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I'll try and be brief with my explanation.
My heart is heavy and I think I need you guys to tell me three truth even if I'm at fault.
So there's this girl I'm dating who happens to beat final year student in a university in Nigeria. We're not too far from each other but we don't get to see regularly. I've only visited her twice before she went back to school. So the first time I went to visit her i bought a wristwatch for her and her friend and the second time I bought Apple (fruit) for her. (Please don't blame me I'm that boring person who doesn't really know what to buy for someone except if you tell me what you need) But after that time I've given her money many times. Few days back we had some little issue only for the friend to be telling me that the Apple fruit i bought for her that time wasn't good enough.
Please i just need you guys opinion on this please. Mind you I'm just an average Nigerian.

Any relationship that starts in the university ends there.

Those girls haven't seen and experienced life in 3D dimensions. What you think made you attractive to them, when they leave school, they will see dudes who have 5x of it, and the rest will be history.

Harkyn92:
I'll try and be brief with my explanation.
My heart is heavy because and I think I need you guys to tell me three truth even if I'm at fault.
So there's this girl I'm saying who happens to beat final test student in a university in Nigeria. We're not too far from each other but we don't get to see regularly. I've only visited her twice before she went back to school. So the first time I went to visit her i bought a wristwatch for her and her friend and the second time I bought Apple (fruit) for her. (Please don't blame me I'm that boring person who doesn't really know what to buy for someone except if you tell me what you need) But after that time I've given her money many times. But we had some little issue few days back only for the friend to be telling me that the some i bought for her that time wasn't good enough.

You're a real mega, the first time for that matter. Girls dey enjoy ooo!

Your first impression was too good and if you don't keep up with it, she will emotionally remind you of how good you used to be. And that will motivate you to continue being their mega, and at the end, she won't even allow you to see her bra, let alone... other stuffs.

Harkyn92:
I'll try and be brief with my explanation.
My heart is heavy and I think I need you guys to tell me three truth even if I'm at fault.
So there's this girl I'm dating who happens to beat final year student in a university in Nigeria. We're not too far from each other but we don't get to see regularly. I've only visited her twice before she went back to school. So the first time I went to visit her i bought a wristwatch for her and her friend and the second time I bought Apple (fruit) for her. (Please don't blame me I'm that boring person who doesn't really know what to buy for someone except if you tell me what you need) But after that time I've given her money many times. Few days back we had some little issue only for the friend to be telling me that the Apple fruit i bought for her that time wasn't good enough.
Please i just need you guys opinion on this please. Mind you I'm just an average Nigerian.

Is it this story you narrated that made you say you need three truth? Or am I missing sth?

being with someone who doesn't appreciate your efforts,no matter how little it may seem is like you using a basket to be storing water,at the end you find out that you have wasted your time on nothing...now what gave the friend the right to tell you that your gift wasn't good enough?...

bro,the worst thing when fit do person na SEE FINISH...WITHDRAW A LITTLE FROM THE GIRL YOU ARE DATING,IF SHE DOESN'T COME AROUND,THEN MOVE ON... PLEASE NOTE..IF SHE COMES AROUND DON'T GIVE HER MONEY FOR A WHILE..AND SEE IF SHE WOULD STAY...good luck

chatinent:
Is it this story you narrated that made you say you need three truth? Or am I missing sth?

I need to know whether I've done something wrong by buying Apple for my girlfriend.
Not a yes or no answer

Na me get phone na , na wan use am enter nairaland, so I must read all the nonsense here and give possible solution to it.


Imagine this one.

rickpat:
being with someone who doesn't appreciate your efforts,no matter how little it may seem is like you using a basket to be storing water,at the end you find out that you have wasted your time on nothing...now what gave the friend the right to tell you that your gift wasn't good enough?...

bro,the worst thing when fit do person na SEE FINISH...WITHDRAW A LITTLE FROM THE GIRL YOU ARE DATING,IF SHE DOESN'T COME AROUND,THEN MOVE ON... PLEASE NOTE..IF SHE COMES AROUND DON'T GIVE HER MONEY FOR A WHILE..AND SEE IF SHE WOULD STAY...good luck

Thanks boss. I appreciate your contribution

Xenry:
You're a real mega, the first time for that matter. Girls dey enjoy ooo!

Your first impression was too good and if you don't keep up with it, she will emotionally remind you of how good you used to be. And that will motivate you to continue being their mega, and at the end, she won't even allow you to see her bra, let alone... other stuffs.

I used to think visiting your girlfriend for the first time empty handed is a sign of unseriousneds

MadamVanessa:



Na me get phone na , na wan use am enter nairaland, so I must read all the nonsense here and give possible solution to it.


Imagine this one.

You don't have to comment. At times silence is better than nonsense talk.

Harkyn92:
You don't have to comment. At times silence is better than nonsense talk.

Keep quiet there! Mugu pro max

SmellySperm:
Keep quiet there! Mugu pro max

With this your username i can imagine the kind of person you are so i need not to be trading words with you. But it's good to let you know that I'm not talking on a playboy level but serious relationship. I guess this is for mature minds.

Why are my having a feeling that you don't need any advise , anyway let me allow the elders to comment maybe they would have something to say

SmellySperm:
Keep quiet there! Mugu pro max

Shut the fvck up and get the hell outta here.

9182736455O1999:
Shut the fvck up and get the hell outta here.

Who be this yaba left psychiatic patient again?

SmellySperm:
Who be this yaba left psychiatic patient again?

Na the one when you beg money from yesterday.

9182736455O1999:
Na the one when you beg money from yesterday.

A begger cannot beg a fellow begger for money

From my experience in the University, I always find it funny when a serious guy said he is dating an undergraduate girl. Well, all girls are not the same, but only God knows the kind of energy you need to date an undergraduate girl.

OP, just look for someone that is serious with her life and date. The wrong set of people to build a serious relationship with is the undergraduate girls. They will so much invade your heart with bomb, you will think your heart is Ukraine.

From my experience in the University, I still find it very funny when a serious guy said he is dating an undergraduate girl. The wrong set of people to have a serious relationship with is undergraduate girls. Those girls are something else, they will be pretending to be decent but when you see then with their bestie going wild, you won't believe.

OP, better take your heart to another location before that girl PUTIN all her efforts in invading your heart like Ukraine.

Harkyn92:
I'll try and be brief with my explanation.
My heart is heavy and I think I need you guys to tell me three truth even if I'm at fault.
So there's this girl I'm dating who happens to beat final year student in a university in Nigeria. We're not too far from each other but we don't get to see regularly. I've only visited her twice before she went back to school. So the first time I went to visit her i bought a wristwatch for her and her friend and the second time I bought Apple (fruit) for her. (Please don't blame me I'm that boring person who doesn't really know what to buy for someone except if you tell me what you need) But after that time I've given her money many times. Few days back we had some little issue only for the friend to be telling me that the Apple fruit i bought for her that time wasn't good enough.
Please i just need you guys opinion on this please. Mind you I'm just an average Nigerian.

Your writing dey gimme headache

IbrahimSkiba:
Your writing dey gimme headache

Swears! LoL

SmellySperm:
Keep quiet there! Mugu pro max

Nairaland oooo

IbrahimSkiba:
Your writing dey gimme headache

Do good for yourself by skipping.

Demigod22:
From my experience in the University, I still find it very funny when a serious guy said he is dating an undergraduate girl. The wrong set of people to have a serious relationship with is undergraduate girls. Those girls are something else, they will be pretending to be decent but when you see then with their bestie going wild, you won't believe.

OP, better take your heart to another location before that girl PUTIN all her efforts in invading your heart like Ukraine.

Maybe I did a mistake by assuming that she's responsible just because she's an inteovert.
Anyways thanks for the advice

SmellySperm:
A begger cannot beg a fellow begger for money

so you agree say you be beggar.

9182736455O1999:
so you agree say you be beggar.

Both of us na begger we be. Same hustle

Op, you be mugu, your mates dey give woman one million, your own na wristwatch and apple (II know say na that useless low budget nigerian apple)......tarrrrr!!!! Mugu oshiii!!!!
You need to be punished via firing squad!

If I tell you the truth will you take it?

justscorchone:
If I tell you the truth will you take it?

Him blood pressure no good abeg no tell am

SmellySperm:
Both of us na begger we be. Same hustle

Same hustle but different levels.
Me na family begger, you na road side begger.

9182736455O1999:
Same hustle but different levels.

Me na family begger, you na road side begger.

Yeah different level. But as a road side begger,one day i fit get luck jam Davido him elevate me. You as a family begger,hope no dey,ur begging hustle go long