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ExtremeDot:
Woh!
Sometimes, I find it hard to believe i dated a single mother during my University days.

Dating a single mom is like going to jail for a crime, you didn't commit.

Herbworks:
Back then in the university I wasn’t very serious with school cos I was either with some of my guys drinking or at home. It got so worse to the extent I didn’t know most of my coursemates. In our third year a coursemate of mine was to get married and she started selling her wedding cloth so that was when I knew she was my coursemate

So in our final year I was paired with her as project partners and that was how we got closer. Mind you, the husband was a womanizer working in one of the first generation bank and was a bit loaded. Cos of our projects, she sometimes visited me at home cos her husband asked some of her hostel mates to watch over her the reason she asked me not to visit her.

The first day she visited me the first thing she looked for was my mattress according to her and fortunately my aunt just got back from the USA at that time and bought me those double mattresses. She would stay in my room, watch me take my bath, dress up and won’t even bother to leave. One day I even asked her to leave for me to change but she insisted on staying by saying “Wetin you dey hide wey dem never see”. She wanted me to be intimate with her but I was too scared to do it and she kept her cool.

She was the person that gave me a feel of what restaurant food tastes like. She was subbing for me then with 1k Airtel monthly subscription. This woman would buy half goat and give me a full goat lap. We spoke about everything but never had sex even tho some of my coursemates thought we were. While she was doing those things, she literally left all the projects works on my head.

Even while she left after our graduation we were still communicating. She would call me after her husband has left for work and we will talk for more than 2 hours and this happened daily. She later told me that she wanted me sexually cos she couldn’t get pregnant for her husband meaning she wanted me to get her pregnant while she hooks it on her husband. About a year after we graduated she got pregnant and immediately she gave birth we stopped communicating.

Some years later I was pursuing a Canada visa and I needed money so badly and I couldn’t so I called her but she refused even tho I knew she was financially capable to assist and that got me angry cos I had invested so much friendship in her and never believe she could leave me angry. But later on I realized that the reason she could walk away easily without looking back was cos we never had sex.

To a woman, sex is like a stamp that seals up a friendship or relationship. So if you are not having sex with a lady to her you’re like a brother to her cos she can’t have sex with her brother. No matter how bad a relationship ended, there’s possibility that you can still have sex with an ex when left alone in a room

Know this that, A girl will never feel committed to a guy she never had sex with, invested money on, or related by blood.

Sapy442:
What do you think happens if no action is taken within the said time?

Skepticus:
Martinez39s , there is a reason why I selectively respond to mentions. I quietly ignore the rest. You are about to be drawn into a "drama" you'll never win. Monikers who may have females behind it or white-knighting estrogen-filled men, baiting you for attention, is quite likely etc. Save your comments/detailed write-ups for sensible monikers.

stevesawo:
Woman, telling men not to have choice

JESHAL:
CaveAdullam and Smartboy learn from Taliban, this world is to big to limit or adjust my mating strategy to concede to any woman, stay strict, stay rugged, stay dark triad,stay deadly, keep them in check and fear, they can't love you, but you can control them to respect you by serious dread only if you are high valued either directly or indirectly

shiffynaani:
Ever since I've come across the redpill, my life has changed when it comes to women and life as a whole.

But there's this particular girl that likes me and I like her too but I didn't let it to show too much.

My main problem now is where I work does not give me that "space" to further work on her....like getting physical with her and i don't want to first demand for her number

Pls what do you think i can do to further attract this girl?

This girl likes me way much more than my other colleague but due to the fact that I am very sensitive to my surroundings so i don't usually talk to her in front of people so i think he's now taking advantage of that to roll with her

Advice me on what to do boss

Thanks

Osas187:
Please where can I download The Rationale Male PDF ?

Smartb0y:
Have you heard of google?

Fash20:
Lol... Is she a bag of money? If no, then No thank you!

Osas187:
I can’t download the one I see there

Smartb0y:
Go to pdfdrive you'll see it there

Osas187:
Alright Thanks

Smartb0y:
Type rational male in the search box, you'll see it

Smartb0y:
Go to pdfdrive you'll see it there

olamoses75:
Let’s pray for our SIMPS brothers. They’re really suffering and smiling. Or, what do we call this type of challenge that is trending on TikTok?

shiffynaani:
Ever since I've come across the redpill, my life has changed when it comes to women and life as a whole.

But there's this particular girl that likes me and I like her too but I didn't let it to show too much.

My main problem now is where I work does not give me that "space" to further work on her....like getting physical with her and i don't want to first demand for her number

Pls what do you think i can do to further attract this girl?

This girl likes me way much more than my other colleague but due to the fact that I am very sensitive to my surroundings so i don't usually talk to her in front of people so i think he's now taking advantage of that to roll with her

Advice me on what to do boss

Thanks

luminouz:
Sometimes, especially at times like this, I crave for Thanos.

How in that actual fuq do men behave like this, in the name of SM or some shiit? Biting panties and grinning like the Cat who swallowed the Canary.

Just wish Thanos was real....

ExtremeDot:
Woh!
Sometimes, I find it hard to believe i dated a single mother during my University days.

Dating a single mom is like going to jail for a crime, you didn't commit.

Mustiboy:
Ishi.love

Martinez39s:
why did you have to mention her? Don't draw unnecessary attention to this thread. Edit your post accordingly.

luminouz:
Sometimes, especially at times like this, I crave for Thanos.

How in that actual fuq do men behave like this, in the name of SM or some shiit? Biting panties and grinning like the Cat who swallowed the Canary.

Just wish Thanos was real....

Pukkalolo:
The moment you start asking "how will I get this girl,"....is the same moment you'll begin to lose her, because you've become emotionally attached to her already........

Pukkalolo:
The moment you start asking "how will I get this girl,"....is the same moment you'll begin to lose her, because you've become emotionally attached to her already.

But I'll try to answer your question in the best possible way I can.

There are 2 key advice I got in my younger days that changed my game with ladies....

Let dive into it quickly.

1. The number one advice:
Back in my younger years, I started rolling with this dude(let's call him lucky). Getting girls wasn't Lucky's problem, infact he changed babes anyhow. I always wonder how he did it... because Lucky was just a normal guy like me. I was still naive and relatively inexperienced with girls at that time, so I didn't know what's up.

Everything became clearer when I and lucky went to a party(fresher's night). It was truly an eye-opening experience.. The moment we enter the party, Lucky disappeared from my side... I started looking for him.

The next place I saw him was in the midst 3 beautiful ladies(ok, one of the girls was not that fine tho)... He was busy just teasing them and playing with them... Soon he left them and go talk to another random girl... I was just following him about and observing him. He was basically talking to any girl that came near him. While I was standing there scared of saying hi to any girl because, just like you, I was very sensitive to my surroundings so i was afraid of talking to a girl in front of other people.
I later left him to go about my own business in the party...About 20 minutes later, Lucky met me, and he was smiling and was holding hands with a dark skinned thick lady who also seem excited. He met her that night in the party...After introducing me to the girl, He said, “bro, we'll see some other time, I'm leaving with her.. I wanna know her place."

Before he left with her, I quickly call him aside and asked him, " guy, you were just flowing with these girls throughout the night and now you are leaving with these sexy girl...which jazz are you using?"
He laughed and said, "You're not bad looking as a guy but your problem is that you often hesitate too much,"
I said, "how?"
"Look, I don't have time for long talk, my miss sexy is waiting for me," he said, pointing at the thick lady.

In few seconds him and the lady were out of my sight.

That night, after reasoning what Lucky said, I realized he was right; I hesitated too much. Instead of simply going to talk the girl and maybe asking her out, I'll stand there in hesitation, analyzing everything and worrying and thinking too much. And that's exactly what you are doing now.

So my number 1 advice is, stop hesitating and thinking to much about this whole thing, just simply go ask her out... I mean you can simply tell her, "let's hang out this weekend, I'll sort the snacks and suya while you can take care of the drinks if you want.." If she likes you, she'll agree or at least tell you when she's free. If she doesn't agree or give you silly excuse, then walk away from her immediately and move on with your life. There many fishes in the river.

Ok now...

The number 2 advice:
Again back in my younger years, I went to stay with my big bro(cousin). One day, I went on date with my crush, after the date I came back home feeling happy about it, but then my big bro ask me some hardcore and harsh questions about the date with my crush... Those questions he asked me really opened my eyes at that time.
Ok I have talked about this before, if you haven't read about it, here is the link:
https://www.nairaland.com/6933245/how-ruined-first-date-crush

Ok, let's continue...
After the incidence with my crush, One day, I and my big bro went to a banking hall together, he started talking to a lady that was close to him... The first thing he playfully said to her was, “unfortunately, you are not currently the most attractive person in this banking hall, I guess you are just the second.”
As soon the statement left his mouth, the girl turn her head to looked at him very well to see the guy that has the gut to say that. She didn't respond immediately, but her facial expression was like, "what the hell did this guy just say."

I stood there confused, waiting to see how this would turn out. I was a little bit terrified, I just hoped she doesn't get upset by that statement. But my big bro was cool, calm and collected, he patiently waited for her response. I was even the one who was scared on his behalf. Lolz
Few seconds later, the lady smiled politely and said, "so who is first most beautiful person here?"
He said, " Obviously, can't you see, I am the person."
She laughed. He laughed.
Then to their conversation took of from there.
After they exchange phone numbers and parted ways, I asked big bro about the scenario that just happened... His reply was, "see brother, most of these young ladies that are in their prime have big ego and entitlement mentality because lots of men are chasing after them, so when interacting with them you've got to challenge their ego."

Again, after reasoning what my big bro said, I realized he was right. Young girls of nowadays have high entitlement mentality and are too full of themselves, and that because many guys ass lick them and chase them up and down, offline and online...If you look into a pretty girl inbox, you see hundreds guys there literally pleading and begging her to accept them.

So my number 2 advice is, don't be scared challenging her ego and her entitlement mentality.
When many sees a beautiful lady they like, their thoughts process is, "I hope she likes me.... I hope she doesn't reject me...I hope I don't piss her off... I hope she accepts me."

I am different from most guys in the sense, When I see a beautiful lady I like, my thoughts process is, "is she worth my time, effort and money? Well ama have to challenge her to find out."

Last week, while interacting with a lady I know, I told her I doubt if she's a good cook...that was a challenge to her ego, The next day, surprisingly, she brought a well package food for me...

The other day, a lady i was interacting with for the first time, I told her this: "you're beautiful but I just hope you're not also boring..." that was a challenge to her ego... Since then, she's one always trying to chat me up consistently.... I'm the one now who doesn't even have time for her.
I won't go into more examples because of time, but I've got hundreds of intense example of me challenging ladies ego and their entitlement mentality and getting them to get with my own program.

If you want a lady to impress you, then you've got to challenge her to do so. If you compliment a girl for nothing, she's has gotten her reward and she sees no reason to please you... but if you challenge her, she will try to win your heart.
Don't be guy that does nice things for girls... instead be the guy that challenge girls to do nice things for you.

Remember, if you want to really turn a girl on, then you have to risk upsetting her.

ubunja:
And this is how Alpha Master Kings do it...

Present yourself to women, then deal only with the women who show interest.....

Stay Chosen...

Instagram link to the thread below:
https://www.instagram.com/p/CbdOSR6t--7/?utm_medium=copy_link

CaveAdullam:
Tonnyray, Martinez39s, Adambeatz, Smartb0y, heartofcity12, Jeshal, saviolamemphis et al. Hope you guys are fine.

ubunja:
True. The moment you see a girl that you like and you make up your mind to get her, you've already started the game at a losing score: You 0, the Girl 1.

Its not that it's a crime to like someone but by liking her you're already more invested than she is because she feels ZERO emotions for you while you're on fire for her. You're already chasing.

This is how inexperienced amateurs do it....

olamoses75:
Let’s pray for our SIMPS brothers. They’re really suffering and smiling. Or, what do we call this type of challenge that is trending on TikTok?

sajmark:
Off topic but I don't have the strength to create a new thread in the health section.
My tooth aches me so badly and medications aren't helping much.
All roads are leading to removing the tooth which I don't want to do, anyone with past experience or suggestions and ideas that can help?
I plan on visiting a dentist but my salary isn't due until next week, I can't endure the pain till next week.