MadamOk:
Sir please be strong

God ways are not our way

I believe it a mata of time
God will make way where there seems no way #thewaymaker

Then go to the hospital for doc to plant that IUD may be if don shift due to the knacking
It seems you like to reach the end of Jerusalem

how many rounds can you go in bed?

morikee:
You should have stop fvcking till they're matured

your favorite position?

frozen70:


Lots of married people does, especially if they don't want pregnancy at a particular time or period of time

would you allow condoms in your marriage?

Say No to abortion children are an heritage of Lord and the fruit of the womb is his reward. Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them,

phemmyfour:
Go n tie her womb

Couples should learn how to enjoy sex with condom

recommend a good condom for me. I wan fúck my nextdoor neighbor daughter

If I may ask you, why can't you the man do Vasectomy? Instead of disturbing your wife all over the place with IUD? Get it done and let your wife rest abeg....

TheManOfTheYear:
It's not that simple actually. Getting a vasectomy is not something you wake up one morning and decide to do.

It is, if he’s serious about not wanting more kids. That responsibility is on both partners. If he’s the one most affected by it then he should get snipped.

Is it by the grace of God
or
by your POWER?

Country hard o...so take am easy and go for family planning before you contribute to explosion of miscreants population

xynerise:
How do people fvck carelessly? Come on man, you can start practicing withdrawal and stop fvcking her during ovulation

I love cumming inside and watch it flow out like milk

You are complaining ehhh?
Ok...come back to Nigeria, you will have house helps to look after them.
And lest I forget, keep blaming uf wife for third pregnancy instead of blaming urself for not controlling ur urge.

JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.


I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

in few years to come, you’ll be more grateful.

Rugaria:
How do you guys manage to mount a lady that just gave birth sef? I mean how do you do it!? I can't imagine going back there for a long time after she must have given birth.. Not like it's going to be as "sweet" like before, so why are you desperately climbing up there so quickly after the whole "violence" of giving birth!?!?

I mounted my friend's wife day after she gave birth to a son

Who put the sperm that becomes pregnancy there? Is it by magic? Thank GOD, it is your wife and not a side chick or girl friend. You don't need to be told what to do when you impregnate your wife. What do you want when you copulate and release sperm in your wifes' vagina, if not pregnancy?

JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.


I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

Go and get a vasectomy

I am sure three children is enough for anyone in a lifetime. You don't need any more kids and you are already married, so, get a vasectomy if your wife's body is not accepting of birth control.

TheManOfTheYear:
It's not that simple actually. Getting a vasectomy is not something you wake up one morning and decide to do.

Why not?

Does he have plans for more children? What is he using the sp3rm to do after a third child?

Besides, there are reversible vasectomies.

Congratulations. You and your wife are made just exactly for each other. Thank God you didn't marry another person.

You need to use a contraceptive that is convinient for your wife and you need help to take care of them though its expensive abroad

safarigirl:


Why not?

Does he have plans for more children? What is he using the sp3rm to do after a third child?

Besides, there are reversible vasectomies.

You're not a male, so you're in no position to talk on this.

Every man loves to see semen gush out after a successful orgasm. That feeling is something you can't relate to.

Hence my take, it is not so easy.

Pele. Since they are all young and within the same age bracket, its not gonna be much EXTRA work. Just more of the same just that, as you rightly surmised, one person must sacrifice and be a stay at home parent. Do the work once and for all and rest when they are independent. Teach them Gods ways from their infancy so you don't loose them to the system. You guys will be fine.
P.S, after this, you guys should consider more permanent means of contraception if you are sure you are done with childbirth so u don't start looking down at the blessings of having children without fasting and praying and crying for them first.
Cheers.

Oga you no fit carry rag near your bed make you dey pour out or at least pour for her back yansh or navel.

justli:


Why do you think he should kill his unborn child?
Oh, the unborn is not living or it's not a child.
If the reason is scarcity, then any parent should be free to kill any child at any time to alleviate their suffering.

Life is never free of suffering, and an unborn child should not be killed because the parent want to enjoy themselves.
You'll forever regret killing your own child, op

It’s a fetus

Be Happy Mr. Pray God will provide what'll be used to bring them up. Congrats

JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.


I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

Let her try the arm implant(the side effect is overweight). The curly is not working. Also, try dey use condom na.

She should have known her system by now when not to take in and when to take in.

TheManOfTheYear:
You're not a male, so you're in no position to talk on this.

Every man loves to see semen gush out after a successful orgasm. That feeling is something you can't relate to.

Hence my take, it is not so easy.

Having a penis does not make you more knowledgeable in reproductive discussions oga.

You that is a male, you don't know that a vasectomy does not rid you of semen? Please, go and make your investigations. Your semen will gush out after a vasectomy, what a vasectomy does is that it makes the sperm unviable.

You will see your white semen, but your sperm will not be able to impregnate a woman. That is how a vasectomy works.

Your semen and your sperm are not the same thing, the white substance is your semen, your sperm is what impregnates a woman and is contained in the semen, it is that sperm that is affected when you get a vasectomy.

You see how you call yourself a male, yet, you do not even know about male birth control.

Realmi:
This life no balance

Pikin wey people dey find...e reach ur turn u dey complain

God is merciful God

U no sabi pull out method or condom, you are tired to take care of baby but not tired to mekwe?

Get a vasectomy.

Because he said he leaves abroad everyone are pampering him with advise but if na correct poor village man, all of u will insult the hell out of him without Mercy






Hypocrites

JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.


I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

I totally feel you with 2 soon becoming 3 kids young age kids abroad. Had 2 kids under 20months and know the hell 8t can be �, but there comes a time when it'd be worth it.

How many kids did you guys plan to have? If more than 2 then keep the pregnancy.

If just 2 or you desperately need some respite then abort the baby. It's legal, safe etc

If you keep it, then you'd need to realise you can't eat your cake and still keep it. Somethings would need to give. One of you (the one with lower income) may need to resign and look after the kids full time until they're all in school. The one working should recognise that the earning isn't one persons, but for both and the family. Never undermine the non working parent's contributions, and the working parent should still seek to help out at home. You guys would need all hands on deck for this ship to sail fine.

In the very near future when the kids are lil grown, it'd all start to make economic and social sense ie. passing clothes, books etc down, share similar interests and all in same school etc. You both would have some respite (Unless you're unlucky like me when younger one is as big as elder brother, so no cloth savings there :-) �)

Ultimately, you'd be glad you saw through the stress. Good thing too is as the kids grow, both parents can then get to prioritise themselves again, get their bodies, careers, romance etc back.