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miracood:
I'm starting to grow some feelings for this girl in my work place..

I don't know her age but she looks very your Don't even know if she's up to 18 I'm 20 btw.

How do I die this nonsense feelings?

Because one thing I've observed is that, when I have zero sexual thought over a girl, I'll Begin to have a soft spot for her.

And to be honest, I wouldn't mind making her come all over the mattress, just that the environment where I'm at right now, might be a barrier.. currently @home staying with parents and I really don't fancy bringing a girl to my dad's house.

She sent a dm 2 weeks ago *she got my number from the staff group chat..
I replied.. and she left the message on read for weeks..
I'm just thinking if I should go for her or hold my peace

CaveAdullam:
DAY 37, REDPILL 2022

Dear men, don't commit out of pity!

Your peace of mind is of utmost paramountcy.

Authority: Yourself first.

miracood:
U Don't sound like a person that knows much.

Pukkalolo:
Nice point bro.

I discovered this thread 3days ago..I have'nt gone through it entirely, but from the few post I've read, I'm impressed. I never knew nairaland harbors smart redpill oriented guys; from the likes of Glycolysis, Ubunja, odison1, lightway and many other guys I can't remember their username now.... Keep up the good job guys...You are blessed.

I noticed a guy here making hateful speech against the females gender.

Remember the purpose of this thread is not for men to hate on the females but for men learn to master themselves and even master women.

Remember you can't master what you hate or what you abuse or judge negatively.

You can't master yourself and be at your most powerful behavior if you hate yourself and negatively judge yourself. And you can't master women if you hate them or have grudges over them.

You can only master something you are curious about and something you love. Most legit players and womanizing bad boys actually love women.

Learning to handle and deal with women is almost like learning any other skills-- guitar, piano, design, carpentry, automobile, tailoring, coding...


Using coding for example. Fews years ago when I was learning JavaScript it was not easy at all, infact I almost gave up many times but it was my curiosity and the little Passion I had for it that kept me going... Sooner than I expected the language click in my head...now I'm very good at it. Infact now I've got students I tutor on it.

It's the same idea I used in mastering women and learning how to handle them. I was curious about how women think. I was not concern about fucking them; I was just concern about saying bold/playfull/sexual stuff to them and asking them raw and unexpected questions and seeing how they repond to it...It was just fun for me.

Same way I was curious to see how different JavaScript syntax works on the browser: I was curious to see how different girls respond to the things I was saying and how I was behaving. My experience was growing...Sooner than I expected I was getting amazing results with girls...


Here's my advice, and this advice might sound counterintuitive: stop trying to get laid.

Don't get me wrong. I don't mean you should go mgtow and start avoiding women. I mean, when interacting with ladies, don't worry about fucking them or dating them.
Just focus on practicing every piece of knowledge you are gaining from this thread and focus on improving your life; the getting laid aspect will often take care of itself...

Remember, when you are too focus on getting the girl, you naturally tend to exhibit needy unattractive behavior and this in turn make the girl run away from you. But when don't give a shit about getting the girl, you naturally exhibit confident and attractive behavior without knowing, and this would even draw the girl to you.

Kings, be strong; never allow any woman manipulate you or bully you emotionally.

Don't worry about get laid; instead worry about building an attractive behavior and an attractive lifestyle...

I just hope this thread never die out...I pray many guys see it.

Stay blessed brothers

CaveAdullam:
You don't want thread to die but you came here without kolanuts, dry gin, anointing oil and vaseline. Hmmm.

Anyway, I just entered CSS, you're one of my sure plug when I arrive Javascript.

Thanks for your REDPILL advice and kind words.

miracood:
U Don't sound like a person that knows much.

Palazee:
Lol

What is anointing oil and vaseline doing there

ubunja:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1WhQ-AEZovE

Drenimarcus:
Men of TRP, any one into Python or Networking here?

Pukkalolo:
Nice point bro.

I discovered this thread 3days ago..I have'nt gone through it entirely, but from the few post I've read, I'm impressed. I never knew nairaland harbors smart redpill oriented guys; from the likes of Glycolysis, Ubunja, odison1, lightway and many other guys I can't remember their username now.... Keep up the good job guys...You are blessed.

I noticed a guy here making hateful speech against the females gender.

Remember the purpose of this thread is not for men to hate on the females but for men learn to master themselves and even master women.

Remember you can't master what you hate or what you abuse or judge negatively.

You can't master yourself and be at your most powerful behavior if you hate yourself and negatively judge yourself. And you can't master women if you hate them or have grudges over them.

You can only master something you are curious about and something you love. Most legit players and womanizing bad boys actually love women.

Learning to handle and deal with women is almost like learning any other skills-- guitar, piano, design, carpentry, automobile, tailoring, coding...


Using coding for example. Fews years ago when I was learning JavaScript it was not easy at all, infact I almost gave up many times but it was my curiosity and the little Passion I had for it that kept me going... Sooner than I expected the language click in my head...now I'm very good at it. Infact now I've got students I tutor on it.

It's the same idea I used in mastering women and learning how to handle them. I was curious about how women think. I was not concern about fucking them; I was just concern about saying bold/playfull/sexual stuff to them and asking them raw and unexpected questions and seeing how they repond to it...It was just fun for me.

Same way I was curious to see how different JavaScript syntax works on the browser: I was curious to see how different girls respond to the things I was saying and how I was behaving. My experience was growing...Sooner than I expected I was getting amazing results with girls...


Here's my advice, and this advice might sound counterintuitive: stop trying to get laid.

Don't get me wrong. I don't mean you should go mgtow and start avoiding women. I mean, when interacting with ladies, don't worry about fucking them or dating them.
Just focus on practicing every piece of knowledge you are gaining from this thread and focus on improving your life; the getting laid aspect will often take care of itself...

Remember, when you are too focus on getting the girl, you naturally tend to exhibit needy unattractive behavior and this in turn make the girl run away from you. But when don't give a shit about getting the girl, you naturally exhibit confident and attractive behavior without knowing, and this would even draw the girl to you.

Kings, be strong; never allow any woman manipulate you or bully you emotionally.

Don't worry about get laid; instead worry about building an attractive behavior and an attractive lifestyle...

I just hope this thread never die out...I pray many guys see it.

Stay blessed brothers

CaveAdullam:
Yes Lord. I agree.

If you gradually follow this discussion to this current page, you'll see some of my posts on this same article.

1. First of all, understanding woman/human nature is one thing, but knowing how they express themselves in different environment in regards to their nature is another thing. And this is where many clashes with the REDPILL.

2. Women will always respond to dominance, and other masculine traits in men because of protection and provision. In fact, these masculine traits are what defines men, hence, many men still had the opportunity to contribute their genes to the gene pool. Our ancestors were the more masculine men in their tribes, hence, we are living today. The aforementioned is the beta side of hypergamy, that is, for long term relationship.

On the alpha side, women will prefer beautiful men(lean or slim) because it signifies good health, then, quality offsprings. A handsome man devoid of masculinity can still get it easy with women than an ugly/average looking Joe. Women are materialistic and myopic and will judge things from a superficial level. Only after they've frolicked with these handsome men, that is for a short term relationship will they now settle down for the men on the beta side.

3. Now, this game doesn't play exactly this way, there are a lot of variations and factors that underlys. For example, women can choose men on the aforementioned beta side for short term mating because strong and dominant men are adventurous. And settle for a beautiful man for a long term relationship if he can provide but lacks dominance and other positive masculine traits. Understanding hypergamy is paramount.

4. Still on beauty, remember that humans fall for the halo and horns effect. Which means that we are positive towards beautiful people and less positive towards ugly people respectively.

So, you see, a beautiful man like I said before will always come first for women before the average looking Joe.

5. But the good thing about male's beauty is that it doesn't diminish like that of women. A man born beautiful is lucky but the average looking Joe have a great chance in becoming more attractive and appealing if he makes the gym his friend. No matter how ugly a man is, the stress and pain in the gym will bring out his internally locked beauty into the physical facially and bodily.

6. If you have also observed, you will notice that males are becoming as beautiful as women, but most showing a low level of masculinity. From our evolutionary days, we know that men selected beautiful women and beautiful women selected dominant men(these summarizes your point). But now it seems women are selecting for beautiful men too; may not be obvious but it's gradual. And women on the otherhand are still more beautiful plus becoming more of a caricature man especially through the advent of social media and feminism. Simply put: boys are becoming more beautiful plus effeminate while women are still beautiful plus becoming masculine(caricature male).

7. For men, striving towards a good physique plus becoming more masculine is what's vital whether born beautiful or ugly.

A beautiful man will have high chances of producing many offsprings and same with a strong man. An ugly man, an ugly woman, a feminized man, a masculinized woman will suffer great limitations in the evolutionary game because only the beautiful and strong are selected. However, the gym makes both men and women beautiful and strong. Plus positive feminity and positive masculinity= Garden of Eden.

Dear lord: DAY 38, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Upgrade

Pukkalolo:
Nice point bro.

I discovered this thread 3days ago..I have'nt gone through it entirely, but from the few post I've read, I'm impressed. I never knew nairaland harbors smart redpill oriented guys; from the likes of Glycolysis, Ubunja, odison1, lightway and many other guys I can't remember their username now.... Keep up the good job guys...You are blessed.

I noticed a guy here making hateful speech against the females gender.

Remember the purpose of this thread is not for men to hate on the females but for men learn to master themselves and even master women.

Remember you can't master what you hate or what you abuse or judge negatively.

You can't master yourself and be at your most powerful behavior if you hate yourself and negatively judge yourself. And you can't master women if you hate them or have grudges over them.

You can only master something you are curious about and something you love. Most legit players and womanizing bad boys actually love women.

Learning to handle and deal with women is almost like learning any other skills-- guitar, piano, design, carpentry, automobile, tailoring, coding...


Using coding for example. Fews years ago when I was learning JavaScript it was not easy at all, infact I almost gave up many times but it was my curiosity and the little Passion I had for it that kept me going... Sooner than I expected the language click in my head...now I'm very good at it. Infact now I've got students I tutor on it.

It's the same idea I used in mastering women and learning how to handle them. I was curious about how women think. I was not concern about fucking them; I was just concern about saying bold/playfull/sexual stuff to them and asking them raw and unexpected questions and seeing how they repond to it...It was just fun for me.

Same way I was curious to see how different JavaScript syntax works on the browser: I was curious to see how different girls respond to the things I was saying and how I was behaving. My experience was growing...Sooner than I expected I was getting amazing results with girls...


Here's my advice, and this advice might sound counterintuitive: stop trying to get laid.

Don't get me wrong. I don't mean you should go mgtow and start avoiding women. I mean, when interacting with ladies, don't worry about fucking them or dating them.
Just focus on practicing every piece of knowledge you are gaining from this thread and focus on improving your life; the getting laid aspect will often take care of itself...

Remember, when you are too focus on getting the girl, you naturally tend to exhibit needy unattractive behavior and this in turn make the girl run away from you. But when don't give a shit about getting the girl, you naturally exhibit confident and attractive behavior without knowing, and this would even draw the girl to you.

Kings, be strong; never allow any woman manipulate you or bully you emotionally.

Don't worry about get laid; instead worry about building an attractive behavior and an attractive lifestyle...

I just hope this thread never die out...I pray many guys see it.

Stay blessed brothers

ubunja:
rich women cheat for sex
Poor women cheat for money

That's the summary.

A poor man's greatest opponent is that rich man who can throw money at his wife and unlock her legs.

A rich man's greatest opponent is that broke jobless gym rat who has time, experience and the body to fucc his bougie wife.

Alampaso:
I get the videos sha �

heartofcity12:
You can’t make this sh*t up. Smh

Skepticus:
Facts.

Unknowingly, you just put a lot of Nigerian dudes on "mate-guarding" mode. A lot of them are obsessed with being wealthy (not their for their own sake), thinking that women's natural tendency for hypergamy will make the women, loyal to them. Lol. I'm in full support of men getting that bread/wealth, though, before folks misconstrue the purpose of my post.

From what I have seen so far, some of them use some basic tenets of the red pill, observed from basic sociocultural facts and evolutionary biological proofs, to justify their blue-pilled ignorance. Recent scientific facts, prove that they (Nigerian men) are not very good at mate-guarding, regardless of wealth and financial status. Nigerian women are ahead of the game. Lmao!

Drenimarcus:
Men of TRP, any one into Python or Networking here?

SOZINN:
A lot of us have said that when you work out you should remember to train your lower body too. So that you won't end up looking like an action figure. I'm here to tell you that they are the hardest to train. Just expect pain on another level. You might think that you have enough experience dealing with pain because you've trained your upper body parts. This one will leave you sore for three days or more. Just keep your pain killers by the side. Unless you want to look like Johnny Bravo. Nobody told me, I wasn't prepared. Well, I'm preparing you now.

DieRich5:
the girl na just big fool but men Dy help men for money mata

She just clear things, na only sex Dem can offer

Hotspotbro:
Her "turn on"


Modified:some jerk later sent her money, of course she posted it.She's a owner of the largest WhatsApp "TV" in the campus I am..

emmaodet:
https://www.nairaland.com/6974838/experience-jehovah-witness-lover#110023720

Guys go through this thread.
Fun things happening

Skepticus:
I don't know who made this post but it was shared by one of the biggest rich SIMPs I know in person. I'll observe him for some time, before considering, discussing the red pill in full, with him. This is a great level of awareness despite his wealth.

Shoutout to @BabaYeghar on Twitter/Instagram. Like Shola, he needs to be protected.

ubunja:
rich women cheat for sex
Poor women cheat for money

That's the summary.

A poor man's greatest opponent is that rich man who can throw money at his wife and unlock her legs.

A rich man's greatest opponent is that broke jobless gym rat who has time, experience and the body to fucc his bougie wife.

heartofcity12:
You can’t make this sh*t up. Smh