pocohantas:


Nawa! Our own resident Chief whip?
Na elder be that o. Kai!

I have never seen that name before. Many foreigners here. All these racist and anti black discussions here are things they are too cowardly to say in real life. Real life psychotic elements we have here on this site.

baby124:

I have never seen that name before. Many foreigners here. All these racist and anti black discussions here are things they are too cowardly to say in real life. Real life psychotic elements we have here on this site.

You can say that again. More pitiful such conditions are undiagnosed or acknowledged by the patient.

Black women this and that. I wonder when they’ll sit and compare themselves with their foreign counterparts. Abi are the men in developed countries mutants? Lol

Truvelisback:
Don't fight ur husband over that lady's issue as long as he carries out his responsibility in the shome. If he wants to marry another woman, there is nothing u can do.

eyinjuege:


You're the only race of men so effeminate that you concern yourself so much about women's accessories.
I'm yet to see any other race so concerned about how their women tan themselves or get lip fillers, or butt surgery to look like the black woman- the original prototype for all races, who carry the Eve Gene.
Why is her wig of such importance to anyone?
Do better.
Nigeria needs you more on her affairs. Leave all the hair accessories to the women folk forghusake

Lezzlie:
[i]African women's hair raise up to the heavens where angelic beings reside[/i]

I just couldn't read further.

You're either senile or stupid or both.

You shouldn't be discussing anything more than food and Bollywood.

food is number one periority

frandal:


Somethings are better handled with wisdom, like lady Chummy said both of them are at faults and needs to have a heart to heart, the issue is not in the man being some-way as the OP said but in the manner in which she handled it. He's not a kid and doesn't need her(Op) to be trying to correct him. She raising her voice on him, trying to know his every moves is putting him off.

You're still talking like I can't ask my wife questions if something doesn't feel right about her movements or behaviour. You are saying all that because he's a man, nothing more. If their case is reversed, you wouldn't be faulting the husband. "Putting him off", really? We're talking about a cheat.

Madam Chummy have given the best advice any one would give but the final decision is left with OP. The man knows already he had been caught he doesn't needs Op rubbing it in his face, he needs someone he can talk to and from what OP wrote up there she's out to teach him a lesson, you can't teach a grown ass man a lesson and before she makes any hasty decisions she should try as much as possible to try other means to keep her marriage so that even if it eventually crashes (which is worst case) the fault won't be from her own side. At least she'll have this peace that she tried, things are not always as it seems, that's why we need pray too so God helps us, because on our own we can do nothing.

Caught but refused to stop, right? Like I said, he neither respect his wife nor marriage. No way to play this down. I'm a married man and I could tell you that it is the husband playing his game the wrong way, most of the faults is his.

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Jagunlabiodua:
How I'm I wicked? By trying discouraged a woman from foolishly breaking her home, Look you women are not men and can never be men and stop crying our president M Buhari clearly told his wife Aisha she belongs to the kitchen and the other room and that's the reality. Nigerian women must and should learn how to obey and submit to their husbands or else don't marry the man. All men can not be enslaved by your shenanigans. you are very wicked encouraging a married woman to turn to a single mother. Home breaker clap for yourself

I like the way you used obey and submit separately, meaning they are not the same thing. Even in the Bible, children where instructed to obey their parents, servants were also instructed to obey their masters, but wife's were instructed to submit to their husbands not obey. Meaning their is a difference between obey and submission. Submission that is being preached in marriage even by the white men that brought Christianity to us is an act that is expressed mutually and voluntarily. The first word is mutually, while the second is voluntarily. Meaning both partners must submit to each other without being forced.

I can't believe that a wicked mod block me since last week, nairaland can put someone into temptation.dairy from now on.

Simran94:

Did you just move to Nigeria from an European country or what? Do you know what Kayamata is?
Have you not heard of married men abandoning their wives and kids to follow these harlots that use Kayamata? Only for them to come back months or years later like headless chickens

You have been left behind oo.

Naso..

I wonder why put look for try to find answers in illogical areas...

Maybe she stopped dressing the way she normally does..
Maybe she has gained weight and more looking sexy

Did that ever occur to u...
Kanyamata ko katangwa ni

jonandez:

Naso..

I wonder why put look for try to find answers in illogical areas...

Maybe she stopped dressing the way she normally does..
Maybe she has gained weight and more looking sexy

Did that ever occur to u...
Kanyamata ko katangwa ni

OK

seuncyrus:
Amazingbaby , At this point, if all you wrote here is true. I think it's best you leave since your husband. Even if it's not a complete divorce , just separate for a while till he comes back to his senses and apologize to you (that's if you're willing to take him back)

BUT
This is why I always insist a woman should have something going on for herself no matter how rich or comfortable your husband is.

No offence, but I think a number of women get too comfortable when married or should I say "lose themselves" after marriage. You've been married, taking care of the kids and your husband, and being the woman of the house ...at the same time your husband is working , getting promoted and living his life while you're confined to the title of "wifey"

So if this event didn't happen , you won't feel the need to get a job, learn how to drive and hit the gym ?

DEAR WOMEN, PLEASE ALWAYS HAVE SOMETHING GOING ON IN YOUR LIFE....PICK UP A SKILL ON UDEMY, START A SMALL ONLINE BUSINESS, VOLUNTEER FOR A GOOD CAUSE.... just anything good that shows you're not just a wife .

olosho Grand patron. Come let me show you one ashawo joint you can lavish your money. Mumu

myami:
olosho Grand patron. Come let me show you one ashawo joint you can lavish your money. Mumu

Are you really this jobless, stupid and pathetic that you had to go through every of my posts And by the way, I don't engage in such stupid acts. I don't have low self esteem sir. If you're so se x hungry and se x starved maybe you should consider castration

Love and light sir

seuncyrus:


Are you really this jobless, stupid and pathetic that you had to go through every of my posts And by the way, I don't engage in such stupid acts. I don't have low self esteem sir. If you're so se x hungry and se x starved maybe you should consider castration

Love and light sir

you are very stupid for accusing me of patronizing prostitutes because I bashed your sister. Do you know me from Adam. idiot

Amazingbaby:


Are you female or you identify as a female because I don't understand.

So a female cannot point out to another female when she is in the wrong? Na wah o

myami:
you are very stupid for accusing me of patronizing prostitutes because I bashed my sister who is also a useless prostitute. Do you know me from Adam. idiot

myami:
is it right to sleep with runsgal after a long period without sex

myami:
will you suck his dick

myami:
how do you get free sex from a hookup girl?

myami:
I'm proud of my bodycount, 1600 and counting

myami:
I wanna get in between your legs

myami:
I've slept with 486 girls and counting

myami:
I'm proud of my bodycount, 1600 and counting

myami:
one orobo is sucking my dick right now

myami:
most of the hot chicks I wanna bang for free are into hookup

I had to go through your post to get an insight into who you are. As the Holy Bible says in Matt 15:11 What goes into someone’s mouth does not defile them, but what comes out of their mouth, that is what defiles them.

For a old man who's only fantasy and achievement in life is sex, It's a real pity bro. The fact that , You even lie constantly for some idiotic dic measuring contest on an anonymous forum is even more pity. Go through these posts and see if you're proud of yourself.

LOVE AND LIGHT

Amazingbaby:
Biko toks2008 and baby123 make una leave my page even though I love baby123

Link to the first https://www.nairaland.com/6971181/husband-left-us

This week have been crazy, I took alot of advice from this page and was minding my business, I called him on Saturday to come pick the kids because I deserve rest, he said he would prefer coming to the house to see them, he came I cooked and we all ate around 5 he picked up some clothes and left.

He kept calling to talk about things in general and I was responding fine. My kids got sick on Sunday (night fever) and I spent all night tepid sponging and administering drugs.

On Sunday night, he went out with his infamous friend when I called him around 10 he was still out (something he hardly do) when he got back he called and we got talking one thing led to another and I still asked him about the text message and the girl as usual he kept on hammering on how he doesn't owe me any explanation. I told him that if he doesn't give me an explanation I would have to call the girl directly, he cut the call and I actually called her.

When I asked her where she went with my husband the lady told me that my husband saw that she was interested in tech event and took her there on that Saturday, he actually went to pick her up (lol).

I asked her how did she know everything about his business and why would she want to work for him for free, she said my husband normally come to his friends office and when he is not around he do strike up conversation with her and tell her all about his business and she was interested in growing it (lol).

She got very uncomfortable and started talking about how she is a minister in her church (I actually bursted out laughing at this point), she said a whole lot of things contradicting everything my husband told me, he was even talking with her since he left the house.

Is he back to the house??
Meanwhile, did he rent another apartment?
Or he squatted with someone??
Who is that “someone”?

Kai too funny

pocohantas:


Awww, Josefu aka Ogbomoso Batman. The ugliest of them all with head like rock. Are you tired? You suddenly matured at over 40?

Josefu don’t get tired o. What did you say I am? Why don’t you speak some goodlooks and purpose into your life. I don’t know why most Edo men are always very ugly. Including your governors. Eish!!!

eyinjuege:


You cannot accept the fact that your women are the original, the prototype for all. E shock you?
African women's natural hair stands in all its glory, yes and it points to the heavens.
I'm not sure why you're so comfortable discussing women's hair routines with a woman on social media.
And that in itself is a huge problem.
You should spend the time trying to learn from other men on how to be a leader and how to hold true power. You can only learn from those men who hold the power in the world.
Do better, this 2022.
How can you bring up your status in the world? Aren't you tired of being the bottom of the barrel?

Osu woman, I'm 100% sure you are ibo, na your way, useless disgusting lots