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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by JayPeeOham: 2:30pm On Feb 11, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

Then bounce..

Okay, I have bounced! grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by JayPeeOham: 2:31pm On Feb 11, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

Then bounce..

Okay, I have bounced..Lol! grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by JayPeeOham: 2:32pm On Feb 11, 2022
[quote author=FERNANDEZISBACK [/quote]

Okay, I have bounced..Lol! grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by Bubblewitch: 2:33pm On Feb 11, 2022
od501:


Because he is the father. Isn't that more than enough reason?
no, he is a sperm donor who is only looking for his son because he has been unfortunate not to have another one.

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by adekunleogun: 2:39pm On Feb 11, 2022
golbe1972:
With deep pain in my heart I'm crying out for justice and help from all those who can help me locate my son .

The last time I saw my son was when he was two years old before the mother eloped with him. His name is Nelson Raymond but I heard they've changed his name to ADEWALE.

The woman in question is from a popular Kotun family in Lagos. I was literally slap on the face due to my financial incapability. The woman's name is RONKE KOTUN, heard she's married to one Mohammed.

I was deprived access to my son because I'm not a Muslim and she thought I would influence the boy from turning away from Islam if I should be in his life. The last time I managed to get her contact she boasted that I'm nobody in Lagos and can't take her anywhere. I contacted the Justice court for mediation but we couldn't locate her to serve her an invitation.

Please I'm using this medium to reach out to anyone with useful information on how to track her. I contacted a family member of hers who claimed he doesn't know where she lives, yet he kept collecting money from me under the pretence of helping to locate my son.

It's really depressing as this is my only child and I'm not getting any younger and with underlining medical conditions which makes me think I might never see my son again before my time comes.

Please this is a plea of a helpless man seeking for justice.

OP, pls where and how did you meet that woman before she born a baby for you?
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by ALFADOS(m): 2:40pm On Feb 11, 2022
golbe1972:
With deep pain in my heart I'm crying out for justice and help from all those who can help me locate my son .

The last time I saw my son was when he was two years old before the mother eloped with him. His name is Nelson Raymond but I heard they've changed his name to ADEWALE.

The woman in question is from a popular Kotun family in Lagos. I was literally slap on the face due to my financial incapability. The woman's name is RONKE KOTUN, heard she's married to one Mohammed.

I was deprived access to my son because I'm not a Muslim and she thought I would influence the boy from turning away from Islam if I should be in his life. The last time I managed to get her contact she boasted that I'm nobody in Lagos and can't take her anywhere. I contacted the Justice court for mediation but we couldn't locate her to serve her an invitation.

Please I'm using this medium to reach out to anyone with useful information on how to track her. I contacted a family member of hers who claimed he doesn't know where she lives, yet he kept collecting money from me under the pretence of helping to locate my son.

It's really depressing as this is my only child and I'm not getting any younger and with underlining medical conditions which makes me think I might never see my son again before my time comes.

Please this is a plea of a helpless man seeking for justice.
Follow the road you take meet the mother of your son before you impregnated her and get your son back.simple as that
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by Das1mama: 2:44pm On Feb 11, 2022
MufasaLion:


Place of prayer? I wonder how y'all reason.
am very suprised o bro. If u talk now dey will be saying person na devil. Ignorance is actually a big disease

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by od501: 3:15pm On Feb 11, 2022
Bubblewitch:
no, he is a sperm donor who is only looking for his son because he has been unfortunate not to have another one.

grin grin .... women!! I no dey pity who dey oppress una at all.... una mind are wickedly distorted.

So... since it is right to call a man who impregnated a woman a sperm donor, is it right to then now call the woman who gave birth to the child a worm donor. At least, for the sake of equity.

This is why I will always regard FFK as an alpha make. Women don't deserve pity.
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by Bubblewitch: 3:19pm On Feb 11, 2022
od501:


grin grin .... women!! I no dey pity who dey oppress una at all.... una mind are wickedly distorted.

So... since it is right to call a man who impregnated a woman a sperm donor, is it right to then now call the woman who gave birth to the child a worm donor. At least, for the sake of equity.

This is why I will always regard FFK as an alpha make. Women don't deserve pity.
A man that abandoned his child for 24years only to seek him out because he doesn’t have another son and is dying is a what? You uselesss Nigerian men would be supporting bad behaviour.

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by od501: 3:26pm On Feb 11, 2022
Bubblewitch:
A man that abandoned his child for 24years only to seek him out because he doesn’t have another son and is dying is a what? You uselesss Nigerian men would be supporting bad behaviour.

I can understand your frustration grin grin, you sound like another conquered feminist that has been seriously dealt with by an alpha male. It's good news, that means that Nigerian men are finally waking up grin.

Anyways, did you read where the Op said that she ran aways with the child, and was seriously humiliated by the wife's family? I doubt you did. Frustration has beclowded your sense of comprehension. Nigerian gals, be reasoning like expired Zobo since 1090 BC grin
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by Megabig: 3:35pm On Feb 11, 2022
golbe1972:
With deep pain in my heart I'm crying out for justice and help from all those who can help me locate my son .

The last time I saw my son was when he was two years old before the mother eloped with him. His name is Nelson Raymond but I heard they've changed his name to ADEWALE.

The woman in question is from a popular Kotun family in Lagos. I was literally slap on the face due to my financial incapability. The woman's name is RONKE KOTUN, heard she's married to one Mohammed.

I was deprived access to my son because I'm not a Muslim and she thought I would influence the boy from turning away from Islam if I should be in his life. The last time I managed to get her contact she boasted that I'm nobody in Lagos and can't take her anywhere. I contacted the Justice court for mediation but we couldn't locate her to serve her an invitation.

Please I'm using this medium to reach out to anyone with useful information on how to track her. I contacted a family member of hers who claimed he doesn't know where she lives, yet he kept collecting money from me under the pretence of helping to locate my son.

It's really depressing as this is my only child and I'm not getting any younger and with underlining medical conditions which makes me think I might never see my son again before my time comes.

Please this is a plea of a helpless man seeking for justice.
Do a good TikTok video and post it online. Your son will find you

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by blacq2009(m): 3:35pm On Feb 11, 2022
motionarena:
24 years!

What have been doing since?
He should be 26 now.

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by VULCAN(m): 3:51pm On Feb 11, 2022
It's actually you atheists that are so dumb.

A cursory glance at nature should tell anybody with sense that the meticulous ORDER that permeates the seen universe can only be the result of intelligence.

Thankfully Quantum Physics has proven that consciousness is the primary essence that permeates creation.

Go and educate yourself and stop wallowing in ignorance.


No wonder you are on every thread making daft statements just to draw attention and gain some modicum of validation.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

What was your God doing when all this was happening..
Ooh I forgot he was smiling from his home so the people he created can keep suffering..

You religious Dumbos are really disgusting..
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by Oem18(m): 4:37pm On Feb 11, 2022
golbe1972:
With deep pain in my heart I'm crying out for justice and help from all those who can help me locate my son .

The last time I saw my son was when he was two years old before the mother eloped with him. His name is Nelson Raymond but I heard they've changed his name to ADEWALE.

The woman in question is from a popular Kotun family in Lagos. I was literally slap on the face due to my financial incapability. The woman's name is RONKE KOTUN, heard she's married to one Mohammed.

I was deprived access to my son because I'm not a Muslim and she thought I would influence the boy from turning away from Islam if I should be in his life. The last time I managed to get her contact she boasted that I'm nobody in Lagos and can't take her anywhere. I contacted the Justice court for mediation but we couldn't locate her to serve her an invitation.

Please I'm using this medium to reach out to anyone with useful information on how to track her. I contacted a family member of hers who claimed he doesn't know where she lives, yet he kept collecting money from me under the pretence of helping to locate my son.

It's really depressing as this is my only child and I'm not getting any younger and with underlining medical conditions which makes me think I might never see my son again before my time comes.

Please this is a plea of a helpless man seeking for justice.
Op hurry up and hire a private investigator they'll find them in a week
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by Bubblewitch: 5:33pm On Feb 11, 2022
od501:


I can understand your frustration grin grin, you sound like another conquered feminist that has been seriously dealt with by an alpha male. It's good news, that means that Nigerian men are finally waking up grin.

Anyways, did you read where the Op said that she ran aways with the child, and was seriously humiliated by the wife's family? I doubt you did. Frustration has beclowded your sense of comprehension. Nigerian gals, be reasoning like expired Zobo since 1090 BC grin
She ran away with his child and for 24years he didn’t see him? Una dey ment. So you took that hook line and sinker. Smh. Everything you can’t accept, you begin to claim feminist. Oga shift, una two fit una sef

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by FERNANDEZISBACK: 6:20pm On Feb 11, 2022
VULCAN:
It's actually you atheists that are so dumb.

A cursory glance at nature should tell anybody with sense that the meticulous ORDER that permeates the seen universe can only be the result of intelligence.

Thankfully Quantum Physics has proven that consciousness is the primary essence that permeates creation.

Go and educate yourself and stop wallowing in ignorance.


No wonder you are on every thread making daft statements just to draw attention and gain some modicum of validation.

Shove that down your throat.. grin smiley
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by lozanni(m): 6:23pm On Feb 11, 2022
golbe1972:
With deep pain in my heart I'm crying out for justice and help from all those who can help me locate my son .

The last time I saw my son was when he was two years old before the mother eloped with him. His name is Nelson Raymond but I heard they've changed his name to ADEWALE.

The woman in question is from a popular Kotun family in Lagos. I was literally slap on the face due to my financial incapability. The woman's name is RONKE KOTUN, heard she's married to one Mohammed.

I was deprived access to my son because I'm not a Muslim and she thought I would influence the boy from turning away from Islam if I should be in his life. The last time I managed to get her contact she boasted that I'm nobody in Lagos and can't take her anywhere. I contacted the Justice court for mediation but we couldn't locate her to serve her an invitation.

Please I'm using this medium to reach out to anyone with useful information on how to track her. I contacted a family member of hers who claimed he doesn't know where she lives, yet he kept collecting money from me under the pretence of helping to locate my son.

It's really depressing as this is my only child and I'm not getting any younger and with underlining medical conditions which makes me think I might never see my son again before my time comes.

Please this is a plea of a helpless man seeking for justice.

Sorry about your son.
I will advise that you visit the Office of the Public Defender (OPD) along Western Avenue( Funsho Williams Avenue). The office is situated at Stadium bus stop, after the National Stadium if you are coming from Costain bus stop. They will be able to provide you legal, and Police assistance if necessary, as they are a department of the Lagos State Government and their services are rendered free of charge.
I wish you success in locating and reuniting with your son.

NB: Your son is an adult now, but I hope OPD can still help you
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by SolaScrivens: 6:33pm On Feb 11, 2022
Years from now, Seun Ilegbusi of Akoko, if God spares his life will be yarning a similar story if not worse...

Regardless he will never set eyes on his Child!

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by chaloskyx: 7:15pm On Feb 11, 2022
GO AND GIVE BIRTH TO ANOTHER SON ABEG YOUR SON AND WIFE HAVE MOVED ON TRUTH IS YOU PROBABLY WERE A SHITHOLE FATHER WHO WAS ALSO NOT FINANCIALLY CAPABLE SO SHE LEFT AND LET ME TELL YOU YOU ARE PROBABLY STILL A SHITHOLE FATHER AND YOUR FINANCES ARE YET TO IMPROVE CAUSE IF IT DID THEY WOULD BE THE ONES LOOKING FOR YOU NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND GET YOUR LIFE BACK ON TRACK AND STOP WASTING YOUR TIME CHASING GHOSTS

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by BestRicePlug28(f): 7:39pm On Feb 11, 2022
tiswell:
has he not said enough already ?



am ebo!
. If I check pictures now u might just be a kid in your teens. Don't worry, mama is busy! That's the bone n here is the floor bingo, u can play alone.

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by tonididdy(m): 8:10pm On Feb 11, 2022
My guy nor be by power you go take solve this matter... If you like go all the court in obodo9ja


One of the easiest solutions na to beg this your pikin mama say abeg make u still see your pikin for eye.
Na beg you go beg, threatening her will only distant her away further.


24 years is a lot of time, usually your son supposed come find you unless e malle tell am say, you don die or your son na wayward.
Otherwise e supposed come find you! Na beg or patience you go still get
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by tiswell(m): 9:46pm On Feb 11, 2022
BestRicePlug28:
. If I check pictures now u might just be a kid in your teens. Don't worry, mama is busy! That's the bone n here is the floor bingo, u can play alone.

Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by od501: 10:34pm On Feb 11, 2022
Bubblewitch:
She ran away with his child and for 24years he didn’t see him? Una dey ment. So you are that hook line and sinker. Smh. Everything you can’t accept, you begin to claim feminist. Oga shift, una two fit una sef

I'm soo... done with bitter women like you. I pity that Simp that will fall for your trap
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by Bubblewitch: 5:42am On Feb 12, 2022
od501:


I'm soo... done with bitter women like you. I pity that Simp that will fall for your trap
suddenly I am bitter cause I said a man should no reap where he didn’t sow? I am not married to fraudsters or incompetence

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by Nobody: 10:32am On Feb 12, 2022
Your Son name is probably never ADEWALE, and you need to stop stressing yourself ,because it is pretty stressful looking for a needle in the desert sand after a sand storm. The strangest thing is that your son could be looking for you, the way you are looking for him, but you know the only thing you can hope is some divine arrangement, because as long as someone is extracting money from you, or your Will is leaked, you might probably never see him . There is something called Abraham's Blessing, just like there was trade by barter. The Physical Plain might be control by man, but the Spiritual Realm is control by God. Just Bless him and hope the Angels deliver it. A child left at a young age might remember few things but putting everything together might be pretty difficult, that is why Fulani people always sew that coat of many colors for their kids ,so he remembers his or her identity even if he grows up with another identity or tribe. Better still go and apologize to your in-laws, if they would hear, na condition make cray fish bend.
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by Spherical77(m): 4:30pm On Feb 12, 2022
tranxo:

Claim what is his? Take a chill pill. The man is only trying to see his son may be one last time before he dies and you are trying to prove what with your question?
guy na who train pikin get pikin o.. being a sperm donor doesn't guarantee you the ownner o

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by Biglittlelois(f): 8:21pm On Feb 12, 2022
okwadatigbogal:



I put it to you that you probably abandoned this lady! Yes, you did! Forget this muslim and christian narrative you are trying to claim. A young girl that slept with you, carried pregnancy for you till full term and gave birth just suddenly realised that you are not a muslim? "It's really depressing as this is my only child and I'm not getting any younger and with underlining medical conditions", - This is the reason you are seeking him out now. You sowed your wild oats and used and dumped the mother of your child in your youth. Now life has dealt with you and you don't have any other children, then you remembered this. Would you have sought for the boy if you had other children
I pity you men, especially these small boys on these nairaland that talk trash about women daily. You use and abandon them. Remember that children are more geared towards theirs mother even when the both parents are still together, talk less of when she's a single mother and she single handedly raised the child. In your own case, there's even a step-father in the picture who probably adopted the boy and took on responsibility. Old age is just a few years away for everyone. What you sowed during your youth, you will reap in old age. Men are known to be especially lonely when they are getting old, even those that are still married- unlike women who most likely have children and grandchildren and omugwo to keep them busy.

Go and read Jeff Bezos story...his real father is a bicycle repairer till today. Another man raised Jeff. The sperm-donor of a father didn't bother to ask where he was till jeff became a billionaire. Even the surname 'Bezos' is his step-father's name. Now Jeff is the richest man in the world and doesn't even acknowledge the so-called sperm-donor. Same as Steve Jobs.

A word is enough for the wise...Gone are the days when 'children look for their irresponsible fathers' - like most of you believe. Children of these days no send you! Behave well in your youth!!

kiss

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by bepositive11: 8:39pm On Feb 12, 2022
golbe1972:
With deep pain in my heart I'm crying out for justice and help from all those who can help me locate my son .

The last time I saw my son was when he was two years old before the mother eloped with him. His name is Nelson Raymond but I heard they've changed his name to ADEWALE.

The woman in question is from a popular Kotun family in Lagos. I was literally slap on the face due to my financial incapability. The woman's name is RONKE KOTUN, heard she's married to one Mohammed.

I was deprived access to my son because I'm not a Muslim and she thought I would influence the boy from turning away from Islam if I should be in his life. The last time I managed to get her contact she boasted that I'm nobody in Lagos and can't take her anywhere. I contacted the Justice court for mediation but we couldn't locate her to serve her an invitation.

Please I'm using this medium to reach out to anyone with useful information on how to track her. I contacted a family member of hers who claimed he doesn't know where she lives, yet he kept collecting money from me under the pretence of helping to locate my son.

It's really depressing as this is my only child and I'm not getting any younger and with underlining medical conditions which makes me think I might never see my son again before my time comes.

Please this is a plea of a helpless man seeking for justice.

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by Dshocker(m): 11:29am On Feb 13, 2022
Whazar:
Go to her Kotun whatever and ask for your son since you said they are popular like that
Just carry femi falana along

Make ur son no go be my high school mate sha Bolaji Kotun

Falana does not come cheap
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by Double0h7(f): 3:06pm On Feb 13, 2022
Plot twist: Op is incapable of fathering a child and this boy is not his son shocked

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