Magnoliaa:




I don't know if I'm even making any sense at this point... zzzz.

Ofcoz, the feminist thing is more like a culture and some women are uneducated about how it should be like......
Again, when a women lends her voice, she's tagged a feminist and other women sees that and follow suit... and the course gets divided as many women comes out teaching different things about feminism.

You should know this, just like Christianity, many pastors coming out to preach differently.

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

may the Lord bless you and enjoy your home please don't allow bad friends spoil your relationship

You based your argument on a Jewish myth? This is shameful

Nigerian women are becoming more stupid by the day. Rwandan chicks are winning right now.

If you are not ready to bring meaningful things to table in this 2022...Just return back to 1823.....And marry your self...Lazy people project the highest entitlement mentality.

The op would have thought she made sense but seriously speaking, no atom of sense in that crap called write up. We move

Abfinest007:
Entitlement mentality.good girls in the house please don't listen to this trash cuz d bible says woman be submissive to ur husband .it also say woman is a helpmate to the man

Help meet not help mate

Aunty are you married? It's a matter of choice, choose to support your partner and get married or remain with your mentality and stay single. Marriage is not for everyone.. Men too don't wise, they marry women who supports too

Magnoliaa:


If you drag feminists here, you'll hear* it from me. She didn't call herself a feminist, I said she's not a feminist and she hasn't disagreed with me.

Abeg, abeg, as the public relations office of Feminism Nigeria Chapter, on this one ooo, this topic and poster - I am saying it has nothing to do with feminism.

She's a true traditional woman that wants a traditional man like y'all. Na your person. Hold am.

I am not feminist. Maybe a pseudo-feminist lolz.
The thing is that most of ya'll didnt get my message,
I either want responsibilities to be shared or each person role should be defined, they keep saying women doesn't know their role, a typical man feels his role is to provide money and the woman should take care of the home bla bla, I just agree with them, I am getting all these insults because I agreed too much

I dont discuss on NL but a particular comment triggered me to create this account and discuss on this

Backlaw406:
So, if na your wife that brought you opportunity to travel abroad, how that be our business and how what you said related to the issue on ground?

It is related to the topic oga, when a fellow woman like my wife will say don't ask them what to bring on the table.... The truth is there are some ladies who might be at the on the cross roads on issues like this... Imagine say them read this post now... We are meant to complement each other in relationships... But sometimes when women take the lead you go see the magic... Allow your woman to play your role sometimes and she will stop complaining, also learn how to play the role of a woman sometimes (especially when it comes to taking care of the kids) all these helps to build a better environment... Sorry say I had to break it down like this na your reasoning make me explain this way... Don't always attack people with posts sometimes no be wetin head tell hand to type na him e go type....

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

Listen. I don't comment that much but I understand your point perfectly. Ignore those men saying otherwise or insulting you. They aren't really deep thinkers and seem to have poor sense of judgement.

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

How many idiots clicked like

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

You're right on this. May God help these generation of youths always coming online to rant about how women are entitled. A real man takes responsibilities and provide for the woman's need regardless of what the woman possess. If not for the immoral norm of having a girlfriend and boyfriend, why will a real man be demanding a woman to shoulder a responsibility as if it's partnership business. I pray God provides for real men out there to be able to sustain their responsibilities and not ask wives to share their rights.

Magnoliaa:



The lady is saying she's a traditional woman and a man is the provider and she's a multiplier of whatever you bring, someone that runs the home. Why exactly are you people disagreeing with her?? You're not the heads no more?

We are saying as men we don't want full responsibility as men and we don't want you to also have full responsibility as a woman

I know you're speaking for yourself but men, abeg i want you to see her as one of the many average women out there, they don't want to do anything, they always want to fight for equality until equality comes knocking. You'll be a good baby mama

Sunshineace:
I'm not the kind of man wey go leave house chores and taking care of my kids to my wife alone, so I will ask u what u will bring to the table

I am not the kind of woman that is lazy, I work for my money too.
So if u want to help in house chores, I'll definitely want to help pay the bills

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

Entitlement opooor... I pity the unfortunate one's this write up will lead to their untimely destruction

Magnoliaa:



The lady is saying she's a traditional woman and a man is the provider and she's a multiplier of whatever you bring, someone that runs the home. Why exactly are you people disagreeing with her?? You're not the heads no more?

As a traditional woman, she has no rights whatsoever
She should stop going to school
She should shut down her social media handles
She should be at home waiting to get pregnant
That’s the life of traditional women yeah?

pocohantas:
Hmmm

The logical gender would come for you.
I didn’t bring anything. Just vibes and light skin.

oniranu

On one hand you think yourself a Christian
But on the other hand there's hell which you can give.

Well my dear, it quite gives me a clue of your eternal destination.

If you believe in Jesus, also repent of your sins. This is so that you can be born again, and so you dwell under the control of the Spirit whose fruit comprises gentleness, love, meekness and all goodness.

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

Since you aren't supposed to bring anything, you aren't supposed to claim anything.

Princess80:
I really do not answer these kinda comments filled with indults but I'll answer urs.
First, I work and get paid, I have my own dreams, goals and aspirations. I dont need a man to give me food before I eat

Really?

Na pusssy go suffer if the brain is empty like that of the OP

Princess80:
I am not feminist. Maybe a pseudo-feminist lolz.
The thing is that most of ya'll didnt get my message,
I either want responsibilities to be shared or each person role should be defined, they keep saying women doesn't know their role, a typical man feels his role is to provide money and the woman should take care of the home bla bla, I just agree with them, I am getting all these insults because I agreed too much

I dont discuss on NL but a particular comment triggered me to create this account and discuss on this

LMAO. I know. I know you did agreed with them and even if your intention was to rile them up, it worked 100%. Men can spend all day saying something and when it's midnight and you come to agree with what they are saying, the hound you fiercely, more than witches were hunted for in the olden days.

Abfinest007:
Entitlement mentality.good girls in the house please don't listen to this trash cuz d bible says woman be submissive to ur husband .it also say woman is a helpmate to the man

Did you read the article at all

IkemChris:


It is related to the topic oga, when a fellow woman like my wife will say don't ask them what to bring on the table.... The truth is there are some ladies who might be at the on the cross roads on issues like this... Imagine say them read this post now... We are meant to complement each other in relationships... But sometimes when women take the lead you go see the magic... Allow your woman to play your role sometimes and she will stop complaining, also learn how to play the role of a woman sometimes (especially when it comes to taking care of the kids) all these helps to build a better environment... Sorry say I had to break it down like this na your reasoning make me explain this way... Don't always attack people with posts sometimes no be wetin head tell hand to type na him e go type....

Oga shut up jo, all I did was asking a question since yourself didn't clarify your input wether it support the topic or oppose it in the first place.

I wouldn't have told you to shut up if you have answered my simple question without insulting me first

Kellzzyy:
Olosho don drop quote

Can someone please remind me the true definition of a MUMU

Chaos14:
We are saying as men we don't want full responsibility as men and we don't want you to also have full responsibility as a woman

??

Alohaa:
As a traditional woman, she has no rights whatsoever
She should stop going to school
She should shut down her social media handles
She should be at home waiting to get pregnant
That’s the life of traditional women yeah?

More or less. But then everyone's an hypocrite and like to pick the part of things that favours them, so she can be traditional and whatever else all she wants.

Don't say it like it's some indictment. It's y'all wishes.

OP.. why are you creating the impression that men only cater for finances (and donate sperm)?

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

I think i agree with most of the things you said. Except the part you called night match, "him wahala". That's a big lie. It is actually fun time the couple ,not "him wahala". Mind you, am talking from experience

Phaantom22:
I thought what a man can do a woman can do better? You better wakeup from your slumber.

So you want a woman to contribute equally financially with you, and you still expect her to clean, cook and nurse your children ?

Feminist on sight
Sniper take her down
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