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Re: Did I Overreacted? by Binhamid(m): 2:13pm On Feb 06, 2022
chinonyinye:
please, how is that comment stup*d? what is good for the gander is also good for the goose. the op is a very irresponsible and unserious person. how can insult her by telling her that you have 2 women you sleep with? please how does that sound to you? if Your Sister tells You This, how will you react? she ma is not serious for even listening to u in the first place. The Decadence in This Our Country Is Too Much sef

Bro I'm just been honest with her, I'm not dating those other ladies and I never promised them love. She told me she isn't involved with anybody sexually or romantically, if she did trust me I may not have a problem with it.
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Binhamid(m): 2:18pm On Feb 06, 2022
Kriss216:
Mr cook is redpilled.

Mr gentleman is bluepilled.



The girl wey you dey reserve for serious relationship, na she Mr cook dey devour like hot barbecued fish every night. cheesy

The earlier you realized there's nothing special about Nigerian girls, the better for your sanity.

I have to disagree with you boss, I have met a lot of amazing Nigerian ladies. Some of them are special, trust me.
Re: Did I Overreacted? by ceede2: 2:29pm On Feb 06, 2022
most of u guys of late.dont know how to fight for love and what u want.love is won and nit given.
Fight bro.it shows the man in u.[/quote] Man my comment is actually for your last paragraph, she's practice the same drill with the dude, the guy man was fighting with his spirit.

... besides any issue that's not btw you n your destiny bro it doesn't worth fight for.

No offense
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Stenewiser: 2:32pm On Feb 06, 2022
Kriss216:
Mr cook is redpilled.

Mr gentleman is bluepilled.



The girl wey you dey reserve for serious relationship, na she Mr cook dey devour like hot barbecued fish every night. cheesy

The earlier you realized there's nothing special about Nigerian girls, the better for your sanity.
nice one
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Gamer999: 2:32pm On Feb 06, 2022
Datboredberry:
I won't... I responded...

Btw, you seem familiar!!!
familiar? How so?
Re: Did I Overreacted? by ceede2: 2:33pm On Feb 06, 2022
chinonyinye:
please, how is that comment stup*d? what is good for the gander is also good for the goose. the op is a very irresponsible and unserious person. how can insult her by telling her that you have 2 women you sleep with? please how does that sound to you? if Your Sister tells You This, how will you react? she ma is not serious for even listening to u in the first place. The Decadence in This Our Country Is Too Much sef
I replied bro, check the tread
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Nobody: 2:37pm On Feb 06, 2022
Gamer999:
familiar? How so?
Yours isn't an alternate account? smiley
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Palazee(m): 2:57pm On Feb 06, 2022
What a SIMP

Re: Did I Overreacted? by Glamswizard(m): 3:11pm On Feb 06, 2022
donbachi:
Maybe na her own friend with benefits be dat.as u be learner.u just meet a girl newly and u want her to just stop her other guy instantly.

most of u guys of late.dont know how to fight for love and what u want.love is won and nit given.
Fight bro.it shows the man in u.


Shengbo werey ! I'd rather fight for caprisoone at my neighbor's child birthday party.
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Amb1045(m): 3:31pm On Feb 06, 2022
Fight for love kee you. Fight for Nigerian girl love that only have sex to offer you. God forbid. Op if you see chance nack her move on.
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Gamer999: 3:52pm On Feb 06, 2022
Datboredberry:
Yours isn't an alternate account? smiley
nop, first and only account
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Nobody: 4:03pm On Feb 06, 2022
Gamer999:
nop, first and only account
Oh! I responded last night... smiley
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Binhamid(m): 4:34pm On Feb 06, 2022
Palazee:
What a SIMP

Your brain is loose sir, People like you that shouts simp up and down on nairaland are just frustrated. Every human is emotional, so I should deny my emotions just so frustrated person like you can hail me that I'm not a simp. Abeg getat..
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Palazee(m): 4:44pm On Feb 06, 2022
Binhamid:


Your brain is loose sir, People like you that shouts simp up and down on nairaland are just frustrated. Every human is emotional, so I should deny my emotions just so frustrated person like you can hail me that I'm not a simp. Abeg getat..
Then go beg her to return to you

Or You must be a female hiding behind a male moniker

Only them instead of arguing logically will resort to broke shaming and names calling.


Pathetic
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Binhamid(m): 5:09pm On Feb 06, 2022
Palazee:
Then go beg her to return to you

Or You must be a female hiding behind a male moniker

Only them instead of arguing logically will resort to broke shaming and names calling.


Pathetic

You started the Name calling first, If I do not like this particular lady, do you think I will bother asking for advice? You could have stated your point without calling me a simp.
Re: Did I Overreacted? by chinonyinye: 9:17pm On Feb 06, 2022
Binhamid:


Bro I'm just been honest with her, I'm not dating those other ladies and I never promised them love. She told me she isn't involved with anybody sexually or romantically, if she did trust me I may not have a problem with it.


I still stand on my words. You are not serious at all. What if she had Also told you that she had 2 fwb and she wasn't dating any of them and that she was just being honest with you?

Oh, you want her to trust a community pen*s. Why didn't you trust her when she told you that a Friend was cooking for her? Ordinary "my Friend is cooking for me" you vex delete number. What about her you told that you are sleeping with 2 people. It's your type that will cheat serially on their wives yet will raise the roof at any suspicion of her cheating. She knows you are not serious with her.

If your relation comes to you for advice on this case won't you slap sense into the person?
Please let us be guided
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Binhamid(m): 10:39pm On Feb 06, 2022
chinonyinye:



I still stand on my words. You are not serious at all. What if she had Also told you that she had 2 fwb and she wasn't dating any of them and that she was just being honest with you?

Oh, you want her to trust a community pen*s. Why didn't you trust her when she told you that a Friend was cooking for her? Ordinary "my Friend is cooking for me" you vex delete number. What about her you told that you are sleeping with 2 people. It's your type that will cheat serially on their wives yet will raise the roof at any suspicion of her cheating. She knows you are not serious with her.

If your relation comes to you for advice on this case won't you slap sense into the person?
Please let us be guided

Fallacy of hasty generalisation. I asked her if she is sexually and emotionally with anyone and she said NO. Trust me I was shocked when she said NO because she is too set to not be in either, if she had said yes, I may not have any issue with her because I am guilty too. But I was ready to let go of my attachment because of her. Trust me if she had said YES I would have moved on from her. But she wasn't been hundred with me.
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Gamer999: 10:54pm On Feb 06, 2022
Datboredberry:
Oh! I responded last night... smiley
undecided
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Nobody: 11:00pm On Feb 06, 2022
Gamer999:
undecided
Something wrong?
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Gamer999: 11:04pm On Feb 06, 2022
Datboredberry:
Something wrong?
no dear, why you not asleep yet? Lol
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Nobody: 11:05pm On Feb 06, 2022
Gamer999:
no dear, why you not asleep yet? Lol
Contemplating suicide... I might have been scammed... 100k

Honestly...
Re: Did I Overreacted? by aminusodiq(m): 11:24pm On Feb 06, 2022
Binhamid:
Hello Nairalanders, So I met this beautiful lady sometimes last year and she happens to have a tick in most of my boxes, dark, average height, beautiful, smart and conversational. The day I met her, I actually have her my card and I thought she will not reach back but she called that night and that got my attention. We went on several dates after and we are connecting. I am always open to her that I have two friends with benefits, each one of them are in the two states I work. And I'm open to stop those relationship if we work out. The thing is I love to take my time when I meet someone I want to date, I even avoid been sexual with her because I don't want a situation where she will start overtripping because of good sex and lust will be mixed with love. Well the major problem is that the last time I went to her place, I got there late like 9pm and I asked her if we can go out for dinner. Then she told me a friend in her street already made something for her and she was on her way there before I came. Then we kept talking till 10:30 when I decided to leave cos I have to go feed my dog. So she had a shower and I was observing her spraying like three colognes, in my head I was like is this lady spraying all these to see me off or to smell good in her dreams. I left her place around 11:00 and the 3 houses to her place, this nigga the cook was already at the gate waiting. I no greet am oo and she was like "Oh this is where I'm going". I just told her that I like the fact that she knows how to kill two birds with one stone. Seeing me off and trying to see mr cook too. So I left her there and deleted her number on WhatsApp and phone. Last night I was hugging a very beautiful lady in my bed and all I can think about is her. Should I try and get back to her or just let go? Did I overreacted as we are not dating and I have been with other women too?
paragraph your story na
Re: Did I Overreacted? by oilmane(m): 11:36pm On Feb 06, 2022
Binhamid:
Hello Nairalanders, So I met this beautiful lady sometimes last year and she happens to have a tick in most of my boxes, dark, average height, beautiful, smart and conversational. The day I met her, I actually have her my card and I thought she will not reach back but she called that night and that got my attention. We went on several dates after and we are connecting. I am always open to her that I have two friends with benefits, each one of them are in the two states I work. And I'm open to stop those relationship if we work out. The thing is I love to take my time when I meet someone I want to date, I even avoid been sexual with her because I don't want a situation where she will start overtripping because of good sex and lust will be mixed with love. Well the major problem is that the last time I went to her place, I got there late like 9pm and I asked her if we can go out for dinner. Then she told me a friend in her street already made something for her and she was on her way there before I came. Then we kept talking till 10:30 when I decided to leave cos I have to go feed my dog. So she had a shower and I was observing her spraying like three colognes, in my head I was like is this lady spraying all these to see me off or to smell good in her dreams. I left her place around 11:00 and the 3 houses to her place, this nigga the cook was already at the gate waiting. I no greet am oo and she was like "Oh this is where I'm going". I just told her that I like the fact that she knows how to kill two birds with one stone. Seeing me off and trying to see mr cook too. So I left her there and deleted her number on WhatsApp and phone. Last night I was hugging a very beautiful lady in my bed and all I can think about is her. Should I try and get back to her or just let go? Did I overreacted as we are not dating and I have been with other women too?


You were open to her about your 2 friends with benefit, she only open to you about just one of her friend with benefit you don delete number, na only you get right to be open? Oga what is feed for the goose should as well be feed for the gander.

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Re: Did I Overreacted? by benqo01(m): 12:11am On Feb 07, 2022
donbachi:
Maybe na her own friend with benefits be dat.as u be learner.u just meet a girl newly and u want her to just stop her other guy instantly.

most of u guys of late.dont know how to fight for love and what u want.love is won and nit given.
Fight bro.it shows the man in u.

Fight for love? What a foolish thing to do
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Binhamid(m): 12:28am On Feb 07, 2022
aminusodiq:
paragraph your story na

Ontop matter wey dey vex me, it is only paragraph that concerns you. Bro, with all due respect, are you mad or something?
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Sammy101111(m): 4:56am On Feb 07, 2022
Bro this is how a woman get a man pinned down
Never talk too much in front of woman
Never let a woman see you finish

You talk to much to her
That mr cook neighbour as been hitting her before you met her and she sleeping there over night for sure .

Just move on bro because if you are not careful she will hurt you badly just let her keep playing her games to gain her benefit .

For me oh
I can never date a girl that is still hooked with a guy. Because at the end of the day she will still be nacking the guy codedly
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Sammy101111(m): 5:04am On Feb 07, 2022
The former house i was staying there was a lady she stays alone but as a serious boy friend yet my neighbour as been banging her almost every night .

How did my neighbour start banging
She first started charging her phone and laptop at my neighbour flat and from there they became close some time she will stay there till 11pm later later till 2am. He reach one time my male neighbour shared is generator light to the lady ..

Woman are wicked oh when the lady's boy friend come my neighbour will be acting mr nice guy with gentle face the lady bf will even greet us flex us inside the compound drink some vodka together .

You know the funniest thing when here boy friend is around she will go and buy petrol and put in my male neighbour generator to us inside with her bf .

So the lady bf sees my male neighbour as a nice guy lol he did not know her neighbour as been banging he's babe back to back

My lesson learnt from the matter
Always pay attention to your woman
If any guy is acting too much nice guy for your womam watch out the guy wants something in return
Re: Did I Overreacted? by Gamer999: 7:04am On Feb 07, 2022
Datboredberry:
Contemplating suicide... I might have been scammed... 100k

Honestly...
wtf!!! cry shocked Pls be serious... Hoooww??
Re: Did I Overreacted? by luvyaself95(m): 8:09am On Feb 07, 2022
donbachi:
Maybe na her own friend with benefits be dat.as u be learner.u just meet a girl newly and u want her to just stop her other guy instantly.

most of u guys of late.dont know how to fight for love and what u want.love is won and nit given.
Fight bro.it shows the man in u.
I wonder for them grin
Re: Did I Overreacted? by chinonyinye: 9:54am On Feb 10, 2022
Binhamid:


Fallacy of hasty generalisation. I asked her if she is sexually and emotionally with anyone and she said NO. Trust me I was shocked when she said NO because she is too set to not be in either, if she had said yes, I may not have any issue with her because I am guilty too. But I was ready to let go of my attachment because of her. Trust me if she had said YES I would have moved on from her. But she wasn't been hundred with me.

Which one is fallacy again? Of which hasty generalization? Who did i generalize you with? When the truth is glaring.

You are Sha not serious. So she should have lied and told you that she's in a relationship or agreed to date you so that you can stop fwb with those 2 ladies and start it with her abi? It's obvious you are just looking for a s*x partner

So until she confirms she will date you before you know you're supposed to dump them before approaching her right? People ehn!!

See, he that comes to equity must come with clean hands. Your hands are not clean at all. Thank you.

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