Hello guys.
I met a gal dec last year but didn't communicate with her till today, i called her this morning and i had to introduce myself, later in the evening gave her a call again, while talking with her, she said she's busy and would call me back when done, which she never did, i wanted to call her back but restricted myself from doing that so i wouldn't be a simp. How do i go about this?

Charlieluvboy:
Hello guys.
I met a gal dec last year but didn't communicate with her till today, i called her this morning and i had to introduce myself, later in the evening gave her a call again, while talking with her, she said she's busy and would call me back when done, which she never did, i wanted to call her back but restricted myself from doing that so i wouldn't be a simp. How do i go about this?

If you have time to be thinking about a girl, that means you have time to be thinking about better things

Make better use of your time boss

heartofcity12:


Kindly start from page 1 and read through

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Thanks tho.

Charlieluvboy:
Hello guys.
I met a gal dec last year but didn't communicate with her till today, i called her this morning and i had to introduce myself, later in the evening gave her a call again, while talking with her, she said she's busy and would call me back when done, which she never did, i wanted to call her back but restricted myself from doing that so i wouldn't be a simp. How do i go about this?

The girl is not into you and used that as an excuse to dismiss you. Most times women won't be blunt or direct in rejecting you. It is left for you as a guy with your mental discernment to read between lines get the message and move on with your life. Don't expend your time on a woman who is not reciprocating your efforts.

Rillycool:


The girl is not into you and used that as an excuse to dismiss you. Most times women won't be blunt or direct in rejecting you. It is left for you as a guy with your mental discernment to read between lines get the message and move on with your life. Don't expend your time on a woman who is not reciprocating your efforts.

Thanks bro.

Trex4:
As you're being chosen and getting "greenlights", watch out for women that'll comfortably pretend to be interested in you to try and Rob you of your resources, and also time wasters that seem to not even know what they want.

Personally I don't even do greenlights anymore. If you're not direct don't bother.

Definitely bro... Greenlight is all worthless to me... If you really need me... You approach me directly

Nyascobar1414:


Definitely bro... Greenlight is all worthless to me... If you really need me... You approach me directly

What part of women are never direct don't you understand .

Of course there are outliers but cases like that are super rare because of simps orbiting them.

If you cross your legs waiting for a woman to tell you she likes you upfront in this day and age,bro you'll grow white hair

Smartb0y:


What part of women are never direct don't you understand .

Of course there are outliers but cases like that are super rare because of simps orbiting them.

If you cross your legs waiting for a woman to tell you she likes you upfront in this day and age,bro you'll grow white hair

Likewise I'm not desperate for a girl

The female nature though ..

They'll say Davido did it but then again, they're all asking for what they'll use for themselves like personal items..Notice how Davido kept on tagging guys then asking them to donate but these bitches will never tag their fellow women..

Las las one idiot just to fucc will come through ..

heniford2:
Mason greenwood ex girlfriend done come out openly saying this from her Instagram page Fear woman guys after destroying this guy reputation

Jesus......... greenwood didn't post anything so far but if Dem didn't put law for dis useless female act, dis shit won't stop happening, just see things greenwood don lost

See bae u but he's a fool tho doing online sex with someone u didn't know

E go soon reach the level people won't take rape or any shit from female seriously Even if it real

My hate on female just pump to 70%

DieRich5:
Jesus......... greenwood didn't post anything so far but if Dem didn't put law for dis useless female act, dis shit won't stop happening, just see things greenwood don lost

See bae u but he's a fool tho doing online sex with someone u didn't know

E go soon reach the level people won't take rape or any shit from female seriously Even if it real

My hate on female just pump to 70%

Blackmailers only stop when death comes.
Never ever succumb to pay them. Once you start paying, you keep on paying,they are never satisfied

machote:

He will learn his lesson obviously and you're right "Simping is in categories"

But let's not forget that as men(and as brothers), we need to help each other however we can. If the waiter were to have that "he should getat mindset", then we all know things would have gone sideways.

Someone people here on this forum learnt their lesson the hard way, some by prevention by other people through their actions or teachings. We all learn differently.

The point is:
WE ARE ALL HERE TO SAVE EACH OTHER FROM OURSELVES THROUGH LEARNING FROM EACH OTHER AND HAVING EACH OTHER'S BACKS.

Nice write-up Bro, but your last paragraph got me You remember wen I posted something here and your response to my post?
And now you are saying this again
Am glad to hear dix from you tho

Ketapu:



My reply
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Your Lax sentence summarize the whole thing about the on going argument.
If you think cold approach is good for you fine, don't try to convince others who don't agree with you. Dax my own
One love

GravityDefier:
It's really painful to see someone spend his valuable time on this thread, sees the truth laid bare in its purest form and come up with some questions again which does not match the redpill instinct.
There's this girl I approached Saturday before last and we had a good rapport. She told me she's not currently online when I asked her of her contact so I had to ask her of her Facebook name of which she gave me. About Four days later (last week Wednesday) I sent her a friend request with my 2nd Facebook account (mind you I visit Facebook like once in a week or sometimes even longer). I just logged in few minutes ago to find my request still pending and my redpill instinct told me to cancel the request and I did. Always remember this: SHE'S NOT THE ONLY GIRL IN YOUR STATE.

I did something similar. Was just secretly tripping for the babe but any slight shakara my redpill instinct just start acting.
I notice something I may not be cold on a normal day but when I am with babes I am tripping for men the redpill in me start acting cold. It is like the more I like the lady the more I try and make her angry or disgust her. It works for me sha even though she make start putting up some frowning face for me.

Thank God for the knowledge of the red pill

Charlieluvboy:
Hello guys.
I met a gal dec last year but didn't communicate with her till today, i called her this morning and i had to introduce myself, later in the evening gave her a call again, while talking with her, she said she's busy and would call me back when done, which she never did, i wanted to call her back but restricted myself from doing that so i wouldn't be a simp. How do i go about this?

CALL HER & TELL HER HOW DISAPPOINTED YOU ARE. IF SHR START UNNECESSARY FORMING..... nigga ghost her.

Rillycool:


The girl is not into you and used that as an excuse to dismiss you. Most times women won't be blunt or direct in rejecting you. It is left for you as a guy with your mental discernment to read between lines get the message and move on with your life. Don't expend your time on a woman who is not reciprocating your efforts.

Not so. U don't know if her siblings went out with her phone or something like that.....

Albertone:

Page 1 of 1183... Opor Thanks tho.

Lol you become weak

[quote author=FRANKOSKI post=109910084]
CALL HER & TELL HER HOW DISAPPOINTED YOU ARE. IF SHR START UNNECESSARY FORMING..... nigga ghost her. [/quote
Thanks. I'll do that.

richkal:


I can bet it with my left ball that this conversation doesn't last up to 5 seconds this approach is too shallow. No Lady will give you her details with this kind of weak approach unless you are Wizkid, Davido, Burns boy etc. The approach has No substance cos you don Ooze Confidence ( yes, you bailed too quick).

Let me ask you something, Is this the reason why you said you will never approach ladies again? With this kind of weak frame, you are still going to fail if you receive green light from any lady, because YOUR LIVER WILL FAIL YOU when you want approach due to inexperience.

And you think you have this experience lol. He made it clear that the conversation lasted longer than what he posted but he did not want to go into details. Maybe he was questioning her as though she was in police detention. My point is, some of you guys always seem to think that it is about what you say. You think there are magical pick up lines somewhere that will attract the woman you like. There is nothing like that, genuine desire makes work easy. Once the girl knows where the conversation is going and she wants to go there, you will not stress your self.

Although you might want to stress the conversation further because you know that she is enjoying your company. And when things are flowing you won't want to stop. But if you are talking about getting her number, what he wrote there is enough to get it. Let me share an experience. I was with this my guy who was conducting research about something to do with engineering. He had like a business proposal or something and TETFUND were funding his research at the time.

So there is a lecturer he meets that acts like a connection between him and TETFUND, also helps to review his work periodically and give him good advice because he is a non academic staff. When we arrived at this lecturer's office, he wasn't around, he called and he said he was on his way so we went down stairs to chill and wait for him. While we were down stairs, he sighted one of these creatures and he told me he was about to make a move. Me knowing all these students and their preference for financially independent men and also this guy has like zero game in my opinion, I told him to forget it.

He went ahead anyway, I moved a bit closer pretending to focus on my phone because I won laugh small. This guy got her number with like five lines or so:
Hello
Told her his name and she did the same.
Do you school here, what level?
I don't really know how to do this toasting of a thing but I want you to be my girl (like he literally said that).
The girl smiled a bit and said OK.
He asked for her number and she gave it.
Then she had to go away because she had lectures.
I thought the number was fake and I asked him to confirm if that number was genuine. He wanted to call her but I said it was too early, he should check it on whatsapp. It was genuine! In fact I rest my case. This one is cold approach abi, with a touch of genuine desire .

machote:
BRO CODE PRO MAX

In thanos voice "this does bring a smile to my face"...
The waiter is a gee...I would have made it my mission to find him a better job..I do not forget favours

Charlieluvboy:
Hello guys.
I met a gal dec last year but didn't communicate with her till today, i called her this morning and i had to introduce myself, later in the evening gave her a call again, while talking with her, she said she's busy and would call me back when done, which she never did, i wanted to call her back but restricted myself from doing that so i wouldn't be a simp. How do i go about this?

My reply
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You made a mistake by not communicating on time with her.

Since December! That's too long.

That is what Alan Currie called using Mode Two to communicate with ladies. It will likely not get you the desired results.

The lady may have been interested in you back then but since you didn't take your chance, the interest diminished or vanished. I have lost count of ladies I lose due to using Mode Two approach to woo them.

This is what you should do.

1. Don't call her until she calls.

2. Wait for 2 to 3 more days and then send her the following SMS IN THE AFTERNOON.

Hi ...(insert her name). This is (insert your name), the guy that called you on (insert the day you called her). Hope you're having a great day. Let me know when next you are available so that we can meet( or talk).

If she's still interested in you, she will respond. If she doesn't respond, for the love of God, DELETE HER NUMBER AND FORGET ABOUT HER. SHE'S NOT INTERESTED.

There are many other ladies you can woo.

Lastly, I highly recommend that you read Alan Currie book titled Mode One: Let the Women Know What You're REALLY Thinking

Learn from the book and improve your communication with females.

Osas187:
I met her at genaral hospital,when I walked up to her and I said "Hello" "hi" she replied,I ask her if she's working here,which she said yes,after all I asked for her number and she declined.I walked out,we later meet so many times that day but I didn't talk to her.I slept in the hospital because my brother was in the ward receiving treatment (surgery)I saw her the next day and I crossed her,I said to her "you don't want to greet me right ?"she said "good morning" and left,anytime she see after that she'll just wave her hand.The following day after she had closed I follow her and asked her where she was going,said she is going home,I told her to call me when she reach home,she said she doesn't has my number "ok bring your phone let me give you my number" I said. She said "No not today" and walked out of me.

Your story is very similar to those of us in the field.

Comrade i assure you, even if she gives you that number, that’s not the end of it. You will call and she won’t pick up, and won’t return your call. That’s their first strategy to break your frame.

Then you will call again, and feel lucky when she picks. Then the whole placing her on a pedestal thing begins because unconsciously, you’re happy it’s a real number she gave you and won’t wanna screw up.

You may or maynot sleep with her down the line but one thing is sure, your self esteem will be abused.

There may be few exceptions to this but what I’ve said is largely the norm except you flash wealth and submit yourself to be a victim of gold digging.

Note that my experiences above is coming from a good looking guy. Oh how women love a good looking simp.

Nyascobar1414:


Definitely bro... Greenlight is all worthless to me... If you really need me... You approach me directly

greenlight is how women approach. And greenlights are simply a woman giving you a sign that she likes you or that she "sees you".

Men and women are different.

Men are direct. Women are indirect.

If a girl approaches you directly and comes up to you and tells you straight she wants to fucc you, it won't work cause you'll tag her a hoe and a prostitute. At least 90% of guys will. Hence she needs to be subtle and indirect so as not to scare you off.

Men - direct,,
Women - indirect:

For example,, if a guy wants sex from his GF what does he do? Go to her, start touching her, talk sweet words to her ear, and the rest is history. He initiates.

If a girl wants sex from her BF is she direct like him? Does she initiate? Nope. To initiate is masculine. So she does her thing indirectly. Femininely. She puts on that short skirt she knows always gets BF hot and bothered, then keep doing whatever she's doing in front of him till desire overcomes HIM and he initiates the sex.

That's the female method. Most of the times BF don't realize the sex was GF's idea. Greenlights use the same blueprint.

For example: every lunch hour a guy keeps bumping into a girl at the local takeaway. Every day. And he starts noticing her. Then makes up his mind to ask her out. And she agrees. They click and date. However something funny happens. Soon after the two are an item, the girl stops visiting the takeaway. And the guy is surprised. But No, the girl visiting the place was actually a GREENLIGHT. She was actually chasing him!! And she never knew it. All the while HE thought it was him chasing her.
As they say,,, YOU CHASE A WOMAN UNTIL SHE CATCHES YOU.
That's how indirect women can be. Women will join clubs, attend matches, join churches etc all to get close to their target so he notice and hopefully likes what he sees and acts.

Now, a girl giving you a green light is her doing her best cause she's feminine and has to get you to make the first move cause you're the Man. If she's too direct she upsets the balance of the masculine and feminine energies between you and her.
For example: if a girl comes up to you and kisses you and takes your dicc out,, you'll feel embarrassed and emasculated as a man cause she's too fast for you. That emasculation is you losing your masculine energy to her. Thus the balance of energy is screwed up and you won't perform at optimal cause you're now intimidated.

Some things just don't wish for them man.

Ketapu:


My reply ∆

Thanks

Still trying to know how true this is. This might be fabricated but her real account is truly gone tho. If this is truly her, then Greenwood is innocent in all this. However this might be a fake account.

MJBOLT:

exactly

TELL THEM .

Lordcassy:


In thanos voice "this does bring a smile to my face"...
The waiter is a gee...I would have made it my mission to find him a better job..I do not forget favours

A real Gee...He did us proud.

Polynek:
Nice write-up Bro, but your last paragraph got me You remember wen I posted something here and your response to my post?
And now you are saying this again
Am glad to hear dix from you tho

Thanks.

sajmark:
I am pleased with this lady, I hope she isn't faking it until she officially becomes his wife though.
Why the bleep will you kneel down to ask for a woman's hand in marriage when you are the one doing her a favour?
All her problems become yours while all your problems are still yours, yet you kneel down to propose?

MARRIAGE IS GIVE AND TAKE INSTITUTION AND THIS CULTURED DAUGHTER UNDERSTANDS IT .

Cold approaching ladies doesn’t make you beta, some ladies even admire the confidence that comes with that. She’s either in for you or not. Everyone should do what they are comfortable with as we can’t always agree on the same things. I’m personally cool with both ‘chosen’ and ‘cold approach done moderately and strategically’. There are different theories out there, choose what suits you.

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