Op don’t take advise from some people here ooo,they are living a street life and no nothing about the deep things of life.I wish you well

Iyaebe:
Op don’t take advise from some people here ooo,they are living a street life and no nothing about the deep things of life.I wish you well

Thanks

Moz22:
maybe on nairaland.. no chance in reality

I will start tagging all your girlfriends and alerts them to the disaster that awaits them if they mistakenly agree tomorrow

Fahdiga:
I will start tagging all your girlfriends and alerts them to the disaster that awaits them if they mistakenly agree tomorrow

are you making sense right now?

Iyaebe:
Op don’t take advise from some people here ooo,they are living a street life and no nothing about the deep things of life.I wish you well

Imagine who is advising others

Moz22:
are you making sense right now?

We shall see

Awon ti redpill. If you had respect for women, you will hit your father first and hit your mother too. Your mother is reaping the fruit of her labor where she did not raise you to respect her and other women. 3 gbosa for you! Now your eye don clear abi?

Moz22:
gone to my place since it happened

Pls apologise to her.

baby124:
Awon ti redpill. If you had respect for women, you will hit your father first and hit your mother too. Your mother is reaping the fruit of her labor where she did not raise you to respect her and other women. 3 gbosa for you! Now your eye don clear abi?

sigh! Are u deranged?

Fahdiga:
Imagine who is advising others

For life issues I know where to put my leg and also know where to hide my head, I’m not your mate brainwise

Don't worry the memory of u hitting your mom will hunt u until u fall out of this world.

But as long as your mom is still alive.
There are chances for you to make amends.

I feel very sorry and sad for you. You are guilty in many ways it wasn't impulse. You claimed to be well behaved but I doubt it. You won't end up hitting your Mum if you haven't replied her back while she verbally charged at you.

If it was impulse you would quickly prostrate and start begging immediately not that you will free yourself. You might wound her more in the process.

Talking back to your Mum is very bad and that is the genesis of the problem.

Your father being the meek among your parents pushed her into that form. If not for her strong stand you would have end up worst. You Dad created the leadership void that is why she steps in albeit she may over do it but then she is your Mum.

Pray to God for forgiveness and quickly reach out to her for forgiveness.

Go and meet her for forgiveness, she may not accept your plea immediately but hold on to her feet and beg seriously.

May God guide you in getting forgiveness from your Mum.

The way you have spoken about your mom, you think there is a perfect human? If you can't cope around her, why not go and get your own place? Your dad is not complaining, and they have been married till his old age, yet you are insulting* your mom, saying she isn't good enough for your dad/family. You write lengthy details of how good a son you are, whereas if your mom should say her own part, we will hear something different. Go and marry your own wife, your dad married his own, stop complaining.

Moz22:
he was away when it happened... And he's yet to make a comment nor call me since yesterday

call him yourself, asked him about his journey of it was successful, his reaction will tell you what to say next.

Moz22:
sigh! Are u deranged?

Because you didn't want to listen to the truth? Some mothers behave worst than yours, yet no kid is able to return insults let alone hit her.

That is the way you were brought up. That is the truth.

Your mother for that matter, Then who cant you hit?

LilMissFavvy:
The way you have spoken about your mom, you think there is a perfect human? If you can't cope around her, why not go and get your own place? Your dad is not complaining, and they have been married till his old age, yet you are insulting* your mom, saying she isn't good enough for your dad/family. You write lengthy details of how good a son you are, whereas if your mom should say her own part, we will hear something different. Go and marry your own wife, your dad married his own, stop complaining.

you didn't read where I said I only stay alone.. i only came here cos we've not had light in days and we stay close. I know your type here actually but i won't say much to u

Antina:


Because you didn't want to listen to the truth? Some mothers behave worst than yours, yet no kid is able to return insults let alone hit her.

That is the way you were brought up. That is the truth.

okay thanks

You think I didn't see that part of your writing? What do you mean by you "you know my type" make it clear let me understand.

Moz22:
you didn't read where I said I only stay alone.. i only came here cos we've not had light in days and we stay close. I know your type here actually but i won't say much to u

LilMissFavvy:
You think I didn't see that part of your writing? What do you mean by you "you know my type" make it clear let me understand.

u saw it and turned a blind eye to it abi?. You won't hear from me after this

Antina:


Because you didn't want to listen to the truth? Some mothers behave worst than yours, yet no kid is able to return insults let alone hit her.

That is the way you were brought up. That is the truth.

Your mother for that matter, Then who cant you hit?

didnt notice u modified your comment.. however, thanks

LilMissFavvy:
The way you have spoken about your mom, you think there is a perfect human? If you can't cope around her, why not go and get your own place? Your dad is not complaining, and they have been married till his old age, yet you are insulting* your mom, saying she isn't good enough for your dad/family. You write lengthy details of how good a son you are, whereas if your mom should say her own part, we will hear something different. Go and marry your own wife, your dad married his own, stop complaining.

read this over again and i can tell u this isn't my story! Don't know where u got this from

Yessssssssss the native doctor is Hereeeeeeee, my son you have crossed the spiritual line , your father is happy but at the same time your mother and her stubborn spirit is angry , if she prays to God to take your like its like giving ashawoe 1m dollars for sex , na on fingerrrrrrr, take down this note
One bag of rice , keg of ground nut oil, palm oil, 3 hollandies, a case of her favorite drink (malt or shout) if possible a new phone , buy these and ask your father to beg her and better be on you knees , pray that the spirits and angels are in a good mood , I have spoken so have the oracle, I need orijin , ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh........

Moz22:
sigh! Are u deranged?

You are deranged for slapping your own mother. Or don’t you realize yet that you have a big mental problem? You are instead asking me that question? You and your mother are deranged. Since you are both fighting like untrained animals in the street. Next time give your father a big blow and break his teeth. Your parents deserve it for raising a mad animal like you.

baby124:

You are deranged for slapping your own mother. Or don’t you realize yet that you have a big mental problem? You are instead asking me that question? You and your mother are deranged. Since you are both fighting like untrained animals in the street. Next time give your father a big blow and break his teeth. Your parents deserve it for raising a mad animal like you.

lmao shey this matter abi another one cos I still don't understand you o

Moz22:
lmao shey this matter abi another one cos I still don't understand you o

Go home and give your mother a dirty slap to say good night and break your father’s teeth as good night. You are doing well.

baby124:

Go home and give your mother a dirty slap to say good night and break your father’s teeth as good night. You are doing well.

sleep well bro

You think I didn't take time to read your write-up before responding? You want me to quote your whole post and show you the demeaning things you said about your mom. You probably forgot what you typed. Like I said, if you can't cope with her, stay away totally from her, allow those who can tolerate her to live with her.

Moz22:
read this over again and i can tell u this isn't my story! Don't know where u got this from

LilMissFavvy:
You think I didn't take time to read your write-up before responding? You want me to quote your whole post and show you the demeaning things you said about your mom. You probably forgot what you typed. Like I said, if you can't cope with her, stay away totally from her, allow those who can tolerate her to live with her.

okay.. I still do not take your "advise" for granted

Your mother needs to ask for your forgiveness too, for what she provoked and made you do.
Don't allow her to guilt trip and torment you emotionally.
Going by your narrative, she's a wicked woman who simply reaped what she sowed.
Only God knows what your poor father must've endured from such an overbearing woman!
What a wicked woman!

Moz22:
Actually typing this with a heavy heart and so much disgust for what I've done.. wish I had handled the situation better.

My father is the best man I could ever wish for and if I had another chance to pick a dad again in my next life, I'll pick a richer version of him but my mom?? Sigh!
However growing up with them was so stressful in every way u can think of.. my dad was the meek type, soft spoken and slow to react but my mom would always complain about everything, she fights everything and everyone.. never afraid of any form of confrontation, she would complain about my hairstyle, she would check if I sagged my trousers.. she monitored me extremely and always nagged about it.. I'm this typa guy who is well cultured, I wouldn't say I got that from home training tho cos I do not drink, smoke nor womanize... And I think it's d joy of every parent to have child like me, I basically had no friends visiting me then and even up till now. I've got trust issues that's why I don't keep friends.. my mom made my youthful days hell for me, I didn't really enjoy it.. times I spent with her were miserable as she would shout everyday, quarrel even over phone conversations that you would think the person she's fighting with was right in front of her.. and some times I even pity my dad whenever she starts with him. I developed some sorta hatred for her

Lately I've been spending more time with them cos of our last born just so I could keep an eye on him and we stayed close too.. and the way she treats him makes me wonder if she was the one gave birth to him, if I was away when she was pregnant for him and delivered.. I would have argued that she was his mother. There were times that I had to pass the night there and her voice or rants would be what will wake me up very early in the morning just as it used to be when I used to be there...

I used to think that as people grow old, they become calmer but that isn't the case with my mom, she's more violent... She lost her twin sis last year March and I sincerely hoped that would change atleast but iro nio... Her other sisters aren't even speaking to her at the moment. My dad was a musician.. old age won't allow him continue doing music, coincidentally I picked up that barton.. been doing the same music(live musician) all my life but my mom has always been against it.. she was never happy whenever I carry my dad's guitar to rehearse or whenever I bring a piano home.. it was always war...

Been there since last weekend cos of the poor electricity in my area.. we have had power for about 7 days now.. Had gone for a studio session, only to return in d evening and I was greeted with shouting over a very trivial issue, I was so angry that I responded to every of her verbal insults.. and then she hit me and I reciprocated which I felt so bad about almost immediately.. she dragged me by my clothes shouting that I must kill her again, by that time.. my anger had subdued and all I had on my mind was to leave the house immediately. She threatened to arrest me.. She tore my shirt and I managed to pull away from her.. and left without picking my stuffs. All my life, I have never raised up my hands to hit a woman talkless of my mom.. I don't even beat kids when they do wrong, I hate to see tears.. I know it's a disgraceful thing to do. I've got no excuse for what I've done whatsoever. I even avoid confrontations with my own gender sef cos I know what I'm capable of. I'm always quick to say the word sorry just to avoid prolonged issues. I had been offline since it happened, just came here to drop this and I know how much insults I'm gonna get here anyway but we learn everyday and will surely pick the ones that will make me a better person.. no one's perfect

Pls ignore my typo errors abeg

Op you sure say your mumsy go forgive you even if you beg her?
i no blame you sha. Me both my parents are almost the same. Very toxic people, but i've almost mastered the act of not responding to them. I'll just block both ears with earpiece, listening to music when they are saying all their negetive words to me.

Moz22:
Actually typing this with a heavy heart and so much disgust for what I've done.. wish I had handled the situation better.

My father is the best man I could ever wish for and if I had another chance to pick a dad again in my next life, I'll pick a richer version of him but my mom?? Sigh!
However growing up with them was so stressful in every way u can think of.. my dad was the meek type, soft spoken and slow to react but my mom would always complain about everything, she fights everything and everyone.. never afraid of any form of confrontation, she would complain about my hairstyle, she would check if I sagged my trousers.. she monitored me extremely and always nagged about it.. I'm this typa guy who is well cultured, I wouldn't say I got that from home training tho cos I do not drink, smoke nor womanize... And I think it's d joy of every parent to have child like me, I basically had no friends visiting me then and even up till now. I've got trust issues that's why I don't keep friends.. my mom made my youthful days hell for me, I didn't really enjoy it.. times I spent with her were miserable as she would shout everyday, quarrel even over phone conversations that you would think the person she's fighting with was right in front of her.. and some times I even pity my dad whenever she starts with him. I developed some sorta hatred for her

Lately I've been spending more time with them cos of our last born just so I could keep an eye on him and we stayed close too.. and the way she treats him makes me wonder if she was the one gave birth to him, if I was away when she was pregnant for him and delivered.. I would have argued that she was his mother. There were times that I had to pass the night there and her voice or rants would be what will wake me up very early in the morning just as it used to be when I used to be there...

I used to think that as people grow old, they become calmer but that isn't the case with my mom, she's more violent... She lost her twin sis last year March and I sincerely hoped that would change atleast but iro nio... Her other sisters aren't even speaking to her at the moment. My dad was a musician.. old age won't allow him continue doing music, coincidentally I picked up that barton.. been doing the same music(live musician) all my life but my mom has always been against it.. she was never happy whenever I carry my dad's guitar to rehearse or whenever I bring a piano home.. it was always war...

Been there since last weekend cos of the poor electricity in my area.. we have had power for about 7 days now.. Had gone for a studio session, only to return in d evening and I was greeted with shouting over a very trivial issue, I was so angry that I responded to every of her verbal insults.. and then she hit me and I reciprocated which I felt so bad about almost immediately.. she dragged me by my clothes shouting that I must kill her again, by that time.. my anger had subdued and all I had on my mind was to leave the house immediately. She threatened to arrest me.. She tore my shirt and I managed to pull away from her.. and left without picking my stuffs. All my life, I have never raised up my hands to hit a woman talkless of my mom.. I don't even beat kids when they do wrong, I hate to see tears.. I know it's a disgraceful thing to do. I've got no excuse for what I've done whatsoever. I even avoid confrontations with my own gender sef cos I know what I'm capable of. I'm always quick to say the word sorry just to avoid prolonged issues. I had been offline since it happened, just came here to drop this and I know how much insults I'm gonna get here anyway but we learn everyday and will surely pick the ones that will make me a better person.. no one's perfect

Pls ignore my typo errors abeg

You get mind hit mumsy wey give you life shey?

You are doing well o..

@op I can relate to your experience.
It is impossible for people who havent been in your shoes to understand.

The best thing you can do is to ignore her completely
Delete her from your mind, pretend like you dont have a mother, otherwise she will continue to disturb you.

Nothing you can do will change her, I know exactly what you are dealing with so take it from me, just act as if you dont have a mother and avoid every confrontation with her.
Dont even try to discuss anything with her or reason with her cos she will black mail you.