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InTheCloudySky:
If you met 5-years ago on the app and you thought she was "only 16" and now she's "barely 20", which means she's about 19 now and you were actually doing all those dirty talks with her when she was 14. She did tell you her real age when you got to talking and the proper thing for you to have done was step away because you don't do that with a minor.

I want to believe I said about, meaning I wasn't exactly sure of that year. And she didn't make me know for years, not until about 17 18 years of age.

Mautinfoster:
Bro as much as I love her, it won't cause me anything to jus let her be, as that way I will slowly fall out of love. But I have so many concerns as I have a feeling she is jus acting out this way as a result of her age which someone said earlier. My concerns are if I leave her that way, how will she take it, she will tend to have this bad notion about men, someone that disflowered her, and later left. She might jus end up being someone I will be sad and guilty about even if I move on with someone else. Many promiscuous lifestyle of some ladies today are due to things like this, and I don't want her to turn out that way.
I jus have a lil piece of hope,and I am a very considerate personal as well.

Lol,chai...smh.

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InTheCloudySky:
So you were chatting with her 4-years and she didn't tell you her real age until last year? Lol, you know that's not true. But let me suppose for a second that she didn't, you didn't ask about her life, school, siblings/family, or other things?! Because these things would've given her real age away. Or all your chats with her were about sex and nothing else?

I really don't have a point to prove, whatever you can process is fine.

You're seeing her as a project you need to perfect, which can't work. You can't tell her what to do and not to do with her life, or try to mould her into something you want.

Calm down bro. I know how you feel.
Some factors are responsible for her change in attitude.
1. She has tasted the forbidden fruit. (Sex)
2. Peer pressure.

I can bet with you from experience that the girl is just starting to explore life. It's very normal. You did same too, if you can just flash back.
My advise: it's either you're patient with her or find another girl of your calibre (Finance, Education, Work).

All you are experiencing with her is just normal

HenryDion:
You're seeing her as a project you need to perfect, which can't work. You can't tell her what to do and not to do with her life, or try to mould her into something you want.

Thank you for your contribution.

Lifeisgoody:
Calm down bro. I know how you feel.
Some factors are responsible for her change in attitude.
1. She has tasted the forbidden fruit. (Sex)
2. Peer pressure.

I can bet with you from experience that the girl is just starting to explore life. It's very normal. You did same too, if you can just flash back.
My advise: it's either you're patient with her or find another girl of your calibre (Finance, Education, Work).

All you are experiencing with her is just normal

Thank you very much.

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