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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by TheMan3: 2:52pm On Mar 18, 2022
Blunttruth:


Great IQ, is a no brainer. But people who are insecure and can't stand being around someone like that will opt for the submissive dumb one. Think about the kids you will have, don't let your ego make you have a 50/50 chance of having a dumb child.
there are women with great iq, and very submissive. I think this op's discription of a submissive woman is wrong. A submissive woman dosnt mean a dumb one. Those are two very different things

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kelvin3476: 2:53pm On Mar 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
I did ask you a question and in response I received a convoluted retort from you leading me to accept that you probably don't even understand your own claims to begin with.. undecided
OKAY. MR LEARNED
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 2:55pm On Mar 18, 2022
Johfem:
Having a high IQ translates to you being knowledgeability. This implies that in your high IQ you should honour and respect human persons in love and in submissiveness.

I still stand on my opinion.

Someone like me who has subscribed to every platform to learn, understands that humans deserve respect and honour irrespective.
IQ has absolutely nothing to do with submissiveness so these attempts at joining the two in conversation is meaningless at best. undecided

In fact, intelligence demands equality be the rule when dealing with others. So, i am not certain if It is the case that you simply don't even understand the meaning of the terms you use or what. undecided

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by zionstaar75: 2:56pm On Mar 18, 2022
macrodata:
Why not strive for a woman with great IQ that's submissive? Yes, they are out there.
u just nailed it, obviously this one is just dumb not that she's submissive
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Munzy14(m): 2:56pm On Mar 18, 2022
Magnoliaa:
Men with un.wash.ed a.s.s always being the ones having standards and opinions and picking between a division of women. grin

Make una continue your discussion. You'll go back to real life and log back on here to come and be crying about how the ladies in y'all lives cannot hold intellectual discussions or analytically support you with ideas. Na here I go dey.
The bolded is a reason a higher percentage of men stay clear of the so called high IQ ladies with zero submission...Rather than dissect the topic of discuss, you started with 1cup of Insult..It could be fun, until it becomes a habit and transformed to reality off here.

It takes an extremely intelligent and traditional lady to be submissive...

A know it all lady with this bolded mindset of yours is a catastrophe waiting to explode...Keeping her is equal to having a PUTIN with thousands of nuclear war head.. cool

Some men equally like ladies with high IQ and zero submission to complement them..

But, most men doesn't..They most times don't make a good home...Too many rebellious actions that will deny the home the needed peace...Especially when their decision is sidelined by the man.

Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 2:57pm On Mar 18, 2022
Kelvin3476:

OKAY. MR LEARNED
submission equates to ceding control over one's existence to another. No intelligent human out there would want that for any other being he or she loves and respects. undecided

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by derecho(m): 2:58pm On Mar 18, 2022
Not necessarily bro.
A person can have a high IQ but not submissive.


Zonefree:
It takes a lady with Great IQ to be submissive.

Have you seen a feminist with an IQ above 2 before?
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 3:00pm On Mar 18, 2022
derecho:
Not necessarily bro.
A person can have a high IQ but not submissive.
More like a person with high IQ will never cede control over his/her existence to the whims and controls of another. undecided

All these one pretending the two can coexist don't even understand what the terms even imply. undecided

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kelvin3476: 3:00pm On Mar 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
submission equates to ceding control over one's existence to another. No intelligent human out there would want that for any other being he or she loves and respects. undecided

MR LEARNED I HAVE HEARD YOU


STOP WASTING UR EMPTY TIME
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 3:01pm On Mar 18, 2022
Kelvin3476:
MR LEARNED I HAVE HEARD YOU
STOP WASTING UR EMPTY TIME
My time is mine to decide, not yours! undecided

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Nobody: 3:02pm On Mar 18, 2022
Average of both, good IQ and supportive partner.

There is really no point having a partner with high IQ who is wicked or with no emotionally intelligence. I have met plenty Scholars and professors who are terrible in their character.

Someone who wants to support you will be submissive to an extent, at least.

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by GloriousGbola: 3:03pm On Mar 18, 2022
Magnoliaa:
Men with un.wash.ed a.s.s always being the ones having standards and opinions and picking between a division of women. grin

Make una continue your discussion. You'll go back to real life and log back on here to come and be crying about how the ladies in y'all lives cannot hold intellectual discussions or analytically support you with ideas. Na here I go dey.

I will have you know that my gluts are washed with scented water from the fountains of niagara falls.

Now submit, saucy wench! angry
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Magnoliaa(f): 3:03pm On Mar 18, 2022
Munzy14:
The bolded is a reason a higher percentage of men stay clear of the so called high IQ ladies with zero submission...Rather than dissect the topic of discuss, you started woth 1cup of Insult..It could be fun, until it becomes a habit and transformed to reality off here.

It takes an extremely intelligent and traditional lady to be submissive...

A know it all lady with this bolded mindset of yours is a catastrophe waiting to explode...Keeping her is equal to having a PUTIN with thousands of nuclear war head.. cool

Some men equally like ladies with high IQ and zero submission to complement them..

But, most men doesn't..They most times don't make a good home...Too many rebellious actions that will deny the home the needed peace...Especially when their decision is sidelined by the man.

Awwwnnn. It's good to know you think me a lady with a high IQ, albeit with an indirect compliment smiley.

As for the rest of your post, I didn't read it.

Jummah Mubarak.

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by derecho(m): 3:03pm On Mar 18, 2022
The way you talk sometimes makes one ask whether you consult widely or you just want to argue.
So when God wants us to submit to Him, He doesn't love us?
I know you don't understand what it means to submit in marriage. For you, it is slavishness or subjugation.


Kobojunkie:
submission equates to ceding control over one's existence to another. No intelligent human out there would want that for any other being he or she loves and respects. undecided
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by TheExclusive: 3:04pm On Mar 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
ROFLMAO
cheesy cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy cheesy

You seem to think age can beat out IQ as far as intelligence and maybe wisdom is concerned? grin

The age difference will bring respect. Being her first man gives me control over her sexually and emotionally. All these will improve her submissiveness. I need her IQ becuase of my kids.

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Munzy14(m): 3:05pm On Mar 18, 2022
Magnoliaa:


Awwwnnn. It's good to know you think me a lady with a high IQ, albeit with an indirect compliment smiley.

As for the rest of your post, I didn't read it.

Jummah Mubarak.
k
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Munzy14(m): 3:05pm On Mar 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
submission equates to ceding control over one's existence to another. No intelligent human out there would want that for any other being he or she loves and respects. undecided
Lmao...kobo's hypothesis.. grin grin
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Nobody: 3:07pm On Mar 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
More like a person with high IQ will never cede control over his/her existence to the whims and controls of another. undecided

All these one pretending the two can coexist don't even understand what the terms even imply. undecided

LMAO, do you understand what high IQ is? I think you should Google it more.

A wicked person can have IQ, It has nothing to do with submissiveness. As a matter of fact, the more IQ you have, the more terrible you are as a partner because you over analyse every thing to the letter & see Red Flags that no one sees.

An average IQ and a supportive partner is what is needed.
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 3:07pm On Mar 18, 2022
TheExclusive:
The age difference will brings respect. Being her first man gives me control over her sexually and emotionally. All these will improve her submissiveness. I need her IQ becuase of my kids.
Age will bring respect? undecided

Being her first man gives me control over her sexually and emotionally? So you are one of those who thinks of women as puppets to be fiddled with? undecided

Please be sure to come back to tell us how it all actually turns out when you both eventually start dealing with each other. We go dey here for nairaland dey wait una. undecided

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Munzy14(m): 3:08pm On Mar 18, 2022
macrodata:
Why not strive for a woman with great IQ that's submissive? Yes, they are out there.
A combination of the two is that good woman that cometh from the Lord.. smiley

Very scarce..but find her and you are already a king without much stress.

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by sweetellar: 3:08pm On Mar 18, 2022
This is why most men die first in a relationship. Continue bearing 80% of the responsibility in your relationship because you are insecure and want a meek, humble, submissive wife. Oga seek help for your insecurity first before you involve someone's daughter. A submissive wife today can tear eye tomorrow and you'll hear nwii. Don't kill yourself with stress bearing much of the responsibility. Build your home with an intelligent, driven, industrious woman. Capeesh?

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Blunttruth: 3:08pm On Mar 18, 2022
TheMan3:
there are women with great iq, and very submissive. I think this op's discription of a submissive woman is wrong. A submissive woman dosnt mean a dumb one. Those are two very different things
Yes you are right
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 3:10pm On Mar 18, 2022
truthsayer009:
LMAO, do you understand what high IQ is? I think you should Google it more.

A wicked person can have IQ, It has nothing to do with submissiveness. As a matter of fact, the more IQ you have, the more terrible you are as a partner because you over analyse every thing to the letter & see Red Flags that no one sees.

An average IQ and a supportive partner is what is needed.
I never said IQ has anything to do with submissiveness. However, I don't believe your claim that the higher a person's IQ the more terrible a partner the one makes. undecided

Instead, the higher a person's IQ, the more meaningless submissiveness becomes. undecided

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Nobody: 3:11pm On Mar 18, 2022
An Albert Estein- I.Q is not really what I want in my woman.
It's okay to have an average intelligence and most importantly,have a good character.
Biko !I want to live long.
Make woman with very high I.Q and bad character no come kill me.
On the issue of intelligence,hope we all know the importance of emotional intelligence in a relationship?
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by TheExclusive: 3:12pm On Mar 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Age will bring respect? undecided

Being her first man gives me control over her sexually and emotionally? So you are one of those who thinks of women as puppets to be fiddled with? undecided

Please be sure to come back to tell us how it all actually turns out when you both eventually start dealing with each other. We go dey here for nairaland dey wait una. undecided
Then she lacks proper home training in which case I abort. Nobody is taking about puppet here.

All you have said is also applicable to a submissive girl.

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Blunttruth: 3:13pm On Mar 18, 2022
derecho:
Being submissive doesn't mean being dumb. It's a product of discipline and prudence.

Intelligence or high I.Q isn't the same as Wisdom.

It takes wisdom and effort to be submissive..
Wise employers would ALWAYS go for loyal and teachable employees over intelligent and mannerless ones.
The later would ultimately become better and more productive over time.

Marriage is not something you can easily change like a job.
If your aim is long-term and peace, A submissive spouse is definitely the way to go.

Ebele Obiano might have high I.Q but her show of shame shows she's corky and disrespectful.
You are right,but to the bolded part, i have seen such happen several times. Some men can't stand women who have a voice,who can think who can question wrong decisions. They see it as not being submissive and that the woman is challenging their authority.
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 3:13pm On Mar 18, 2022
Blunttruth:

Yes you are right
He is actually wrong! A person with great IQ is one whose ability to critically reason issues surpasses others, and such persons find it a conflict to also cede control over their very existence to others. undecided

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 3:14pm On Mar 18, 2022
TheExclusive:

Then she lacks proper home training in which case I abort. Nobody is taking about puppet here.

All you have said is also applicable to a submissive girl.
More like you lack proper home training for thinking a woman a toy you can fiddle and manipulate in the manner you suggested. undecided

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Tekuzukite: 3:14pm On Mar 18, 2022
Are the two qualities mutually exclusive? Who says people with high IQ cannot be submissive?
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Blunttruth: 3:15pm On Mar 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
He is actually wrong! A person with great IQ is one whose ability to critically reason issues surpasses others, and such persons find it a conflict to also cede control over their very existence to others. undecided
There are variations to this IQ thing. Personalities too have a role to play. Personalities shaped by environment, and family.

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 3:15pm On Mar 18, 2022
Munzy14:

Lmao...kobo's hypothesis.. grin grin
If you thought carefully about the meaning of the terms themselves, you would probably see the meaning in what I stated there. undecided

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by SenecaTheYonger: 3:17pm On Mar 18, 2022
bigpicture001:


U never jam... When u jam , u go kwere

Tell me, do you have any experience with them?

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