| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by Cutehector(m): 12:59pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Exot:
Yall missing the point.
She isn't angry he slept with someone. She mad cus he didn't use a condom.
missimelda01 hates STIs like that maybe she don collect  Na why e dey pain am. |
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| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by DarlingtonC: 1:15pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
1 Like |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by Rubyjade: 1:15pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
missimelda01:
Oh shut up your stupid mouth! You think every girl has nothing to offer, you have no idea at all. Codedruns is not a dating app it a hookup site |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by czarr(m): 1:18pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Palema007:
One thing I consider as a measure of intelligence is objectivity, sadly this forte is going into oblivion in this generation. The way you all see things in black and white amaze me. Life isn't black and white, the fact that you don't even know what side this story falls into confirms that.
You may be right, you've had your experience. I've seen things happen the way you opine, I've seen things turning out otherwise. The fact remains you do not know the LADY i.e Op to make a fact. As beautiful and believable your summation is it remains a speculation, it would only be wise to remain in mind the "what not" factor to give a more adequate, intelligent and humane response.
You are human not a robot I believe. I don't know her true, I can only work with the information she gives out, and with the information at hand I don't know how to sugar coat reality to protect her feelings, women are better at that they'll rather lie to one another so they don't feel bad. |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by Ilovelife4sure: 1:33pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
As a lady, posting your relationship problem in this forum is a call for bashing, the mini men here are damaged beyond repair. No this and know peace. How the founder of this forum allowed his hard work to be a breeding ground for toxic women hating damaged men is beyond me. I rarely comment here because I don't think these lost souls parading themselves as men in this forum are worth my time or responds. I feel so sorry for the females in their lives. |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by Brian47(m): 1:47pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
But he this was when you guys broke up.
Is that correct? |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by davidadenrele: 2:04pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Ladies,
What does Ladies want? Leave you said it was just a bone, okay throw away the said bone you said it has a small meat, in as much you broke with your guy, you have no right to question who he bangs!!! even if it's just a day if you dont get it!! forget about it!!. |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by Gaggii: 2:06pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
missimelda01:
So I made a post earlier about how my partner wasn't interested in growing emotionally, well we continued having issues because of his behaviors (complains a lot, petty, prefers to keep malice instead of communicating and so much more). I finally decided to break up with him.
The next day after the break up, he messaged me on Instagram (I blocked him on every other platform and forgot this), he started begging and promised to communicate better. I didn't pay attention to him until after two days, then we started calling on Instagram and it was as if things were getting better.
My birthday was two days ago, he came to my house with gifts, said he had made plans for them before we broke up...lol he ask me out again and I said yes (don't blame me, I find it difficult to detach from people I love).
I was at his place and was using his computer to work and messages kept coming in from one particular girl, I was ignoring it until it was too hard to ignore, opened it and saw the shock of my life (his mac is sync with his iPhone). This guy had unprotected sex with a girl he met on a dating app the same week we ‘broke up’
I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.
P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems. How can I get the app |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by Emmyviva: 2:08pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Yes...and therefore  |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by TheComicGuy(m): 2:08pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Lol  ,I was high when I typed all that,now here's my real advice The op should decide what she wants, cause from this story that guy is not yet ready for serious relationship,I assume he is still young and he wants to live he's live like a rockstar  ,they can both have a deep conversation on the matter,but she did broke up with the so I don't think she has the right to get angry or anything,if you didn't want other people sleeping with him you shouldn't have let him go,the only thing that was hurt was her ego,  Averyanna:
Does he even deserve sex when he hasn't gotten married to her yet?, sometimes,you just need to rather shut your mouth than spilling out nonsense |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by emmyN(m): 2:56pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
missimelda01:
So I made a post earlier about how my partner wasn't interested in growing emotionally, well we continued having issues because of his behaviors (complains a lot, petty, prefers to keep malice instead of communicating and so much more). I finally decided to break up with him.
The next day after the break up, he messaged me on Instagram (I blocked him on every other platform and forgot this), he started begging and promised to communicate better. I didn't pay attention to him until after two days, then we started calling on Instagram and it was as if things were getting better.
My birthday was two days ago, he came to my house with gifts, said he had made plans for them before we broke up...lol he ask me out again and I said yes (don't blame me, I find it difficult to detach from people I love).
I was at his place and was using his computer to work and messages kept coming in from one particular girl, I was ignoring it until it was too hard to ignore, opened it and saw the shock of my life (his mac is sync with his iPhone). This guy had unprotected sex with a girl he met on a dating app the same week we ‘broke up’
I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.
P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems. Hey, you left him distressed when you chose to break up with him, and he made an irrational decision in the melee. He didn't cheat on you here, did he? Nah, you were officially not together. |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by Onyiiobi7735(m): 2:58pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
GooodHardDick:
Which one is You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything
What exactly have you done for that young man in that relationship? What exactly have you offered him in the relationship other than your pussy? Do you think we're kids here? You better stop this your Jezebelic manipulations. Lol! Which one is Jezebelic manipulation? |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by Nobody: 3:02pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
TheComicGuy:
Lol ,I was high when I typed all that,now here's my real advice
The op should decide what she wants, cause from this story that guy is not yet ready for serious relationship,I assume he is still young and he wants to live he's live like a rockstar ,they can both have a deep conversation on the matter,but she did broke up with the so I don't think she has the right to get angry or anything,if you didn't want other people sleeping with him you shouldn't have let him go,the only thing that was hurt was her ego, Now,you are making sense , though I'd still coman beat you for some of your words |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by Ekoblendedsince: 3:05pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
He cheated and you are confused. Okay, continue. missimelda01:
So I made a post earlier about how my partner wasn't interested in growing emotionally, well we continued having issues because of his behaviors (complains a lot, petty, prefers to keep malice instead of communicating and so much more). I finally decided to break up with him.
The next day after the break up, he messaged me on Instagram (I blocked him on every other platform and forgot this), he started begging and promised to communicate better. I didn't pay attention to him until after two days, then we started calling on Instagram and it was as if things were getting better.
My birthday was two days ago, he came to my house with gifts, said he had made plans for them before we broke up...lol he ask me out again and I said yes (don't blame me, I find it difficult to detach from people I love).
I was at his place and was using his computer to work and messages kept coming in from one particular girl, I was ignoring it until it was too hard to ignore, opened it and saw the shock of my life (his mac is sync with his iPhone). This guy had unprotected sex with a girl he met on a dating app the same week we ‘broke up’
I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.
P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems. |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by Aboks(m): 3:10pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Story story |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by jaxxy(m): 3:31pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
missimelda01:
So I made a post earlier about how my partner wasn't interested in growing emotionally, well we continued having issues because of his behaviors (complains a lot, petty, prefers to keep malice instead of communicating and so much more). I finally decided to break up with him.
The next day after the break up, he messaged me on Instagram (I blocked him on every other platform and forgot this), he started begging and promised to communicate better. I didn't pay attention to him until after two days, then we started calling on Instagram and it was as if things were getting better.
My birthday was two days ago, he came to my house with gifts, said he had made plans for them before we broke up...lol he ask me out again and I said yes (don't blame me, I find it difficult to detach from people I love).
I was at his place and was using his computer to work and messages kept coming in from one particular girl, I was ignoring it until it was too hard to ignore, opened it and saw the shock of my life (his mac is sync with his iPhone). This guy had unprotected sex with a girl he met on a dating app the same week we ‘broke up’
I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.
P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems. U girls don't know or understand what love is. A guy being desperate, chasing u or even obsessed with u isn't love. It's not even close. If he cheats randomly he doesn't understand what love is yet and u will suffer dating and irresponsible guy. Unless u are both irresponsible and have same values. Surprisingly u talk about love and it's all about funny feelings and communication bt no values. |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by almsofgold: 3:58pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
missimelda01:
It feels wrong...why am I this hurt? cause he's a habit and you love him  |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by TheComicGuy(m): 4:00pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
No vex auntie Averyanna:
Now,you are making sense , though I'd still coman beat you for some of your words 1 Like |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by alexvic12: 4:11pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Don't listen to people who will come here to insult you and ask you what you have ever done for him. The truth is that many men are not just confused, but immature and don't know when they have struck gold in a woman. Some women are the blessings that God has packaged into your life but some guys will cheat their way out of those blessings and later end up with someone terrible. On the plus side, be thankful that you found out. Now you know what you have to do. missimelda01:
I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.
P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems. 1 Like |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by zexy2030(m): 4:24pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
missimelda01:
So I made a post earlier about how my partner wasn't interested in growing emotionally, well we continued having issues because of his behaviors (complains a lot, petty, prefers to keep malice instead of communicating and so much more). I finally decided to break up with him.
The next day after the break up, he messaged me on Instagram (I blocked him on every other platform and forgot this), he started begging and promised to communicate better. I didn't pay attention to him until after two days, then we started calling on Instagram and it was as if things were getting better.
My birthday was two days ago, he came to my house with gifts, said he had made plans for them before we broke up...lol he ask me out again and I said yes (don't blame me, I find it difficult to detach from people I love).
I was at his place and was using his computer to work and messages kept coming in from one particular girl, I was ignoring it until it was too hard to ignore, opened it and saw the shock of my life (his mac is sync with his iPhone). This guy had unprotected sex with a girl he met on a dating app the same week we ‘broke up’
I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.
P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems. I'm available let him go |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by MrSly(m): 4:29pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Descottes:
na this thing about you nairaland men folks wey make me dislike una. Y'all Bloody Hypocrites .
If it was a man who came here with same story about his girlfriend you lot would call him a fool/simp and also judge and slut shame Nigerian women to pieces.
You guys really need to grow up else all the ladies go leave romance section for una.
They are not much here again sef. Are you the women leader in romance section? |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by Bbbw: 4:33pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Really |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by Gee64: 4:50pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Baby, take it easy, girls too cheat when they have the chance to do so. You may not be left out. But let me assure you that, that guy loves you otherwise he wouldn't stage a comeback. Believe me, we enjoy cheating sometimes. So, stop being over-bearing baby and stick to him instead of playing on his emotions.. missimelda01:
So you think it was okay for him to be trying to make things work with me and also sleeping with a stranger he met, twice! Not like I wasn't responding positively. |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by meobizy(f): 5:06pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Your boyfriend not husband. Take two Panadol pills and find a loyal boyfriend. If it was your husband I’ll join you in crying. |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by VirileNelly2420: 5:11pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
missimelda01:
So I made a post earlier about how my partner wasn't interested in growing emotionally, well we continued having issues because of his behaviors (complains a lot, petty, prefers to keep malice instead of communicating and so much more). I finally decided to break up with him.
The next day after the break up, he messaged me on Instagram (I blocked him on every other platform and forgot this), he started begging and promised to communicate better. I didn't pay attention to him until after two days, then we started calling on Instagram and it was as if things were getting better.
My birthday was two days ago, he came to my house with gifts, said he had made plans for them before we broke up...lol he ask me out again and I said yes (don't blame me, I find it difficult to detach from people I love).
I was at his place and was using his computer to work and messages kept coming in from one particular girl, I was ignoring it until it was too hard to ignore, opened it and saw the shock of my life (his mac is sync with his iPhone). This guy had unprotected sex with a girl he met on a dating app the same week we ‘broke up’
I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.
P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems. Aunty o, men see sex and love differently. A guy can love n care about u so much but still have sex outside... I don't know why it's so. Well, I think nature made it so. |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 5:15pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Bobmarie:
What did your mother offer your father apart from vagina?
See, shut the fucc up and go lay down somewhere. None of the females in your family offer more than vagina either, go and advise them first, let us hear word. Bobrisky take it easy |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by litaninja(m): 5:18pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
You were broken up, NOT TOGETHER when it happened. Case is closed. missimelda01:
So I made a post earlier about how my partner wasn't interested in growing emotionally, well we continued having issues because of his behaviors (complains a lot, petty, prefers to keep malice instead of communicating and so much more). I finally decided to break up with him.
The next day after the break up, he messaged me on Instagram (I blocked him on every other platform and forgot this), he started begging and promised to communicate better. I didn't pay attention to him until after two days, then we started calling on Instagram and it was as if things were getting better.
My birthday was two days ago, he came to my house with gifts, said he had made plans for them before we broke up...lol he ask me out again and I said yes (don't blame me, I find it difficult to detach from people I love).
I was at his place and was using his computer to work and messages kept coming in from one particular girl, I was ignoring it until it was too hard to ignore, opened it and saw the shock of my life (his mac is sync with his iPhone). This guy had unprotected sex with a girl he met on a dating app the same week we ‘broke up’
I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.
P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems. |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by tctrills: 5:31pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
missimelda01:
So I made a post earlier about how my partner wasn't interested in growing emotionally, well we continued having issues because of his behaviors (complains a lot, petty, prefers to keep malice instead of communicating and so much more). I finally decided to break up with him.
The next day after the break up, he messaged me on Instagram (I blocked him on every other platform and forgot this), he started begging and promised to communicate better. I didn't pay attention to him until after two days, then we started calling on Instagram and it was as if things were getting better.
My birthday was two days ago, he came to my house with gifts, said he had made plans for them before we broke up...lol he ask me out again and I said yes (don't blame me, I find it difficult to detach from people I love).
I was at his place and was using his computer to work and messages kept coming in from one particular girl, I was ignoring it until it was too hard to ignore, opened it and saw the shock of my life (his mac is sync with his iPhone). This guy had unprotected sex with a girl he met on a dating app the same week we ‘broke up’
I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.
P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems. You are not as good as you claim to be. You just broke up with him and he had to win you back. Definitely, you would break up with him many more times in the future. Both of you lack commitment. None of you truly believe in your relationship but you are the one ding all the complaining. Maybe you don't deserve each other. |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by Johel(m): 6:16pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
missimelda01:
So I made a post earlier about how my partner wasn't interested in growing emotionally, well we continued having issues because of his behaviors (complains a lot, petty, prefers to keep malice instead of communicating and so much more). I finally decided to break up with him.
The next day after the break up, he messaged me on Instagram (I blocked him on every other platform and forgot this), he started begging and promised to communicate better. I didn't pay attention to him until after two days, then we started calling on Instagram and it was as if things were getting better.
My birthday was two days ago, he came to my house with gifts, said he had made plans for them before we broke up...lol he ask me out again and I said yes (don't blame me, I find it difficult to detach from people I love).
I was at his place and was using his computer to work and messages kept coming in from one particular girl, I was ignoring it until it was too hard to ignore, opened it and saw the shock of my life (his mac is sync with his iPhone). This guy had unprotected sex with a girl he met on a dating app the same week we ‘broke up’
I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.
P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems. This is gona be long : Don't take it too personal,your guy loves you,...he ain't dating the other girl, you are his....He might get bored and tired smashing just you alone, and do not compare yourself with him in that aspect.. He's a guy,you a girl, the reasoning,the wants and liberty differs, what should hold you both must be understanding and genuine love regardless.. Let me tell you, almost everyone cheats one way or the other,Na the one wey u see Na im u know... For peace of mind, kindly don't look into your guy's private msgs, if he needs to tell or show you something,he will in due time, that's you showing some respect,(Vice versa)... Instill genuine love and kindness, use am choke am, but know when to allow him breath so that you won't be doing stuff excessively because Na too much of everything dey tire person...One day,he will amend/Change his ways for good and open up,... Many don't know what real love is,real love is knowing who you Love in heart and whom loves you, and you are ready to tolerate "to a level" and make sacrifices without expecting nothing in return... One can only pray it gets reciprocated because the heart of man is really deep and evil which one can't even see with just the eyes except one imbibes foresight and sharp instincts. Expect the unexpected from humans,never expect anything in other to evade disappointment.... Talk to your guy and resolve things with him ok...you are still his girl, he no want make u shar for him eyes,cos hitting the same thing all the time might worn out no matter how long... No fight am,follow am reason,give him good sex afterwards, eat good,make him smile and give him reasons not to go back to smashing other small hook up girls ok... If you want your man...You gota own up!,if he's a reasonable and responsible guy he will hold u down and finally settle with you or for you after seeing your efforts and sacrifices... It's all about sacrifices, Patience and Things we do for love... Hope I made small sense sha... Cheers. |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by bepositive11: 6:34pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
You need serious help. How can you talk about women in such a degrading manner? Please never ever get married and never ever have daughters LIGHTHEARTED0:
if only SIMPle men boys out there can have abundance mentality you will know girls ain't shit
This is the same thing those pussyyy people do whenever they are in sexrelationship, even before they break up with you they already have handful of 'toaster' on their DMs
What else do you offer in the sexrelationship even with his usual spending than your rotten punanl
cheer up girl, the dlck ain't yours it just your turn  |
| Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by Tuger121(m): 7:24pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
advanceDNA:
He doesn’t have mental problems...he just lacks sexual discipline...a lot of men are like that....95% actually... the remaining 5% were like that too but later changed....
While he may love you for real, it’s a red flag you should not ignore, because marriage will not automatically change him...
it takes a while for men to realize all they want and need is in the woman they already have..
.sometimes, they never realize it...many end up with babies outside marriage and even bring disease home in worst cases...
sadly the next guy you are going to is probably same....I wish you luck.. Even u dad also 
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