I Am A Mess Right Now - Romance - Nairaland
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| I Am A Mess Right Now by Ezendimmuo(op): 1:32pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
My gf is still a student.. She is a year older than I am though.. I am done with school so I moved back to Lagos... I came back to school last 2weeks to finish my clearance for NYSC.. My gf asked me to get her pregnancy test kit I was surprised because I knew the last time we had sex was In November.. I became suspicious.. I wet through her phone.. I was shocked There's this married guy that had issues with his family... She slept with him...got pregnant and aborted the child... There is also this guy she met and told him she has nevet been in a relationship... I confronted her yesterday night after having knowledge of this atrocities since Monday... She flared up.. She said I don't trust her...why would I go through her phone... She said the little money I sent to her isn't always enough.. She's doing it to survive.. A married man!!! The Truth is that no still love this girl in spite of all this... I don't wanna lose her... But she is actually the one doing the screaming... Her emphasis is always on why I weny through her phone... M going back to Lagos tomorrow.. I wanna end things before going back... I can't be having high BP for someone's daughter.. M so messed up right now My question is this... Is it right to go through your partners phone  If I hadn't I wouldn't have found out all this though.. I don't have issues with her going through my phone... I have nothing to hide 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by youngsahito(m): 1:35pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
Ezendimmuo: |
| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by OloriPlug: 1:39pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
Op you are very stupid ..... "You don't want to lose her?" Hope you get money firf DNA test later? This one she say money wey you dey give her no dey reach so 23 Likes |
| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Badbunny: 1:41pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
Fight for her bro, she's a queen don't lose her. Forgive and forget.  17 Likes |
| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by valdes00(m): 1:41pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
Mu.MU She wants to manipulate her way out, and u r allowing her... Thats how women do, manipulation is their only defense mechanism Instead of you to move on, you there talking abt loving her.... Na men like u made the word #SIMP gain ground 17 Likes |
| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Havesomesense(m): 1:44pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
I discovered my girlfriend cheated on me, I checked her phone, I Broke up with her instantly. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Kingpin1000: 1:47pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
Bro she knows you more than you know yourself. She knows you're a SIMP that was why she bullied you into coming here to write this lamentation. Truth is that you got no balls and your sense dey far from you.. you said she is older than you and you expect her to carry you get marriage hope. She even had the guts to send you to buy pregnancy kit for another man's pregnancy. You should be ashamed of yourself. The worst thing is na you dey train her for school. 27 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by donbachi(m): 1:47pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
With all those evidences...u still feel something for her. Ur mum bragged before me..dat,she neva raised a fool for a son.why do u want to prove her wrong. 12 Likes |
| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by funshint(m): 1:48pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
You better leave her and save yourself future headache. You just missed a trailer! 3 Likes |
| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Nobody: 1:49pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
Your Monika is ezendimmou, meaning 'king of demons.' This is definitely a small issue for you to handle. Is it not you again? Tell me something I don't know. |
| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by DaddyRochie1642: 1:57pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
Love dey shack this one  |
| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by dacblogger: 2:02pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
People say Never check your partners phone... I say how will I know when something is wrong if I DNT check That is why I saved my fingerprint on my hubby's phone without him knowing... I check once in a while just to be sure 6 Likes |
| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Snitch24(m): 2:06pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
Op You're very stupid Very very stupid It's either you keep her and loose your sanity and mental health Or you loose her and keep ur mental health and sanity don't be a fool They're more other dicks you're yet to know 3 Likes |
| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Snitch24(m): 2:07pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
dacblogger:Best thing to do And I'm happy for you Atlest you get to know when trouble is approaching 1 Like |
| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by dacblogger: 2:12pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
Snitch24:This your name get as e be  |
| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by bigcee(m): 2:15pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
Mumu If that's the kind of man you want to be then your father needs to disown you. How can you allow yourself to be manipulated.
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| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Snitch24(m): 2:16pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
dacblogger:Manage am |
| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Datikwerreboi(m): 2:20pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
dacblogger:Have you seen something yet? Gist us abeg |
| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by dacblogger: 2:22pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
Datikwerreboi:Nothing yet... He knows the kind of girl he married, he knows immediately I get any evidence,he is finished |
| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Nobody: 2:22pm On Feb 19, 2022*. Modified: 3:50am On Apr 11, 2022 |
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| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Datikwerreboi(m): 2:26pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
dacblogger:Lol, what of in my own case , my wife saw messages of some women I had known before chatting me up. It's not like I have anything to do with them oo. She was seriously angry. I just had to block them to avoid issues 1 Like |
| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by dacblogger: 2:27pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
Datikwerreboi:You did the right thing... |
| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Datikwerreboi(m): 2:28pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
InTheCloudySky:But I want to ask you something. Assuming your wife isn't comfortable with you sending money to your mother but you as a true son can't neglect her , will you like it for the wife to invade into such privacies of what you do for your parents or some businesses which are legit but you feel she shouldn't know. I'm not talking about cheating here BC cheating is a No no |
| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Datikwerreboi(m): 2:28pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
dacblogger:But it's not easy oo. Does it mean a married man can't have female friends ? |
| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by dacblogger: 2:30pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
Datikwerreboi:You can , but try to stay away from anything that will tempt you... You can just check up on them once in a while and not all the time |
| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Opeyemic01: 2:34pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
You don't want to lose her or what did I read Some you have lost already. Please pick yourself up and move on. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Datikwerreboi(m): 2:36pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
dacblogger:Well , so in such cases nko. Let us assume it is your husband who has female friends and u barge into his phone as usual without knowing the context of their discussion,you will surely call him out |
| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by dacblogger: 2:40pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
Datikwerreboi:My husband do have female friends and I do see his chat with them and it's purely on a friendly note... |
| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Nobody: 3:12pm On Feb 19, 2022*. Modified: 3:50am On Apr 11, 2022 |
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| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by silibaba: 3:24pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
Ezendimmuo:Small pikin still dey worry you. |
| Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Datikwerreboi(m): 3:28pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
dacblogger:Do you know the female friends too? |
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