What is cousin sister

I don't understand the criticism the OP is getting, things like this happen and we are better off talking about it than acting like it's nothing, people are built differently

For the OP haven't you been sexually active at least? usually when man lacks sexual activities it might lead them to finding anything close to them in skirt attractive, try work on yourself first and see

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Stedygrowth:
Op, what you're going through is normal. The response you're experiencing is completely biological in nature, remember, you have not met her before. She, being your cousin's sister, does not in any way, stop from being a woman she is. The problem here is that, there is no conditioning between you two that establish the fact that you guys are sisters, as such, there is a clear prediction that if you have opportunity, you will make love to her.
Based on the above submission, I will suggest you help her find a place to stay. Even if she changes the way she dresses from now on, it will not still change anything, because you have been conditioned already. Until you will not rest. So, to be on the safe side, find a place for her as quickly as possible.
This does not require discipline, it require removing or staying away from the source of the stimulus. If you keep staying, you will do it one day.

I love your response. No condemnation. N caustic words but you clearly stated what needs to be done urgently. A highly matured advice.

Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert.

She's your sister,see her that way. Don't distract her and don't ever try to scold her or act like a school principal or granpapa

Hello brother,
I'm not here to condemn or insult u,however I'm here to talk senses to u.
How on earth can u be thinking of having erection to your blood sis? Don't you think this is ungodly n an abomination. Are u saying even if your blood sis is naked,you useless manhood will start rising?
Enough of this ur unreasonable attitude n thinking n ask God to guide n forgive u.
If you're not comfortable with her dressing,sit her down n talk senses to her.but with this ur thinking,can u actually be bold enuf to do that?... absolutely NO..Be guided n shun that ur ways

Evidence for the house please.

Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert.

You are stupid

It means her parents didn't raise her well for her not to know how to dress appropriately.
So the job is for you to scold her like an elder brother that you are.
And if she refuses to adjust, tell her to start looking for an apartment or you call your mum to come pick her.

For your future sake, tell your mother she can't stay with you anymore. If you continue like this, one day you will give in, and that will be the beginning of your downfall. You'll be naive to think, she hasn't noticed your erections. Send her away, before you ruin your life.
Imagine this....
What if she accuses you of rape? The world will accuse you of not just rape, but incest.
"A stitch in time saves nine".

Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert.

Some of you know the solutions to your problems but you would rather not take the route.

Caution her, if she doesn’t listen report her to your mother and threaten to send her out of your house if she doesn’t listen.

Stedygrowth:
Op, what you're going through is normal. The response you're experiencing is completely biological in nature, remember, you have not met her before. She, being your cousin's sister, does not in any way, stop from being a woman she is. The problem here is that, there is no conditioning between you two that establish the fact that you guys are sisters, as such, there is a clear prediction that if you have opportunity, you will make love to her.
Based on the above submission, I will suggest you help her find a place to stay. Even if she changes the way she dresses from now on, it will not still change anything, because you have been conditioned already. Until you will not rest. So, to be on the safe side, find a place for her as quickly as possible.
This does not require discipline, it require removing or staying away from the source of the stimulus. If you keep staying, you will do it one day.

God bless you. I am seriously fed up with all those posters calling the guy a pervert. Are you angels? This is a very normal occurrence. No matter ur level of discipline don't tempt urself. You will fall one day.

Remove the stimulus. Simple

Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert.

bros get an apartment for her from your own money and let her leave ASAP. tell her the reason and let her go. I can't jump into conclusion of blaming you, everyone has a degree of weakness.

Stedygrowth:
Op, what you're going through is normal. The response you're experiencing is completely biological in nature, remember, you have not met her before. She, being your cousin's sister, does not in any way, stop from being a woman she is. The problem here is that, there is no conditioning between you two that establish the fact that you guys are sisters, as such, there is a clear prediction that if you have opportunity, you will make love to her.
Based on the above submission, I will suggest you help her find a place to stay. Even if she changes the way she dresses from now on, it will not still change anything, because you have been conditioned already. Until you will not rest. So, to be on the safe side, find a place for her as quickly as possible.
This does not require discipline, it require removing or staying away from the source of the stimulus. If you keep staying, you will do it one day.

This is the most reasonable advice so far. There are so many kids here on nagaland hiding behind different monikers and talking trash. @OP pls help her sort out her accommodation to avoid the predictable!

Funny enuf, even if she dresses normal and covers all her body, ur yeye eye go still de her body....u sef fit still get erection for ur blood sister of she dresses same...

nickvanilla:
Honestly, except she's wearing bum shorts that's revealing her butts, there's no reason for you to be turned on. Learn to look away.

Even as a married man, your wife sister may start wearing the same leggings or short gowns your cousin is wearing. Will your phallus start nodding in approval as it's doing now? Control yourself young man!

How did you know her behind claps. Did you hear the sound or you were focusing on it and imagining things. C'mon man. Don't be a cheap pervert.

Plenty sense in this post...

Call your mum and tell her you will assist your cousin with half of the amount needed to get her own place and you want her out of your apartment within the next 2 weeks.Dont give her any reason.just imagine the shame you will face if you commit sin with her.Telling her to start dressing decently will not solve the problem because your mind and body is interested.Wont she get her own place if your house is not closeby.She had a plan for accomodation before she chose the school.you can tell your mummy later if you choose but not now.Be firm for the same of your insanity

Stedygrowth:
Op, what you're going through is normal. The response you're experiencing is completely biological in nature, remember, you have not met her before. She, being your cousin's sister, does not in any way, stop from being a woman she is. The problem here is that, there is no conditioning between you two that establish the fact that you guys are sisters, as such, there is a clear prediction that if you have opportunity, you will make love to her.
Based on the above submission, I will suggest you help her find a place to stay. Even if she changes the way she dresses from now on, it will not still change anything, because you have been conditioned already. Until you will not rest. So, to be on the safe side, find a place for her as quickly as possible.
This does not require discipline, it require removing or staying away from the source of the stimulus. If you keep staying, you will do it one day.

More sense in this post, you wrote it very well chief....

Invite your girlfriend around and see if she will dress in the same manner.If she does,then push your girlfriend to her to advise her. If she doesn't change,then confront her yourself.She might not see it as anything.

God abeg oh

Wetin I just read? Your little cousin is sexual appealing to you? Chineke God! Even if she wears buba and wrapper and covers up, your filthy mind will still wander far.

Your former thread says you have a girlfriend, why can't you channel those perverse thoughts somewhere else.

Women are really not safe anymore. It is getting worse daily.

candidladyTemp:



God iam ready to trade... Bring back aliyah and lefteye, take this pervert


You are not normal.... Are you guys cursed like em swear for una no no did someone place a spell on y'all

don't mind the prick that doesn't know how to put his dick in his pants.

Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert.

Look for a stretch boxer and wear it.Let your dic be dangling with errection to balance the equation.
On a serious note,nieces dey attract person.And them sabi seduce their uncles.

Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert.

For the mere fact that you wrote cousin sister?

Even without reading the remaining nonsense you wrote, I know your head cant be correct or functioning properly

The devil will soon be blamed as usual for what he knows nothing about.

Those people insulting this guy are the most shameless, useless people if they had the opportunity they would have shifted their cousin's pant and satisfied their lust.Instead of finding the solution to a problem they rather indulge in hypocrisy. Bro if you are not comfortable with it you tell her in a polite manner that you are not comfortable with her dressing almost naked indoors while you are around[color=#990000][/color]

Pictures please, for confirming your story

Truth be told many people would feel just the same way you're feeling bro, reasons being that it's your first time meeting her so it's normal but you have to make a conscious decision of telling yourself that she's your sister and as such can't for any reason dwell on such thoughts.

I don face such matters before but I force sense into my mendula and since the na peace of mind I get

If you give in then that guilt you will have to carry for the rest of your life

candidladyTemp:



God iam ready to trade... Bring back aliyah and lefteye, take this pervert


You are not normal.... Are you guys cursed like em swear for una no no did someone place a spell on y'all

Nature made it so.If she covers herself up by dressing like a deeper life girl there will not be any attraction.

Can a man put fire in his laps and go to sleep?

You know the answer already. Take that step now to save her from the emotional damage that your randy self is about to put her through.

candidladyTemp:



God iam ready to trade... Bring back aliyah and lefteye, take this pervert


You are not normal.... Are you guys cursed like em swear for una no no did someone place a spell on y'all

just shut up already, this has to do with relationship he has with his cousin,they werent close so how possible do u expect him not to react as a man...do u think Its just by family ties.....u just speaking like someone who's not intelligent at all...even if the person is your brother ,so far you've never had any family relationship with him before,so far u don't know him beforehand, I bet u,u yourself cannot live with him in the same room without nature taking it course.

Stedygrowth:
Op, what you're going through is normal. The response you're experiencing is completely biological in nature, remember, you have not met her before. She, being your cousin's sister, does not in any way, stop from being a woman she is. The problem here is that, there is no conditioning between you two that establish the fact that you guys are sisters, as such, there is a clear prediction that if you have opportunity, you will make love to her.
Based on the above submission, I will suggest you help her find a place to stay. Even if she changes the way she dresses from now on, it will not still change anything, because you have been conditioned already. Until you will not rest. So, to be on the safe side, find a place for her as quickly as possible.
This does not require discipline, it require removing or staying away from the source of the stimulus. If you keep staying, you will do it one day.

I agree with you.

Abovebest:
Cover your face with shame bro

Why will your cousin be tempting you

Imagine your blood sister giving you erection

What if your present girlfriend/wife is your blood sister....1 of your dad's offspring but you're yet to find out!!!
There's nothing shameful about what the guy is going through,during lockdown,I left my house(my parents' house) and stayed in school alone for months because I was running from something