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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 3:18pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Blunttruth:IQ is not necessarily intelligence or smartness but ability to critically reason things out, and yes, there are those low on the pole. But when one considers those with great IQ, as suggested by the OP, then to those such concepts as submission make absolutely no sense of any kind. 1 Like |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by integrity16(m): 3:19pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
You can have both, once you are able to love your spouse. |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by TheExclusive: 3:19pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Where did you see me mention fiddling and manipulation? Stop making unfounded assumptions. |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Blunttruth: 3:21pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: IQ means Intelligence quotient right? So it has to do with intelligence. I have met people who have high IQs and are not nerds, the way high IQ people are depicted. |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Nobody: 3:22pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: We are saying the same thing, you just don't want to accept it in plain terms. If something becomes meaningless to you, then it losses value therefore you don't indulge it. It means you can't value something that is meanliness to you. Comparatively you can also say, the higher a person's IQ, the more meaningless Religion becomes. A lot of people support this argument as well. We can call a spade a spade, no need to sugar coat it. |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by BSsniffer: 3:22pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
High IQ please....I don't want my kids to be stupid |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by derecho(m): 3:23pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
IQ stands for intelligence quotient and, in short, it is a measure of a person's reasoning ability. In other words, an IQ test is supposed to gauge how well someone can use information and logic to answer questions or make predictions This is why a lady can be good at work but unable to win her husband's heart. Marriage is not academic and is different from academics... Emotions, illogicalities, and other things crop up. The greatest charm that would break any man down is submission. No man loves a stubborn woman as a wife. Forget, those weird relationships where you find confused people. You don't need to be intelligent to be submissive to your spouse. But you need to be wise and strong to be a submissive wife. The man doesn't need to demand it, just as your wife doesn't need to demand Love. It should be freely given. |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by sirjamesjnr(m): 3:24pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
It is only low self-esteem and average IQ man that wants a nonentity as a wife. There is this joy I have when I discuss contemporary issues, job-related issues, real-life experiences, even Politics with my babe and she is at par with me. Sometimes I use her ideal to walk around certain issues. Experience has taught me that a low IQ person (man/woman) isn't submissive at all, but they are timid. Imagine having a wife like Poco( Poco without her fake feminism) or Isilove as a partner. Guy, you are covered any day any time. They are too many idiots who are raising kids that are unfit in today's world. If you need a submissive woman, go get a female worker pay her good money and she will serve you. A wife is a partner, not a subordinate. High IQ gives you a sense of command that alone humbles you. When you see a lady without class or character, please question her high IQ. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 3:24pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Blunttruth:IQ has more to do with ability to reason, not intelligence or smartness. in·tel·li·gence quo·tientBeing intelligent or being a nerd does not necessarily mean one has high IQ. 1 Like |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by frozen70(f): 3:27pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Streetbabah: A woman with a high IQ is more preferable than a woman that is submissive Is good to be married to a submize woman but that high IQ covers every areas that your attention will be needed An intelligent woman will also be submissive if you take time to understand who she is and her value for your family |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 3:28pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
truthsayer009:We were in no way saying the same things.. 2 Likes |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Blunttruth: 3:28pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: What's with the face. Let's agree to differ. Everyone knows that an intelligent person can't have a low IQ. Why is it call intelligence quotient if it has nothing to do with intelligence. Watch movies and see how they depict them. |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by wallrichy: 3:30pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Woman with Great IQ will be submissive cos she's intelligent to know the value of being submissive. I love great IQ women that can discuss politics, sciences, arts and world in general. Even though, you might not know everything but just have a good idea of what it's all about. A woman that can teach the children their school homework once in a while when am not available. A woman that is ever ready to build up on her achievement and not mine. A Oliver twist when her success and achievements is concerned, always wanting to achieve success in her endeavours....that's my queen.. SenecaTheYonger: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 3:32pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Blunttruth:I am afraid the statement in bold is not true at all. An intelligent person can indeed have low IQ level. https://www.quora.com/Can-someone-still-be-intelligent-and-have-a-low-IQ It is called intelligence QUOTIENT- a measure of a person's ability to critically reason as opposed to a person's intelligence. As for movie depictions, such individuals gravitate towards partnerships where relationships are concerned. They almost always fail in every attempt at submission because their minds continously rejects such subjugation. 1 Like |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 3:35pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
wallrichy:No person with great IQ will cede control over his or her existence to the whims of another human being, what you all call submission. It is an almost impossible thing to make or see happen. So your statement in bold is not founded on reality.. 1 Like |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Daradared2(f): 3:38pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Great iQ, no go marry person wey go dey born born up and down |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Blunttruth: 3:38pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: There are always exceptions. So intelligent people don't reason? Or does everything not have to do with reasoning. You are entitled to your opinion, and I am entitled to mine. |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by derecho(m): 3:40pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Yes, so many things happen and people easily conclude erroneously. Submission is a deep topic I struggle with.I must confess,it's not easy. Do you know sometimes, the man may not be serious with his demand but when the woman starts showing how stupid the man is and standing up to him, the devil in the man would surface. Do you think any man loves a woman without her own mind? The way you go about it is what makes the man appreciate you. Even Jesus at Gethsemane said "not my will but Your will be done". Submission to man is how he understands Love/Value/Trust.Telling a man I love you is skindeep. True Submission attracts power... It's not just for women but spiritually too. Blunttruth: |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Nobody: 3:40pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Okay. |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 3:43pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Blunttruth:Not all intelligent people can critically reason issues. Consider the case of intelligence and Nigerians to help you understand this issue. Nigerians are considered to be some of the highest educated folks in the world - even right there in Nigeria, we have so many book intelligent beings out there- yet IQ wise, Nigerians continue to rank amongst the lowest in the world. 2 Likes |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Blunttruth: 3:45pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
derecho: How does she show how stupid the man is? Sometimes it's the men's insecurities that makes him imagine things and read meaning to the most harmless statements. Even when it's matters that are just general topics once the woman's opinion differs ,it's a problem. Submission doesn't mean a woman should not air her opinion on matters. You air your opinion with politely, if the man does not accept it then you go along with him, but it will be on record that you objected. Next time he will ask you or such your opinion of he is wise. |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Blunttruth: 3:48pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:. |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by wonderr(m): 3:49pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
A lady that is not submissive will not even spend a year in your house before she carry her IQ back to her father's house There is a reason the Bible said wife should be submissive to their husband, why didn't the Bible says wife should have a great IQ Submission and great IQ are almost like word and opposite if a lady is submissive she might not really have a great IQ and if a lady has a great IQ she might not be submissive cos she will be sophisticated to the point of knowing her rights and also proving them to you at the expense of peace at home Having a lady with both gestures is like having the whole world at your disposal That's why the Bible says he who finds a good wife found a good thing |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 3:54pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
wonderr:According to the Bible, submission is an unholy curse placed on marriage by God and it is from this same that the same God then sends Jesus Christ to redeem man and marriage from, so those who use the Bible as reason for their choosing the path of submission do so in foolishness. 1 Like |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by olajigaolamide: 3:57pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Both. I can not marry a lady who will rely on me for 80% of decision |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Princewill1(m): 4:02pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Lol I pity men here who know little or nothing about the 'GAME OF POWER' saying that a high IQ woman can also be submissive. Intelligence is a form of power just like money. A highly intelligent woman is a powerful woman just like a wealthy woman. Powerful people are not submissive to 'equal power' or 'lower power' but only to a 'greater power'. If intelligence and submissiveness goes hand in hand, Are high IQ men also submissive to their wives? Any high IQ woman being submissive to you on the dating phase is tricking you into marriage. It's in the marriage that her true color will manifest. Intelligent and submissive woman are rare. 2 Likes |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by HELLASJ(m): 4:03pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Senomi: Okay! Na so e de start... Good luck buddy |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kelvin3476: 4:03pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:SHEY I TELL U SAY I DN HEAR ? |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by inumidun2010(m): 4:05pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: So SUBMISSION is a CURSE right?... Everybody just MISQUOTING the SCRIPTURES to suit their WARPED MIND.... Mind you, SUBMISSION wasnt meant for WOMEN alone, the SCRIPTURES talked about SUBMISSION to AUTHORITIES... >>>Rom.13.1 - Let every soul be subject unto the higher powers. For there is no power but of God: the powers that be are ordained of God. >>>Rom.13.2 - Whosoever therefore resisteth the power, resisteth the ordinance of God: and they that resist shall receive to themselves damnation. SUBMISSION in MARRIAGE was never part of the MOSAIC LAW, MARRIAGE is OLDER than THE LAW... Gal.3.13 - Christ hath redeemed us from the curse of the law, being made a curse for us: for it is written, Cursed is every one that hangeth on a tree: This PORTION of the SCRIPTURES was making reference to the MOSAIC law that states that CURSED IS ANY MAN HUNG ON A TREE.. Deut.21.22 - And if a man have committed a sin worthy of death, and he be to be put to death, and thou hang him on a tree: Deut.21.23 - His body shall not remain all night upon the tree, but thou shalt in any wise bury him that day; (for he that is hanged is accursed of God that thy land be not defiled, which the LORD thy God giveth thee for an inheritance. NO DEY MISYARN SCRIPTURES , YOU HEAR... if you CHOOSE not to SUBMIT to your HUSBAND, it DOESNT AFFECT ME... but it will AFFECT ME IF , you twist the WORD OF GOD to JUSTIFY YOUR INADEQUACIES.... PEACE |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 4:05pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Princewill1:People who have high IQs actually seek partnerships where relationship is concerned, not submission which makes generally little to no sense for humans as a whole.. 1 Like |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Enemyofpeace: 4:06pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Fok IQ, give me a submissive wife like mynd44 any time, any day. Who IQ epp? |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Shevchenkko: 4:12pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
macrodata:Very rare to find in Nigeria now 1 Like |
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