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Martinez39s:
I didn't bother watching the video until I saw your post. I started skipping posts a long time because I was tired of the argument; what caught my eyes was the word "rape" and I had to investigate to know how rape entered the discussion. In as much as you advocated cold approach, there was no indication that you partake in rape or any diabolical, callous or inhumane method to get women. So no one can hold it against you.

I think the misunderstanding, a funny one at that, came from Ubunja's part. When he read that you go out at night to cold approach women, he assumed that you are some nightstalker who creeps up late at night in the dark to cold approach women. Keep in mind what that cold approach means to Ubunja is different from what it means to my guy Junnior and co; Ubunja embraces the meaning in the usual game/red pill sense. Also, we have seen how Ubunja associates cold approach with PUA, and those who know the PUA community know what they are capable of. It's a misunderstanding, not necessarily malicious intent. This is what I think, and I could be wrong.

If I am wrong and Ubunja really wanted to defame you or strawman you, then I don't support his actions. I say this not to defend him, but to drop my honest and avoid what I perceive to be a preventable clash. I am the type that prefers people operating amicably, agreeing to disagree, and settling misunderstanding instead of clashing and whatever.

dude needs to be careful,, like why are you making it your hobby to approach so many random women at night?? It's bound to go wrong one day. Guys wanna willful put themselves in questionable situations. In today's climate you're just asking for trouble.

The internet was all awashed with the news that Rihanna is pregnant. Looking at it from a TRP lens.

Rihanna is a billionaire right? Why didn't she get married? I ask myself? It is because she knows the laws in place in the West.
She is 33, knows she is hitting the wall in few years. Best is to get pregnant.

Why did she settle for a rapper out of all the good/nice men in the US? Asap is good looking, within 5 years he dated 7 beautiful models/women and we all know how rappers are famous for their "no bullshit" mentality.

Keep popping TRP gentlemen, it is a life saver!.

CaveAdullam:
Simping is in categories.

He's happy because a male waiter spoilt the chances of him getting exploited by his date rather than stand up and walk out of that premises. Only beta males condole such foolery from women. No frame at all! Probably, he must have been wrecked days ago by the pvssy.

Besides, the waiter wouldn't do this if it was his business, however, he is still a bad PRO, because manipulations stems from both ends---male and female. Men do buy expensive drinks and do the unimaginable in parties because of pride and laudations. So, he also has to stop these men from "declaring...do ri me...casket stuffs" when with other men to express ultimate bro code.

This is business and if you get in the way stupidly, you will be treated as a pawn. No mercy! If I was the waiter, I will bring the most expensive drinks...my salary and promotion is dependent on the sales I make. This is real life!

He should "getat" abeg.

He will learn his lesson obviously and you're right "Simping is in categories"

But let's not forget that as men(and as brothers), we need to help each other however we can. If the waiter were to have that "he should getat mindset", then we all know things would have gone sideways.

Someone people here on this forum learnt their lesson the hard way, some by prevention by other people through their actions or teachings. We all learn differently.

The point is:
WE ARE ALL HERE TO SAVE EACH OTHER FROM OURSELVES THROUGH LEARNING FROM EACH OTHER AND HAVING EACH OTHER'S BACKS.

Brother CaveAdullam, I know you got hacked sometime ago but I love reading your nuggets when I wake up in the morning. It is a dosage I love taking in the morning not afternoon. Can you please look into posting them early In the morning please?

Thanks.

machote:
He will learn his lesson obviously and you're right "Simping is in categories"

But let's not forget that as men(and as brothers), we need to help each other however we can. If the waiter were to have that "he should getat mindset", then we all know things would have gone sideways.

Someone people here on this forum learnt their lesson the hard way, some by prevention by other people through their actions or teachings. We all learn differently.

The point is:
WE ARE ALL HERE TO SAVE EACH OTHER FROM OURSELVES THROUGH LEARNING FROM EACH OTHER AND HAVING EACH OTHER'S BACKS.

The topic is always exhilarating when it is about women, but we tend to shy away and corner ourselves when men are being dissected on that same table. I kid you not, average man and woman are alike especially in their personality traits.

What happened there is manipulation. But the question is: will the waiter had prevented the man from buying an expensive drink if it was his male friend?

What I'm driving at is that manipulation is manipulation, but will see it as a big deal when it involves intersexual relationship and neglect it when it comes to friends and families.

Yeah, as men, we grow by helping one another because no human is truly/plainly independent!

Thanks.

CaveAdullam:
The topic is always exhilarating when it is about women, but we tend to shy away and corner ourselves when men are being dissected on that same table. I kid you not, average man and woman are alike especially in their personality traits.

What happened there is manipulation. But the question is: will the waiter had prevented the man from buying an expensive drink if it was his male friend?

What I'm driving at is that manipulation is manipulation, but will see it as a big deal when it involves intersexual relationship and neglect it when it comes to friends and families.

Yeah, as men, we grow by helping one another because no human is truly/plainly independent!

Thanks.

Noted!.

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RikudoSennin:
Brother CaveAdullam, I know you got hacked sometime ago but I love reading your nuggets when I wake up in the morning. It is a dosage I love taking in the morning not afternoon. Can you please look into posting them early In the morning please?

Thanks.

Brother RikudoSennin, if you read my posts about two days ago, a response to Tonnyray, you will read where I stated that those robbers "nearly sent me passed my village"...(forget bro code, "walahi", if I catch those boys real life, I will plank them to...).

Until I get a better device, I think the posts will be coming late. You can even notice it.

PS: "Uncle, it's that time of the day, I need to gan hustle urgent 2k and do my waiter's job in joy to quickly get a good device". Once I'm able, I will be back to normal.

"Lest I forget, for the main time gan look for fresh breasts and a$$ you will be waking up to see. Loooooool. Leave me alone ooooo".

Looool.

Trex4:
As you're being chosen and getting "greenlights", watch out for women that'll comfortably pretend to be interested in you to try and Rob you of your resources, and also time wasters that seem to not even know what they want.

Personally I don't even do greenlights anymore. If you're not direct don't bother.

Mad oh!!

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Ketapu:
My reply ∆

Stop the PUA stuff then.

Ketapu:
My reply
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If I like you as a lady, I will let you know as soon as possible, usually the first time I woo you. If the lady likes me, all well and good. We can continue the relationship. If she says she's not interested, I will leave her alone. There is no need to manipulate her by giving her money, dates and other things just to make her like me. There are too many ladies around for me to waste my time manipulating a lady.

I totally support with this piece 100%.
Infact it seems u and i have the same ideology.

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CaveAdullam:
The topic is always exhilarating when it is about women, but we tend to shy away and corner ourselves when men are being dissected on that same table. I kid you not, average man and woman are alike especially in their personality traits.

What happened there is manipulation. But the question is: will the waiter had prevented the man from buying an expensive drink if it was his male friend?

What I'm driving at is that manipulation is manipulation, but will see it as a big deal when it involves intersexual relationship and neglect it when it comes to friends and families.

Yeah, as men, we grow by helping one another because no human is truly/plainly independent!

Thanks.

If I was the waiter, I wouldn't have helped the man in such situation. If I had helped him, would it stop him from simping or being bluepilled? Why hurt my pocket for someone that can't say "NO" to billing and will likely look for another nawalt? It's best to let the girl bill him till he has sense and can develop the balls to say "NO." He can't even budget before hand; maybe he is living fake life and has bragged of his nonexistent riches to the girl and took her to a restaurant of her choice (if that's the case, then something is wrong with him). Tough love is good in this aspect, and I don't care if my salary is fixed. Someone men will have to learn the hard way. SMH.

Who knows, maybe the waiter's salary is fixed; he and the customer think alike; and the waiter is probably his friend. Whatever.

RikudoSennin:
The internet was all awashed with the news that Rihanna is pregnant. Looking at it from a TRP lens.

Rihanna is a billionaire right? Why didn't she get married? I ask myself? It is because she knows the laws in place in the West.
She is 33, knows she is hitting the wall in few years. Best is to get pregnant.

Why did she settle for a rapper out of all the good/nice men in the US? Asap is good looking, within 5 years he dated 7 beautiful models/women and we all know how rappers are famous for their "no bullshit" mentality.

Keep popping TRP gentlemen, it is a life saver!.

Rihanna is masculine (a giver) and ASAP is feminine (a taker) ,, meaning she's the one spoiling the guy and the guy is basically pïmpíng her. Relationships where the woman has more money than the guy usually play out this way. ASAP is the prettier of the pair, not to say he's more good-looking than her but SHE thinks he's hotter than her. Riri thinks ASAP is the prize and will do anything for him. The guy even said he loves shopping lol presumably with Riri's money.

I have always said it here that IT'S ALWAYS ABOUT BABIES. You know a girl really likes you when she wants to give you a baby because she values you enough to want a copy of you. It's safe to say ASAP makes Rihanna's pussy wetter than Chris Brown ever did.

Also a woman not getting married doesn't mean much cause marriage is not really an investment for women. They can get married every weekend if they want cause they don't even pay a cent towards the wedding and contribute next to nothing in a marriage. Hence women are the ones mostly divorcing men. They're not invested. It's the men.

Now what is a bigger investment for a woman in her dealings with a man is pregnancy. Pregnancy is a far bigger investment for women than actual marriage because for the next 18 to 20 years of her life she has this little human to care for and put first. MeanWhile a man is not invested in a baby and can make baby every weekend with many women and proceed to ghost all of them and live like he doesn't have one kid.

Very excessive response, sorry.

ubunja:
Rihanna is masculine (a giver) and ASAP is feminine (a taker) ,, meaning she's the one spoiling the guy and the guy is basically pïmpíng her. Relationships where the woman has more money than the guy usually play out this way. ASAP is the prettier of the pair, not to say he's more good-looking than her but SHE thinks he's hotter than her. Riri thinks ASAP is the prize and will do anything for him. The guy even said he loves shopping lol presumably with Riri's money.

I have always said it here that IT'S ALWAYS ABOUT BABIES. You know a girl really likes you when she wants to give you a baby because she values you enough to want a copy of you. It's safe to say ASAP makes Rihanna's pussy wetter than Chris Brown ever did.

Also a woman not getting married doesn't mean much cause marriage is not really an investment for women. They can get married every weekend if they want cause they don't even pay a cent towards the wedding and contribute next to nothing in a marriage. Hence women are the ones mostly divorcing men. They're not invested. It's the men.

Now what is a bigger investment for a woman in her dealings with a man is pregnancy. Pregnancy is a far bigger investment for women than actual marriage because for the next 18 to 20 years of her life she has this little human to care for and put first. MeanWhile a man is not invested in a baby and can make baby every weekend with many women and proceed to ghost all of them and live like he doesn't have one kid.

Very excessive response, sorry.

LEGEND

CaveAdullam:
Brother RikudoSennin, if you read my posts about two days ago, a response to Tonnyray, you will read where I stated that those robbers "nearly sent me passed my village"...(forget bro code, "walahi", if I catch those boys real life, I will plank them to...).

Until I get a better device, I think the posts will be coming late. You can even notice it.

PS: "Uncle, it's that time of the day, I need to gan hustle urgent 2k and do my waiter's job in joy to quickly get a good device". Once I'm able, I will be back to normal.

"Lest I forget, for the main time gan look for fresh breasts and a$$ you will be waking up to see. Loooooool. Leave me alone ooooo".

Looool.

Thank you sir.

Winnerly:
What happened with the girl you cold approached comrade

I met her at genaral hospital,when I walked up to her and I said "Hello" "hi" she replied,I ask her if she's working here,which she said yes,after all I asked for her number and she declined.I walked out,we later meet so many times that day but I didn't talk to her.I slept in the hospital because my brother was in the ward receiving treatment (surgery)I saw her the next day and I crossed her,I said to her "you don't want to greet me right ?"she said "good morning" and left,anytime she see after that she'll just wave her hand.The following day after she had closed I follow her and asked her where she was going,said she is going home,I told her to call me when she reach home,she said she doesn't has my number "ok bring your phone let me give you my number" I said. She said "No not today" and walked out of me.

Osas187:
I met her at genaral hospital,when I walked up to her and I said "Hello" "hi" she replied,I ask her if she's working here,which she said yes,after all I asked for her number and she declined.I walked out,we later meet so many times that day but I didn't talk to her.I slept in the hospital because my brother was in the ward receiving treatment (surgery)I saw her the next day and I crossed her,I said to her "you don't want to greet me right ?"she said "good morning" and left,anytime she see after that she'll just wave her hand.The following day after she had closed I follow her and asked her where she was going,said she is going home,I told her to call me when she reach home,she said she doesn't has my number "ok bring your phone let me give you my number" I said. She said "No not today" and walked out of me.

LOL. The moment she didn't give you her number the first time, you should have withdrawn and close her chapter (ie. forget about her and move on with your life).

Martinez39s:
LOL. The moment she didn't give you her number the first time, you should have withdrawn and close her chapter (ie. forget about her and move on with your life).

She didn't like him enough. If she did, she would give her number out

Martinez39s:
LOL. The moment she didn't give you her number the first time, you should have withdrawn and close her chapter (ie. forget about her and move on with your life).

Agreed.Later I knew that she's a student nurse,she's in her first year in a school of nurse.

Martinez39s:
If I was the waiter, I wouldn't have helped the man in such situation.

This is the reason why it is being said that it is a LONELY world for men. Men operate like individuals. I am not surprised that the mantra is also manifesting among TRPers.

This is what women don't have, they are always in support of one another no matter what happened. You guys call it herd mentality, but it always work for them in most cases. Women are sisters under different clothings.

The guy in question lacks balls and the waiter handed him one to safe his face. And he was very appreciative about it. That was the reason why he went back to thank the waiter.

All fingers are not equal, so our frame differs from one another. Let us be our brother's keeper. Some people might receive tough love and come out stronger while some others burn into ashes.

Peter might survive What kills Paul. It will be a pain in the as.s when I see my fellow man suffering under the grip of vigina people. As for me it is Bros before H.oes always.

Martinez39s:
LOL. The moment she didn't give you her number the first time, you should have withdrawn and close her chapter (ie. forget about her and move on with your life).

Gbam

luminouz:
She didn't like him enough. If she did, she would give her number out

At all.. She doesn’t

THIS IS OFFICIALLY THE DUMBEST THREAD I'VE READ ON THIS FORUM.

Guys make sure to check it out(made front page):

https://www.nairaland.com/6967946/dont-ask-what-bring-table

richkal:
This is the reason why it is being said that it is a LONELY world for men. Men operate like individuals. I am not surprised that the mantra is also manifesting TRP.

This is what women don't have, they are always in support of one another no matter what happened. You guys call it herd mentality, but it always work for them in most cases. Women are sisters under different clothings.

The guy in question lacks balls and the waiter handed him one to safe his face. And he was very appreciative about it. That was the reason why he went back to thank the waiter.

All fingers are not equal, so our frame differs from one another. Let us be our brother's keeper. Some people might receive tough love and come out stronger while some others burn into ashes. Peter might survive What kills Paul. As for me it is Bros before H.oes always.

I get your perspective. My intention wasn't to disregard him. My intention was to help him grow with tough love. I believe in helping my fellow man in the intersexual dynamics, but you know one of the ways we help people is through tough love. Even in parenting, there comes a time when you have to show children tough love to help them. That's my perspective.

The guy might appreciate the waiter's help, but will the help make him start getting his priorities right and aptly inform the lady of his budget? Will it make him not to chase another nawalt and find himself in that situation? Will it give him the balls to say "NO" to billing? If it does, then good for him... even though it's not likely. As you said, people learn differently and they are different (I agree with you on this).

Osas187:
.......when I walked up to her and I said "Hello" "hi" she replied,I ask her if she's working here,which she said yes,after all I asked for her number and she declined.

I can bet it with my left ball that this conversation doesn't last up to 5 seconds this approach is too shallow. No Lady will give you her details with this kind of weak approach unless you are Wizkid, Davido, Burns boy etc. The approach has No substance cos you don Ooze Confidence ( yes, you bailed too quick).

Let me ask you something, Is this the reason why you said you will never approach ladies again? With this kind of weak frame, you are still going to fail if you receive green light from any lady, because YOUR LIVER WILL FAIL YOU when you want approach due to inexperience.

richkal:
I can bet it with my left ball that this conversation doesn't last up to 5 seconds this approach is too shallow. No Lady will give you her details with this kind of weak approach unless you are Wizkid, Davido, Burns boy etc. The approach has No substance cos you don Ooze Confident ( yes, you bailed too quick).

Let me ask you something, Is this the reason why you said you will never approach ladies again? With this mindset, you are still going to fail if you receive green light from any lady, because your liver will still fail you due to inexperience.

I said after all,I asked for her number. Which means I don't want to type about all the conversation.

heniford2:
is on her Instagram page right know

reason why i don't believe any 80% of the rape cases