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Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by Acidosis(m): 7:34am On Feb 11, 2022
#8 is correct.
Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by missimelda01(f): 8:04am On Feb 11, 2022
toujurs:
Missimelda01 and joyandfaith i hope you can see this, number 8 supports my point.
I don’t disagree with it, what I am saying is that feelings like that fade away after a while for both the man and woman. It’s not love, it’s lust and a relationship shouldn’t be built on that.
Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by toujurs: 8:19am On Feb 11, 2022
missimelda01:
I don’t disagree with it, what I am saying is that feelings like that fade away after a while for both the man and woman. It’s not love, it’s lust and a relationship shouldn’t be built on that.
it doesn't fade away just like that, unless the guy initially had no intention of marrying her from the beginning, Or both parties later figured out they weren't compactible, due to constant disagreement or selfish ness. Most ladies definitely,because i can't say all women, but the few i have dated. Started Showing serious commitment after we had sex, i think women generally are like that. The reason why some ladies are bitter, i guess it's because after the sex, which was when her own part of commitment started the guy ghosted her.
Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 8:23am On Feb 11, 2022
missimelda01:
I don’t disagree with it, what I am saying is that feelings like that fade away after a while for both the man and woman. It’s not love, it’s lust and a relationship shouldn’t be built on that.
My short friend has spoken grin
Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by missimelda01(f): 8:29am On Feb 11, 2022
toujurs:
it doesn't fade away just like that, unless the guy initially had no intention of marrying her from the beginning, Or both parties later figured out they weren't compactible, due to constant disagreement or selfish ness. Most ladies definitely,because i can't say all women, but the few i have dated. Started Showing serious commitment after we had sex, i think women generally are like that. The reason why some ladies are bitter, i guess it's because after the sex, which was when her own part of commitment started the guy ghosted her.
Please I beg you, try to read to understand. The ‘commitment’ you are talking about here is the feeling of infatuation because if you’ve taken your time to love someone for who they are, the sex will be a plus and there’ll be less disappointment from both sides.

P.S a girl can also dump a guy after sex. Relationship and marriage isn’t the only thing women think about, some are interested in building their careers and meaningful friendships.
Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by sharpwriter(m): 8:40am On Feb 11, 2022
Sammy101111:
Bro naija girls no send all that one

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Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by sharpwriter(m): 8:41am On Feb 11, 2022
Sammy101111:
Bro naija girls no send all that one

So you want to tell me ashawo or olosho will always bond or have your memories after sleeping with plenty men

Bro any woman way put man for mind na woman way you done sure for or a woman you give all the everything and ma she Bleep up she will respect you because you done good at past
Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by sharpwriter(m): 8:41am On Feb 11, 2022
imagrg:
Lady, it is true that we cannot do without each other.
I lost my wife last year, now I'm living a lonely life at my late fifties. I need a woman in my life.
Get?
Sorry for your loss sir cry . May God grant you your heart desire as regards this issue.
Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by Shukusheka(m): 9:51am On Feb 11, 2022
I was expecting the thread to spiral into one of those MILF sexcapades only to find motivational questions at the end. GTFOH man! angry angry
Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by Sirqt5(m): 10:03am On Feb 11, 2022
imagrg:
Lady, it is true that we cannot do without each other.
I lost my wife last year, now I'm living a lonely life at my late fifties. I need a woman in my life.
Get?
ur wife died last yr, u already need another woman months later ? undecided huh undecided no courtesy for ur wife's memory there . u imply men cannot do without women . rest in peace 2 her
Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by gfon(m): 10:30am On Feb 11, 2022
Mercychen:
When next you see her, tell her I said she should speak for herself only. Not everyone is like her that can't do without a man. So let her stop with the generalization.


It's women like her who the thing in between their legs are itching them badly that can never do without a man. As for a woman who has total self-control, she can forget that a man exist especially if she's well to do. Abeg everyone is not the same.

Mtchew!
you just ranting awsear,deep down in your heart,you need a man to give you attention,shower you love,pet you and motivate you when you down emotionally.We know how you feel wen you see other females been showered love and affection by their spouses or boyfriend's. You just claiming to have a thick skin,but you very vulnerable and wish you had a guy who could cuddle you at night and give you that affection you seek. WE KNOW YOUR TYPE cool
Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by Nobody: 10:46am On Feb 11, 2022
Bluntdude:
Bro for a woman to tell me so that means it's the truth. She said she was being very honest with me. To you it may not seem so but according to her, that's how it works. There'll always be a level of attachment to every guy she's ever slept with and that makes it possible for those same guys to sleep with her over and over again as long as they know their game well.
It's like you don't know how people that talk too much are. When they finish talking normal one, they start with the abnormal, all in a bid to keep running their mouth and impress their conversation partner. If she said all you wrote there, tell her to visit the psychiatric hospital. You can imagine putting feminism and loneliness in the same place. Is that her definition of feminism? Illiterate.
Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by Nobody: 10:47am On Feb 11, 2022
Mercychen:
When next you see her, tell her I said she should speak for herself only. Not everyone is like her that can't do without a man. So let her stop with the generalization.


It's women like her who the thing in between their legs are itching them badly that can never do without a man. As for a woman who has total self-control, she can forget that a man exist especially if she's well to do. Abeg everyone is not the same.

Mtchew!
Exactly. She might even want to have something to do with the op, cos that's how some women behave when they like a guy, spilling so-called secrets.
Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by Nobody: 10:50am On Feb 11, 2022
MALIGNANTGuest:
I'm a Married man..
My WIFE will always say that having a Husband to nurture your kids as they grow is even more important, that, there's always a divine touch Men add to kids as they grow in homes.

That a man may be careless but when he comes in to address pertinent issues and economic reforms in a family setting, you'll see the difference.
Finally, both genders are uniquely made.
Women withstand Stress more.
MEN are more likely to die from suicide
This is so true. Men are over emotional, although they try to mask it. And the way they dump all their emotional baggage on a woman eh! Women are strong truth be told.
Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by Qatar2022: 11:10am On Feb 11, 2022
InTheCloudySky:
Lies. Nairaland and story fabricators https://www.mysmiley.net/imgs/smile/rolleye/rolleye0011.gif. Another tale by a jobless male to shame women. The false narrative that y'all tell yourselves about women not being able to live or breathe without y'all must be quite the ego-booster. https://www.mysmiley.net/imgs/smile/rolleye/rolleye0011.gif
Why every truth against woman is a lie to you people? Even the so call educated ones don't accept truth or truthful critics
Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by Brian47(m): 11:43am On Feb 11, 2022
Well.
I don learn something today
Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by Nobody: 11:52am On Feb 11, 2022
gfon:
you just ranting awsear,deep down in your heart,you need a man to give you attention,shower you love,pet you and motivate you when you down emotionally.We know how you feel wen you see other females been showered love and affection by their spouses or boyfriend's. You just claiming to have a thick skin,but you very vulnerable and wish you had a guy who could cuddle you at night and give you that affection you seek. WE KNOW YOUR TYPE cool
You don't get it, do you?

We are not talking about whether every woman needs a man. That's not the bone of contention here. The bone of contention is every woman "CANT" do without man and that is what I'm against.
Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by doverulez(m): 2:38pm On Feb 11, 2022
Abso'fucking'lutely agree 100 percent.
Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by Nicepoker(m): 3:05pm On Feb 11, 2022
Ashawo memory for don full by now.
Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by Doctor2022: 3:10pm On Feb 11, 2022

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yyDg6wK6KUs

Are you wearing your condom the right way? ��
Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by gfon(m): 3:32pm On Feb 11, 2022
Mercychen:
You don't get it, do you?

We are not talking about whether every woman needs a man. That's not the bone of contention here. The bone of contention is every woman "CANT" do without man and that is what I'm against.
same thing babe, don't define it with a different pattern. It is what it is
Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by Truvelisback(m): 3:46pm On Feb 11, 2022
She has said it all.
Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by Bluntdude(op): 8:20am On Feb 12, 2022
nenyewrites:
It's like you don't know how people that talk too much are. When they finish talking normal one, they start with the abnormal, all in a bid to keep running their mouth and impress their conversation partner. If she said all you wrote there, tell her to visit the psychiatric hospital. You can imagine putting feminism and loneliness in the same place. Is that her definition of feminism? Illiterate.
Well, seeing that this feminism stuff started in the West (where she happens to reside in) before Nigerian women copied it, don't you think you're rather too hasty in your conclusion? As for whether or not she's right by you, she told me clearly that she's been � honest with me and to be honest, I believed her. As a matter of fact she said feminism is absolute nonsense and those that engage in it are being pretentious.
Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by Nobody: 8:43am On Feb 12, 2022
Bluntdude:
Well, seeing that this feminism stuff started in the West (where she happens to reside in) before Nigerian women copied it, don't you think you're rather too hasty in your conclusion? As for whether or not she's right by you, she told me clearly that she's been � honest with me and to be honest, I believed her. As a matter of fact she said feminism is absolute nonsense and those that engage in it are being pretentious.
Did you even read what you wrote? "All those stuff about feminism is a lie." (What stuff?). "No woman wants to be alone." (When has feminism become synonymous to being alone?) I'm pretty sure that woman's education stopped at high school, that's if she is even educated.
Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by bidexdo(m): 11:58am On Feb 12, 2022
Bluntdude:
Are you for real? How you coping? Sorry about that. But didn't you guys date and align well before you went ahead to get married to her?
Sorry some mistake , i was trying to say when someone married the wrong person, actually not me , have not married am single cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by FinallyFamous: 2:20pm On Feb 12, 2022
Mercychen:
When next you see her, tell her I said she should speak for herself only. Not everyone is like her that can't do without a man. So let her stop with the generalization.


It's women like her who the thing in between their legs are itching them badly that can never do without a man. As for a woman who has total self-control, she can forget that a man exist especially if she's well to do. Abeg everyone is not the same.

Mtchew!
how old are you dear?
Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by FinallyFamous: 2:33pm On Feb 12, 2022
dominique:
Why are you Nairaland males trying so hard to shove the narrative that women can't live without men down our throats? A lot of women are living their best lives without men likewise men. You people overrate yourselves too much, abeg rest! Nigerian girls are useless, Nigerian girls are this and that YET you want these same girls to be reliant on you and put her hopes on you. If that's not narcism, I don't know what it is
every one should learn or know their place and be the best in their role .

The problem stem from trying to leave your own place (as a man or woman) to spy on the other person/partners space and think you know better..

The other person will def feel embarrassed or oppressed and fight back. It's not for a specific gender alone it vice Vasa.

But these days we want to create rules fist to see who is more superior or inferior

We need to first learn our individual roles , be master at it and be your best , then come together and align .
some of us are either half bake, don't take correction, heady , stubborn, egoists, lack good manners, dishonest, complainers , unforgiving etc

We then come with all sort and unhealed trauma and expect the other person to put up with our bullsh*t.. when we are our own problems
Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by Nobody: 2:33pm On Feb 12, 2022
FinallyFamous:
how old are you dear?
Why?
Re: What A Black American Woman Told Me At Her House Today by FinallyFamous: 2:51pm On Feb 12, 2022
Mercychen:
Why?
well, life humbles the proudest of us and teach us lessons we won't forget in a hurry.

We should not wait till it happen to us , we should learn form the happenings around us instead.

My point: sometimes the problem is not the gender, the problem is the person. Fix your self, be kind and open minded, be teachable and calm , read books and learn new things each passing day, take an account of your life so you can see where is leaking and fix it .

But having a sense of protection in an abstract belief could be dangerous, especially if that belief system is faulty and non tested , it will just be an illusion when the real thing finally appreciate but you ended with an illusion on your own end.
You will feel empty and dry .

Nothing beat the natural course of life . Wait for it, and enjoy your share of it....but don't deny it totally
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