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People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by Goodmarlian: 12:17pm On Mar 05, 2022
It is good to look younger than your age but sometimes it has its own disadvantages,people disrespect you for your stature because you look small,I am almost 30 but I look 6 years younger,there was a time I had a police case after buying a laptop from a friend not knowing it was stolen,when we got to the police station they officer look at me and said "small boy like you you no go focus for your book na Yahoo you want buy laptop do" I hate that word 'small boy' its quite disturbing to that at this age I have no single beard ,teenagers boys always want to make friends with me because they feel we are peers,I try to avoid them but they feel I am a proud but they don't understand I don't want insults.
Yesterday I went to a pos spot to collect cash via transfer but network was bad I have being debited but the cashier is yet to receive it.so I beg her to give me the cash and collect the number because I know her boss very well the girl went haywire bla bla bla next thing she said 'you think say I be you mate? I felt so pained because from her look she can't be more than 24 o just ignored her and left because I hate exchanging banters with women,I wish I was bigger.

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Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by KiNg0G: 12:21pm On Mar 05, 2022
they don't disrespect you because of your smaller statue.... they disrespect you because you don't act your age.

am skinny... not too tall... with a babyface.
but the way I dress and the way I talk.
all those small boys them know say they nor be my age fah.

so act and behave mature....statue doesn't buy respect..
but the way they perceive you to be , from afar does.

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Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by sheanzy(m): 12:21pm On Mar 05, 2022
What's your height?
Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by Goodmarlian: 12:26pm On Mar 05, 2022
KiNg0G:
they don't disrespect you because of your smaller statue.... they disrespect you because you don't act your age.

am skinny... not too tall... with a babyface.
but the way I dress and the way I talk.
all those small boys them know say they nor be my age fah.

so act and behave mature....statue doesn't buy respect..
but the way they perceive you to be , from afar

How did you arrive at this conclusion,do you know me?

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Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by Goodmarlian: 12:26pm On Mar 05, 2022
sheanzy:
What's your height?

5ft 9"
Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by KiNg0G: 12:28pm On Mar 05, 2022
Goodmarlian:

How did you arrive at this conclusion,do you know me?
no I don't, I should have used maybe ..it's just an opinion

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Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by Nobody: 12:28pm On Mar 05, 2022
Hello sir! Are you in any way related to shatta bandle aka the young rich boy?

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Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by Nobody: 12:32pm On Mar 05, 2022
The POS girl talked to you anyhow, you backed down and walk away, next time na hot slap she go tear you. This is why people don't respect you.

Oga, you need to be a No- nonsense type, your personality alone should be enough to command respect!

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Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by Edipet(m): 12:33pm On Mar 05, 2022
How many feets are you Op? I look more than 6yrs younger,.... But I don't feel bad about myself,..I only feel bad in some situation that is giving me disadvantage in life( leadership and managerial position) ,...the only problem I have is that' I do feel ashamed about myself wen I am in my area or with people that know me and my age very well. Apart From that, wen I am in new environment I behaved matured and still accept wen people call me small boy...am not only small in status. But my face look so much younger too

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Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by Edipet(m): 12:36pm On Mar 05, 2022
Goodmarlian:


5ft 9"
what?? You are very tall ooo
Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by sheanzy(m): 12:37pm On Mar 05, 2022
Goodmarlian:


5ft 9"
you are very short
Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by Jennyclay(f): 12:39pm On Mar 05, 2022
Read your Bible.
Pray every day
Pray every day
Pray every day

Read your Bible.
Pray every day.
If you want to grow.


Small and kukulu man like you!!

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Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by RoyalBlu(f): 12:40pm On Mar 05, 2022
Goodmarlian:


5ft 9"

This height is not bad at all.
There are men shorter than this who are ruling their world.

OP carry yourself well and rule your world. You're perfect just the way you are.

Don't give anyone room to talk down on you cos of your stature. You didn't create yourself after all.

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Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by Goodmarlian: 12:50pm On Mar 05, 2022
GoodHardDick:
The POS girl talked to you anyhow, you backed down and walk away, next time na hot slap she go tear you. This is why people don't respect you.

Oga, you need to be a No- nonsense type, your personality alone should be enough to command respect!


You say?

Make I slap fadeyi ghetto girl make area boys wey dey Bleep her treat my fuckup abi?
thanks for the advice.. grin grin I no follow.

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Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by Nobody: 12:51pm On Mar 05, 2022
KiNg0G:
they don't disrespect you because of your smaller statue.... they disrespect you because you don't act your age.

am skinny... not too tall... with a babyface.
but the way I dress and the way I talk.
all those small boys them know say they nor be my age fah.

so act and behave mature....statue doesn't buy respect..
but the way they perceive you to be , from afar does.
Lol
Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by Romanoff(f): 12:55pm On Mar 05, 2022
You either don't act your age or you don't dress well.

I know married guys who are smallish but stylish.

Na women dey even toast them, till they see they are married.

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Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by Nobody: 12:57pm On Mar 05, 2022
Goodmarlian:


You say?

Make I slap fadeyi ghetto girl make area boys wey dey Bleep her treat my fuckup abi?
thanks for the advice.. grin grin I no follow.

Read my comment very well oga, I said next time na hot slap she go tear you. You seem nervous and scared. How u expect wey people respect with this personality of yours?

Oga, you need to man up and be the no nonsense type. Stop behaving like a weakling and a kid.

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Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by Goodmarlian: 12:59pm On Mar 05, 2022
Romanoff:
You either don't act your age or you don't dress well.

I know married guys who are smallish but stylish.

Na women dey even toast them, till they see they are married.

Most of my friends are within my age bracke trust me I behave matured because I am matured in mind with experiencet,I just parked into the area newly maybe that's why,the disrespect doesn't come regularly but once in a while,unless you mean I should be acting like an old man because I am matured.
Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by Goodmarlian: 1:02pm On Mar 05, 2022
GoodHardDick:


Read my comment very well oga, I said next time na hot slap she go tear you. You seem nervous and scared. How u expect wey people respect with this personality of yours?

Oga, you need to man up and be the no nonsense type. Stop behaving like a weakling and a kid.

Sorry I didn't read it well,them no born her well to do that I just stop arguing with her because she looks and behave razz with tinted hair and nose ring,a real man doesn't argue with women just move.

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Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by Romanoff(f): 1:03pm On Mar 05, 2022
Goodmarlian:


Most of my friends are within my age bracket,I just parked into the area newly maybe that's why,the disrespect doesn't come regularly but once in a while,unless you mean I should be acting like an old man because I am matured.

No na. You don't have to. Make sure you add one or two older guys to your friends, especially in your neighborhood.
Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by posty56: 1:04pm On Mar 05, 2022
KiNg0G:
they don't disrespect you because of your smaller statue.... they disrespect you because you don't act your age.

am skinny... not too tall... with a babyface.
but the way I dress and the way I talk.
all those small boys them know say they nor be my age fah.

so act and behave mature....statue doesn't buy respect..
but the way they perceive you to be , from afar does.
king of you f**king troll,thunder fire ya mama
Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by MrRemedyAlagbo(m): 1:10pm On Mar 05, 2022
Forget your stature...it's all in the mind,ymwork on our self esteem too,I know short people with a lot of confidence

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Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by superCleanworks(m): 1:57pm On Mar 05, 2022
Goodmarlian:
I wish I was bigger.


even if you were 7ft tall you will always be small if you carry yourself that way.

you say younger guys want to be friends with you because they think you are age mates.
why will they not think so when you sit, laugh and gist with them ?

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Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by suffering: 2:18pm On Mar 05, 2022
Some people no get better wahala for this life.
Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by LikeAking: 2:25pm On Mar 05, 2022
Jennyclay:
Read your Bible.
Pray every day
Pray every day
Pray every day

Read your Bible.
Pray every day.
If you want to grow.


Short man!!

Wiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiket!
Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by Goodmarlian: 2:51pm On Mar 05, 2022
superCleanworks:


even if you were 7ft tall you will always be small if you carry yourself that way.

you say younger guys want to be friends with you because they think you are age mates.
why will they not think so when you sit, laugh and gist with them ?

Una go just run to conclusions go or this forum without thinking ,where did I mention in this thread that I laughed and play with teenagers mad people everywhere.

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Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by Karleb(m): 2:55pm On Mar 05, 2022
KiNg0G:
they don't disrespect you because of your smaller statue.... they disrespect you because you don't act your age.

am skinny... not too tall... with a babyface.
but the way I dress and the way I talk.
all those small boys them know say they nor be my age fah.

so act and behave mature....statue doesn't buy respect..
but the way they perceive you to be , from afar does.

Baba, leave that thing.

In your area, people respect you because they know you ain't a kid. When one younger person respects you, the rest will probably follow suit but in a strange environment, you will have to prove that you are not a kid.

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Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by Karleb(m): 2:58pm On Mar 05, 2022
Goodmarlian:


You say?

Make I slap fadeyi ghetto girl make area boys wey dey Bleep her treat my fuckup abi?
thanks for the advice.. grin grin I no follow.

You dey fear joor.

We dey change am for conductor if they wan mess up, how much a POS girl.

If you right, no dey gree.

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Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by superCleanworks(m): 3:05pm On Mar 05, 2022
Goodmarlian:


Una go just run to conclusions go or this forum without thinking ,where did I mention in this thread that I laughed and play with teenagers mad people everywhere.

that is exactly what you said. you said they keep approaching you to be friends. wetin wan bring that one if no be you wey dey play with dem. or maybe you should learn how to arrange your words better when you try to narrate your issues to the public.

mad people everywhere? LoL. I wonder how you can see everywhere when you are so close to the ground. carry your short man low self esteem problem shift.
Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by Nobody: 5:07pm On Mar 05, 2022
Jennyclay:
Read your Bible.
Pray every day
Pray every day
Pray every day

Read your Bible.
Pray every day.
If you want to grow.


Short man!!
Is not funny na grin
Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by Nobody: 5:09pm On Mar 05, 2022
Guy I will recommend bodybuilding
Build does muscles and look like a menacing monster
Have this Unfuckwithable look..... I swear dis niggaz gonna bow low, trust me

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Re: People Disrespect Me Because Of my Small Stature. by adefitim(m): 5:34pm On Mar 05, 2022
How are will gonna judge when you don’t upload your pictures?

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