Actually typing this with a heavy heart and so much disgust for what I've done.. wish I had handled the situation better.

My father is the best man I could ever wish for and if I had another chance to pick a dad again in my next life, I'll pick a richer version of him but my mom?? Sigh!

However growing up with them was so stressful in every way u can think of.. my dad was the meek type, soft spoken and slow to react but my mom would always complain about everything, she fights everything and everyone.. never afraid of any form of confrontation, she would complain about my hairstyle, she would check if I sagged my trousers.. she monitored me extremely and always nagged about it.. I'm this typa guy who is well cultured, I wouldn't say I got that from home training tho cos I do not drink, smoke nor womanize... And I think it's d joy of every parent to have child like me, I basically had no friends visiting me then and even up till now. I've got trust issues that's why I don't keep friends.. my mom made my youthful days hell for me, I didn't really enjoy it.. times I spent with her were miserable as she would shout everyday, quarrel even over phone conversations that you would think the person she's fighting with was right in front of her.. and some times I even pity my dad whenever she starts with him. I developed some sorta hatred for her

Lately I've been spending more time with them cos of our last born just so I could keep an eye on him and we stayed close too.. and the way she treats him makes me wonder if she was the one gave birth to him, if I was away when she was pregnant for him and delivered.. I would have argued that she was his mother. There were times that I had to pass the night there and her voice or rants would be what will wake me up very early in the morning just as it used to be when I used to be there...

I used to think that as people grow old, they become calmer but that isn't the case with my mom, she's more violent... She lost her twin sis last year March and I sincerely hoped that would change atleast but iro nio... Her other sisters aren't even speaking to her at the moment. My dad was a musician.. old age won't allow him continue doing music, coincidentally I picked up that barton.. been doing the same music(live musician) all my life but my mom has always been against it.. she was never happy whenever I carry my dad's guitar to rehearse or whenever I bring a piano home.. it was always war...

Been there since last weekend cos of the poor electricity in my area.. we have had power for about 7 days now.. Had gone for a studio session, only to return in d evening and I was greeted with shouting over a very trivial issue, I was so angry that I responded to every of her verbal insults.. and then she hit me and I reciprocated which I felt so bad about almost immediately.. she dragged me by my clothes shouting that I must kill her again, by that time.. my anger had subdued and all I had on my mind was to leave the house immediately. She threatened to arrest me.. She tore my shirt and I managed to pull away from her.. and left without picking my stuffs. All my life, I have never raised up my hands to hit a woman talkless of my mom.. I don't even beat kids when they do wrong, I hate to see tears..

I know it's a disgraceful thing to do. I've got no excuse for what I've done whatsoever. I even avoid confrontations with my own gender sef cos I know what I'm capable of. I'm always quick to say the word sorry just to avoid prolonged issues. I had been offline since it happened, just came here to drop this and I know how much insults I'm gonna get here anyway but we learn everyday and will surely pick the ones that will make me a better person.. no one's perfect

Pls ignore my typo errors abeg

You try. kudos. May your children lift you 8ft above the ground and leave you to fall yakata in future in Jesus name amen

I sympathize with you for having such a mother, what was your dad's reaction about the incident.

Freestainworld:
I sympathize with you for having such a mother, what was your dad's reaction about the incident.

he was away when it happened... And he's yet to make a comment nor call me since yesterday

Fahdiga:
You try. kudos. May your children lift you 8ft above the ground and leave you to fall yakata in future in Jesus name amen

okay

Hmmmm,you need to seriously beg for her forgiveness else your future kids will hit you too and it becomes a thing in the family, you should have simply left the scene rather than exchanging words with her but she pushed you to it which is bad on her side but she’s your mom and has some edge over you.Learn to keep some distance from people who can easily trigger you be it parents and whatever.Go and redeem this messy situation and never allow such to happen again,also ask God to forgive you after your mom has finally forgiven you.Good luck

Fahdiga:
You try. kudos. May your children lift you 8ft above the ground and leave you to fall yakata in future in Jesus name amen

You are very unreasonable and won’t make a good head,pls never get married because you’ll ruin it with your brainless way of approach

Iyaebe:
Hmmmm,you need to seriously beg for her forgiveness else your future kids will hit you too and it becomes a thing in the family, you should have simply left the scene rather than exchanging words with her but she pushed you to it which is bad on her side but she’s your mom and has some edge over you.Learn to keep some distance from people who can easily trigger you be it parents and whatever.

thanks.. I'll make amends. I've basically not done anything with my life since it happened. I even stayed away from my phone

I truely understand the op to a great extent, some mothers can be terribly annoying and it will take a great deal of efforts to avoid hurting them physically or emotionally.

but hitting a woman is wrong talkless of someone who gave birth to you, i willadvice you to find a way and apologise immediately, cos only you knows her weak points which you can use to your advantage and beg for forgiveness. BE FAST ABOUT IT PLS.

Moz22:
thanks.. I'll make amends. I've basically not done anything with my life since it happened. I even stayed away from my phone

Its alright,learn to control your anger irrespective of the situation as that’s what makes you a complete gentleman ,practice the habits of walking away.Do the needful (going to beg your mum to genuinely forgive you from her heart).Since she has refused to understand the deeper aspects of life,then don’t allow her bad habits and actions destroy you.Apply wisdom in your dealings with her.Goodluck

SOME WOMEN ARE JUST WICKED...



SOMETIMES IS GOOD TO PROOF WE'RE NOT WEAKLING


I guess you understand what I mean...

Emotional damage or psychological trauma can even make you affect the society in a bad way

Best advice for you is to leave that environment cos more regretful stuffs might happen btw u & her...


Don't mention me saying shit

Fahdiga:
For always insulting men, 8ft above awaits you tomorrow

You still haven’t made sense,one day some unfortunate lady will marry you and flaunt you as a horseband for the one week that your marriage will last.shame

Juliet751:
You are brainless.

12ft and above awaits you in future

Juliet751:
You are brainless.

he is.. trust me

Iyaebe:
You still haven’t made sense,one day some unfortunate lady will marry you and flaunt you as a horseband for the one week that your marriage will last.shame

For insulting a man like me who is ever fit to pregnant you, It will no longer be 8ft, it will be 20ft and above in future

A big fat lie! His future kids would do no such thing if he doesn't drive them crazy like his mom did to him. He's regretting his actions already, let's help him heal. There's a part in the bible that advise parents about being careful with their kids. The two of them needs forgiveness, not just him alone. I pray God will heal his mother.

Iyaebe:
Hmmmm,you need to seriously beg for her forgiveness else your future kids will hit you too and it becomes a thing in the family, you should have simply left the scene rather than exchanging words with her but she pushed you to it which is bad on her side but she’s your mom and has some edge over you.Learn to keep some distance from people who can easily trigger you be it parents and whatever.Go and redeem this messy situation and never allow such to happen again,also ask God to forgive you after your mom has finally forgiven you.Good luck

Moz22:
he is.. trust me

Imagine someone who beats his mother everyday calling another person brainless. May your children lift you 200ft and above in future and leave you to fall like naira by the special grace of God. In Jesus name we pray amen

Fahdiga:
Your own will be 39ft and above in future

okay, u can rest in peace now

A slap results to a slap in return, not bad at all. It is called self defence reflex.

Am really feeling your pain but my advice for you is that Go to God for forgiveness and try to beg her for forgiveness and if possible try to avoid her. That is why Colo 3:21 advice parents.

Sirsuky:
Am really feeling your pain but my advice for you is that Go to God for forgiveness and try to beg her for forgiveness and if possible try to avoid her. That is why Colo 3:21 advice parents.

thank you sukanmi

Just leave the house for now,learn to control your anger pls.

elmagnifico411:
A big fat lie! His future kids would do no such thing if he doesn't drive them crazy like his mom did to him. He's regretting his actions already, let's help him heal. There's a part in the bible that advise parents about being careful with their kids. The two of them needs forgiveness, not just him alone. I pray God will heal his mother.

You know nothing,there are certain things you don’t dare irrespective of situation you may find yourself,I never praised his mom for her habits in any way but told him to do the needful to avoid future reoccurrence.In life one has to be very careful and mindful of what we do in our youth,a simple mistake can cause misfortune for generations unborn and if you can’t leave wealth for your future generations to come at least don’t create curses for them .He has no right to do what he did as two wrongs can never make a right.Most of the things that happens in most homes you see today sprung up from somewhere,you know nothing.Tell him the truth so he can make amends,don’t lead him on to destruction.

Juliet751:
Just leave the house for now,learn to control your anger pls.

gone to my place since it happened

Ur story go chase wife from u ohhhh

Moz22:
gone to my place since it happened

Okay.

slimjohn2k5:
U story go chase wife from u ohhhh

maybe on nairaland.. no chance in reality