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Re: For The Ladies Only How Do You Tell A Man The Sex Is Bad? by citywal(op): 10:27pm On Mar 24, 2022

pansophist:
Yeah, true. A woman with a healthy, uncorrupted mind usually love genuinely, particularly those that have not been captured by this toxic culture of narcissism, and their ego being the focal point. Where a man is not a big toy to impress their friends and massage their ego that they are a bad bitch for having a sophisticated guy like that. Any woman with nicki minaj vibes will hardly love.

hmm I think you have a point but the question is do you blame some of them? They have friends that show of what men bought for them and the end up being carried away.

Re: For The Ladies Only How Do You Tell A Man The Sex Is Bad? by pansophist(m): 10:28pm On Mar 24, 2022*

citywal:
hmm I think you have a point but the question is do you blame some of them? They have friends that show of what men bought for them and the end up being carried away.

Hence I am of the opinion that a lot of people are sheep who can't lead themselves, but just follow the herd. A person is suppose to be grounded, and not susceptible to the fluctuations of social conventions. So yes, I do blame them.

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Re: For The Ladies Only How Do You Tell A Man The Sex Is Bad? by citywal(op): 10:30pm On Mar 24, 2022

It's a pity the average Nigerian girl can not afford certain things but is kin to getting that particular thing at all cost. I see people holding iphone 13 and most is just for show offs, some people (boys and girls) don't even know how to us the phone to it's full potential.

Re: For The Ladies Only How Do You Tell A Man The Sex Is Bad? by Nobody: 10:30pm On Mar 24, 2022

citywal:
now you are saying something else and that depends

I dey write wetin my eyes see ooo. undecided

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Re: For The Ladies Only How Do You Tell A Man The Sex Is Bad? by citywal(op): 10:30pm On Mar 24, 2022

pansophist:
Hence I am of the opinion that a lot of people are sheep who can't lead themselves, but just follow the herd. A person is suppose to be grounded, and not susceptible to the direction of social conventions. So yes, I do blame them.

I feel your point

Re: For The Ladies Only How Do You Tell A Man The Sex Is Bad? by citywal(op): 10:31pm On Mar 24, 2022

Beebah2000:
I dey write wetin my eyes see ooo.

hmm Weldon

Re: For The Ladies Only How Do You Tell A Man The Sex Is Bad? by Nobody: 10:33pm On Mar 24, 2022

pansophist:
I don't know if they can really love, because I've been observing this for long. Yes they can love, but it depends on who. They love their children genuinely normally, and they can love a man but it's really rare.

From observation (not a fact please), there are woman that can never love, their idea of "love" is base on the extent and weight of your usefulness and functionality. It's also base on their idea of you, not who you actually are.

Also, the women that can love genuinely that I've seen are those from stable family that cares for them, ideally under a religious home. These girls will love you from their heart, and it's the best thing close to heaven on earth. The stronger the love a woman receives from her home, the stronger the love she can give a man.

@ emboldened, you garrit.

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Re: For The Ladies Only How Do You Tell A Man The Sex Is Bad? by citywal(op): 10:35pm On Mar 24, 2022

Descottes:
@ emboldened, you garrit.
Make God continue to keep such women away from me.
I luckily escaped from one of such woman here.
Glory be to God Almighty

thank God for you but when you look at it from the other side (don't get me wrong) do you think there are guys that do the same?

Re: For The Ladies Only How Do You Tell A Man The Sex Is Bad? by Nobody: 10:40pm On Mar 24, 2022

citywal:
please this is not that kind of thread leave him be.

sorry about that sad

But it was a joke na embarassed

See questions. Na wa ooo

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Re: For The Ladies Only How Do You Tell A Man The Sex Is Bad? by Vinnie2000(m): 10:43pm On Mar 24, 2022

pansophist:
I don't know if they can really love, because I've been observing this for long. Yes they can love, but it depends on who. They love their children genuinely normally, and they can love a man but it's really rare.

From observation (not a fact please), there are woman that can never love, their idea of "love" is base on the extent and weight of your usefulness and functionality. It's also base on their idea of you, not who you actually are.

Also, the women that can love genuinely that I've seen are those from stable family that cares for them, ideally under a religious home. These girls will love you from their heart, and it's the best thing close to heaven on earth. The stronger the love a woman receives from her home, the stronger the love she can give a man.

This Guy! I tuale for you! See how u dissected d matter! No wonder dat Iyaebe lady called u one of her crush!

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Re: For The Ladies Only How Do You Tell A Man The Sex Is Bad? by Nobody: 10:43pm On Mar 24, 2022

citywal:
thank God for you but when you look at it from the other side (don't get me wrong) do you think there are guys that do the same?

Yes of course, and there are also guys that love genuinely.. I fall amongst the latter and I wouldn't want to be with someone who wouldn't love me for me, even though i possess the useful and functional attributes that most of these women crave for.

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Re: For The Ladies Only How Do You Tell A Man The Sex Is Bad? by citywal(op): 10:45pm On Mar 24, 2022

Descottes:
Yes of course, and there are also guys that love genuinely.. I fall amongst the latter and I wouldn't want to be with someone who wouldn't love me for me, even though i possess the useful and functional attributes that most of these women crave for.

nice, confidence...I like that

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Re: For The Ladies Only How Do You Tell A Man The Sex Is Bad? by luscioustrish(f): 10:59pm On Mar 24, 2022

If I like you, I’d tell you
If I don’t like you, it won’t happen again, ever grin

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Re: For The Ladies Only How Do You Tell A Man The Sex Is Bad? by citywal(op): 11:01pm On Mar 24, 2022

luscioustrish:
If I like you, I’d tell you
If I don’t like you, it won’t happen again, ever

nice

Re: For The Ladies Only How Do You Tell A Man The Sex Is Bad? by Nobody: 11:20pm On Mar 24, 2022

pansophist:
Nobody be professional from birth na, na from error you calibrate and recalibrate your performance until you get it right.

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Re: For The Ladies Only How Do You Tell A Man The Sex Is Bad? by dayabiuuku: 1:46am On Mar 25, 2022

Actually most of them prefer to keep mum. Because they consider what they tend to loose getting from the guy if they tell him the truth. Even if na N500 the guy dey drop before the sex,

She will just be like "let me be collecting his money Sha" "At all at all , na I'm bad pass!"

So you will hardly come by many of them saying it. They would rather gossip about it with their fellow women during their evening WRAPPER and bressier meeting how their husbands fxxked them the previous day.

It's very very rare for you to hear a woman telling his boyfriendor husband talking about dxck size.

She would prefer to switch to another guy or cheat with multiple partners than talk about it
Women are like detectives. Very very secretive and always assume they are always right and men are stu.pid and dumb!

That's why many of them suffer in silence!

#ItIsWell!

Leave my message, TYPE YOUR OWN!

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Re: For The Ladies Only How Do You Tell A Man The Sex Is Bad? by Michelle55: 8:59am On Mar 25, 2022

Tbh, I ain't gonna tell you shit but I do know that such rubbish encounter won't repeat itself.
Once I leave, I either erase your number or archive it.
I will still chat with you normally and share jokes with you but I will never dream of giving it a second shot with you.
However, if I genuinely love and have your best interest at heart, bros I go tell you as e dey go and we would figure it out together. I will tease and commend your effort when I notice some changes that way, you will know that you ain't alone and I will always be there.

That's why it's important to date or be with someone that you are friends with, it makes communication easier and more fun. You get to tell each other their fukc ups lovingly and get a solution to the problem.

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Re: For The Ladies Only How Do You Tell A Man The Sex Is Bad? by Rickmann: 9:18am On Mar 25, 2022

cumoverna:
If they like you, they may be buying you banana and groundnut for you every day, with their own money.

I think you mistake been satisfying in bed for possessing power and energy.

Look, it takes skills...if you no sabi, you no sabi.

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Re: For The Ladies Only How Do You Tell A Man The Sex Is Bad? by Princewill1(m): 10:42am On Mar 25, 2022

pansophist:
I don't know if they can really love, because I've been observing this for long. Yes they can love, but it depends on who. They love their children genuinely normally, and they can love a man but it's really rare.

From observation (not a fact please), there are woman that can never love, their idea of "love" is base on the extent and weight of your usefulness and functionality. It's also base on their idea of you, not who you actually are.

Also, the women that can love genuinely that I've seen are those from stable family that cares for them, ideally under a religious home. These girls will love you from their heart, and it's the best thing close to heaven on earth. The stronger the love a woman receives from her home, the stronger the love she can give a man.

You're are right for women from religious homes. I think the point here is women who haven't been exposed to 'the toxicity of our society' tend to love genuinely. Same goes to teen girls, from my observations. They tend to love genuinely due to the fact that they are still nascent and haven't picked up our societal toxicity. Once they got exposed to it, they turn to being a bit.ch

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Re: For The Ladies Only How Do You Tell A Man The Sex Is Bad? by citywal(op): 11:36am On Mar 25, 2022

So how does the society controls this, is there a way?

Princewill1:
You're are right for women from religious homes. I think the point here is women who haven't been exposed to 'the toxicity of our society' tend to love genuinely. Same goes to teen girls, from my observations. They tend to love genuinely due to the fact that they are still nascent and haven't picked up our societal toxicity. Once they got exposed to it, they turn to being a bit.ch

Re: For The Ladies Only How Do You Tell A Man The Sex Is Bad? by placeofallure(f): 12:28pm On Mar 25, 2022

Tell you ke?

There's no telling.

Fortunately, I've never been in that position.

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Re: For The Ladies Only How Do You Tell A Man The Sex Is Bad? by pansophist(m): 2:47pm On Mar 25, 2022

Princewill1:
You're are right for women from religious homes. I think the point here is women who haven't been exposed to 'the toxicity of our society' tend to love genuinely. Same goes to teen girls, from my observations. They tend to love genuinely due to the fact that they are still nascent and haven't picked up our societal toxicity. Once they got exposed to it, they turn to being a bit.ch

Ironically, patriarchy makes women very feminine. It's a huge trend for Western men to go to patriarchal society to import wife from, such as Asia and Eastern Europe. These women loves being women, are good mothers, allow a man go have his place and calm. Men generally will do everything to make such women happy.

But sometimes, these women come over and baptized by their country women who have been there before her, and as women ar socially inclined, they integrate and rain down hell on the man. So lots of men have changed strategy. They marry and move there to live in her country grin

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Re: For The Ladies Only How Do You Tell A Man The Sex Is Bad? by pansophist(m): 2:51pm On Mar 25, 2022

Vinnie2000:
This Guy! I tuale for you! See how u dissected d matter! No wonder dat Iyaebe lady called u one of her crush!

No de put me and iyaebe for the same sentence jare. She too greedy, and de look for only rich man. Me sef de find rich woman, so we no de compatible. I'm hypergamous. grin

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Re: For The Ladies Only How Do You Tell A Man The Sex Is Bad? by Nobody: 2:54pm On Mar 25, 2022

pansophist:
No de put me and iyaebe for the same sentence jare. She too greedy, and de look for only rich man. Me sef de find rich woman, so we no de compatible. I'm hypergamous.

hahaha you men think you are smart,eyes have open and everyone don sharp.You modern guys killed true love and buried it.

Re: For The Ladies Only How Do You Tell A Man The Sex Is Bad? by citywal(op): 3:19pm On Mar 25, 2022

And you just walked away

placeofallure:
Tell you ke?

There's no telling.

Fortunately, I've never been in that position.

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