the both of you have been in the relationship for over ten years should make the conversation easy don’t you think?

Modified: Op, the best decision would be for the both of you to wait until after you’re married.

Mariangeles:
Whether you both have sex or not is nobody’s business but the both of you.
She’s the one you should be having the conversation with.
The fact that the both of you have been in the relationship for over ten years should make the conversation easy don’t you think?

Are you indirectly patronising sex before marriage? I thought you're a child of God. You just misused the opportunity of ministering to the young man the disadvantages of sex before marriage and the consequences. You'll share with his punishment, I believe you know this.

Shalom Mariah.

Kriss216:
Are you indirectly patronising sex before marriage? I thought you're a child of God. You just misused the opportunity of ministering to the young man the disadvantages of sex before marriage and the consequences. You'll share with his punishment, I believe you know this.

Shalom Mariah.

Kriss, we are all children of God. Whether you have sex before marriage or not.

You’re right about the bolded though.
As a Christian that I am, that is what I should’ve done.

Mariangeles:
Kriss, we are all children of God. Whether you have sex before marriage or not.

You’re right about the bolded though.
As a Christian that I am, that is what I should’ve done.

Not too late..you can still re-trace and do the right thing.

Kriss216:
Not too late..you can still re-trace and do the right thing.

I modified.

Nwanne mmadu.

Mariangeles:
I modified.

Nwanne mmadu.

Good girl

OP, another dude has been busy banging the hell out of her pussy since you've been both apart.. And you're still asking if you should bang her?

You better bang that girl and stop simp-ing around.

I don't see the essence of a long distance relationship.

While you are supposed to get to know each other, you are beating around the bush. That said.

Op, it's better you make up for lost time. Meet and fast track things.

Mariangeles:
Bangalee nii!

It’s the audacity of the sense of entitlement for me.

He is only displaying his lack of intelligence as usual..

Would you buy a brand new Ferrari car without test running?

Jahbless03:
Me and my girl has been friend for over 10 years but distance separate us apart and there is no any romantic relationship between us yet, she is still single and I'm still single, me and her are planning to meet soonest, should we take the relationship to the next level like I mean romantically that will lead to having s*x.

Please a friend of mine just ask me this and he need your advise.

Regards,

A) you guys are gonna meet and start living in the same city/area OR just gonna meet once and part ways again to live distant from one another?!
B) if there was never anything romantic between the two of you , what makes you think she either wants that and/or that this is how you guys should end up?!
C) do you want this lady as someone special in your life OR you just want to fukc?!

MrBrownJay1:
A) you guys are gonna meet and start living in the same city/area OR just gonna meet once and part ways again to live distant from one another?! We are gonna meet once and hoping to meet again but we maintain a good communication and i do support her financially sometimes when she got broke.
B) if there was never anything romantic between the two of you , what makes you think she either wants that and/or that this is how you guys should end up?!
C) do you want this lady as someone special in your life OR you just want to fukc?!

I want her as someone special in my life.

Jahbless03:
I want her as someone special in my life.

after 10yrs of friendship, the best answer you could come up with is "someone special"?! whats that?! a fukc buddy, your future wife, the mother of your future children?!

this is a faceless forum bro, enough with the BS and just answer the question honestly.... WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM THIS WOMAN ?!

MrBrownJay1:
after 10yrs of friendship, the best answer you could come up with is "someone special"?! whats that?! a fukc buddy, your future wife, the mother of your future children?!

this is a faceless forum bro, enough with the BS and just answer the question honestly.... WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM THIS WOMAN ?!

Thanks man... Had the same question in mind for him.

You just wanna fvck!

Mariangeles:
Bangalee nii!

It’s the audacity of the sense of entitlement for me.

LMAO

You just cracked my ribs!

Jahbless03:
Me and my girl has been friend for over 10 years but distance separate us apart and there is no any romantic relationship between us yet, she is still single and I'm still single, me and her are planning to meet soonest, should we take the relationship to the next level like I mean romantically that will lead to having s*x.

Please a friend of mine just ask me this and he need your advise.

Regards,

Are you meeting her after 10 years to talk about sex? Do you have developed feelings for her? Is your sentiment returned?
Is there a mutual agreement to taking the relationship to the next level? Do you just want to Bleep her and be done with it or you see yourself settling down with her? This are questions you should ask yourself before you open your mouth.

To avoid been embarrassed, don't assume you know what she wants oo.

You sir are really one of the most impressive commenter I do ever meet here that give straight advice.
To say the fact what I really want from her is a [/b] SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP [i][/i] and is it okay starting with the way I think.

Regards,

MrBrownJay1:
after 10yrs of friendship, the best answer you could come up with is "someone special"?! whats that?! a fukc buddy, your future wife, the mother of your future children?!

this is a faceless forum bro, enough with the BS and just answer the question honestly.... [b]WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM THIS WOMAN ?!

Yes bro I told her about taking the relationship to the next level but her response to me was that it is okay, it's not too late for that.

Totiemide:
Are you meeting her after 10 years to talk about sex? Do you have developed feelings for her? Is your sentiment returned?
Is there a mutual agreement to taking the relationship to the next level? Do you just want to Bleep her and be done with it or you see yourself settling down with her? This are questions you should ask yourself before you open your mouth.

To avoid been embarrassed, don't assume you know what she wants oo.

Jahbless03:
Yes bro I told her about taking the relationship to the next level but her response to me was that it is okay, it's not too late for that.

She said it's OK on the phone. Wait till you get to see her face to face, then ask the same question again. Yoruba adage says, Oju loro wa.

Jahbless03:
You sir are really one of the most impressive commenter I do ever meet here that give straight advice.
To say the fact what I really want from her is a [b][/b] SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP [i][/i] and is it okay starting with the way I think.

Regards,

I second this.... I like the fact that he gives it straight without mincing words.

Jahbless03:
You sir are really one of the most impressive commenter I do ever meet here that give straight advice.
To say the fact what I really want from her is a [/b] SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP [i][/i] and is it okay starting with the way I think.
Regards,

thanks bro, now we are getting somewhere...

to have a serious r/ship, you need to have the perfect setting for a serious r/ship to thrive. so [b]A) are you guys gonna live in the same city and finally be together long enough for that serious r/ship to thrive? and B) you cant put the carriage before the horse.....you guys should first get together and spend time as tight friends, then possibly take it up a notch and become bf/gf. then as you guys get to really discover one another, share a common bond and desire for more, you may get into this serious r/ship together.

i wont dwell on how the "having sex with her" came into this discussion.

Jahbless03:
Yes bro I told her about taking the relationship to the next level but her response to me was that it is okay, it's not too late for that.

its not too late for that??!?! you better hurry then, before someone snatches her from you...

With all due respect, you are really a relationship coach and I think I have get my real answer in your advices, if there is a branch to rate a comment here i would have rated you 5 star, you are so amazing and slow in listening. Thank you very very much, I do really appreciate. Moreover, we are right friends already she open up to me that she had a boyfriend while we are still in the relationship but they recently broke up but I still love and I think in this life everyone deserve a second chance and that's the reason I seek for you guys advise and I've got one.
On the contrary, do you advised that we should be in thesame location and settle with each other first or what?

MrBrownJay1:
thanks bro, now we are getting somewhere...

to have a serious r/ship, you need to have the perfect setting for a serious r/ship to thrive. so A) are you guys gonna live in the same city and finally be together long enough for that serious r/ship to thrive? and B) you cant put the carriage before the horse.....you guys should first get together and spend time as tight friends, then possibly take it up a notch and become bf/gf. then as you guys get to really discover one another, share a common bond and desire for more, you may get into this serious r/ship together.

i wont dwell on how the "having sex with her" came into this discussion.



its not too late for that??!?! you better hurry then, before someone snatches her from you...