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Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by shepherd316: 11:09pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
My dear, you're not alone in this, I was once a chronic stammerer like you or even worse. I believe I'm 600% better than I used to be, and that's more than enough for me. First off, you need to develop superiority complex, over-humility will not help you. Secondly, when you speak among many people, try to dim your eyes so that you can eliminate their intimidating presence. Thirdly, cultivivate the habit of being a talkative, but you will need to always speak slowly. You also need to read books aloud, taking up responsibilities that involve speaking would also help you. You also need to avoid stuttering demon(anger), my anger made me a freak back in the days. When you address crowd, always find someone you love and someone you bond with, avoid looking at other people, make sure your gaze is on this special fellow. Lastly, pray to God to help you out. I'd love to know of the progress you're making after reading my comment. |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by wiseoneking: 11:15pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
HenryIgwe01:I don't have anything else to tell you because you are bold enough to judge the perfection of God. I have a great advice and counsel with awesome alternative but I am speechless at your boldness to condem God. I will stop here. |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by ghettochild(m): 12:47am On Feb 25, 2022 |
HenryIgwe01:Move out of naija.. You would see how drastic ur stammering will reduce gradually |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by Tonnierichy(m): 12:52am On Feb 25, 2022 |
brimdans:See this one |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by Nobody: 1:33am On Feb 25, 2022 |
Pls lets create a whatsap group where we can give updates about stammering Its a major problem inmy life for now |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by ucheuzor1(m): 3:20am On Feb 25, 2022 |
I can feel your pain man. I also stammers and I feel it had limited me from achieving something that I know am confident of pursuing. The simple truth is, you don't have to course yourself everyday. Just pretend as if its not there and live your life. I talk and communicate with people. I try to control it. Sometimes it hooks me but I won't pinch myself again. That's who I am. If you don't like me, then go fry beans. You just have to look over the condition and live your life. 1 Like |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by TheKingsmann(m): 4:49am On Feb 25, 2022 |
Jennyclay:Come and learn good English from me,,,but it's not free |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by Meedass(m): 7:36am On Feb 25, 2022 |
I stammer as well but not as heavy as you, my younger sister also stammered but now she says hers was cured with drinking water from snail shell!! I have always heard that it works but never tried it myself!! My sister did and she doesn’t stammer anymore!! So why don’t you give it a try and see what happens? Use a big snail shell ,wash it well and drink water from it for a few months.. maybe it really works.. afterall my sister says it cured hers |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by 6footplus(m): 9:15am On Feb 25, 2022 |
had no idea stammerers plenty for nairaland like this, I for don come ask for help donkey years ago. do not look down on yourself one bit, you just have to keep telling yourself "yes, I can!" these tips helped me in my own journey: 1. find your social safe haven, it could be your friends from school, your siblings, church, etc. - for me, it was my church. a. make friends with children and be ready to laugh at yourself when you're with them. children have a pure heart and will laugh at/with you, it will help loosen your guard. b. make friends with elderly, married people - they tend to talk slower and more relaxed, and it helps to mimic their pace. you are usually under no pressure to impress them - talk to them about their hobbies, jobs, friends, etc., and soon you'll be revered in that social circle for your smarts. 2. then progress to talk to youths - now because they've noticed you are friendly with kids and adults, they now want to see what's so special about you and they want to impress you, not the other way around. 3. for romance - porn is a no-no! it will only create another wall that needs breaking down - trust me! use dating apps my brother. nobody go see your face when you dey agitated. be funny, risky, spontaneous, and yab gals once in a while. girls are just like any other person on this earth, they want to have fun gist and play around. be spontaneous and ask them out, your place or somewhere public you know you are comfortable in. if they like you, na dem go even dey complete your sentences for you, or petting you to calm down. don't put anybody - male or female, on a pedestal in your mind. na there pressure to impress go come from, and hence the stutter. believe you are as hot a catch as any damn body! when I was younger, my elder bros were players and I used to think in me, na because I dey stammer o... if not me sef go be player, and I hid in my shell. but now, dating apps and social gatherings don turn me to player, because there are girls everywhere, and I mean everywhere! 4. for jobs - I suck at interviews, even if I come first in the aptitude tests, I still sucked at interviews. always try to go in with little expectations - it helps to subdue the pressure, instead try to stand out for your social skills, laugh and joke with other candidates you meet there, have a good story to tell the interviewer, and ask them engaging questions. 5. learn a high-level skill if you can, if work no come, you can always create room for yourself with your skills and competence. 6. I suppose write this one first, I forget - do breathing exercises and sing words whenever you can. it won't be easy but we always win at the end! |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by Imbecilicsamuel: 9:37am On Feb 25, 2022 |
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Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by TheKingsmann(m): 9:44am On Feb 25, 2022 |
Jennyclay:U aren't even brave enough to upload ur real picture on ur profile, shame! |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by Jennyclay(f): 9:46am On Feb 25, 2022 |
Imbecilicsamuel:Mr Samuel. You don't need to report I will handle him myself. He's a small boy. |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by TheKingsmann(m): 9:47am On Feb 25, 2022 |
Jennyclay:Eyahhh |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by TheKingsmann(m): 9:50am On Feb 25, 2022 |
Jennyclay:But u can't even handle the way you write here, go and read for ur jamb exams, small girl with tiny brain |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by TheKingsmann(m): 9:54am On Feb 25, 2022 |
Imbecilicsamuel:Do you know this is an offence? mistaking me for a troll I know nothing about, take this nonsense down now
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Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by Jennyclay(f): 9:57am On Feb 25, 2022 |
TheKingsmann:It is well oo. Please don't be harsh on her. Tell her to go back to kindergarten... I mean, she could start all over again. Probably her brain will be as sharp as razor. |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by TheKingsmann(m): 10:01am On Feb 25, 2022 |
Jennyclay:Kiddo u can do better, go and read for ur jamb exams and stop forming fake online feminist |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by Imbecilicsamuel: 10:04am On Feb 25, 2022 |
Have you cured your genital warts?
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Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by Jennyclay(f): 10:08am On Feb 25, 2022 |
TheKingsmann:Don't be too harsh on her please!!!! |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by TheKingsmann(m): 10:15am On Feb 25, 2022 |
Jennyclay:Eyahh |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by Imbecilicsamuel: 10:23am On Feb 25, 2022 |
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Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by TheKingsmann(m): 10:23am On Feb 25, 2022 |
Jennyclay:It's not too late to learn English from me though,,,,,the fee is just 40k per month,,,,u will pass ur jamb this year if you give me a try |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by TheKingsmann(m): 10:27am On Feb 25, 2022 |
Imbecilicsamuel:It's now obvious dat u have mental issues,Can you post proofs dat I'm the troll up there? if u don't hv proof u have no right to accuse me of being him |
Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by Jennyclay(f): 10:27am On Feb 25, 2022 |
TheKingsmann:Then persuade her, afterall she gave birth to you, she would definitely listen to you. I still suggest you take her to kindergarten. Well, I wish her all the best!! |
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