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Don't know if you are a Christian,if yes .
Ask God to show you who you really are.
Relationship is not meant for everyone.
I'd use myself as an example, had to break up and forget anything relationship and focus on God.cos God himself told me that the life I'm living is not in line with what he brought me into this world to do.
That i should forget about girls [specifically],and since then I'm beginning to see the reasons.

Tejumola856:
I’ve tried to be in relationship many times but it doesn’t work for me, I will just get tired all of the sudden within a couple of months, I can’t even point out a reason I get tired of it, I dated at least 6 girls last year which I later breakup with them without a reason.

What I discovered is that I always love them in the beginning to the extent that I will promise them heaven and earth, at the end of the day i will get tired of them.

The issue now is that, I met this girl last year December during the Christmas, I’m not going to lie, I truly love this girl, I asked her out and she agreed to be in relationship with me, this girl has been loyal to me, she’s always come to cook for me, she has once washed my clothes, I found happiness and joy in her but now, I’m having a feelings of breaking up with her, I stop calling or texting her, I don’t even know what’s going on in my life right now but my mind keep telling me to break up with her cus I need to be free.

Please over to you married men and those who are in relationship, how does it work out for you? I don’t understand my life again!

Na spirit wife dey disturb you ��

bepositive11:
Interesting. What about her brought out that side of you? What made you fall hard?

That included also, because I naturally started readjusting the default setting my mind had operated with for a while. But majority of the work starts with you the individual, it's why I mentioned the aspect of work.. when you working, meeting your goals and developing yourself. Coming home from work to an empty house, paying bills and living life just not fulfilling or exciting. This is what gives birth to the desire to settle down.

Tejumola856:
I’ve tried to be in relationship many times but it doesn’t work for me, I will just get tired all of the sudden within a couple of months, I can’t even point out a reason I get tired of it, I dated at least 6 girls last year which I later breakup with them without a reason.

What I discovered is that I always love them in the beginning to the extent that I will promise them heaven and earth, at the end of the day i will get tired of them.

The issue now is that, I met this girl last year December during the Christmas, I’m not going to lie, I truly love this girl, I asked her out and she agreed to be in relationship with me, this girl has been loyal to me, she’s always come to cook for me, she has once washed my clothes, I found happiness and joy in her but now, I’m having a feelings of breaking up with her, I stop calling or texting her, I don’t even know what’s going on in my life right now but my mind keep telling me to break up with her cus I need to be free.

Please over to you married men and those who are in relationship, how does it work out for you? I don’t understand my life again!

You must have been telling women sweet things that will make them commit themselves to you and you will just break up just like that

Check well who cursed you among the one you toyed her heart with

This act of yours may continue till the jinx is broken

Tejumola856:
I’ve tried to be in relationship many times but it doesn’t work for me, I will just get tired all of the sudden within a couple of months, I can’t even point out a reason I get tired of it, I dated at least 6 girls last year which I later breakup with them without a reason.

What I discovered is that I always love them in the beginning to the extent that I will promise them heaven and earth, at the end of the day i will get tired of them.

The issue now is that, I met this girl last year December during the Christmas, I’m not going to lie, I truly love this girl, I asked her out and she agreed to be in relationship with me, this girl has been loyal to me, she’s always come to cook for me, she has once washed my clothes, I found happiness and joy in her but now, I’m having a feelings of breaking up with her, I stop calling or texting her, I don’t even know what’s going on in my life right now but my mind keep telling me to break up with her cus I need to be free.

Please over to you married men and those who are in relationship, how does it work out for you? I don’t understand my life again!

Relationship is not for u.

You have a spiritual problem and you need help. I suggest you go deliverance.

SheCeo:
Are you a saddist?


My advice do yourself and the next women a favour by staying AWAY until you figure out what you actually want/feel. Don't go hurting people

Ama tubara eh
Ye Tari emi oh

gees101:
Ama tubara eh
Ye Tari emi oh

Hahaha
Pa si sei o
Do lo do lo

Tejumola856:
I’ve tried to be in relationship many times but it doesn’t work for me, I will just get tired all of the sudden within a couple of months, I can’t even point out a reason I get tired of it, I dated at least 6 girls last year which I later breakup with them without a reason.

What I discovered is that I always love them in the beginning to the extent that I will promise them heaven and earth, at the end of the day i will get tired of them.

The issue now is that, I met this girl last year December during the Christmas, I’m not going to lie, I truly love this girl, I asked her out and she agreed to be in relationship with me, this girl has been loyal to me, she’s always come to cook for me, she has once washed my clothes, I found happiness and joy in her but now, I’m having a feelings of breaking up with her, I stop calling or texting her, I don’t even know what’s going on in my life right now but my mind keep telling me to break up with her cus I need to be free.

Please over to you married men and those who are in relationship, how does it work out for you? I don’t understand my life again!

I sincerely want to advice you before but when I saw that you claim to be devoted Moslem, I perceived that you should know what the source of your problem already. Polygamy runs freely in your blood. And you are also far from been mature mentality.

Hmm.... You seem to feel bad about it which means you not doing it intentionally, the only means two things; Either you have 1) A psychological problem that needs intervention or 2) You have a Spiritual problem This is no insult at all please, just being realistic.

Tejumola856:
I’ve tried to be in relationship many times but it doesn’t work for me, I will just get tired all of the sudden within a couple of months, I can’t even point out a reason I get tired of it, I dated at least 6 girls last year which I later breakup with them without a reason.

What I discovered is that I always love them in the beginning to the extent that I will promise them heaven and earth, at the end of the day i will get tired of them.

The issue now is that, I met this girl last year December during the Christmas, I’m not going to lie, I truly love this girl, I asked her out and she agreed to be in relationship with me, this girl has been loyal to me, she’s always come to cook for me, she has once washed my clothes, I found happiness and joy in her but now, I’m having a feelings of breaking up with her, I stop calling or texting her, I don’t even know what’s going on in my life right now but my mind keep telling me to break up with her cus I need to be free.

Please over to you married men and those who are in relationship, how does it work out for you? I don’t understand my life again!

Jman06:
Op, I can understand your plight.
The reason is that an average Nigerian girl is not interesting to be with and to make matters worse, they don't even make attempts to improve on themselves since they believe that only the guy has the responsibility to bring everything into the relationship---the fun, the funds, etc. Many of them can't even hold conversations.

So, after enduring a few months of boredom, it is only natural for you to lose interest.

You are speaking about the kind of girls you attract and hang out with. Up your game, and stop putting the blame on Naija dames.!

AgreatMan:
Actually, the above factors r the exact reason why he wouldn't settle.

If a guy is of age n can settle his bills, people often feel it's time to settle. Why shd he settle n marry, when the best years of his life is just starting?

If a guy can date 6 girls in a year, it means he has being able to brush up himself physically/financially to now look like the shiny groom. Same people that won't even look his way 5 years ago.

Until that guy finds someone who can challenge him mentally, he is never ever going to settle n I support him. The reality is that most girls tend to over relax n stop doing things that attracted the guy in the first instance.

I am not saying he has no faults, it's just that, it is his time

If at that age, a man isn't ready or thinking to settle down, it means he might never settle down, but he should remember his father got married and birthed him.
A man can get married early and still enjoy himself, the only issue the op is having is the fear of staying with one female throughout his life
To me, dating more than 6 girls in a year doesn't show maturity or to show he has brushed up himself, to me it's a childish behaviour, so I believe he is still a child, when he is mature enough he will think right

Onyiiobi7735:
Nawa oo! More reasons girls should learn to stop offering sex in a relationship. At least if the man breaks up with her,she has absolutely nothing to lose and she can easily forget all and move on.

Very few have something meaningful to offer than sex.

Best advice given.

missimelda01:
Try not to have sex with the next girl you meet, find other non-sexual ways to build intimacy and you'll continue to find her interesting.

SheCeo:
Hahaha
Pa si sei o
Do lo do lo

Lol
Ado yi tubo

Honestly i think it's time to speak up too. Mine is that i always find it difficult to date a girl between my age bracket. If am her seniour boom i will get tired of her and if she's my mate i lose interest too but if she's my seniour i always love her to the core and current there's this lady in my life very tall chocolate and beautiful. I love her so much and every now and then all she does is to please me wheather it favour's her or not. She feels more happy when am happy too and will always know when am in need or broke. But other ladies in my age bracket don't really care about me like she does. I have about 3 ladies who are my seniour 3 of them are of same character when it come to care about me. But this ladies that are my matd are just wark. I don't know if the problem is from me or is there anything beyond my understanding? Pls what exacly could this be? Where are the married men and women in the house?

Try to create a little tention btw both of u,this sometimes help to refresh relationships,though it's too early for you complain of Boredom in a relationship that is not up to 3 yrs,that's why you really need prayers something is wrong somewhere, I guess the lady in question is too available or she's d one always calling,texting,visiting you,trying to please you if all these are happening btw both of u then you suppose to request for some space not breaking up.

LIVEGOESON1:
Honestly i think it's time to speak up too. Mine is that i always find it difficult to date a girl between my age bracket. If am her seniour boom i will get tired of her and if she's my mate i lose interest too but if she's my seniour i always love her to the core and current there's this lady in my life very tall chocolate and beautiful. I love her so much and every now and then all she does is to please me wheather it favour's her or not. She feels more happy when am happy too and will always know when am in need or broke. But other ladies in my age bracket don't really care about me like she does. I have about 3 ladies who are my seniour 3 of them are of same character when it come to care about me. But this ladies that are my matd are just wark. I don't know if the problem is from me or is there anything beyond my understanding? Pls what exacly could this be? Where are the married men and women in the house?

Age is just a number go for what suit you,as long as you're sure the one you choose also love you

SheCeo:
Hahaha
Pa si sei o
Do lo do lo

Hahahaha
Ok Tari
Korotimi oh

SheCeo:
Hahaha
Pa si sei o
Do lo do lo

He loves you na
Binarau answer him well ooo

gees101:
Hahahaha
Ok Tari
Korotimi oh

This your love
Are you sure it is strong or it is just lust?

iamDrRhymes:
Mehn! Please stay away from marriage. Try and kill the thought of it.

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missimelda01:
Try not to have sex with the next girl you meet, find other non-sexual ways to build intimacy and you'll continue to find her interesting.

how can one date a girl without peruzzing?

Jman06:
You're very right on this. That's what I have always told people when they lie about how marriage is for companionship and all that.
Most married men are alone! Nothing like companionship from their wives. That is why some seek fun with younger girls outside or take to drinking beer to make themselves happy.

This is actually the truth. Yet it's hidden from men!

Spiritual wife

Lights up my kpoli in peace

frozen70:
You must have been telling women sweet things that will make them commit themselves to you and you will just break up just like that

Check well who cursed you among the one you toyed her heart with

This act of yours may continue till the jinx is broken

Wise words!

Continue to break ladies heart. A day will come when yoh will jam a super lady

Jman06:
Op, I can understand your plight.
The reason is that an average Nigerian girl is not interesting to be with and to make matters worse, they don't even make attempts to improve on themselves since they believe that only the guy has the responsibility to bring everything into the relationship---the fun, the funds, etc. Many of them can't even hold conversations.

So, after enduring a few months of boredom, it is only natural for you to lose interest.

TRUTH

Tejumola856:
I’ve tried to be in relationship many times but it doesn’t work for me, I will just get tired all of the sudden within a couple of months, I can’t even point out a reason I get tired of it, I dated at least 6 girls last year which I later breakup with them without a reason.

What I discovered is that I always love them in the beginning to the extent that I will promise them heaven and earth, at the end of the day i will get tired of them.

The issue now is that, I met this girl last year December during the Christmas, I’m not going to lie, I truly love this girl, I asked her out and she agreed to be in relationship with me, this girl has been loyal to me, she’s always come to cook for me, she has once washed my clothes, I found happiness and joy in her but now, I’m having a feelings of breaking up with her, I stop calling or texting her, I don’t even know what’s going on in my life right now but my mind keep telling me to break up with her cus I need to be free.

Please over to you married men and those who are in relationship, how does it work out for you? I don’t understand my life again!

Only you dating 6 babes nawao, you must have asked 200 girls out for that

It's either you feel accomplished when you have sex with them and let them go to look for your next victim

Or

You are not matured enough to be in a responsible relationship

Tejumola856:
I’ve tried to be in relationship many times but it doesn’t work for me, I will just get tired all of the sudden within a couple of months, I can’t even point out a reason I get tired of it, I dated at least 6 girls last year which I later breakup with them without a reason.

What I discovered is that I always love them in the beginning to the extent that I will promise them heaven and earth, at the end of the day i will get tired of them.

The issue now is that, I met this girl last year December during the Christmas, I’m not going to lie, I truly love this girl, I asked her out and she agreed to be in relationship with me, this girl has been loyal to me, she’s always come to cook for me, she has once washed my clothes, I found happiness and joy in her but now, I’m having a feelings of breaking up with her, I stop calling or texting her, I don’t even know what’s going on in my life right now but my mind keep telling me to break up with her cus I need to be free.

Please over to you married men and those who are in relationship, how does it work out for you? I don’t understand my life again!

toujurs:
No o, they haven't, okay it's just like getting into a marriage, you know the love and spicy sex will be shacking the couple but after a year, or after the first child, you start hearing names like mama nkechi. That's what i meant by the eagerness of the touchy touchy reducing. It's not like the man would leave her or doesn't love her, the love just reduces after sex, It's natural for men, and that's when the lady love emotions explodes.

It's the lust that reduces after sex not love. Love only grows stronger with time. You're confusing lust with love

As I said earlier, if it's only lust, he loses interest after sex. If it was lust and love, he stays because the love is still there

Maybe you're right about him not doing as much after sex even though he may still love her. I guess he stops doing as much because the lust reduces but he stays because he still loves her

Then again, some men will just keep using the girl after sex even if he doesn't love her or want to marry her. Some men actually stop contacting the girl after sex. But some men stay after sex because they really love the woman