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nedekid:
It is well.

This is my wife's account though...
My wife try ooo... she strong ... sometimes bloodline is not really ones family

It seems your mother cares more about looks than you. But maybe she sees something in him that you don't, e.g. insecurity. Ask her to explain.

Haakeem:
Tell her to lay her cure that you don't care.

Girl! Fight for the man you lo*v as far he isnt into fetish things or you would regret sooner or later. Imagine! Some parents enh...

I don’t advice anyone to proceed on an marriage without parents consent. Is dangerous, I repeat is dangerous. Just try and make them see reasons with you or know why dey rejected him

general111:
your mum is this way because you allowed her.
Parents will always try to control the choices of their grown ups.
Just ignore your mum and start the marriage preparations, get married to your boo and move on.
Overtime, she will just change

But you can’t start marriage preparations like that na, who will collect the bride price?

Prettychild:
But you can’t start marriage preparations like that na, who will collect the bride price?

if you insist on getting married to a person, your mum cant stop you..
Your mum is acting up because she knows you are listening to her.

Loewe:
Even if she is a millionaire, courtesy demands that you send gifts, visit her family from time to time. You're the one with the poverty mentality here man... Cos u think spending that small change in ur pocket will kill you.

Lols! Poor man spotted.

A very comfortable or rich mother in law to be will not judge you based on gifts. She will judge you based on your character, eg do you womanise.

Tell your mama that the guy is slender but the konji na super

234GT:
Lols! Poor man spotted.

A very comfortable or rich mother in law to be will not judge you based on gifts. She will judge you based on your character, eg do you womanise.

Lol, you're the poor one, not me... If you knew me on a norms, U wouldn't say the above. But then, na social media so you can say nonsense.

Either ways, omniknowest. Continue.

general111:
if you insist on getting married to a person, your mum cant stop you..
Your mum is acting up because she knows you are listening to her.

What if it’s your Dad and Mum that are refusing to accept the person, what will you do?

Kate999:
I have been in a serious relationship with a guy for 7 years, last year I formally introduced him to my parents. We want to start the marriage arrangements this year but my mum has bluntly refused my fiancée, her excuse is that the guy is not presentable due to his slender physique and she feels that I will be maltreated by the guy once we get married.

I know this guy too well and he cares for me a lot and has never raised his hands on me. My mum has insisted that if I go on with the my wedding plans she will disown me and place a curse on me.

What baffles me is that she has never seen this guy in person, they have only talked on the phone, she just made her judgement via phone calls and photographs.

I really want to fight for what I love but both my parents have refused to respect my decision.

Your parents may give a flimsy excuse, but what they see sitting you can never see it while standing.

Sit back, take a deep breath and ask yourself what you know of your mother as a person. Is she a spiritual person?

Meanwhile, parents are usually right when they are against you marrying anyone at least to 75% times from experiences of what happens around us.

If your mum says No, make sure God says Yes, if not you will blame yourself for life.

Marriage no bi university degree oh, wey u made wrong course decision and still be able to fit in into what other people studied.

Prettychild:
What if it’s your Dad and Mum that are refusing to accept the person, what will you do?

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If you insist on what you want, they can never stop you..
The reason why parents try to stop their children from marrying a person is because they think their children will listen.

Kate999:
I have been in a serious relationship with a guy for 7 years, last year I formally introduced him to my parents. We want to start the marriage arrangements this year but my mum has bluntly refused my fiancée, her excuse is that the guy is not presentable due to his slender physique and she feels that I will be maltreated by the guy once we get married.

I know this guy too well and he cares for me a lot and has never raised his hands on me. My mum has insisted that if I go on with the my wedding plans she will disown me and place a curse on me.

What baffles me is that she has never seen this guy in person, they have only talked on the phone, she just made her judgement via phone calls and photographs.

I really want to fight for what I love but both my parents have refused to respect my decision.

While I'm not against fighting for the man you love (I hope, sincerely hope, he loves you that way too), BIKO, BIKONU, don't marry without your parent's consent o... E get WHY.

menopause go soon catch u...

tell her if she get man for you

Loewe:
Lol, you're the poor one, not me... If you knew me on a norms, U wouldn't say the above. But then, na social media so you can say nonsense.

Either ways, omniknowest. Continue.

You are poor and have an entitlement mentality.

234GT:
You are poor and have an entitlement mentality.

I am rich and have a sense of social understanding. You're the one with the poor mindset who believes his POV is the only way to reason...

Loewe:
I am rich and have a sense of social understanding. You're the one with the poor mindset who believes his POV is the only way to reason...

Lols! Rich parents don't care about gifts from children or spouses of their children.

Only poor ones do.

My point of view is correct. You don't expect an AGM who earns 3M per month to judge his prospective son inlaw based on gifts.

Marrying from a poor family � is a crime

GboyegaD:
Who raised our generation like this? They should assess him before he married their daughter and if they don't want him, she should find someone else. Never knew there's a store one shops for future partners until now.

Guess you're the one raised with very bad orientation.
How can you say parents consent is not necessary in a marriage........ MARRIAGE ooooo, not chop and clean mouth relationship!
Your eyes go soon clear and it's the same parents that will bail you out when kasala burst...

may320:
Guess you're the one raised with very bad orientation.
How can you say parents consent is not necessary in a marriage........ MARRIAGE ooooo, not chop and clean mouth relationship!
Your eyes go soon clear and it's the same parents that will bail you out when kasala burst...

Oga, no one said one should seek parental consent. The most important thing is that your parents should respect your decision.

Chloraseptic:
The reason is simple.

Your mum used to fûck the guy behind your back..

ya mahdt Sir.

Kate999:
I have been in a serious relationship with a guy for 7 years, last year I formally introduced him to my parents. We want to start the marriage arrangements this year but my mum has bluntly refused my fiancée, her excuse is that the guy is not presentable due to his slender physique and she feels that I will be maltreated by the guy once we get married.

I know this guy too well and he cares for me a lot and has never raised his hands on me. My mum has insisted that if I go on with the my wedding plans she will disown me and place a curse on me.

What baffles me is that she has never seen this guy in person, they have only talked on the phone, she just made her judgement via phone calls and photographs.

I really want to fight for what I love but both my parents have refused to respect my decision.

Your mum controls your fathers house and want you to have a man you can control too but you fell for trust and affection from your to be husband. Follow your mind and win your race