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I need a very humble advice, and please don’t mind my grammatical and typographic errors,
I’m about proposing to my girl friend who happens to be a nurse working here in Nigeria, and im currently into business and we all know what doing business is like, more especially here in Nigeria, but my girl has great intentions of practicing abroad and considering the situation of things in the country I accepted her idea of us moving out of the country to start our marriage life if it works for both of us to settle down together.
Please my questions are :
1. Is it possible for her to secure a Job abroad from Nigeria ? If yes
2. What are my chances of moving together with her once she secures a job from Nigeria?
3. As we are about to get married, what documentations are required of us before we can move together, is a court wedding cert a must before we can move together, can church wedding cert be used as evidence of legally married at the embassy?

Please experience advice is solely needed here

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Yes!!! That is the only proof of marriage in law...

Nurse? Hmmmm......

smartokc:
I need a very humble advice, and please don’t mind my grammatical and typographic errors,
I’m about proposing to my girl friend who happens to be a nurse working here in Nigeria, and im currently into business and we all know what doing business is like, more especially here in Nigeria, but my girl has great intentions of practicing abroad and considering the situation of things in the country I accepted her idea of us moving out of the country to start our marriage life if it works for both of us to settle down together.
Please my questions are :
1. Is it possible for her to secure a Job abroad from Nigeria ? If yes
2. What are my chances of moving together with her once she secures a job from Nigeria?
3. As we are about to get married, what documentations are required of us before we can move together, is a court wedding cert a must before we can move together, can church wedding cert be used as evidence of legally married at the embassy?

Please experience advice is solely needed here

There's exam she will take i don't know what it calls but it's for nurse many country do it canada, USA, Australia and many more if she know what she's doing in the nursing school she will pass

Qatar2022:
There's exam she will take i don't know what it calls but it's for nurse many country do it canada, USA, Australia and many more if she know what she's doing in the nursing school she will pass

Thank you boss, do you by any means know the name of the exams and the cost of writing the exam?

Sh will dump u in two years... Plz OP.. don't take her over seas.... Don't say u were not warned

Surely court marriage is the real proof of marriage in law.

However, there are cultural differences between Nigeria and these tier 1 countries that may not suit your unique circumstances.

So while you get prepared for transit, get prepared for an orientation that pushes the agenda of women better than is done here.

Thing is you should be circumspect regarding how you manage your relationship with your would be wife if on the condition you exit the shores of this country.

Godada:


Surely court marriage is the real proof of marriage in law.

However, there are cultural differences between Nigeria and these tier 1 countries that may not suit your unique circumstances.

So while you get prepared for transit, get prepared for an orientation that pushes the agenda of women better than is done here.

Thing is you should be circumspect regarding how you manage your relationship with your would be wife if on the condition you exit the shores of this country.

How can I get oriented on the agenda of women abroad ?

smartokc:
How can I get oriented on the agenda of women abroad ?

Bro, in our clime, it's a men world.... Out there it's a woman's world. Mason Greenwood one moment had the world as his oyster next moment his girlfriend brought him crushing down.

I am not here to defend his actions but to point out what would have been if he was better groomed to handle matters.

Comrade, the internet space is fraught with information of nurses and other 'enlightened wives' pushing her husband out of the house and becoming sole owners. Taking out law suits on their husbands and most times winning.

An average Nigerian woman will not condone the excesses of her husband if circumstances were reversed and she finds herself in a climate that's sympathetic to her concerns.

you only need proof of marriage..you can either do court marriage or go to the local government and get a document from there...the local government is quite easier..good luck bro

God is delaying your tears
You're fighting so hard to hasten it
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smartokc:
Thank you boss, do you by any means know the name of the exams and the cost of writing the exam?

I don't know the names , i was at my local government one a lady come in and we were discussing and she said she pass the exam and
they issued her and her family visa, That was when i know such visa exist

rickpat:
you only need proof of marriage..you can either do court marriage or go to the local government and get a document from there...the local government is quite easier..good luck bro

R u really serious? Is the local government route considered valid because I detest court marriage with all my life

shantti:
R u really serious? Is the local government route considered valid because I detest court marriage with all my life

Please answer this question

shantti:
R u really serious? Is the local government route considered valid because I detest court marriage with all my life

.....yes very valid...a friend of mine used it for Canada..

rickpat:
.....yes very valid...a friend of mine used it for Canada..

Wow, thank God. I hate court marriage with my life.

shantti:
Wow, thank God. I hate court marriage with my life.

...just do the local government... you gat no worries....all you need is proof of marriage from the country you reside currently

rickpat:
...just do the local government... you gat no worries....all you need is proof of marriage from the country you reside currently

Thanks man

shantti:
Thanks man

.. you're welcome bro..wish you the best

What is the qualification of ur girl? Basic nursing or BsN.
My wife is a registered nurse, (basic nursing with post basic in perioperative) she have applied like twice. The first was an American hospital which they demanded she must be a BsN holder with experience in a 100 bed space facility.
Her chances are high if she's a BsN holder.

akaahs:
What is the qualification of ur girl? Basic nursing or BsN.
My wife is a registered nurse, (basic nursing with post basic in perioperative) she have applied like twice. The first was an American hospital which they demanded she must be a BsN holder with experience in a 100 bed space facility.
Her chances are high if she's a BsN holder.

She has certificate in general nursing RN, from a school of nursing and general sciences

smartokc:
She has certificate in general nursing RN, from a school of nursing and general sciences

Like I said, most of these European and American agents prefer BsN.. Her chances are high if she has degree in nursing
Either u go for customary certificate or Islamic certificate in marriage as they are the only marriage certificate our constitution recognize.

akaahs:
Like I said, most of these European and American agents prefer BsN.. Her chances are high if she has degree in nursing
Either u go for customary certificate or Islamic certificate in marriage as they are the only marriage certificate our constitution recognize.

Thank you so much for your kind advice