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Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by dacblogger: 3:29pm On Feb 19, 2022
Datikwerreboi:

Do you know the female friends too?
I DNT need to know them
It's best for me that way.
Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Datikwerreboi(m): 3:32pm On Feb 19, 2022
dacblogger:

I DNT need to know them
It's best for me that way.
Lol, it's still same thing . It's possible who also knows you check his phone and he may decide to let them know the kind of things they chat about
Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by dacblogger: 3:37pm On Feb 19, 2022
Datikwerreboi:

Lol, it's still same thing . It's possible who also knows you check his phone and he may decide to let them know the kind of things they chat about
Lolz... I am not daft you know
Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by usj(m): 3:38pm On Feb 19, 2022
A couple on a romantic getaway find themselves stranded at sea when a tropical storm sweeps away their villa. In order to survive, they are forced to fight the elements, while sharks circle below.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FrVt0yIeWO8
Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Datikwerreboi(m): 3:49pm On Feb 19, 2022
dacblogger:

Lolz... I am not daft you know
Okay, good to know. Do you have male friends yourself? I do hope I'm not boring you with my many questions lol
Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Savedday: 6:52pm On Feb 19, 2022
9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.
Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by flokii: 7:18pm On Feb 19, 2022
@OP You had your suspicions when she asked for a pregnancy test kit and you confirmed that she isn't faithful.. a girl that sleeps around with married men without feeling remorse is a big red flag. Kill any feeling you have for her now and move on.

Most relationships are intact because the parties involved don't check the other partner's phone.. the day some will try it is the day they'll become single or divorced. Peeps should respect their partners and stay faithful.
Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by rabiudon: 7:30pm On Feb 19, 2022
Ezendimmuo:

I wanna end things before going back...
I can't be having high BP for someone's daughter..
M so messed up right now
My question is this...
Is it right to go through your partners phone
If I hadn't I wouldn't have found out all this though..
I don't have issues with her going through my phone...
I have nothing to hide
It is a SIMPle sturvs
Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by torqque7(m): 7:49pm On Feb 19, 2022
OloriPlug:
Op you are very stupid .....

"You don't want to lose her?"

Hope you get money firf DNA test later? This one she say money wey you dey give her no dey reach so

As in ehnn he is more than STUPID sef and he deserves all the shit he gets from her. I was dating one girl like that and na me even disvirgin the olosho o and she was begging me NEVER to leave her and I told her il only do that if she fvcckks another dude and she promised and laughed saying that can never happen lol.

I was just looking at her from side cos na student and sure enough she eventually fvcccked on yahoo boy like that and was begging me for forgiveness. Well I kept her as my sexdoll for a while while fvckking around more � then I discarded the bitch..bitch said she was just pitying me cos of my
mum otherwise she for go her village sea goddess for edo and do me strong thing cos I hurt her lol..

E still pain me small say I no fvccckkk am as I for like before I discharge am sha but I still fvcck am well...

Bitch was telling my mum that just cos she cheated one time cos she was drunk then I decided to be cheating and fvcckking around bla bla bla just imagine o..smh. people like OP are SIMPs we usually talk about. Time don reach to end the relationship with ur cheating gf who still keeps shouting on u regardless of her olosho ways.

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Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by dontrulee: 8:09pm On Feb 19, 2022
Datikwerreboi:

But I want to ask you something. Assuming your wife isn't comfortable with you sending money to your mother but you as a true son can't neglect her , will you like it for the wife to invade into such privacies of what you do for your parents or some businesses which are legit but you feel she shouldn't know. I'm not talking about cheating here BC cheating is a No no

My wife doesn't want me to send money to my own mother? When she is not mad or stupid. I will choose my mother over anybody. She is number 2 in my life after God!
Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Datikwerreboi(m): 8:33pm On Feb 19, 2022
dontrulee:


My wife doesn't want me to send money to my own mother? When she is not mad or stupid. I will choose my mother over anybody. She is number 2 in my life after God!
It happens dear , they're stories about that
Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Nobody: 9:33pm On Feb 19, 2022
Smh.. hm abeg abeg o. Make una sofri dey spread disease everywhere.

Someone you're sleeping with, that has the mind to be sleeping raw and getting pregnant for another man, yet swearing to another that she's not in a relationship is whom you said you don't wanna lose?
I pity you.


A girl who's bold enough to tell you she's sleeping with men for money is nothing but a prostitute. When you don't have in marriage, she'll sleep with your neighbors. Trust me.

You love her my foot. Because of the rubbish sex she's giving you for free you've lost your sense of reasoning and coming here to talk trash.

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Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Aaaaarghmed(m): 9:36pm On Feb 19, 2022
Fool,end it ,end it ,end it.i have told you.
Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Lekan1o1: 10:43pm On Feb 19, 2022
Very foolish man
Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by EndtimeJudge(m): 11:57pm On Feb 19, 2022
This same story was narrated in 1979

Ezendimmuo:
My gf is still a student..
She is a year older than I am though..
I am done with school so I moved back to Lagos...
I came back to school last 2weeks to finish my clearance for NYSC..
My gf asked me to get her pregnancy test kit
I was surprised because I knew the last time we had sex was In November..
I became suspicious..
I wet through her phone..
I was shocked
There's this married guy that had issues with his family...
She slept with him...got pregnant and aborted the child...
There is also this guy she met and told him she has nevet been in a relationship...
I confronted her yesterday night after having knowledge of this atrocities since Monday...
She flared up..
She said I don't trust her...why would I go through her phone...
She said the little money I sent to her isn't always enough..
She's doing it to survive..
A married man!!!
The Truth is that no still love this girl in spite of all this...
I don't wanna lose her...
But she is actually the one doing the screaming...
Her emphasis is always on why I weny through her phone...
M going back to Lagos tomorrow..
I wanna end things before going back...
I can't be having high BP for someone's daughter..
M so messed up right now
My question is this...
Is it right to go through your partners phone
If I hadn't I wouldn't have found out all this though..
I don't have issues with her going through my phone...
I have nothing to hide
Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Demigod22: 12:15am On Feb 20, 2022
You are truly a mess. First of all, you should be weeping for your writing, it is a mess too, infact, messier than your girlfriend.

Secondly, you don't want to lose a girl that is a community kpekus, a girl that have democraticalize her kpekus. Kpekus for the people, by the people and of the people, you must be Abraham Lincoln to love a democratic kpekus.

Thirdly, that's what love does, you lose focus. Four to five years in the University, seeing different girls, and you are even a PCM, do you know the quality and quantity of girls you will meet in camp?

Son of man, may you never be foolish over the sweetness of any kpekus.

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Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by uthlaw: 12:21am On Feb 20, 2022
All this useless SIMP should be used for money ritual!
Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Yusufisraelj(m): 2:02am On Feb 20, 2022
funshint:
You better leave her and save yourself future headache. You just missed a trailer!

Damn straight.
Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Yusufisraelj(m): 2:08am On Feb 20, 2022
Mercychen:
Smh.. hm abeg abeg o. Make una sofri dey spread disease everywhere.

Someone you're sleeping with, that has the mind to be sleeping raw and getting pregnant for another man, yet swearing to another that she's not in a relationship is whom you said you don't wanna lose?
I pity you.


A girl who's bold enough to tell you she's sleeping with men for money is nothing but a prostitute. When you don't have in marriage, she'll sleep with your neighbors. Trust me.

You love her my foot. Because of the rubbish sex she's giving you for free you've lost your sense of reasoning and coming here to talk trash.




Perfect
Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Beblessedbaba: 4:58am On Feb 20, 2022
Dude, Do a classic � hit...

Don't break up with her...

Just lead her on for some years while you continue to withdraw emotional.

When she eventually gets the memo she will eventually seat you down for an heart to heart discussion then that moment dump her...

She will breakdown completely and her world scattered with no effort to manipulate you.

Then completely ignore her the next guy coming she will be very sensible as a person.

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Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Joxxie(m): 6:37am On Feb 20, 2022
Girls and promiscuity are 5&6
Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by midasbliss(f): 11:47am On Feb 20, 2022
Ezendimmuo:

I don't wanna lose her...

Really? Lol. You don't want to lose someone that cheats on you without remorse? I mean, why is she complaining of how much you give her? Doesn't she have a family?
Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by midasbliss(f): 11:47am On Feb 20, 2022
Joxxie:
Girls and promiscuity are 5&6
says a man
Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by etel124(m): 2:12pm On Feb 20, 2022
I still cant believe guys like this exist..something tells me you have gone through the university,but the university hasnt gone through you...Its probably a wasted four or five years..,she has probably been doing this even under ur nose while you were still in school..but because you are nothing but a SIMP...you could nt even smart up to find out...Now you come here to tell us u stil love her and you dnt want to lose her...Oga continue with her...just remember..,,.....'DONT BITE MORE THAN YOU CAN CHEW'...a word is simply enough for the wise...
Re: I Am A Mess Right Now by Joxxie(m): 12:37pm On Feb 25, 2022
midasbliss:
says a man
You mean??

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