Any girl you are approaching - either for dating or marriage already has at least 7 guys propositioning her at any given time.... and are constantly evaluating their options.... this explains why a girl could say no to you one weekend and then you will hear a month down the line she has just done a wedding....

Should a guy also have 7 girls in the pipeline to keep the power dynamics equal?

See jamb question.

is call plan A,B,C,D.

Make money and let the jobless ones figure plan A to Z .. u will be everyone’s plan A )

Came4amod:
Make money and let the jobless ones figure plan A to Z .. u will be everyone’s plan A )

How can I like this post ten times ....



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A guy should. But unfortunately marriage doesn't benefit men . Is better u do baby mama things . Nigerian girls of today are so un-productive and very u.suuless. Marrying them is a waste of money because you will regret it at last . She will cheat on u and bring other men children for you to raise . So young men should be careful.

Nigerian females should be avoided by all means

Came4amod:
Make money and let the jobless ones figure plan A to Z .. u will be everyone’s plan A )

And when the money finishes, you become plan Z?? That's a short sighted plan.... money helps to a large extent I agree though....

Escabado:
Of cause I guy should. But unfortunately marriage doesn't benefit men . Is better u do baby mama things . Nigerian girls of today are so un-productive and very u.suuless. Marrying them is a waste of money because you will regret it at last . [b]She will cheat on u and bring other men children for you to raise . [/b]So young men should be careful.

If a guy told me this a few years ago, I wouldn't have believed it.... the bolded seems part of female nature and I would like us to discuss it more on this thread..... male cheating does not typically result in children outside wedlock but when women do so, they also have the effontry to bring the bastard children for the unlucky man to raise..... women have been doing this for a while.....

phemy36:
Nigerian females should be avoided by all means

All females actually.... better to focus on Jesus and have a girlfriend or wife just to have company in physical form....

BigBashiru:


And when the money finishes, you become plan Z?? That's a short sighted plan.... no helps to a large extent I agree though....

I don't blame these women, more over its not as if ladies date themselves i.e men are part of these problem, even the ladies wearing ring there guyz still chasing them.
Like someone said, as a man just make money and stay bless you don't have to rack your brain about her other plans esp. when you know ur worth she leaves naa her loss.

larryjonze:



I don't blame these women, more over its not as if ladies date themselves i.e men are part of these problem, even the ladies wearing ring there guyz still chasing them.
Like someone said, as a man just make money and stay bless you don't have to rack your brain about her other plans esp. when you know ur worth she leaves naa her loss.

I once saw a disgusting scene.... a married woman pushing her baby on the tram/push chair was still being chased by a guy on the street.... ridiculous

BigBashiru:
Any girl you are approaching - either for dating or marriage already has at least 7 guys propositioning her at any given time.... and are constantly evaluating their options.... this explains why a girl could say no to you one weekend and then you will hear a month down the line she has just done a wedding....

Should a guy also have 7 girls in the pipeline to keep the power dynamics equal?

It's better for a lady to disappoint a guy than for a guy to disappoint a girl cos their shelf life is much shorter

BigBashiru:


I once saw a disgusting scene.... a married woman pushing her baby on the tram/push chair was still being chased by a guy on the street.... ridiculous

That is the one you see, as much as we bash the female gender do we(males) give them much of a choice.
most times men make themselves options more compared to options women create, and lets not forget women don't have time like men

larryjonze:



That is the one you see, as much as we bash the female gender do we(males) give them much of a choice.
most times men make themselves options more compared to options women create, and lets not forget women don't have time like men

I don't understand your second sentence.. Pls expanciate

BigBashiru:


And when the money finishes, you become plan Z?? That's a short sighted plan.... money helps to a large extent I agree though....

Lol how will money finish .. u want to stop making money ? When u run out of income u start to die slowly .. the grind never stops for a real man ..

If u are not solid to the level where u can’t be broke anymore u have not started .. and this kind of lifestyle is not for you

Came4amod:


Lol how will money finish .. u want to stop making money ? When u run out of income u start to die slowly .. the grind never stops for a real man ..

If u are not solid to the level where u can’t be broke anymore u have not started .. and this kind of lifestyle is not for you

This your plan no realistic oh.... a man can go thru a rough patch and not have money besides if the woman is to be held solely by money then she is probably not the right woman....

BigBashiru:


And when the money finishes, you become plan Z?? That's a short sighted plan.... money helps to a large extent I agree though....

E get people wey there money no dey finish. Abi you don't know that one. Invest in a business that stands even the most troublesome of the pandemic. I knew a guy that bought houses cos covid19 skyrocketed his net worth

He deals on medicals.

Some who are into sports franchises. How can their money finnish everyday there are leagues and matches going on. Even while you are sleeping some guys are in stadium locking horns. Scoring goals. You wake up to met money in your account.

Some saved their money in foreign currency and once exchange rates go up they cash out.

Some are into transportation... Whether you like it or not their money comes everyday. If NNPC increase fuel price... E no concern them... They increase the tfares

I was having a hair cut in a unisex salon. The other side of the salon is ladies who come for hand jobs and making their hair etc.

They started their usual gossip and one was bragging that he will Finnish the guy money before he dumps the guy. I was listening to her naivety.

How can you Finnish the bucks of a real baller?

You are dating him to Finnish his money and he is displaying all many of hardcore stunts on you in the name of bleeping you. You endured cos you want to Finnish the money. You continue with him for like 4 to 5 yrs the money never Finnish. One day he decides to dump you and he finds a young innocent girl and settles down with her.

Money you never Finnish. Marry he no marry you. Wetin you gain na bunch of clothes, expensive wigs, shoes and handbags and an iPhone and loads of pics with him on social media... Which you will eventually delete when two of you break up.

You're the losser.

True...


Abeg Una no dey like person comment for fun again?

Dear Nairalanders

Happy weekend

God knows girls no dey use me play. I select who I Dey date sef and friend zone many.

Most time I just imagine some guys without a single girlfriend while I can count 8 to be the ones I’m dating.


Life no balance

Yes. very important

Lol

Yes
I have 3 already planning to add more

As in ehn, what's happening these days?

I am on point