Companionship >>>>>>> when you get older and the friends, your dad and mom pass away you’d realize this even more then.

Marriage is sweet, but bitter with a feminist. Well, no one can practice feminism under my roof unless the bills are shared 50-50, then I would know we are just together to make kids. Aside that, don't try anything funny.

Seriously, If you ain't bringing something tangible, and of economy or commercial importance to our partnership...The feelings just die down. I just lost an uncle because things became so overwhelming, that he had to give in to heart attack.


Someone from the US sent me a lady's number, I asked him who she is...He said, she just finished nysc..currently unemployed in naija but will be a good wife to me. I have placed him on my red list...next violation, he will be in my recycle bin...and then permanently deleted on the third go

Goldbw122:

Yeah, being married create that opportunity of producing legitimate and not outcast offspring, while being single you are just alone, even when you go about enjoying and caughting all the fun you want.

There's nothing like outcast offspring. Pikin na pikin

MadeINchenzen2:
I was awake for hours last night trying to figure out what the married enjoys that the single people do not.

I couldn't come up with anything logical or cogent points at all.

I now understand the reason why a lot of persons have chosen to stay single for as long as possible without plans of getting married.

I like the fact that you used "for as long as possible". Fear no let you say till old age

Now, imagine getting to your 70s, still single, and wishing you had grand kids. I'll leave you with that imagination. Your own don be sef if we add poverty to the mix cos no woman will touch you with a 50 metre pole

Even old people's home will reject you when you can't afford the bills.

OP, except your parents are separated, what do they gain from you.

having a good wife and settling down I way too cool.

don't let useless people tell you otherwise.

The benefits are numerous. Sometimes, you don’t know you’re missing on something until you experience it and you keep asking yourself why you waited too much before getting it.
Marriage with the right person and with Christ at the centre is everything beautiful.
Having someone you call home (not house) in it’s true sense is great. Having someone you enjoy your life with and to whom you can be vulnerable is tremendous. I could go on and on, marriage is beautiful. It is true companionship, it is commitment, it is work, it is learning and unlearning, it is selflessness, it is giving and receiving, it is many things!!.. It does have its challenges like any other thing, but with great communication and conflict management skills, you can make the best of it. Until, you experience it WITH THE RIGHT PERSON with family values too, you may never truly know how it is different from a baby’s-mama/girlfriend relationship.
And to ladies too: stop sharing some “marital benefits” outside marriage… lol..

Zonefree:
There's nothing a wife can do that a girlfriend or babymama cannot do.

Like what?

lexy2014:


Why don't they like going back home?

Cos of lack of peace or joy.

Marriage is overrated.

There's absolutely nothing you enjoy as a married person that you can't enjoy as a single person, most especially if you're a guy.

As a man, the worst thing about marriage is the complete loss of your freedom once you get married.

Ikem11:
You will never understand it till you in it. Marriage is the most beautiful thing when you married the right person.

The joy of rushing home from work to your beautiful wife and kids is something else.

I cant say same to a single man can rush home from work just to enjoy his girlfriend

Na if you marry better person na

SugarGirl44:


Cos of lack of peace or joy.

Why is it so for them?

Marriage gives a man sense of responsiblity

So davido is your yardstick for this talk, abi? How old are u first? I wan check something.

Zonefree:

Is Davido alone? Are his offsprings outcast?

SugarGirl44:
Absolutely nothing.
Most of the married men I know don't like going back home sef.

Seriously...there is nothing.just unnecessary stress

Uchedizzy:
Marriage gives a man sense of responsiblity

Not necessarily.

Zonefree:
There's nothing a wife can do that a girlfriend or babymama cannot do.

If the elders ask you to come with your legally married wife, what will you do?

bluefilm:
Marriage is overrated.

There's absolutely nothing you enjoy as a married person that you can't enjoy as a single person, most especially if you're a guy.

As a man, the worst thing about marriage is the complete loss of your freedom once you get married.

What does the freedom get u?

What are the things in marriage that u say u perpetually enjoy as a single?

Marriage is good. Being lonely is not okay at all. For how long you want to be single?

Acidosis:
I like the fact that you used "for as long as possible". Fear no let you say till old age Now, imagine getting to your 70s, still single, and wishing you had grand kids. I'll leave you with that imagination. You own don be sef if we add poverty to the mix cos no woman will touch you with a 50 metre pole

Look at this one o.

So in your own reality and understanding, it's only married people that have grandkids?

Stop displaying for poor manner of reasoning for public consumption, please.

Nonsense

Aaaaarghmed:
Seriously...there is nothing.just unnecessary stress

Like which unnecessary stress?

Nothing but to women they have benefits...

Respect, as a single woman even underage go still toast you infact any kind thing go dey approach u. Then the stigma and mockery from our culture is still there to haunt you as a single lady.

Zonefree:

Is Davido alone? Are his offsprings outcast?

use yourself as case study low life. You don't even know you exist sef.

companionship, family, see who to speak with everyday of their life. but single people live alone, no body to talk with, nobody to eats together, watch TV together

jimmychang:



Na if you marry better person na

Na so my brother. Problem with this young generation is they already have a mindset of the quality of woman they want as a wife (tall, beautiful, nice curve backside) all those can't give you a wife rather you bring fire into your home..

Your divine wife may be one ugly babe for corner wey dey eye you since but because u wan big yarsh and better face u go carry jezebel put for house

Zonefree:

Is Davido alone? Are his offsprings outcast?

Who is Davido with?

Zonefree:

Is Davido alone? Are his offsprings outcast?

You don't know what goes on in their mind and the things/life styles they're secretly regretting. You don't know some of the mistakes they wish they could correct.

Our fathers married and we shall also marry.

bluefilm:


Look at this one o.

So in your own reality and understanding, it's only married people that have grandkids?

Stop displaying for poor manner of reasoning for public consumption, please.

Nonsense

When you have kids, probably a baby mama and still sleep around, then you're no longer single.


You're only f00ling yourself when you call yourself single. You will pay bills like every other married man, attend to your kids, and spend even more. You have children calling you "daddy" and you think you're single and free from responsibility? That's pure madness, unless your definition of single is "deadbeat".

Yimmicks:
The benefits are numerous. Sometimes, you don’t know you’re missing on something until you experience it and you keep asking yourself why you waited too much before getting it.
Marriage with the right person and with Christ at the centre is everything beautiful.
Having someone/somewhere you call home (not house) in it’s true sense is great. Having someone you enjoy your life with and to whom you can be vulnerable is tremendous. I could go on and on, marriage is beautiful. It is commitment, it is work, it is learning and unlearning, it is selflessness, it is giving and receiving, it is many things!!.. It does have its challenges like any other thing, but with great communication and conflict management skills, you can make the best of it. Until, you experience it WITH THE RIGHT PERSON with family values too, you may never truly know how it is different from a baby’s-mama/girlfriend relationship.
And to ladies too: stop sharing some “marital benefits” outside marriage… lol..

You have said it all. It is amazing that the rising generation does not know the meaning of family again. Thanks to what they see on T.V reality shows and the rest.