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Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by Freelane33(m): 12:15pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
Go to general hospital . The accident and emergency departments. Go and feed your eyes and come back here to thank me . You’re healthy . Living fine , no health challenges , no court case and you’re complaining about …… . Bro don’t be an ingrate 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by jpmoriarti(m): 12:17pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
OP what you can do is to get a book or novel, go to an open field and read it out and loud. Do this daily and within a month, you'll start noticing a difference in your speaking. 1 Like |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by zyzxx(m): 12:17pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
MufasaLion:it better you die in place of prayer than die with dippression. Prayer is very hopeful Pls pray, like pray till something happens There is grace for that I invoke divine intervention that birth divine healing on your tongue now in the name of Jesus amen 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by ceematics: 12:17pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
I'm a stammerer just like you. The first thing you need to do is to Conquer the fear of stammering. Gain confidence. See everyone as a grain of sand. No one is bigger than you. No matter the age of the person you're talking to look at them like they're not an obstacle to your fluency. Next always start talking with a low tone. If you start with a high tone you'll end up stammering. Now there are certain vowels which are hard to pronounce especially when starting a sentence,that's where English sets in,you need to know your synonyms, words you can quickly switch when it's difficult to pronounce . Get a dictionary study words. Don't stay alone or stay a long period without talking to someone it helps. Stammerer always have the best choice of words cause they hardly talk carelessly .Drink alot of water don't get dehydrated. Other tips I'll drop but start with these first. Last of all .....Make money!!! 4 Likes |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by GreatDamife(m): 12:17pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
Dear Op, I can relate to what you're passing through as I was once a stammerer myself but you need not let it get at you this much. You have to constantly remind yourself that you never created yourself and it isn't your fault. No one is born perfect. See this as your own imperfection and work towards correcting it. Stammering is psychological, it becomes worse when one is over anxious. I'll advise you start engaging in things that bring you pleasure. Pls join a choir too. Hang around people you're free around with; those who won't compound your woes by making mockery of you. Most importantly, express yourself in the language you find quite easy to communicate with. Personally, I do stammer when I communicate in my mother tongue but I find English easy to communicate with. Stammerers are talkative. Pls restrain yourself from talking publicly when there's absolutely no need for it. You shall overcome this with time. With love. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by ismodiwa(m): 12:18pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
Say what you have in mind twice before letting it out, it works.. |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by Kingfragz: 12:18pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
Try relaxing your jaw when wanting to speak... And also think of what u want to say before saying,u can start by repeating it In your head before u voice it out,cause most times the hardest part of it is when u try to start a sentence.....07085592938 |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by Chigorkizz(m): 12:18pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
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Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by Damnfailure: 12:19pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
Just understand Ur reincarnated cycle is meant to cause u pain. U can only ingore it. Or commit suicide and dam the will. In the end we are all been played by the gods. They only want our worship. That's why they create this imbalance in creation. Note the will is the force that put creation in motion. |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by donprinyo(m): 12:19pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
my dear, i still think yours is better compared to a fine lady I met just now in ph. she could utter one single word. keep practicing u will found a way |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by PoliteActivist: 12:19pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
HenryIgwe01: Joe Biden's stammering was the worst anyone had ever seen. Now he is world's most powerful person. Any questions? 1 Like |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by mrmachine: 12:20pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
HenryIgwe01: I was a stammered too. I had to rehearse several times before able to communicate. But what helped is that I learnt to calm down wella before talking. Also I try talking slowly , this help me a lot and now, I communicate well . Although once in a while , it hooks but I would quickly re-adjust and take control again. Just calm down and be confident |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by LandMann: 12:21pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
HenryIgwe01 Why not go into a profession that doesn't require you speaking? Learning a programming language like Java and start using it to build apps that can solve real problems you have identified. From there you can make money to travel outside Nigeria where you'll find professional help to help you overcome stuttering. Also, watch a lot of YouTube videos on how to overcome stuttering. You won't get an instant solution, but you'll definitely make good progress if you persevere and follow the advice you get on YouTube diligently pending when you can afford paid professional help. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by superCleanworks(m): 12:21pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
HenryIgwe01: Sir Henry. Please breathe in and out. Nobody will ever truly understand your pain and frustration especially when you have so much to give but feel so limited and relegated. If you are patient then download this movie THE KING'S SPEECH and watch it with keen attention. No distractions. I am sure you will become an improved Henry after you try some of the things you will get to learn there. Thank me later. 1 Like |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by Tdutch: 12:22pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
I have found this article useful www.jw.org/finder?docid=502017124&prefer=lang&wtlocale=E |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by Idris5050(m): 12:24pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
MufasaLion:AM ALSO A STAMMERER LIKE YOU BUT I LEARN TO TALK VERY FAST SOMETIMES PEOPLE DONT HEAR I TRY TO BE FUNNY WITH WHAT I DO THAT GAVE ME CONFIDENCE BRO PICK YOUR SELF UP AND BUILD A WORLD ONLY YOU WILL FIND HAPPINESS IN JUST LIKE HELEN KELLER DID ❤❤ 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by Idris5050(m): 12:26pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
Build your self am also a stammerer like you...I learn to talk fast, be funny I do stammering skit to make people laugh most people dont even that is the real me |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by Kwara1stson: 12:28pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
miraculousGod:how did he do it |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by Error401: 12:28pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
HenryIgwe01:I have a friend like you in sec. School. He was a chronic stammer. Recently when I met him and discovered that he hardly stammers anymore. He told me his secret was building self confidence and being able to discover his disability trigger. He pointed out that anxiousness and anxiety makes him stammer and calmness and meditation and great sense of relief is his solution. I hope this helps. Be calm and build confidence. Even if they laugh. Speak!!! You didn't create yourself |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by Jnana19(m): 12:28pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
It can be reduced greatly a strong herb would calm that stammering anxiety and all HenryIgwe01: |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by emmyluizzz: 12:28pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
hahahahahahaha so how you take write all these notes here without repeating words abi na person write am for you |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by Bounceboune7: 12:29pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
HenryIgwe01:u can't b a stamerer n a teacher,it can't work Focus on your area of strength n look for ways to turn it to money |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by Nefort: 12:30pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
CastingCrowns:I checked your profile picture to see who is giving this advice and I was surprised you look educated to come up with that absurd advice. 1 Like |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by jeff1607(m): 12:31pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
HenryIgwe01: Just talk slowly, it works |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by Kwara1stson: 12:31pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
HenryDion:how did you do it |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by Kirchoffs: 12:32pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
Jennyclay:HenryIgwe take this advice , it's the best you can get |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by philipstanley(m): 12:33pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
Something has really changed about Nairaland! Reading through the comment for the first time since I join NL this is the first thread I read how calm and sensible members here comment without commenting rubbish. Back to the topic. Bro I understand how you feel, I use to be a stammerer, I understand how hard life is especially when you are trying to make a point or win an argument. It's a bad experience but now I stammer a little and I avoid been angry. 4 Likes |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by IamRegal: 12:33pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
MufasaLion: Stop forming woke, you don't know it all, if you are reluctant to learn you won't grow. People will hoard info from you because they know you will jettison the idea even when you know nothing about it. |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by FlashyAngel: 12:33pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
Young man don't make the mistake of blaming God. You write so well. Your grammar and punctuation are topnotch. Have you considered some career in writing? You can be an editor, blogger, freelancer etc. You want to lecture but that doesn't mean your career should start from there immediately. Start something and other doors and opportunities will open up. Have patience and remain consistent. Secondly, I can't explain but God alone knows why all human beings do not have equal ability. God used Moses a great stammerer to do the greatest migration ever recorded. A whole nation of men, women, old and young. Imagine that! For forty years on foot, God exercised his wonders through them. Build your confidence in yourself. A girl that loves you for you will grab you. All you need is to be nice, respectful, courteous and kind. Have a sense of humour. Laugh at life. Do not always project an image of frustration. Be cheerful. Use your writing skill if your speaking skill is not flowing. No matter who or how you are, if you humble yourself before God he will use you. You are a stammerer but it is not the worst case scenario. |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by Chijeep(m): 12:34pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
not a surprise though OP follow these simple steps and it'll reduce your stammering by 45% because stammering can't 100% go completely but you can limit yours. >Stammering mostly occurs when there's a disconnection between the brain and the organs that produce sound to the mouth so try to follow these steps 1. Try to be reducing your worryness. I.E, always try to be happy. When you're happy your body systems works more effectively . 2. Make sure you always have more rest/sleep because this alone will help reset your thinking and it'll pave way for free communication between your brain and your sound system. 3. Focus on your speech and your sight when uttering it. That is, learn to master words that goes well with your tongue so that you can focus on them when saying it and when speaking make sure that your face is fixed in a place that won't distract your communication. 4. Get yourself to practice more easy words that can help you feel free while talking. NB :- 99% of people stammers but most of them is not habitual. Some are when they run out of words or when the meaning doesn't communicate with their definition. THANKS AS YOU TRY THEM OUT. I'M ALSO A STAMMERER BUT IT HAVE BEEN REDUCING EVER SINCE I LEARN TO CONTROL IT |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by EMEKUSBOY9(m): 12:35pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
My guy be yourself, and always feel confident, and also stop thinking u stammer..... Because this is a psychological thing ( this is the first step of your victory) You can achieve anything u want in life if u dont see you have any limit As for talking to women... Do u know some women love guys that stammers? ( put this in your mind) So, keep going out and keep searching till u find that one woman ( not two) who God and nature has created for u alone |
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